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PUSH UPS
FOR SUCCESS

Your SUCCESS in life is directly proportional to

your SMART WORK

Livingstone Imonitie
 Copyright © 2017 by Livingstone Imonitie

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Published in Nigeria by

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(Motivate, Inspire and Teach people around the
World)

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 ACKNOWLEDGMENTS

This e-book on your hands was not done by me alone.

Even though I am the writer, I had help from my
friends. I want to appreciate the effort of my very good
friend, a friend who became a brother, Joshua Navi
who advised and helped me on certain issues
concerning this work.

I want to also thank Collins Luke for editing this work.

A very big Thank You to Michael Oritseweyinmi

Otomewo for accepting to take shot and to Harmony
Orakpoyovwuru for your connections

Special thanks to Chukwutem Dickson Ossai, thank

you for the wonderful cover page. I wouldn‟t have
been able to complete this work without you guys.

Thank you all and you know I haven‟t stopped loving

you.
 DEDICATION

This book is dedicated to every young boy and girl

who wants to know the secrets of success and is ready
to work towards achieving it.
 ABOUT THE BOOK

This is a collection of inspiring words revealing to us

some of the secrets of success. There are secrets on
academics, business and life in general. I have applied
these principles, I have seen people apply these
principles and their lives have not remained the same.

This book was written to help young and old people,

changing lives, motivating, inspiring and teaching
people around the world.

The most interesting thing is that this e-book is totally

free of charge. All I want from you is to download it
and read it. Don‟t just keep it in your laptop, tablet or
phones. Read it every day, you must succeed.

Thank you for downloading this book. I love you.

70 PUSH-UPS FOR SUCCESS
1. LEARN FROM EVERY BAD SITUATION

Most persons feel bad when they are rejected,

sacked or lost something. I know how it feels but
try to learn from what life has to teach you
because there is always a lesson in every situation.

If you don‟t learn from the past mistakes, there is

a high possibility that you will repeat the same
mistake. Life is a wonderful teacher; learn from
her so you can be a better person.

Always see the bright side of every bad situation

and at the end, you will be glad you pass through
it.
2. WHAT WILL YOU BE REMEMBERED FOR?

Don‟t just pass through this life without

impacting into someone. Be the reason behind the
smile on that boy‟s or girl‟s face. Don‟t think
about what you will be but think about what you
will do.

Please don‟t leave this planet without impacting

lives, someone‟s destiny is attached to you, look
for that person and change his life forever.

Don‟t wait till tomorrow before you start, start

now and do something worth remembering.

What will you be remembered for?

3. THE YOU THAT WINS

It is the you in you that wins. It is the unseen you

that make the „seen you‟ worth while and makes
you do things that have commercial value, which
makes you do things that the world is waiting to
have done.

He lives inside of you and he has been trying to

fight his way out. Please do not stop him.

Let the unseen you come out and rule your world.
4. YESTERDAY’S SUCCESS

Do not linger too long at the table of yesterday‟s

SUCCESS because it will hinder tomorrow‟s
BREAKTHROUGH – Smith Bam.

Most of us no longer try to do anything again

because we have achieved something in life,
forgetting that it was because you tried at first
that brought you to three you are today. The only
person you should be better than is who you were
yesterday.

Everyday whatsapp keeps bringing new features,

making it better than the previous one. Facebook
does the same too. They do all these to be better.

What if Dangote closes down all his enterprises

and say to himself, „I‟m ok now, I don‟t need more
money. I can feed up till my 7th generation‟.
Think about it.

Don‟t stop trying to be better than what you were

yesterday and please don‟t live in yesterday‟s
success. Fight for today‟s own.
5. DON’T LISTEN TO THEM.

Hello guys, in life when you are trying to do

something different, there are persons who will
discourage you. Who will tell you „you can‟t do it,
others tried and failed. You are in this part of the
country, no one will encourage you.‟

I just want to tell you that not all advice is

needed. They said you can‟t do it. That‟s their
view about you but that‟s not the reality.

Keep doing what you are good at. Be diligent and

at the end you will succeed. Don‟t let their talks
stop you. I believe in you.
6. OUR COUNTRY NIGERIA

For some time now I have been thinking about

our country Nigeria and where we are going to.
With the present situation of our country, what‟s
the way forward?

Some persons say this is the „end time‟. Well to

me, I think this is the time we need to wake up
and do something or think of a way out.
Complaining and pointing of fingers won‟t solve
anything.

I urge us all, both young and old, let‟s work

together to make this country a better place.
Prayer is something we can start with and ideas.

We should not focus on the money but the ideas.

Let‟s start thinking and stop complaining.
Together, we can make it happen.
7. MISTAKES

“Would you like me to give you the formula for

success? It‟s quite simple, really: double your rate
of failure. You are thinking of failure as the
enemy of success. But it isn‟t at all. You can be
discouraged by failure or you can learn from it, so
go ahead and make mistakes. Make all you can.
Because remember, that‟s where you will find
success” – Thomas J. Watson

Albert Einstein said, „if you haven‟t made

mistakes before, then you haven‟t tried anything
new.‟

Don‟t feel discouraged anytime you make a

mistake. Use that mistake as a stepping stone to
climb higher.
8. TWO KINDS OF PEOPLE

“There are two kinds of people who will tell you

that you cannot make a difference in this world:
those who are afraid to try and those who are
afraid you will succeed” – Ray Goforth

Now, they telling you isn‟t the issue, but you

letting what you have been told determine your
destiny, your next move is. I tell people that not
all laws are meant to be obeyed, the same way not
all advice are meant to be followed. Sometimes
you just have to do the opposite of what you‟ve
been told. Please don‟t get me wrong here.

