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Table of Contents
Chapter One 9
e Femme Fatale 9
Who Is the Femme Fatale? 9
Becoming a Mystery 12
e Shadow Self 14
Tapping Into Your Sexuality 18
Some Points to Remember 22
Chapter Two 24
e Feminine Energies 24
What Even Is Dark and Light Femininity? 24
Have You Tapped into Your Dark Feminine Energy? 26
How to Embrace Your Feminine Energy 27
e Feminine Types roughout History 32
Shadow Work and Dark Femininity 35
Chapter ree 40
Entering a New Era 40
Self-Understanding and Awareness 40
Discovering and De ning Your Core Values 42
e Power of Visualization and Manifestation 45
Positive A rmations 46
Break Your Goals Down 48
You Need to Be Sel sh 50
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Chapter Four 57
e Femme Fatale and Men 57
How Does the Femme Fatale Treat Men? 57
Manipulative Power 58
Emotional and Physical Detachment 61
Steps to Becoming More Sexually Con dent 63
Chapter Five 68
e Art of Seduction 68
What Actually Is Seduction? 68
What Causes Obsession? 69
e Rules of Seduction 70
Di erent Types of Men—How to Seduce Each 81
Chapter Six: 88
Healing After a Breakup 88
Steps to Get Over Him and to Be a Better You 88
When He Comes Back 89
Conclusion 92
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Introduction
When I was younger I was blissfully unaware how the
world really worked. I had been in 4 relationships thus far
and in each one I was cheated on, betrayed and lied to.
(Only nding out the truth years later after being gaslit into
thinking I was the problem).
I had rarely, if ever been called beautiful. My friends
would exclude me, and when I got sad about it, they would
say that I was being sensitive. My exes called me needy,
and in my romantic life, I would depend on men to validate
me.
All I wanted was to be popular, sensual, and con dent,
but I had no clue where to start. I tried manifestation, but my
limiting beliefs made sure that didn’t work. I would compare
myself to models and the perfect women on social media,
only making myself feel worse and worse.
And that’s when I met her.
I was working 2 jobs, just trying to keep my sanity. But
when she walked into the even hall and everyone would
look at her. I felt electri ed. Magnetised. It wasn’t her looks,
weight, height or age that impressed everyone… because
even back then I was prettier, thinner and younger than her
but it was the way she carried her self. The unexplainable
magnetism everyone felt from her just entering the room.
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It was like nothing I had ever witnessed before. After she
left, I saw myself in a re ection… and what I saw was the
complete opposite. Messy hair, bad makeup, irritated skin,
sleepless eyes and a broken heart. Compared to her… I was
a train wreck.
But my ego was too big, I gured she must have been
born into some rich old money family and was just naturally
like that because of it. Must be nice, I said.
Until the girl next to me said that she was speaking at this
very event about how she escaped poverty and became a
‘Femme Fatale’.
“Femme Fatale?"
“What’s that?” I said.
And that’s how my journey started.
Without that faithful encounter I don’t think I could ever
imagine even 1% of the wild things I’ve done and
experienced. My entire life became a literal Wattpad story
practically overnight.
I read books, paid for courses, mentorship, therapy,
crystals, psychic readings quite literally everything under the
sun sis. And every day I manifested the life I saw on that
stage into my own. And slowly but surely… all the things I
was learning and putting into practice started paying o .
I nally got a job o er for a high level position and I could
nally quit those 2 awful service jobs. I started getting
approached by insanely high value men which I thought
were completely out of my league before (I’m talking tall,
handsome and rich as f*ck).
By the time I realized how potent my seductive charm
was I had multi millionaire CEO’s wrapped around my nger
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blowing up my phone for just a minute of my attention (and
I’m not even gonna begin talking about my exes or anyone
who knew my old self and how they treat me now).
That’s when I knew I had to dial it back a little and re-
evaluate my goals in life and what truly made me happy. The
money I earned from my high paying job and the endless
gifts I received helped me buy a new house for my mom, so
she could move out of that cramped roach lled basement
we used to call out home.
I got my dream skyscraper apartment with a view of the
entire NYC skyline. And that was just the beginning of it.
From traveling rst class across the globe (often times in
private jets even), going to exclusive fashion events only
available for the ultra wealthy, meeting with literal royalty
and so much more.
All whilst having men (sometimes even women) which all
looked like they came from a Hollywood movie all be
messaging me… me… the lonely broken hearted lover girl
who grew up on food stamps and was working 2 jobs at the
same time just 2-3 years ago…
You would not believe the amount of change you can
achieve in your life in just 1 month after learning what it
means to become a modern “Femme Fatale”… let alone a
year or two lol.
And this applies to anything you want to achieve in life. In
my case it was wealth and romance but for you it could be
repairing an existing relationship, or getting a little bit of
extra income, con dence or even something as simple as
making your life less boring and to start really feeling like the
main character.
You gain all of this and a LOT more by discovering how to
awaken your dark femininity that’s been dormant inside of
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you. Maybe you’ve even felt it before? It’s longing to be set
free and master the science of obsession, manipulation,
power, sexuality & everything else…
Because learning how to seduce, manipulate and
conquer isn’t just to teach you how to destroy men. It also
protects you from being hurt by them. If you don’t want to
annihilate a man, reading this course book will teach you
how to avoid them being able to annihilate you. Depriving
yourself of this awareness will only hinder you even if you
choose not to use it, knowledge is power.
Lastly, you can’t wait any longer. Time is ticking, not just
for you but for everyone and the world as whole. You have a
limited amount of time to make use of this rare opportunity
to explode your health, wealth and love and become
nancially independent so nobody (not even a country) can
hold you (or your loved ones) down.
You can go anywhere and do anything.
That’s the freedom the Femme Fatale unlocks.
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Chapter One
The Femme Fatale
Who Is the Femme Fatale?

The femme fatale is appealing to both the male and
female gaze. Men nd her sexy, seductive, and mysterious.
Women want to be her. She is simply irresistible, grabbing
your attention from the moment she walks into the room.
When people get in her way, she brushes past them without
a second thought. She gets what she wants and doesn’t
change for anyone.
It can be tempting to want to jump right into nding a
male target and getting on with your pursuits, but you need
to start by understanding who the femme fatale traditionally
is. Who you are going to become. How does she act? How
does she treat others? What does she think of herself? How
can you apply this to yourself?
The term “femme fatale” is thrown around a lot these
days, but the original French phrase means “lethal woman,”
or “deadly woman,” and in some translations means
“destructive woman.” This archetype has been popularized
in lm and literature but is, frankly, highly intriguing for many
women in real life. She is known for leading a man who falls
for her to his demise. These femme fatale types who rst
graced the silver screens in the lm noir era were the rst
independent, strong, and intelligent women to be depicted
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in media. But even outside of lm, these women are
fascinating. Despite just being obviously beautiful and
sexually alluring, these women are empowered and make no
apologies for being themselves.
A traditionally depicted femme fatale works to achieve
her hidden goals by wielding her femininity, beauty,
sexuality, and charm to get what she wants. While she may
hide her true intentions, not every femme fatale uses lies to
manipulate. Instead, she uses her feminine powers to
disguise her true intentions. The femme fatale is mysterious.
She is sexually attractive, and magnetic. She knows her
power, and she doesn’t make herself smaller for anyone.
All of these traits sound nice, but what would this look
like in a modern-day femme fatale?
✤ A femme fatale wears whatever she feels like:

