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hjnbhj I believe that the most important 'key' to a successful relationship would

have to be 'trust'. I believe that with trust, love will follow. However, what I
have noticed is that many people think trust, or expect that trust is to be earned
by the other person, when in all actuality it is something that comes from within
yourself.

All too many times people will say they don't trust due to past experiences. What
they don't realize is that they have built up those proverbial walls to protect
them from the very thing they are searching for...

yes, there is a risk in trusting someone, but when you finally find that 'right'
person, it makes all the past experiences and lessons learned very much worth the
risk. All of life's little lessons do not have to be painful..even when they seem
so at the time.You just have to chalk it up to experience and move on.

but why allow past betrayals to prolong the pain by building a fortress around
your heart that not only protects you from pain/betrayal, but also denies you the
ability to experience happiness and joy?

Most have been hurt enough by one person, why allow them and their actions to stop
us from finding what we search for?

I say open your hearts to trust and bask in the beauty, happiness, and joy, of the
true love that will follow. For everyone there IS a someone, you just can't find
them if you hide away all your life. making sure you call the person you care about
or love, and be there whenever he/she needs you. Just care for that person with all
your might.

Friendship is one of the important key in any relationship. I feel that if you
can't be friends first what chance do you have at being lovers? With friendship you
have to have trust and respect.

You have to like the person you're friends with to get along together. Once that is
accomplished falling in love with them is just an extension of friendship, only
stronger and better. Like the foundation of a brick house, love must also have a
foundation.

That foundation is friendship. You must have a strong foundation (friendship) in


order for love to withstand the test of time Validating your partner's feelings.
It's so important to be heard in a relationship even if you do not agree with what
is being said.

I feel that a relationship should always be based upon honesty and acceptance.
When you can fully accept yourself, honesty will come naturally.

This in return will leave your partner feeling comfortable with you, knowing there
is nothing to hide. If two people can see each other in full view with complete
acceptance, they can build a successful relationship from this Quality time spent
together, pillow talk, one on one, being open about everything Always showing you
love each other all the time by celebrating on different occasions like the first
time you met each other, I think the most important key to a successful
relationship is when you truly enjoy each other's company..

Commitment is the one greatest key to a successful relationship. If you are


committed you will always find a way to work things out. I think with
friendship,trust and love among two it will be a very nice realationship!
You can love someone like that and still be best friends and it's the best. Plus if
they are your best friend, can't best friends stay best friends forever? If you
just love someone for their physical aspects, there's no friendship or similarities
between you except that Passion.

Without feeling passionately towards your mate the communication, sex, intimacy,
and ultimate closeness will not be there, which in turn leaves each partner
wanting/needing more from the relationship than they are getting. I know because
I've lived it.

My late wife and I had everything. Money, companionship, friends, a home, great
jobs, but we didn't have passion. We were basically friends.

Friends are just that friends... husbands or wives should be in love and life
partners... that doesn't happen without feeling passion for the other person
Communication... talking and open honest communication about how you feel. What
makes you happy and what upsets you. If you don't tell your partner then they can't
do what makes you happy and vice versa.

Communication. In many instances, 'communication' can be used in place of


'relationship'. If you withhold something from your spouse or lie to them, the
communication (or relationship) has ended. If you chose not to be truthful, because
you're afraid they may leave or be upset, you've got nothing to lose -- the
relationship is already over. You may continue to go through life together, but
you'll never have a 'relationship.

The way a person treats his/her parents reveals how they WILL treat you! If it's
with love, kindness and respect, then this is what you will receive. But if it's
with criticism, defensiveness and disrespect, then this too you will receive...
EVENTUALLY... it's almost certainly a guarantee! So watch and listen to the answers
you get in their actions and words BEFORE you jump into bed.

I am well balanced in my life. I am a man of true character who believes in giving


everyone a fair chance. I have established some very well thoughtout career goals
with a clear path and plan to achieve success which is controlling my own destiny
and not all the money in the world. I do have my Christian faith to credit for my
life, attitude and success; however,

I don't use the name of God to attract women for my character speaks for itself. I
am not the type of man who is focused entirely on himself....
You are sent to me from the heavens i must say you are truly a woman of inner
beauty the woman i would love to do all sweet things too, the woman that deserves
all my love care and protection...

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