Believe in yourself, God believes in you. Go out

there and be MAD – Make A Difference. If you
succeed, beautiful and if you don‟t, learn from
your failure and do it AGAIN AND AGAIN.
9. DREAMS VS PLANS

A clear vision, backed by definite plans gives you

a tremendous feeling of confidence and personal
power. It‟s not enough to have visions or dreams,
if you don‟t plan or work towards achieving it, it
will forever remain just a dream.

Never forget that a man is not old until regrets

take the place of dreams.

What are you doing? Still dreaming or planning?

10. FRIENDS WITH SAME VISION

If you want to go far in life, go alone. But if you

want to go farther, go with a friend who has the
same vision.

Making fiends is wonderful, you motivate each

other, learn from each other, repeatedly
encountering the person and opportunities to
share ideas.

Anais Nin put it beautifully when she said, “each

friend represents a world to us, a world possibly
not born until they arrive, and it is only by this
meeting that anew world is born”. Though some
natural loners are happy without them, most of us
depend greatly on the company of true friends. As
with any relationship, friendship brings support
and joy and occasionally strife.

Go out today and make friends if you don‟t have

one. But if you have, keep them. We all need one
another to move forward. Make new positive
friends as often as possible and ensure you keep
the communication line open.
11. NEVER MAKE DECISIONS WHEN YOU
ARE ANGRY

Its normal for some persons to piss you off, I get

that almost every day. People asking questions
they already know the answer to, some making
comments that will make you want to plant a
bomb in their head.
And sometimes I do it, I make my close friends
angry, I‟ve lost great friends with the words I say
to them even when I don‟t mean it.

Please no matter how angry you are at someone

for the actions they do or the words they say.
Don‟t do anything or say anything back at them
at that moment or else you might regret it later in
life. If you ever get in such a situation, just walk
away and cool yourself down. Do something else
and think things through. After you are calm,
then make your decision. It‟s safer that way.

Remember, don‟t let your anger go down with the

sun; always learn to control your anger.
12. MY LAST DAY

Imagine today was your last day being alive,

what will you do?

Only few persons will continue living the way

they‟ve lived, without being worried. But many of
us will panic; that‟s when some will show love to
their neighbour, help the needy and even preach
the gospel.

#smh, but why?

Why haven‟t we done all this before? Because we

think that there is enough time. No time my dear.

Start living your life as if it‟s your last day on

earth, show love to the people around you, listen
to that challenge of your friend and offer advice to
him, spend time with your family, help the poor
and I tell you, you will live a happy life.
13. F.E.A.R

FEAR is actually False Evidence Appearing Real.

The reason many people fail in life isn‟t because

they are naïve or weak but because of FEAR.
Even before they start something, they conclude
that they won‟t succeed.

I wrote an examination some days ago and

initially I was scared because my older colleagues
have complained about the course. Even my
classmates were like, „if we fail, we fail. If we pass,
we pass. Last last, I go come back next year‟. But
I just believed that I would make it and when I
saw the question paper, the questions were simple.
I wrote the exam with a smile on my face.

Don‟t speak failure about something you haven‟t

even started. Your words are spirit and life. Start
speaking positive and success into your life and
destiny.
14. ALLOW GOD TAKE OVER

Sometimes, certain things don‟t go well as we

planned, it‟s as if we are moving slowly or just in
one spot. We‟ve applied all the available
principles but nothing seems to change.

All these occur because we tend to carry the load

all by ourselves, I‟m sorry but you will break
down.

Allow God take over and I promise you that you

will go far.
15. NEVER ALLOW PEOPLE MAKE
DECISIONS FOR YOU

Have you ever wondered why things are the way

they are?
Why your life looks as if it‟s not moving forward?
It all boils down to the decisions you make.

Most people‟s life is what it is today because they

allow people make decisions for them. Sometimes
it‟s our parents, teachers, friends or neighbours
that make decisions for us. It‟s so wrong. Don‟t
forget that it‟s your life and not theirs.

What if Michael Jackson‟s parents had forced him

in going for football instead of music or Messi‟s
parents had forced him into playing volleyball
instead of football, or Ben Carson‟s parents forced
him into studying engineering instead of medicine.
They would have turn out to be a total failure.

Most of us allow other people make vital decisions

for us and sometimes it not what we want, it‟s not
our calling but theirs and at the end, we are the
ones that get hurt. These persons should stop
making decisions for us rather give us advice that
will enable us make the right decisions.
Let us not continue in error, rather let us be
guided. Remember, the decisions you make today
will surely affect your future.

Make the right one.

16. IMPROVE YOURSELF

If you want to make a difference in your life, if

you want to rule your world, then you need to
work on yourself. You need to improve yourself,
cook yourself.

The world changers you see today didn‟t just start

changing the world overnight. They started by
changing themselves. If you keep doing what
you‟ve always done, you will always get what
you‟ve always gotten. Nothing changes unless you
make things change.

If you want people to hear your success story,

then work on yourself. Don‟t do it because every
other person is doing it, do it because nobody has
done it.
17. CREATING OPTIMUM BALANCE

Do you know that when some students fail

academically, they begin to blame some of the
activities they were involved in like; fellowship
work, politics, dance, music and the likes. But the
truth is that these activities didn‟t fail them, they
failed to balance things.