Whatever makes her feel empowered, whatever makes
her feel sexy, and whatever she likes draped over her
body is what she will be wearing. Some women feel
empowered in sky-high stilettos and mini-dresses.
Other women prefer jeans and a T-shirt. Who is anyone
else to say otherwise?
✤ She is mysterious: The femme fatale doesn’t tell

strangers her life story the rst time she meets them.
She is not always readily available for others, she
doesn’t share her whole life on social media, and she
is often unpredictable.
✤ She couldn’t care less about what others think of

her: It could be the best and most decadent chocolate
in the world, and someone still won’t like chocolate. A
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femme fatale lives her life with these same beliefs, puts
on her red lipstick, and gets on with her life.
✤ She makes time for herself: In a world where life

takes the steering wheel and seems to drive us
through our days, the femme fatale carves out time to
treat herself. She knows that she is worth it and takes
pride in taking care of herself. She reads for herself,
lls in her eyebrows, and takes workout classes
because she wants to.
✤ She handles hard questions with ease and grace:

The femme fatale doesn’t react to tough questions.
She holds in her emotions and responds instead. This
is done with care and thought, not ever o ering the
other person something to use against her.
✤ A femme fatale has no time for anyone’s bullshit: If

you are wasting her time, she will let you know. If you
are lying through your teeth, she will call you out on it.
✤ She owns her sexuality: A woman is a sexual being,

and a femme fatale uses this to her advantage. She
doesn’t care if you feel intimidated or uncomfortable;
it’s not her problem. Women are always being shamed
for what they do—if she embraces her sexuality, that
means she’s a whore; if she doesn’t, then she’s a
prude. The femme fatale brushes all of these opinions
away and embraces her sexuality with grace and
con dence.
✤ She doesn’t care whether or not she has a man:

She only has time for those who add value to her life,
and the same goes for sexual and romantic partners. If
a man doesn’t accept her for who she is or doesn’t see
her as equal, then she will drop him and move on with
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her life. The femme fatale knows her value and will not
settle for a man who gives her less than she deserves.
Some modern examples of the femme fatale persona in

lms include Black Widow, Xenia Onatopp in GoldenEye,
and Alex Forrest in Fatal Attraction.
Becoming a Mystery
Being mysterious is a key component in becoming a
femme fatale. She is not easy to read or understand. She
keeps people guessing. She is unpredictable, and she
separates her actions from those of the herd. Our brains are
wired to crave safety and stability. So when someone
comes across a femme fatale who cannot be understood,
the brain works even harder to try and nd out what is
happening. That is the real reason why mystery is so
e ective. This unknown makes people obsessed with trying
to gure it out. The imagination will begin to run wild, and
the femme fatale will take up a large portion of people’s
minds once again.
Becoming a mystery is highly important in becoming the
femme fatale you have always dreamed about, but it also
works to protect your peace. When people know that you
don’t tell your secrets and that your private life is actually
private, they will respect those boundaries. In our modern
world, it is seen as normal to share and post highlights of
your life every day, but this greatly impacts mental health,
and rather than making you interesting, it makes you easy to
understand.
You’re probably dying to know whether or not you are
mysterious. You might be shy, but when you get
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comfortable, you end up oversharing. You might not post
much on social media, but after someone meets you for the
rst time, they leave knowing pretty much every detail of
your life. Below are some traits of the mysterious femme
fatale. Use them as road maps to become more mysterious
to others.
✤ The femme fatale is not always readily available:

She is not always saying yes to please others. She has
time for others… sometimes. The femme fatale also
doesn’t give excuses for not being available and leaves
people wondering what she does with her time.
✤ Post and talk less: In a group setting, she is not

necessarily the loudest or most talkative, even if she is
often the center of attention. She also doesn’t post
very often on her social media, but when she does,
you can expect it to be good.
✤ She doesn’t steer the conversation to be about

herself: She asks other people questions, she focuses
on what others are saying, and she doesn’t reveal all
that much about herself. She has discovered that
people really like to talk about themselves, and she is
happy to keep it that way. Then, when she leaves,
people will notice that they didn’t learn much about
her, leaving them always wanting more.
✤ The femme fatale doesn’t show o : Con dence is

often mistaken for showing o , but the femme fatale
does not do this. While she may hold her head high,
she keeps her talents and skills close to her chest.
When she eventually shares one, it will leave others
confused about where it came from and if she has any
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other skills. While a lot of people like to pu up their
chests and show the world what they are capable of,
what their success looks like, and just what they have
done with their lives, the femme fatale keeps people
guessing. However, she lets people speak highly of
her. Word naturally gets around about her
accomplishments, but she never has to brag about
what she has done and can do.
✤ She is independent and is strategically absent: The

femme fatale doesn’t depend on anyone for anything.
She is self-validating, and she can spend time alone
with ease. When she goes somewhere, she leaves
people wondering about her intentions and abilities.
She will even take periods of absence from the lives of
others, disappearing from the public eye, her friends,
and her family for short periods. No one knows why
she does this or where she goes. But when she
reappears, she is always better and healthier than
ever.
✤ She keeps secrets: Not only her own secrets but the
secrets of others are all safe with the femme fatale.
Where so many people are untrustworthy and loose-
lipped, the femme fatale locks everything away. People
never know how much she actually knows, and they
will never be aware of the secrets she holds. This
works to drive everyone around her crazy trying to nd
out her secrets.
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e Shadow Self
It might sound a little intimidating, however, the shadow
self simply refers to the part of yourself that is hidden from
outside view. These parts of yourself might not be your
favorites, they might be shame, guilt, fear, doubt, and anger.
But the good news here is that by learning to embrace these
aspects of yourself, you will be able to live a more balanced
and whole life. Even further, by hinting to others about this
hidden darkness within you, you will be able to increase that
mysterious nature we talked about earlier. Embracing rather
than running away from this darkness makes you more
powerful than those around you always trying to be perfect.
The shadow self is a piece of stepping into your dark
feminine energy and is the reason why the dark feminine
femme fatale is so alluring. Those who are able to connect
with their shadow selves and show glimpses of this to the
outside world will build mystery and exhilaration around
their lives. So many are afraid to unlock this piece of
themselves, and others may even become jealous of your
strength and divine power.
In order to embrace your shadow self, you can take real
steps in your daily life. It will not come overnight, but with
time and practice.
1. Your observance is key:

The most basic piece of shadow work is becoming aware
of the parts of yourself that you have hidden from for so
long. It is time to bring the darkness to light through
curiosity, observance, and intentional searching. You
need to be aware of patterns that keep popping up
throughout your life and witness your thoughts. This way,
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you will be able to see where, how, and when your
shadow self is in uencing you.
2. Stop being so judgemental of yourself:

You will be tapping into hidden pieces of yourself that
most people actively avoid their whole lives. This is a
learning process of becoming a nonjudgmental viewer of
your shadow self. When you experience a shadow
in uence or emotion, you need to allow yourself to go
through the experience without judging yourself. This is
healing work, and judgment only hinders the healing
aspect of actively unlocking your shadow self.
3. Try working with a professional:

Any deep inner healing can be aided in tremendous ways
by consulting a professional. It can be hard to move what
is in your subconscious into your consciousness, but
someone with trained experience can o er further tips
and strategies for your personal experiences.
4. Meditate:
Meditation comes in all di erent styles and shapes.
Where mind-clearing meditation is helpful for certain
things, insight-driven meditation practices are helpful for
building self-awareness. Insight can be practiced by
following where your thoughts lead, rather than clearing
them away, observing where your mind naturally wonders
in times of silence. This develops a deeper connection
with your shadow emotions and taps into your
subconscious. Set a goal of clearing your thoughts and
sitting still for just 1 minute every day for a month and
you will see the tremendous di erence.
5. Learn to label your emotions and experiences:

Knowing what to call your emotions is where the true
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understanding of your shadow self begins to thrive.
Observance and understanding are separate things that
need to both be practiced and strengthened. If you feel
sad, push further. What kind of sadness are you feeling?
Is it loneliness, depletion, hopelessness, or maybe
exhaustion? Where is this sadness coming from? The
more detailed you get, the better.
6. It’s time to dig deep with precision:

Asking yourself speci c questions and journaling your
thoughts that follow can be another great way of tapping
into your hidden self. You are becoming a witness to your
shadow, not becoming her, so here are some questions
to press further:
✤ What thoughts and emotions are taking up a majority

of the space in your head? Are they thoughts of a
relationship? Thoughts of a situation or interaction? Or
maybe thoughts and worries about the future?
✤ When you were younger, were you allowed to feel and

express your shadow emotions? Or were you judged
and shamed for these feelings? How do you think this
a ects you today?
✤ Have you been met with aggression and judgment for

expressing your emotions in a past relationship? How
did this experience change you?
When tapping into your shadow self, it is important to not

let this piece of yourself take over. Glimmers of your shadow
are what you are striving for. Be sure to only reveal glimpses
of this part of yourself when appropriate. This darkness is to
be used as a power, not as something for every situation.
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Remembering that your shadow self is to be wielded as a
tool to intrigue people, not scare them, is where you will nd
your true strength.
Tapping Into Your Sexuality

For so long, feminine sexuality has been something that
people shame and regulate. It was in the hands of others,
and women just had to deal with it, hide, and cover up any
ounce of sexuality. But today, more and more women are
nding the power of their sexuality, not only what it can get
them, but what it can do for their con dence.
A lot of people will say that telling a woman she has
power in her sexuality immediately objecti es her. However,
when she is in control of how she appears to others, then
she has taken it into her own hands. The femme fatale is
often most remembered and remarked upon for her
magnetism and sexuality— but this is just the surface. She
is sexy, she is con dent, and she is irresistible, but she is
also completely in control.
Sex appeal has a lot less to do with your face, body, and
physical appearance than people tend to think. In fact, most
of the power of your sexuality lies in how you feel. When
you feel good and are connected to your sexuality, you will
naturally be more magnetic. This is one of the biggest
reasons why so many women can’t seem to tap into their
sexuality, because they associate sex with feelings of guilt
and shame.
Even further, a lot of people will try and tell you that
sexuality and feminine power are something that you have
to be born with, but I completely disagree. Actually, I am
living proof that this is not true. I used to be so afraid of my
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own sexuality. I was socially anxious and never con dent
around the men in my life. I used to feel like I wasn’t allowed
to be sexual, but in fact, I had everything I needed in order
to become sexually con dent. I just didn’t know how to use
it. Stepping into this sexual con dence and using your
divinely feminine powers to your advantage is a key aspect
of tapping into your dark femininity, something that we will
cover more in the next chapter.
Sex appeal is like a shade of red lipstick. It will look
di erent on every woman. While some may feel like they
were born to be sexual beings, others may have a harder
time. But this is something that you will be able to develop
with time and practice because it is not a trait that anyone is
born with. Below are some ways that I have been able to
develop my sexual con dence, appeal, and magnetism:
1. Do what you please: This doesn’t need to necessarily be

sexual. In fact, most of the time, it will not be. When you
take time for yourself to do what you want, you will be
able to take back other aspects of your life, including
your sexuality.
2. Mirror work: Mirror work is a strategy created by Louise

Hay in her book Mirror Work: 21 Days to Heal Your Life.
She outlines how Mirror Work can be used as a way to
dive deeper into your subconscious and personal beliefs.
All you need is a bit of time and a mirror. Mirror work can
be anything from positive a rmations in the mirror to
looking at each of your beautifully feminine features
without judgment. You could dance naked in front of your
mirror or even talk to yourself as if you were talking to a
friend. Allow yourself to be sexual for yourself rst,
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reinforcing your power through positive a rmations and
words.
3. Know yourself rst: The femme fatale not only appears

sexually appealing, but she is in control of her pleasure as
well. She knows what she wants, and she knows her
body. So it’s time for you to invest in something that will
help deepen your self-understanding, pleasure, and love
—a vibrator. A good sex toy will help you explore your
body and gure out what sensations you like before you
put that pressure on a sexual partner. When you know
what you want, you will be able to communicate that to
others.
4. Eye contact and carefully chosen words: Again, sex

appeal and magnetism aren’t all about sex. Every word
counts, and when you respond with the right words,
without breaking eye contact, people will automatically
begin to view you as more powerful, sexy, and con dent.
Slow down your speech and never be the one to break
eye contact, and the sexual tension will shoot through the
roof.
5. Wear lingerie for yourself: It is important that you feel

sexy for yourself before you can feel sexy for a partner.
So whether or not you have a lover, go out and buy
yourself some sexy lingerie, whatever you feel
comfortable and con dent in! We often believe that sexy
underwear is only for women with partners, but the reality
is that what you wear under your clothes can be just as
impactful as what clothes you show the world.
Undergarments have the power to completely change the
way you think of yourself. And you can walk around all
day a little more con dent and mysterious because you
are wearing a secret that no one else will see.
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6. Capitalize on what you love about yourself: No matter
how uncomfortable you are in your body, there is always
something that you like about yourself. Maybe you love
your eyes. If so, bring attention to them with bold makeup
and eyeliner looks. Or maybe your breasts are your
favorite feature, so shift your wardrobe to enhance their
appearance. The same principles apply to any body part.
Showing these parts of yourself will work to boost your
self-con dence and channel your sexual energy and
power.
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Questions and Prompts for Your Personal
Empowerment Notebook
1. Is there a femme fatale in your life, social media, or lm
who you look up to? What are her most intriguing traits?
2. Describe your ideal self, con dence, money, success,

etc. Does this match the description of the femme fatale
persona?
3. What femme fatale traits do you already possess? Which

ones do you need to practice?
4. Do you feel like you are already a mysterious person? Or

would you describe yourself as an open book?
5. Were you previously aware of your shadow self? How are

you going to move forward in tapping into this hidden
part of your being?
6. Do you feel like you own your sexuality at this very