Some other students are also involved in these

same activities and even more but they still do
well academically.
A great man once said that as students, we have
more than 10,000 hours free from our year one to
our final year. The question now is; how do you
make use of these free hours?

There is time for everything, time to read, time to

play, time for politics, time to gym, etc. just plan
and manage your time.
When you want to read, read. When you want to
play, play. When you want to work, work. Don‟t
ever mix them together. Create an optimum
BALANCE.

Nobody wants to hear your EXCUSES of

FAILURE rather your STORIES of SUCCESS.
18. ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS

Don‟t be the guy in the room that is always

talking, saying things that can only be imagined.
The world is tired of too many people talking and
only few actually taking actions.

If you don‟t like the situation of things around

you, stop complaining and do something about it,
something positive. It is much more powerful to
get others to agree with you through your actions,
without saying a word.

WELL DONE is always better than WELL

SAID.
19. HAPPY NEW YEAR

I believe you must have said that this year is

going to be great, awesome, stress free, wonderful,
etc. I‟m sorry to say but it‟s not going to happen.
You need to see beyond SAYING it to MAKING
it happen.

If you want a wonderful, then work towards it. If

you want a great and wonderful year, work
towards it. Let‟s your actions speak louder than
your words.

I know some of you will say, „God will take care

of things‟. Sir/Ma, that‟s not how it works, even
the bible says He will bless the works of your
hands.

See…, you have to WORK.

If you want to be a star, if you want to be great in

what you do, if you want to be better this year,
you have to work. Apply the right principles, use
the right methods, believe in yourself and most
especially trust in GOD.

I want a situation where at the end of the year,

you will say, „I made it. I accomplished my
dreams‟. I want to see you at the top with me
because I will be waiting for you there.

PRAYER, HARD WORK AND DISCIPLINE

(PHD) is what you need to succeed this year.
20. STAND OUT

Never let yourself get lost in the crowd, then, or

buried in oblivion. Stand out.

Why do you try to fit in when you are made to

stand out? You are special and unique in your
own way. Others are doing it doesn‟t mean you
should join them. When you stand you, men will
look for you.

Whatever you find yourself doing, be the best

there is. Let people get attracted by your works,
your words. Let them marvel at you.
21. SELF ESTEEM

What people think of you does not matter. What

really matters is what you think of yourself and
what God thinks of you. Don‟t look down on
yourself because a lecturer in school said you are
worthless or your boss at work said you are not
useful.

Whenever you wake up, say to yourself, „I‟m the

best, I‟m the reflection of God‟s image, nothing
can stop me‟. Get your spirit high. The opinion of
others should not determine your reality. Get out
of your shell and shine brighter than the sun.
22. LEARN TO SHUT UP

Sometimes it better to just keep quiet and let

others do the talking even if you know better.
Most of us have told the wrong set of persons our
secret ingredient, which ought not to be so.

Even if you enjoy talking, you derive joy from

talking; sometimes you need to shut up. Wise
people don‟t talk too much. They listen more and
talk less. Don‟t talk away your life.

One fascinating fact about talking less is that

people tend to respect you more. Speak when you
have something to say and think about what you
have to say before you open up your mouth to
talk.

Learn to SHUT UP.

23. DON’T BE THE OBSTACLE

In life, the only thing standing in your way to the

top is YOU. Not until you overcome yourself, you
will not be able to overcome anything in life. You
don‟t need to be scared of who you are. Stop
telling yourself that you cannot do it and start
asking yourself, „ how can i do it?‟ don‟t be the
mountain blocking your way to success.

Believe in yourself; don‟t look down on yourself

because others are looking down on you. Stop
saying negative things about your ability. Even if
they don‟t believe in you, I believe in you. Don‟t
be the obstacle.
24. DON’T OVER STRESS YOURSELF

In the process of our journey to success, many of

us over stress ourselves. You don‟t need to kill
yourself because you want something so badly.
With this you might miss the important moment
of life, of living. Just relax and you will get there.

I know I always tell people that your success in

life is directly proportional to your hard work, I
don‟t mean you should work the whole 24 hours
or 7 days. Take a time out and relax. Sometimes
you get great ideas when you relax than when you
stress yourself.
25. GOD OR MAN?

What keep you going in life? God or Man?

Who do you put your trust in? God or Man?
Who do you respect the most? God or Man?
Who do you fear the most? God or Man?

See, a lot of us believe there is God but think that

he‟s not with us. That is why we believe that we
need connection to get job, promotion or
admission into college. You must have prayed to
God concerning a situation and it looks as if there
is no God. No answers to your prayers and you are
beginning to lose your faith in him.

Have you ever heard of God‟s time is the best?

He knows the end of a matter right from the
beginning. I tell people that even if He comes late,
He‟s coming to make you the latest. Just let him
have his way.

We fear and respect man above God. We fear the

substance instead of the source. We respect the
creation instead of the creator; we honour the
gifts instead of the giver of the gifts. We have full
confidence in man and none in God.
I‟m not saying you should disregard man. I‟m
trying to tell you not to place man above God. Let
God takes his place in your life.
For I tell you today, he is always thinking of you
and he is always there with you. Trace back your
steps and make things right. It‟s never too late.
26. WHOSE IMAGE ARE YOU?

Whose image are you?

What does your life reflect?