moment?
7. What are some things you already do to tap into your

divine feminine sexuality?
Some Points to Remember

The femme fatale is a woman who owns her sexuality,
life, and choices. She is magnetic to men and women, and
no one can seem to gure her out. This feminine archetype
was rst explored in the lm noir era and has been
channeled by actresses, women, and characters throughout
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the decades. She is sexy, seductive, bold, and focuses on
herself. However, creating mystery around yourself is the
rst step in becoming a femme fatale. Never reveal too
much; always leave them guessing, and in turn, they will be
obsessed with you. From there, exploring your shadow self
and tapping into your sexuality is where it is at. These skills
are learned and developed, not something you are born
with.
Knowing the details of the femme fatale persona is just

the rst step in becoming the new and highest version of
yourself. From here, you must learn to tap into your raw
femininity. Feminine energies are not all the same, and
stepping into each requires di erent knowledge and skills.
In the next chapter, we will explore this power that you were
born with and how you can use it to your advantage.
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Chapter Two
The Feminine Energies
What Even Is Dark and Light Femininity?
When you hear the term “feminine energy” what comes to
mind? Maybe words like light, airy, sweet, sensual, and soft
are what you associate with femininity. To be feminine
means to be patient, kind, empathetic, and gentle… right?
In reality, this is not completely true. These qualities are just
one side of the full picture of femininity. It’s not just about
looks or sex. It’s about embracing all aspects of yourself
and releasing your bottled-up feelings. Feminine energy also
means to be free, unbound by rules, liberal, and to play with
desires.
Light femininity is connected to grace, emotion,
forgiveness, empathy, purity, intuition, and nurturing
abilities. A woman who is in touch with her light femininity is
often seen as innocent and conventionally attractive. She is
also often portrayed as the lead love interest, the damsel in
distress, or the motherly gure in lms and other media. The
femme fatale knows how to use this energy, but she also
knows that feminine energy goes even deeper than this.
While light feminine energy is very prevalent in media and
feminine depictions, there is always a dark side to
something. Dark feminine energy is often associated with
bad whereas light feminine energy is associated with good.
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Just as with most things in life, it is not as simple as that.
The divine feminine (or feminine energy) is half-light and
half-dark, meaning you need to be able to embrace both.
This is something the femme fatale has mastered. The dark
feminine isn’t necessarily just your shadow self; rather she is
the transformation that is womanhood. She is magnetic,
erce, ery, seductive, powerful, creative, passionate, and
she is mysterious.
Light femininity has been on the rise, and embracing it
has been far more acceptable than embracing dark
femininity. There are multiple reasons for this. The world
around us has convinced us that dark femininity is a bad or
innately evil thing. Dark femininity pushes women and the
world around them to transform with the times. It
encourages female pleasure and bene t, and people really
don’t seem to like that.
The world thinks that channeling this dark feminine
energy will transform you for the worse—that it will make
you stoic, cold, and sinful. This is simply not true. Using the
power of your dark femininity means diving into your past,
connecting with your highest self, and controlling every
aspect of your life and emotions. A woman who knows how
to channel her dark feminine energy uses her hurt and
emotions to push her to further success.
As women, we are taught to hide our sexuality, bury our
anger, and diminish our power all because it is not ladylike.
A lot of women run from this side of themselves because
these traits are often associated with masculinity, but the
dark feminine challenges that. When used properly, this
energy creates liberation, power, beauty, and strength.
Where untamed dark feminine energy can lead to
complications, wielded dark femininity creates freedom.
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Have You Tapped into Your Dark Feminine Energy?
It’s time to gauge how far you have already allowed
yourself to explore your dark feminine energy. Dark
femininity is about transforming who you are and how to
experience the outside world from the inside out. Below are
some questions to ask yourself to see if you are pushing
aside this aspect of your femininity:
1. Are you dependent on the approval of others?
2. Do you experience a large amount of shame and self-

doubt?
3. Have you found yourself wanting to step into your

sexuality and seduction but can’t seem to do so?
4. Do you struggle with repressed trauma or feelings of

desire?
5. Are you generally insecure?
6. Do you feel like you can’t control your emotions and

how you react to external stressors?
7. Are you unable to sustain a rming relationships and

nd yourself losing friends quickly?
8. Do you struggle to express your needs?
If you answered “yes” to some of these questions, then

your dark feminine energy has not yet been harnessed. But
you are not the only one to have these struggles, we have all
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been there. I never felt like I could approach a guy rst, and
for so many years, I felt uncomfortable in my own skin. If
you feel like this, then tapping into your dark femininity is
the cure. This is not foreign energy that you need to search
for. It is discovered when you strip down to your purest and
rawest form.
How to Embrace Your Feminine Energy

It can feel uncomfortable to reconnect with your feminine
energies, especially if you have pushed them aside for a
long time. Here you are aiming to become a divine woman.
Natural women do not possess this power. They do not
know what is locked inside them. However, divine women
do. You need to connect with all aspects of your femininity
in order to embody a divine woman.
Let’s start with some ways to embrace your light feminine
energy:
✤ Get outside: Feminine energy at the core is about life

and the organic ups and downs of nature. Spending
time outside is a great way of creating balance,
reconnecting with that power, and allowing your mind
to quiet. You could just go for a walk after a long day at
work. Or you could take time to meditate and tap into
that feminine life force each day. It’s all up to you!
✤ Practice small acts of compassion for others: Light

feminine energy thrives o of gentle and positive words
and actions. Compassion is a core piece of our being,
so by practicing small acts daily, you can really work to
connect with this aspect of yourself. Compassion and
kindness don’t need to be anything big, and you need
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to be sure that you aren’t sacri cing yourself for
others. You could compliment a stranger, buy
someone a co ee, or even just o er a smile to
someone you walk by. These small habits will help tie
you to your nature of compassion and even help you
learn to extend that same kindness to yourself.
✤ Practice gentle self-care: Compassion for others is

important, and self-care and kindness are equally as
imperative for embracing your light feminine side.
✤ Activate all of your senses: A majority of our divine

wisdom and power as women is stored in our bodies.
Where masculine energy is not highly connected to the
body and emotions, feminine energy is deeply
intertwined. Trusting our bodies to accept and
understand the messages of our femininity is a key
piece in unlocking and embracing your feminine
energy. Meditation outside, a hot bath, essential oils,
some beautiful music, or even some dark chocolate
can help you connect with your senses. When you are
able to emotionally and spiritually connect with your
body, your feminine energy will begin to ow through
you. Let yourself be truly aware and present each and
every moment of the day, and be sure to take time to
slow down to appreciate the little moments.
✤ Dress up for yourself: Dressing up for an event is

empowering. However, getting glammed up for
yourself and going on a solo date is indescribably
feminine. Taking time for yourself, wearing what you
want, and not caring about what others think of you is
a great way of reconnecting with your light feminine
side. While activewear is super comfy, popping on a
dress, a owy skirt, or even wearing some sexy lingerie
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under your clothes can help channel that inner divine
light femininity from the outside in.
✤ Dance: Once again, it is so important to remember the

connection between the divine and the physical.
Putting on your favorite music and dancing however
you feel is an amazingly empowering way of letting the
feminine energy ow through your whole body. Dance
sexy, jump around or dance naked. Whatever you feel
like!
✤ Try a retreat: There are so many guided retreats

around the world that can help you focus and hone in
on your femininity. Some of the most famous are in
Bali, but wherever you are, yoga, meditation,
empowerment, and breathwork retreats are available.
These are amazing ways of connecting with other
women, focusing on yourself, being in nature, and
quieting your mind all at the same time.
If you are interested in diving deeper into light femininity,

please check out Femme Fatale’s: Divine Light Femininity.
Now, here are some ways you can embrace your dark
feminine side:
✤ Reconnect with your sacred cycle: The dark

feminine thrives on blowing away taboos. And the
menstrual cycle is one of the biggest feminine taboos
ever. The world tries to disconnect us from the power
of our sacred cycles that o er us a great amount of
power. If you have not yet formed a healthy
relationship with your period and feminine cycle, there
is no time like the present. Your cycle connects you to
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Mother Earth, seasons, the moon, and the power of
the natural and divine world. The blood that ows from
you is sacred. Your menstrual cycle is life, and it is
birth. It represents renewal, and it should be respected
rather than shunned. Throughout history, menstrual
blood has been used in sacred rituals and temples.
And women in the past have even bled together to
honor their earthly cycles and the moon. Learning to
work with your menstrual phases and embrace every
aspect of your uid femininity will be just one more
step in tapping into your dark feminine side.
✤ Self-pleasure: In a world that tells women to shut up

and not ask for pleasure, your dark feminine energy is
craving sexual satisfaction. This, however, does not
need to come from a partner. Self-pleasure is simply a
form of self-love. The dark femininity within you needs
to be nurtured, and this is one way you can begin to
reclaim your sexuality. Touching your own body builds
deeper physical and spiritual connections and is a way
of telling yourself that you are worthy of pleasure.
✤ Explore ancient feminine rituals: There are full moon

rituals, new moon rituals, and dark moon rituals. These
ancient rituals have been practiced by people
throughout the ages and all across the globe. These
are practices that symbolize change and renewal. The
dark moon ritual, however, is linked directly with dark
feminine energy. It occurs just a few days before a new
moon and when the night sky goes completely dark,
even though she is still present. You can create your
own dark moon ritual by journaling, spending time
alone or out in nature, engaging with your shadow self,
and even simply releasing emotions and thoughts that
you don’t want coming with you into this new phase.
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✤ Tap into the sacred act of sexual intimacy: Even if
you are not religious, sex is still something to be
viewed as sacred. Our society has recently undergone
a revolution where women were told and convinced
that casual sex was empowering. This got us true
sexual equality with men, or so we were told. This shift
actually had the opposite e ect. Sex is naturally an
intimate act. You and a partner are stripped down to
your barest selves and share in an experience unique
to that moment. When you reach out and take back
the beauty and sacred nature of sex, empowerment
will actually follow. Not just any man can have you, and
you will not accept anything less than true pleasure.
This is an amazing way to tap into your dark femininity
and honor your sexuality in a genuine way.
✤ Use your voice: You are a woman, your energy calls

out to be heard, and you have a voice for a reason. For
so long, we have been told to take poor treatment from
others, to keep our opinions quiet, and to fake orgasm
for the man’s sake. Your dark feminine energy is
screaming to be released, and your voice is an
untapped river of abundance. Speak your mind, tell
people what you need, and don’t let people walk all
over you just because you are a woman. Dark
femininity is strength, power, and re, so it is time to
use your voice to express this.
✤ Tap into your creativity, whatever that means for

you: Creativity is a mode of expression and release. It
doesn’t need to be any form of traditional “art,” and it
surely doesn’t need to be pretty. Don’t overthink it, and
allow yourself to tap into whatever form of natural
creativity speaks to you. This may look like cooking,
writing, dancing, programming, baking, painting, or
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even a DIY project. Dark feminine energy aches to be
released, and creativity is one way you can open the
oodgates.
✤ Practice grounding routines: Meditation, self-care,

and simple daily routines are great ways of recentering
your mind and spirit. When you are balanced and
grounded, you will be able to tap into your dark side in
a deeper manner. This may look like journaling,
practicing sacred feminine rituals, reading, taking a
bath, having a solid morning routine, or even going to
the gym. It’s all up to you and what you think is best!
✤ Stop thinking that femininity and masculinity need

to clash: Dark femininity is not the same as
masculinity, but this does not mean that you do not
possess both energies. Feminine energy will be your
most prominent, but unlocking your true power means
embracing masculine aspects as well. Both energies
should be harnessed, and you have the power to pick
and choose what qualities work best for you.
If you’re interested in learning even more about dark

femininity, feel free to take a look at out Femme Fatale’s:
Mystic Dark Femininity.
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e Feminine Types roughout History
The divine feminine is not something new. Deities and
historical gures, ancient and modern, have been seen
harnessing their uniquely feminine power throughout the
ages. Below are many examples of ancient women and
gures who possess these powers, how they strive to
harness the divine feminine, and what they represent.
✤ The Great Mother as Life: The most ancient and

widely recognized symbol of life, safety, home, love,
creation, and nurturing is a mother. A woman is not
simply subject to the natural world. She has the divine
power to create life and sustain it. Life is innately
feminine energy, and life is power. The Great Mother,
who is depicted as Life, channels light feminine energy.
She is airy, gentle, and nurturing and represents
renewal and birth. Nature mirrors and possesses
feminine energy, and to not recognize the Great Mother
(who is hailed as the highest form of a divine being in
many cultures) would be an injustice.
✤ Kali: This Hindu goddess is often depicted with her

eight arms each bearing a tool of creation, but this is
just one side of the story. When looking closer at the
images of her, these tools are also weapons of
destruction. Kali is a depiction of the divine feminine
being harnessed in both light and dark ways. She is
the bringer of creation, and she is power, the true
wholeness of femininity.
✤ Medusa: Her curse is what she turned into her power.

She used this new dark femininity that she was gifted
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to wreak havoc and destruction upon the men who
gazed predatorily at her. Medusa is often depicted as
evil, but in reality, her dark femininity was simply
untamable, which is what made her dangerous.
✤ Durga: Durga is shown as Mother and Warrior. This

goddess is a symbol of peace and prosperity, but she
is also a depiction of strength. She is seen through
history defeating evil with the strength of her divine
feminine energy, harnessing the light as well as the
dark to better the world.
✤ Isis: Daughter of the sky and the earth deities and wife
to the god of the underworld, she is known to absorb
the powers of most of the goddesses around her. She
played with dark femininity, death, and raw, ery
power, eventually becoming a sort of supreme
goddess.
✤ Tara: Another goddess mostly recognized in

Himalayan regions such as Tibet is considered a high
goddess or more of a female buddha. She is beheld as
the Mother, the goddess of wisdom, universal
compassion, and power. She is another example of
dark femininity due to her captivating and seductive
beauty that works to bring humanity to its knees.
✤ Lilith: She is darkness and death. Femininity is life and

power, but she is also death and despair. Lilith is
known in many religions and ancient cultures as one of
the original demons on earth. She is powerful and
untamed dark femininity, showing that raw dark
feminine energy has been explored since the beginning
of time.
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✤ Inanna: Love, fertility, and war are not three words
people normally put together. However, Inanna is the
embodiment of all three. She has been worshipped by
many cultures and is also associated with beauty,
seduction, sex, and political power.
If you are enticed by any of the modern women listed

below and want to be like them, then dark femininity is your
next step:
✤ Megan Fox
✤ Zoe Kravitz
✤ Angelina Jolie
✤ Demi Lovato
✤ Rihanna
✤ Alexa Demie
✤ Kristen Stewart
Shadow Work and Dark Femininity