Anytime I stand in front of a mirror, I don‟t see

„STONE‟, I see the image of God.
(Hey! why do you look surprise, stone is my
name). That‟s my reflection; I‟m his glory, his
masterpiece. That‟s me.

Not until you know and understand who you are,

you can do nothing.
Not until you see a SOMEBODY in yourself, you
will remain a NOBODY.

When God made man, he did something special;

he added part of himself into man. Do you know
that you carry something special from him? You
are God‟s own reflection. You are not little; you
are a god on earth. Begin to move with the mind-
set that you are God‟s selfie.
27. NEVER STOP DOING WHAT YOU KNOW
BEST

In one of my write ups, I wrote about us searching

within ourselves for that precious talent God has
placed inside of us. If you have found yours, good
for you but if you haven‟t, keep searching or
maybe you should ask him. I believe he created
you and put those great talents and gifts in you.
Ask Him and he will tell you after all he is your
father, no need to be scared.

When you find that talent, don‟t keep it to

yourself, use it and be the BEST there is. If you
can sing, dance, act, rap, play a musical
instrument, play video games, talk to people, do
politics, make art, etc., be the best in what you
do. Meet someone to train you, make you better. I
want you to be the best, which is also what God
wants.

What is your selling point?

What do you have to sell to the world?
The world is waiting for your endless
manifestation; I am waiting to see your great
potentials.

I challenge you today to get up and make good

use of your talent. The world is ready for you, I
am ready for you. God made you for a purpose, go
and fulfil that purpose. It‟s normal to be scared
but you have to overcome your fears.

Put in you very best to that thing you know how

to do, I believe in you.
28. TAKE ACTION

Victory is not in words alone but also in actions.

I know that you have been saying it but don‟t you
think it‟s time to add a little action to what you
have been saying.
“I want to be successful in life, I want to be the
best in my career, I want to win the competition,
I want to graduate with a first class, I want to be
the best. I want to be a star”. That‟s what you
have been saying but you haven‟t done anything
about it.

Please I did not say telling yourself these positive

words are bad, what I‟m trying to say is that
adding actions to it is better.

If you want to be successful in life, stand in front

of the mirror every day and tell yourself what you
want. Don‟t stop saying it, keep talking it and
make the necessary sacrifices because nothing
good comes easy. Let it be „operation speak
positive and act positive‟.
29. NEVER BE IN A HURRY

Never be in a hurry to get something.

Never be in a hurry to get riches, to get to a
position or to get famous.
Never be in a hurry to go somewhere.
Never be in a hurry.

Sometimes we miss the important things in life

because we were in a hurry. If only we could just
calm down, settle down and do things. Have you
noticed that it‟s when we are in a hurry we end up
in a bad situation, that is when we would forget
the car keys inside the car and lock the door,
which is when we wear the wrong pair of socks.

Those who are in a hurry never go far; they

always tend to forget something behind.
Always be cool, calm and creative.
30. GET A MENTOR

To be successful in whatever you do in life you

need a mentor. Someone who will put you
through, give you advice and someone who has
already made it. When you stand on the shoulders
of those that have made it in life, you will not
make the same mistakes they made.

Everyone needs a mentor, a teacher and that

person should be interested in your success and if
you don‟t have one now, it‟s not too late to get
one.

All those who have succeeded in life had someone

at their back coaching them, telling them what to
do and how to do it. Don‟t just make anybody
you see on the street your mentor, make sure that
person is interested in making you better. You
can‟t listen to people who haven‟t achieved
anything.

Get a mentor today.

31. GET A PLAN

It is mostly said that he who fails to plan, plans to

fail. In everything you do in life, learn to have a
plan.

Always plan ahead and be more proactive. He

that plans the future works less in the future.
Engineers don‟t just go to the site and start
building. No, they always go with a plan and it
makes work easier and faster for them.

If you want to succeed in life, get a PLAN.

32. A PEN AND A NOTEPAD

While I was in year one in the university, a friend

of mine told me to always go out with a pen and a
notepad, to jot down any idea or thought that
cross my mind.

Sometimes while walking down the road, you get

flashes of ideas, maybe a design or something and
you say to yourself, „when I get home I will work
on the idea‟. And you get home not remembering
anything, the idea just disappeared from your
head.

For those of you that are into music, while taking

your bath or driving your car a nice beat comes to
your head and you have the perfect lyrics to go
with it and you didn‟t write them down. There is
a high chance that you might forget it when you
get to the studio.

Make sure a pen and a notepad is with you at all

times because the smallest pen is bigger and better
than the biggest brain.
33. READ A BOOK

It is very true that most persons don‟t like reading

books including students. They believe reading a
book is boring and a waste of time, they prefer to
watch it in a movie format. Even the white men
said that if you want to hide anything from a
black man, put it in a book because they will not
read it.

I have gained so much by reading books and

books are my priceless possessions, I don‟t joke
with them. There are so many things your
teachers will not teach you about life in school but
you can get them from books. Even if it is done in
a movie format, the producers of the movie will
not include everything that is in the book.

Now, compare the movie „Harry Porter‟ to the

book itself. You will notice some differences.
Everything cannot be in the movie.

Try to read a book even if it‟s once a month for a

start and at the end of the year you will be 12
times better than your colleagues who don‟t read
books. If you spend 20 minutes reading daily, for
52 weeks, you would have consumed 1,000,000
words.
Remember no knowledge is a waste, read a book
for your self-development.
34. STAY AWAY FROM THE TELEVISION

Let‟s say 97% of the world‟s population watches

TV, I‟m not saying watching TV is bad. What I‟m
trying to say is that watching too much of TV is
not bad but „very very‟ bad. When you spend too
much time watching TV, you are wasting time
and wasting resources and manpower.