Tapping into your divine feminine energy, speci cally,
your dark femininity will take a lot of powerful sensual,
creative, and sexual experiences and energy. Unlocking this
divine power will overtake the harmful aspects of any
masculinity within yourself and literally leave men falling
head over heels for you. This is not only power but a
method of self-healing. Meeting your dark side is a way of
setting boundaries and protecting your heart.
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The shadow self is your subconscious that is hidden from
the outside world, and sometimes even from yourself. We
have touched on the concept of shadow work previously,
but when used in tandem with unlocking dark femininity,
your true power will be unleashed. Connecting with your
shadow means connecting with your dark feminine and,
therefore, becoming divinely feminine. It is very important to
connect with and honor all parts of your femininity. The
divine woman doesn’t let the darkness consume her.
Instead, she uses all of her feminine power. Answer and
journal about the prompts below to explore your shadow,
release repressed emotions, and connect with your dark
femininity:
1. What do you love about yourself? What do you not

love about yourself?
2. What can you do to change your attitude toward the

things you don’t like about yourself?
3. Are you a jealous person? What makes you feel

jealous?
4. What are some emotions that you commonly nd

yourself avoiding?
5. Are there any promises you have made to yourself that

you have broken? Is this a common occurrence?
6. What have you noticed to trigger a downward spiral in

your mental health?
7. Are you comfortable with vulnerability? Where do

these feelings stem from?
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8. Is your inner child hurting? If you could talk to them,
what is one thing you would say?
9. What is something your inner child was deprived of?
10. Is there anything that you are dependent on or

addicted to?
11. Are you a victim of any sort of trauma? Describe and

validate your experience.
12. Is there anyone you need to forgive in order to move

forward with your life?
13. Is there anything that you need to forgive yourself for?
14. Envision your highest self. What are the di erences

between you now and the highest version of you?
15. Is there anything that makes you feel ashamed? What

is something you can do to transform this into power?
Connecting with your shadow will be a long process, but

it is necessary for becoming the femme fatale of your
dreams. You do not need to answer all of these questions
and prompts today or even tomorrow. Take your time, and
let yourself really focus on what you are discovering about
yourself. Therapy and past life work can also be very helpful
in uncovering and processing trauma and the shadows held
within yourself.
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1. Before reading this section, what did you associate
with feminine energy?
2. Now that you have an understanding of the three-

dimensional aspects of the divine feminine, how would
you describe femininity?
3. Have you been shamed for embracing your dark

femininity in the past? If so, how has this a ected you?
4. What dark feminine qualities do you most admire? Will

you be aiming to embrace these?
5. What light feminine traits will you be aiming to

embrace?
6. Are there any ancient or modern women who embrace

the divine feminine who inspire you?
7. How did it feel to search your inner being for the

darkness? Was it scary? Liberating? Empowering?

These energies have been a part of you since you were
born. Light feminine and dark feminine, it is all just a matter
of your focus. A lot of people think that gentle, airy,
motherly, and sensual traits are the only ways to describe
femininity, but this is just one side of the story. All through
history, goddesses and historical women have been
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powerful, seductive, ery, and intelligent. This all comes
from the often untapped dark feminine side of the divine
feminine.
You are about to move into a new era of life. Becoming a

femme fatale requires work, and self-transformation will be
the next step in your journey of reinvention. The next
chapter is all about real steps you can take to become the
woman you have always wanted to be.
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Chapter Three
Entering a New Era
Becoming a femme fatale means entering a new era of
your life. You will need to work a whole lot harder in this
stage of your transformation. You are going to dive deeper,
push more, and ght harder than ever for this new version of
yourself.
Self-Understanding and Awareness

A self-evaluation is in order when it comes to reinventing
yourself. This evaluation will need to be done with outside
eyes and against all personal biases. You will need to be
able to hold yourself accountable in this reinvention
process, and it all starts with stepping back and separating
your emotions from reality. Self-awareness is so important
to the reinvention process because it really means
assessing where you are and what you would like to
achieve. This will rst require you to ask the hard questions
that most of us actively avoid in our lives. In your personal
empowerment notebook, write down and answer these
questions, and be brutally honest with yourself.
✤ Who are you now? Are you happy with where you are
at?
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✤ What are your best (or most attractive) qualities? These
can be physical or personality-wise.
✤ What are your most unattractive qualities?
✤ What are you scared of deep down?
✤ Have you allowed yourself to be vulnerable with others

in the past?
✤ Do you have any bad behaviors that you nd yourself

justifying?
✤ Do you allow yourself to feel and embrace your

emotional side?
✤ How do others describe you?
✤ What do you like most about yourself?
✤ What do you dislike most about yourself?
✤ How have you been a bad partner or friend in the

past?
✤ What is your biggest personal aw?
✤ What is something you most want to better about

yourself?
✤ What is something that you would like to achieve in the

next month? In the next year, three years, ve years,
and ten years?
✤ Who do you want to be at the end of your life? What

steps can you take today to make this happen in the
future?
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These questions will help open your eyes to your current
situation. When you can truthfully answer these without
emotional bias, your reinvention will be based upon a solid
foundation. Knowing your best traits and your worst will give
you a path forward and goals to achieve.
If you are looking for other practices to create deeper
self-understanding and awareness, you can start by trying
meditation and grounding techniques. When you are
grounded and aware of your surroundings, you will naturally
be able to observe yourself better. If you do not know where
you are right now or where you want to go in the future, you
will nd yourself running in circles and making no moves
toward your future. It’s time to focus and get to a whole new
level of self-understanding.
Discovering and De ning Your Core Values

The femme fatale knows herself inside and out. She
knows her past and just how it in uences her life now. She
is aware of her values, and she can change them if she
pleases. In order to become the femme fatale of your
dreams, you will need to start with a bit of self-discovery.
Your values are a set of beliefs and opinions you have
about the world and yourself that in uence the way you see
and interact with the world. Your values, whether you have
been able to identify them or not, de ne the way you live
your life, set goals, and respond to the situations around
you. These core values are what characterize your unique
personality, energy, and power. They are de ned by your
personal experiences and life. However, many of us are not
aware of just how important our values are, or even the fact
that they can change. It is imperative to be aware of these
values because our lives and beliefs are constantly shifting
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with new careers, new relationships, and new experiences.
To get a sense of the top core values, feel free to look at the
list below and rank each on a scale of one to ve. One being
the least important and ve being highly important and
valued in your life.
Ambition Growth Motivation Relationships
Achievement Happiness Open- Reliability

mindedness
A ection Health Resilience
Openness
Authority Humor Risk-taking
Optimism
Creativity Independence Safety
Originality
Curiosity Innovation Security
Passion
Empathy Intellect Spirituality or
Perfection religion
Encouragement Intuition
Personal Stability
Enthusiasm Joy development
Success
Excellence Kindness Performance
Teamwork
Fairness Knowledge Physical well-
being Thankfulness
Family Leadership
Popularity Traditionalism
Friendships Learning
Professionalism Understanding
Flexibility Love
Punctuality Wisdom
Freedom Loyalty
Fun Making a Quality