Stay away from the TV as much as possible. You

can watch educational channels, cartoons, or
anything you want to watch but don‟t spend the
entire day doing that. Men with big TV sit in
front of them to watch men with big library.

Spend less time with your TV set and work on

your dreams so that men will watch you on TV
changing the world.
35. SHOW APPREACIATION

If you don‟t show appreciation for what you have,

it will depreciate with time. It is commonly said
that not until the horse losses its tail, it will never
know the importance of it.

Learn to show appreciation for any good deed you

received, learn to say „THANK YOU‟. Those
magical words can make people do more for you.

It is only a GREAT FOOL that is not

GRATEFUL. Learn to show appreciation to God
first then to man.
36. CREATE MULTIPLE SOURCE OF INCOME

Don‟t depend all your life from one source of

income, create multiple sources of income. There
is no job security anymore, you can lose your job
anytime, so get something else doing.

As a banker, you can also have a barber‟s shop

and get people working for you. You can be a
doctor and still have taxis working for you and
every month, apart from your normal salary, you
keep getting more money from other sources.
That‟s making money work for you.

Even as a student, you can be studying and have

a part time job or even self-employed. You can
bake cake, design websites, take photographs,
write articles and get paid, do anything you love
doing and don‟t fully depend on your parents for
money. Have multiple sources of income.
37. SAVE AND INVEST

Some persons don‟t like to save; they spend all

their income even before the month is over and
then they go broke again. Learn to save at least
10% of your income.

Don‟t save after spending. Please don‟t do that

but save before spending. If you are being paid
$10,000 monthly, saving 10% means you are
saving $1,000 every month and at the end of the
year you will be having $12,000 then you can
invest that money into a business, real estate or
any business of your choice.

Invest and be patient to see it grow. If what you

have in your hand is not good to be called a
harvest then it‟s a seed, sow it. That‟s using
money to get more money.

You don‟t need to spend all your money on

buying liabilities, buy assets and let more money
come in.
38. WHAT IS YOUR GOAL?

A lot of persons do not have goals, they take life

the way it comes to them.

What are your short term and long term goals?

What do you want to accomplish in life?

Set a goal for yourself each day and before you go

to bed ask yourself if you accomplished the goals
set for that particular day and set another for the
next day. Keep getting better on your daily goals
and dreams. Develop yourself on them and make
sure you get to the top.

What are your GOALS in life?

39. EXERCISE

When was the last time you did exercise?

You wake up in the morning, you go to work in

your car, stay in your air conditioned office and
after work, you go back home in your car. You do
this every day and on weekends you visit friends
and have fun without exercise. You are killing
yourself gently.

Make sure you engage in exercise. It keeps your

brain alert and your body fit to enjoy your
success. Try doing exercise once a week for a start
for 30-50 minutes. You could jog round your
neighbourhood early in the morning and I
promise you that it will be fun.

Don‟t be lazy and stop saying there is no time, I

told you before to create time for yourself.

Exercise is good for the body, don‟t be left behind.

I do 90-100 push ups every morning before going
to class.
40. DEVELOP A GOOD CHARACTER

Talents and gifts can take you places but only a

good character can keep you there.

So many of our youth lack good characters. They

talk anyhow and insult elders of the land like
myself and when they get into trouble, they run
to us.

To the ladies, even if you are the most beautiful

damsel on planet earth and you lack good
character; faithful men like me will not come close
to you. Develop a good character that cannot be
overturned by the tempest of life.

If you think people are not watching you, that‟s a

big fat lie, we are watching you. I have never seen
someone with a bad character stay too long at the
top, they always fall down.
Change your character if yours isn‟t good and men
will locate you.

Let your parents be proud of you, let the elders of

the land like myself be proud of you and most
importantly, let God be proud of you.
41. WORRY

Do you know that the answer to your situation is

right in front of you?
See, anytime you are in a difficult situation, you
worry yourself, you complain, you blame others
but if only you could just SHUT UP and think
outside the box, you will realise that the answer
was there all along.

Worrying will not solve anything. Instead of

worrying, use that precious time to calm down
and think of a way out. If there is a way into a
situation then there is a way out of it.

Always remember, think outside the box. Be

Different.
42. YOU CAN NOT PLEASE EVERYBODY

Never try to please everybody because the day

you try, you will kill yourself. That‟s because you
will end up not pleasing anybody.

Never try to be who you are not for everybody to

like you or accept you. Be you sir. It‟s normal for
some persons to hate you, even Jesus was hated
by his own people.

You need both negative and positive wire to make

a bulb come on. Some will love you while some
will dislike you. Don‟t be like others, be yourself
and the right people will locate you.

You are AWESOME just the way you are.

BE YOURSELF.
43. WHAT ARE YOU THINKING?

What a man thinks in his heart that is what he

will become. I do believe in these words, I don‟t
know about you.

Anytime you stand in front of a mirror, what do

you see?
A successful person or a loser?
A gift or a curse?

Even God knows that you are a peculiar treasure

but do you know that?

Start thinking positive things about yourself,

change your mind-set. Your potential is who you
can be that the world has not seen. Your potential
will bring solutions to the world.
You are wonderful, you are great.

I see greatness in you but what do you see in you?

Don‟t waste your great potentials.
44. THE GENIUS IN YOU

Everybody was born a genius and nobody was

born dull, it‟s just how you develop the genius in
you that matters.

Maturity is not in age because age is just a

number but maturity is in the way you think.
That‟s why many people grow old but they don‟t
grow up, it‟s how they developed the genius in
them.

Wake up from your dogmatic slumber and put

your brain to work. Think of something great,
think outside the box, and think differently.
Look around you and think of how to fix things,
make things right. Be different.
45. DESIRE TO SUCCEED

Your desire for success should be greater than

your fear of failure. As I said earlier, everybody is
afraid of something but your ability to overcome
your fears matters a lot.

Always look forward to succeed in everything you

do. I know you are scared of the risks but I tell
you the greater risk is not taking risk at all. When
you desire to succeed, success has no option but to
locate you.

I will be waiting for you at the finish line.

46. TELL YOUR PARENTS HOW MUCH YOU
LOVE THEM

When was the last time you called your parents? I

mean when was the last time you called them and
told them that you loved them?

I challenge you today to pick your phone, call

your parents and thank them for all that they
have done for you from birth till today and tell
them how much you love them.

If you can‟t call them due to fear, send them a

text message. It will touch their heart, they
deserve it. I know your action shows that you love
them but I want you to tell them and they will
pray for you.

The prayers of your parents can accelerate you to

your point of success.
47. KINDS OF PEOPLE AROUND A STORY

There are three kinds of people around a story in

this world;
 Those that make the story
 Those that write the story and finally
 Those that tell the story

Nobody wants to hear your excuses of failure;

they want to hear your story of success.
I am making my story today, what are you
doing???
48. DON’T FISH FOR THEM

I believe you must have heard the saying „if you

give a man fish, you feed him for a day but if you
teach him how to fish, you feed him forever‟.

There are some persons around you who have

made up their minds not to learn how to fish but
depend fully on you. These persons are just there
to take from you without working for themselves,
you do not need these set of persons in your life.
Don‟t fish for them.

There is no need helping people who do not want

to help themselves. You cannot continue to spend
your resources on people who are not ready to
work for themselves.

Teach them how to fish but do not fish for them.

49. HOW WILL YOU FACE IT?

Everyone has a mountain in his or her life but

how we face this mountain is what matters. It is
not what we face but how we face what we face is
what determines if what we face will be phased
away.

I told you before that it‟s a normal thing to be

scared, that is what makes you human but you
must learn to let go of your fears and face the
situation. Will you continue to hide in your shell
all your life?

Get up and overcome. You are more than a

conqueror.
50. DON’T GO BACK

I see a lot of people who give up at their point of

breakthrough. If only they took one more step
forward, they would have gotten the gold. At that
point in your life where everything looks dry and
there is no hope, that is when you should press
further and not give up or go back to square one.

Only the committed refuse to be omitted in the

hall of fame because until you are through with
the thought of going back, the thought of moving
forward will not come easily.

Do not go back, you are meant to be at the TOP.

51. IGNORE CRITICS

Humans must surely criticise you on your way to

success but you shouldn‟t let the criticism affect
you or your quest. Your time is one of your
greatest assets and you cannot allow some „NFA‟
No Future Ambition individuals waste it for you.

Criticism is a must. If you don‟t want to be

criticised, then don‟t try to succeed or do
anything more than ordinary.

People must talk whether you like it or not but I

want you to ignore the critics and get your eyes
on the goal.
52. THINK

Every successful person takes time to think. They

don‟t just act; they think things through, over
and over again before acting. I heard a story of a
great man who had a room in his house and in
that room was just a chair where he sits and think
for hours. If you do not think about the future,
you will not have one.

In the process of writing this book, I did a lot of

thinking on what to write and how to make it a
success and here it is with you. The difference
between a wise man and a foolish man is the
ability to use the brain and God has given you
one, use it.

Think of a way out of your present situation,

think of a way forward, and think of the future.
The magnitude of your mental sight determines
the magnitude of your physical stride.

Remember, Ideas rule the World.

Think and after thinking ACT.

53. TRAIN YOURSELF

What you do for yourself counts far more than all

that others have done for you. Nobody will take
you to your point of success; you just have to take
yourself there. I read a story of a kid who loves
playing the ground piano, his parents got him a
teacher who taught him how to play it for 2 hours
every day but the kid spends extra 6 hours
practicing to be better.

You are the only one that can make yourself

better, go for it. What you have under developed
in you has no value. No one else either wishes or
has the time to develop it. That is your business
and only you can develop it to become the best.

Don‟t be satisfied with anything you do. Always

seek to improve yourself. Train yourself to be the
best.
54. THE LITTLE THINGS THAT MATTERS

We often neglect the little things of life to pursue

the big things, not realising that our positions in
the big things are decided by how much we handle
the little things.

Most of you keep praying for a promotion, to be

the Head of a Department or for the world to
know that you exist. You focus so much on that
and forget your present situation, the little in
your hand. And for most of you because you no
longer regard the little you have, you lose the big
opportunity and the little one.

A man that is faithful in little will surely be

faithful in much. Handle that small position well
with all your heart and it will be easy handling
the big position.

How you are doing right where you are as a

student or as a worker in another person‟s
business is what is determining what your life will
be later. Be mindful of the little things, they are
there to train you.
55. THE WRONG THOUGHT

„As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he‟. This is

one of my favourite scriptures in the Bible, it has
become part of me and I want to share it with
you.