di erence Recognition
Generosity
Monetary Self-control
success
Service
These values can be applied to any aspect of your life,

whether it be personal, relational, or professional. They may
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even rank di erently depending on the context where you
experience them. But now that you have ranked them from
one to ve, list out the highest-scoring ones. In your
personal empowerment notebook, expand on why you think
your values look like this. Discuss how you see them in your
life. Also, feel free to add any other values that aren’t on the
list that resonate with you.
Take a look at the people you most admire: Our most

de ning and impactful values are often personi ed in the
people we most look up to. When you like something in
someone else, it is typically a value that you hold dear. So,
write down ve people you most admire and who are role
models for your own life. These people could be friends,
relatives, or celebrities. Now expand upon what you
speci cally admire about them. If you wrote down a
colleague or boss, you may include dedication, timeliness,
and perseverance.
Look into your past: To really discover who you are

today, you will need a good understanding of your past. You
may want to spend some time in silence or meditation to
reconnect with your inner child and any hurt you may have
experienced. Try to uncover what experiences shaped
certain values. These experiences have shaped you and
your beliefs and can be positive or negative. However,
human brains are known to be shaped more by negative or
painful experiences, so these memories may be a good
place to start.
Identify a central theme: A lot of people will hold values

that are very similar to each other. You can start nding the
common threads by categorizing your values. For example,
dedication and hard work would be in one category,
whereas fun and happiness would be in another. Finding
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themes in your values will help guide you to your highest
values.
e Power of Visualization and Manifestation

In your e orts of self-reinvention, you need to be able to
clearly see the future that you desire. The femme fatale can
tap into her spirituality, and she trusts herself to know what
is best for her life. It is time that you do too. Manifestation
and visualization help you get to the reality of what you truly
want for yourself and your life. These practices are
grounding and can even help with setting the right goals to
get you where you want to go (but more on goal-setting
later).
Your mind is the most powerful tool that you will ever
possess. The abilities you have been born with are awe-
inspiring, but the imagination is where true magni cence of
the human mind lies. Visualization is the mental practice of
calling something into being in your life. It works in tandem
with the universal law of attraction, which basically means
that what you put out is what you get back. For example, if
you are a genuinely positive person, more positivity will
enter your life. However, if you tend to dwell on the negative,
it will be hard to shift to positivity and call it into your life.
Visualization and manifestation can look like many di erent
practices, including a vision board, positive a rmations,
imagining your dream life, and “I am” statements of your
desires as if they were already your reality.
You can start your visualization practices simply by sitting
and journaling about what you want your life to look like in
the next few years. Describe who you want to be. What job
do you have? Are you in a relationship? Where are you
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living? From these details, you can create a vision board as
a physical reminder to keep up with your pursuits.
The method of taking steps back from your desired end
goal is another great practice. When you can imagine the
life you are striving to manifest, take a step back to see
what got you to this place. Go back a month, a year, or even
two years, until you are in your current situation. This is now
your road map to your dreams. To become a femme fatale,
you need to be able to think about your dreams in a realistic
way. The femme fatale doesn’t sugarcoat anything, and she
surely doesn’t want to be visualizing something for no
reason.
Guided meditation is another great option if you are
looking to start o your manifestation and visualization
journey but aren’t sure how. Meditation practices can help
get you into a mental space where you can really dive into
the depths of your subconscious and dream about the
future. Making this a ritual and listening to a guided
meditation, or meditating on your own, can be very
grounding and help recenter you so you can focus on your
goals with clearer vision.
If you are interested in diving deeper into the practices of
manifestation and just how they can change your life, feel
free to check out my other book Femme Fatale’s:
Manifesting Luxury Lifestyle.
Positive A rmations
Self-esteem can actually be calculated. Low self-esteem
happens when your desired self is very di erent from your
current self. But high self-esteem can be found when your
desired reality and self are similar to who you are now.
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Positive, sexy, and powerful a rmations practiced daily
are one of the best ways to manifest your dream life into
existence and live your dreams sooner than you ever
imagined. In a way, these words can help you to “fake it ’till
you make it.” When your brain believes something, that is
what your reality becomes. So even if you don’t feel these
a rmations now, say them to yourself morning and night, or
even in the mirror, because you will begin to transform the
way you see yourself over time.
The femme fatale believes these words about herself, and
that is a key reason people nd her so magnetic. She is
con dent, powerful, sexy, and mysterious, and she doesn’t
care what others think of her. Below are some examples of
positive and sexy a rmations you can practice in order to
tap into your inner femme fatale:
I am the embodiment of the Divine Feminine.