If you think in your heart that you are a failure, a

loser and a nobody, with time you become those
things. You have talked about your failure, your
difficulties until they have become a mental
disease but if you think the opposite as a success
and a winner, with time you will become such.

Never think negative about yourself, your

business, your career, your family. Don‟t use your
mouth to destroy yourself or your destiny.

Think positive and think BiG.

56. LOYALTY

Loyalty is devotion and faithfulness to a cause,

person or country. To be success in life you need
to be loyal. If you are not loyal to your team, you
can get by for a while but eventually you will
need to rely on their loyalty to you, and it just
won‟t be there.

Loyalty is one of the foundation stones for a

balanced success. If the people working in a firm
are not loyal, I don‟t think the firm will last. You
need to be loyal to your superiors and to yourself.
It is a very important virtue; don‟t sell your
loyalty for any reason. The spirit of loyalty gives
a sense of security to the firm.
57. BE WANTED

When I told my friends that I wanted to be

„wanted‟, they were confused. Hope you aren‟t
confused too.

I‟m not talking about being wanted by the police

but being wanted for your talent. Make yourself
so valuable that people will pay anything for you
to be with them. As I said earlier, be so valuable
that if you had to move out of the neigbourhood,
men and women would weep because of your
departure.

The only way to be wanted is to work hard on

your gift, on your talent and be the best there is.
Be a real contributor to your age, don‟t just exist.
Prepare yourself and doors will open for you
everywhere.
58. SURROUND YOURSELF WITH LIKE-
MINDS

The law of electromagnetism states that like

charges repel and unlike charges attract. Well,
this is not a physics class so let‟s scrap that. In the
real life, like charges attract and unlike charges
repel.

If you want to go far and be successful, then you

have to surround yourself with people who have
either made it or are on the path of success. But if
you surround yourself with people without vision
or goal, you will not go far and with time you will
lose focus.

Iron sharpens iron. Move and surround yourself

with like-minds to keep the fire burning.
59. VALUE

The price on a commodity depends on the value

placed on it. If it has no value, then it will worth
little. Many of us are like that, we do not add
value to ourselves. We dress and talk anyhow,
making us look useless.

No matter what you do and where you go, you

cannot go wrong with adding value. The more
value you place on yourself, the more expensive
you become and whatever you do not value, you
pay less attention to.

For those of you who are willing to succeed, place

a value on yourself, your business and your talent.
In your personal life, more value translates to
closer relationships and strong personal growth.

How are you adding value to your life?

60. PASSION

„Show me a man who has passion for what he is

doing and I will show you a man who is likely to
be successful‟. As they say, „love never fails‟. If
you love what you are doing and you have that
strong passion for it, you will have a reason to
wake up every morning and keep at it.

Take a good look at those great men who have

made it, you will discover that almost all of them
had passion in what they were doing, be it art,
football, music, design and poetry.

Even our children tend to perform well in the

subjects they love the most, this also happens in
real life. You will be more successful in the area
you love the most.

What do you enjoy doing? What gives you joy?

Put in extra effort there and you will be
successful. For those of you that have watched
the India movie „3 Idiots‟, you will understand
better.

Follow your PASSION and SUCCESS will chase

you.
61. DRESS WELL

Don‟t dress to look like your present situation,

dress to look like your future. A lot of persons
dress anyhow, thinking nobody cares about how
they look. In case you do not know, the way you
dress is the way you will be addressed. You
cannot dress like a poor man and expect to be
treated like a boss, you cannot dress like a beggar
or a slave and expect to be treated like a king, it
doesn‟t work that way.

Even if you have just one shirt and a trouser,

wash them well, iron them and wear them with
confidence and good self-esteem. You don‟t need
to look sad because you do not have enough, take
good care of the ones you have. You do not have
to be great before you start dressing well, start
dressing like your future from today.

Your dressing tells people who you are and where

you are headed to. Do not dress like a failure,
dress like the success that you are.
62. GIVE BACK

Life is not all about receiving, sometimes you

should learn to give. Give to the less privilege, the
needy, and the poor, those who do not have. This
is one principle that only few know about.

Everything is not about money; you could give

your time, your love, your words of
encouragement, your listening ears to someone‟s
story. You may not know the joy you will leave in
their lives when you give, that could be your
small way of impacting lives.

Giving to people is like sowing of seeds; it will

surely germinate and bring forth fruits. Give to
them; successful people are not selfish, only poor
people are.
63. IN LOVE WITH YOUR PASSION

The reason most people don‟t succeed and only

few do is simply because only few follow their
passion and are in love with what they do. I‟m not
a big fan of India movies but I had to watch one
particular one, „3 IDIOTS‟. Go watch that movie
and you will understand following your passion.

Take a look around at some of the things that you

have accomplished successful without stress, you
will discover that you has passion for it and your
heart was there and those ones you didn‟t
accomplish and looked stressful was because your
heart wasn‟t in it.

This is one reason many people can‟t reach their

goal and be successful because they are not
following their passion. They are not in love with
what they are doing; they get frustrated on the
way and stop.

Are you in love with your passion?

64. KEEP LEARNING

I have discussed with students around Nigeria and

I discover that they do not want to learn
anything different. If it has nothing to do with
what they are studying in school, then they are
not interested. If they are studying Engineering,
they do not want to learn anything about
medicine or mass communication, this is really
bad.

Never stop learning, broaden your horizon. Don‟t

limit yourself to your course of study; learn from
your neighbour who is studying something else.
It‟s not a bad idea if you know something about
everything.

Please, keep learning. The day you stop learning

is the day you start dying. Those with great
knowledge rule their world.
65. GET YOUR PROIRITY STRAIGHT

Why are you living?

When young minds come to me concerning having

few hours and lot of work to be done, I just tell
them to set their priority right. You cannot be a
student of a higher institution and you spend 18
hours of your time playing video games. That is so
not right.

Do first things first, there is time for everything.

Read when it‟s time to read and play when it‟s
time to play. Know what you want. If you don‟t
get your priority straight, you may end up
crashing and it will not be a nice scenario.

Do the more important stuff first before doing the

less important stuff. Many people fail in life
because they never got their priority straight.
66. TAKE A FIRST STEP

Remember when that little baby in your village

wanted to start walking. She would stand, take a
step and fall, she would do it again and even when
she kept falling down, she kept on doing it until
she started running.

Everyone in life started by taking a first step.

You want to start a business or an invention or to
be successful and you are scared. Be like that
baby girl and take a first step.

A lot of people have the intention to do something

great, to make a difference; all they need is
someone to push them to do it. I am here, telling
you to take a first step and you might end up
being the saviour. It all begins with a step of
faith.
67. HARD WORK

In life, it is either you are lazy or hard working. I

have not seen any lazy person successful before.
Only hard working persons get to the top of the
ladder. To achieve success in life, you must make
up your mind to work hard towards achieving
your dreams.

Colin Powell said, „a dream doesn‟t become reality

through magic; it takes sweat, determination and
hard work‟. Nothing ever comes to one, which is
worth having, except as a result of hard work and
there is no substitute for hard work. This is one
secret most successful people know.

You have to make the decision today not to be

lazy. If truly you have a vision, you will work
hard to achieving it, you will have to sacrifice
certain things to get what you really want.

A dream can only be achieved through hard work.

68. ALWAYS HAVE A BACK UP PLAN

It is good to have a plan for your journey to

success but make sure you have a plan B, a back-
up plan in case the first one turned out not to
work out.

When I was in secondary school, anytime I had

an examination to write, I always go into the
exam hall with two pens just in case one stops
writing. So, instead of running out to buy a new
one or disturbing other students who are trying to
think. I just bring out the other pen. This
principle should be applied in real life situations.
We should always have a plan B.

Please understand that no amount of knowledge

can prepare you for the chaos that will inevitably
hit you throughout your life. Always have a plan
B.

All vehicles have spare tyres; have a spare plan in

your life.
69. FORGIVE THOSE WHO HURT YOU

„Forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who

trespass against us‟, is a line from the Lord‟s
Prayer. If you want to move forward, you must
let go those that have hurt you and caused you
pains in the past. The bitter truth is that you hurt
yourself more when you don‟t forgive and that
can likely limit you from achieving success in life.

On your journey to success, people must surely

hurt you; they will offend you to make you lose
focus on your goal. But will you allow that affect
you? Just look at what they do to you and smile.
Even Jesus Christ forgave the people he came to
save after everything they did to him.

Learn to forgive and forget. Stay focus on your

quest for success.
70. YOU CANNOT DO IT ALONE

If you want to go far in life, just apply these

principles but if you want to go „very very‟ far, go
with God. The supernatural controls the natural
and everything you are looking for in life can be
achieved with less stress when God is by your side.

He said, „I wish above all things that you may

prosper‟. He too wants you to be successful, walk
with him and surely you will achieve success.

Always have it at the back of your mind that your

strength will fail you. Let God be the captain of
your life and you will sail safely. Always put your
trust in him and he will surely surprise you.
 FINAL NOTE

Hope you enjoyed yourself while going through

the 70 PUSH-UPS FOR SUCCESS. I believe
when you apply these principles in your life,
success will be knocking at your door.

Go through it again and again to keep the fire

burning in you. I believe in you and I will be
waiting for you at the top. You must succeed.

Always remember that your SUCCESS in life is

directly proportional to your SMART WORK.

If you need counselling, feel free to contact me

anytime.

Thank you for reading.

LIVINGSTONE IMONITIE
(ALWAYS READY TO SERVE)
 ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Livingstone Imonitie popularly known as

„STONE‟ is a writer, a blogger and a public
speaker. He is an undergraduate studying Civil
Engineering in the University of Benin
(UNIBEN), Edo State, Nigeria.

He is from Edo State but was born and brought

up in the Ancient city of Kano into the family of
Chief and Mrs. Sunny Imonitie. He is the first son
and has three other siblings.

He is the founder of Imonitie Empire, a platform

that motivates, inspire and teach young people
around the world. He has spoken in various
gathering and written different articles which is
been posted on his blog,
www.imonitielivingstone.wordpress.com and his
facebook page,
www.facebook.com/ImonitieEmpire

He has written articles for Newman‟s Kiddies

Club, Uniben Campus Villa, The Parrot and other
similar plat form. He was the best student speaker
at OPEN MIC BY GOODNEWS 2017.

Livingstone Imonitie is actively involved in

student politics and has held different political
positions from his departmental level, faculty
level and even at the Students‟ Union
Government (SUG) level where he served as the
Chairman of the Academics and Exams Ethics
Committee in 2015/2016 session.
He is a young man whose goal in life is to make
changes and impact lives all over the world
through writing and speaking.

He can be reached on +234 810 606 8693,

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