I am sexy.
I am mysterious.
I radiate con dence wherever I go.
My life is perfect in every aspect.
I am attractive without even trying.
I can get any man I want.
I am powerful.
I’m completely unfazed by the behaviors of the people
around me.
I can change any situation I experience.
I am in complete control of my mind and emotions.
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The world is in awe of my beauty.
I am undoubtedly intriguing to others.
Everything I desire will be my reality.
I am an IT girl.
I am the image of the femme fatale.
I’m intimidating.
I am where I need to be right now and for a reason.
The world is my catwalk.
I am overwhelmed with an extreme love for myself.
I have let go of all negativity, low self-esteem, and self-
hatred.
I get anything I want.
I am the main character of my life.
I am sensual, seductive, and magnetic.
I am the best version of myself right now.
There is not a single man on Earth who can hurt me.
Saying these a rmations (or any other that you can think
of!) will train your subconscious to believe these things
about yourself. Putting this kind of energy out will only work
to make you more sexy, seductive, and powerful.
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Break Your Goals Down
You are reading this book because you are not happy
with where you are in life. But in order to get from point A to
point B, you need goals. Your manifestation and
visualization practices are great methods of diving deep and
seeing your true desires, but you will need a road map to
get going. Dedicating yourself to set goals is the next step
in the personal reinvention phase of becoming a femme
fatale. Goals and actionable steps are two di erent things,
which we will cover. These two things need each other, but
they require di erent steps to move forward.
One of the hardest things about goals is keeping your
eyes on the end goal while focusing on your daily practices.
Your big goal right now is likely to become a powerful
femme fatale who answers to no one. This is something that
you want to accomplish, but how will you do it?
The most e ective way of achieving anything you desire
is by creating di erent levels of goals. There are long-term,
medium-term, and short-term goals, and these are all
necessary for having success in your goal-setting
strategies. Starting big and then breaking down your goals
is the greatest way to ensure you are taking real steps to
attain your end goal.
Start with setting your long-term goals rst. What are you
looking to achieve within the next couple of years? What do
you want your life to look like? Who do you want to be?
These goals will be the foundation which you build your
actionable steps from. It’s totally ne to dream big with your
goals, but just be sure that they are attainable enough to
achieve within a set number of years.
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Now it’s time to move on to your medium-term goals. An
example would be buying a house. Your medium-term goal
could be having a 10 percent deposit saved up within a
certain amount of time. In your self-transformation journey, it
may look like cutting out all the people who were holding
you back in life. Medium-term goals are like milestones on
the way to your long-term goals and will keep you focused
on the big picture while you make daily steps forward.
From here, it is time to focus on your short-term goals.
These are goals that you will be able to achieve very soon.
They act as inspiration and action steps that keep you on
track and moving forward. In your journey to take on the
femme fatale persona, this could look like daily meditation
and manifestation, journaling, weekly yoga, consistent
shadow work practice, or taking personal time each week.
These short-term goals can be anything you want them to
be, just as long as they support your medium-term and
long-term goals. Short-term goals need to be speci c
enough to be measurable. That way you know your
progress and how much more you need to push. They also
need to be attainable and easy to hit in a timely fashion. If
your short-term goals have these characteristics, then you
are bound to be gaining traction and moving toward your
larger aspirations.
The femme fatale doesn’t just set a big goal and spin her
wheels trying to get there. She is careful in her planning,
practices self-improvement daily, and is strategic in
everything she says and does.
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You Need to Be Sel sh
Reinventing yourself does not come without e ort. It
means putting your resources toward your life and investing
in your whole being. Your mind and body are investments,
so it is time to start treating yourself as such. Investing in
yourself means putting resources such as time, money, and
energy toward things that will better you and your future.
The femme fatale lets herself be sel sh, and she doesn’t
apologize to anyone. If this means getting her nails done or
spending extra money on clothes and lingerie, then she
does it. Your femme fatale transformation truly depends on
your ability to take time for yourself and practice what I like
to call “smart sel shness.”
All too often, women are conditioned to invest their
resources into the people around them and the men they
are involved with. While this is not always a bad thing, if
taken too far, it can lead to overcompensation, people-
pleasing, dependency, and neediness. By practicing this
“smart sel shness” you will actively try to avoid these
things. Investing in yourself means that you will not need
validation from others in order to feel good about yourself.
You will value yourself more and stop yourself from jumping
at every opportunity to hang out with a man. Sacri cing your
needs and desires to accommodate a man’s schedule will
become a thing of the past, and working overtime to
impress him will start to feel foreign. You will also avoid the
self-comparison to other women that so many of us struggle
with on a daily basis.
The key here is taking this energy that was previously
used to please others and focusing it on improving your
own life. This will help you to later detach with ease because
you know your value and you respect your own needs rst.
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Investing in yourself will be a roller coaster of an adventure
because it means that you are embarking on the journey of
physically, spiritually, and mentally becoming the femme
fatale you have always dreamed of.
Mental, emotional, and spiritual health is where this
journey of investing in yourself begins. When you are
satis ed and con dent within, it will radiate out to the rest of
the world. Start by identifying what is bad, toxic, and
harmful to you and your life, then eliminate it all. This could
be foods, behaviors, people, or places you frequent. It’s
time to start cutting o people who bring you and your
energy down. They are not good for you in the long run.
Investing in your emotional and mental health can also look
like practicing the positive a rmations discussed earlier in
this chapter. Replacing bad habits with healthy ones is
another massive step forward you can take to transform
yourself. Even further, it’s time to let yourself be picky with
who and what receives your time and attention. Don’t get so
preoccupied with helping others that you forget to help
yourself. Your time is valuable, so start acting like it.
While aura, energy, and attitude are undoubtedly the
most important aspects of the femme fatale’s power and
magnetism, physical appearance also plays a key role.
Pretty privilege exists, and rather than groaning over it, the
femme fatale uses it to her advantage and in her seduction
process. Something to remember here is that you don’t
have to be traditionally beautiful, have a certain look, or
even conform to any modern beauty standard to be
physically attractive. The goal here is to look like you and to
look your best—not like someone else—because that is the
beautiful uniqueness of who you are. When investing in your
physical appearance, you should focus on enhancing what
you already have and who you already are, playing on your
features to be more attractive. This isn’t about being born
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perfect or spending thousands on botox, llers, and plastic
surgery. It’s all about focusing your time and energy on small
details that make big di erences such as white teeth,
attering haircuts, and wearing makeup that suits your
natural beauty.
You will notice that celebrity women who embody the
femme fatale have their own style, however, they are all still
attractive and seductive. So many of them would be
described as polar opposites, such as Alexa Demie and
Marilyn Monroe, but they are equally magnetic. These
physical improvements are all about becoming more you.
Play on your unique features and your natural energy, and
answer to nothing and no one. Below are some practical
steps you can take to begin this process:
✤ Figure out what your face shape is. Heart, oval, long,
round, and square faces all look unique with di erent
hairstyles, makeup techniques, and kinds of jewelry.
✤ Find your skin undertone. This will help you to pick

the right clothes and jewelry to wear to enhance your
looks. Di erent colors will wash you out and swallow
you. Discover what to avoid, and buy only what you
know will look good.
✤ Take care of your teeth. A smile is one of the rst

things people notice about a person, so it’s time to
invest in some good teeth-whitening tools.
✤ Stick to one aesthetic that makes you the most

con dent and comfortable. When you know the style
of clothing that works with your energy, re ne your
closet and shopping to that aesthetic, and stop
following the trends that come and go so often.
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✤ Draw emphasis to your best and favorite features.
Wear clothes and makeup styles that enhance parts of
yourself that you love. If you love your eyes, maybe try
out a bold eyeshadow or eyeliner look. If you love your
lips, invest in some awesome lip colors.
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1. Who are you now, and why do you want to change?
2. Have you been a people pleaser in the past? How are

you going to start acting now that you know investing
in yourself is the femme fatale way?
3. Why do you nd the femme fatale persona so

enticing?
4. What visualization and manifestation practices are you

going to start?
5. What are your long-term, medium-term, and short-

term goals? Feel free to expand as much as you want
on your actionable steps here as well.
6. Have you allowed yourself to be sel sh in the past? Is

this something you are comfortable with?
7. Have you found yourself focusing on your mental,

emotional, or physical investments in the past? How
so?
8. What is one practice of personal investment that you

will start practicing this week?
9. What are your most attractive qualities? How are you

going to play on these?
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The femme fatale needs to be your new life, and this
happens with self-reinvention. It needs to occur inside and
out. Your values are the core of your being, and the femme
fatale persona is con dent in hers. From there, you need to
focus your energy on what you desire and how you are
going to get it. Manifestation, visualization, and active goal
setting is the next step. Then, you need to let yourself be
sel sh and invest your valuable time, money, and energy
into becoming the best version of yourself.
The femme fatale persona develops on the inside and

needs to be a part of your being. But how does a femme
fatale treat a man? It’s time to take this transformative
energy and focus it on the male relationships in your life.
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Chapter Four
The Femme Fatale and Men
How Does the Femme Fatale Treat Men?
To sexual partners, the femme fatale is a prize to be
valued, and if they do not treat her as such, she will not
stand for it. When they are with her, she has them wrapped
around her nger, even if she hasn’t actually done anything
for them. Her lovers and romantic partners often feel lucky
to have her because she is a woman who could have any
man she wants.
The femme fatale will never be one to chase after a man.
She knows her worth; if a man does not see that, then he is
nothing to her. This makes her even more powerful and
secure in herself, but it also entices men more than any
other female archetype. Men love a chase, and if a woman
shows herself as high value and unwilling to fall at his feet,
he loves it. Men love the process of getting what they want.
It makes winning something (or someone) so much more
satisfying. This relates to sex, intimacy, and any other
relationship they can have with a woman. The femme fatale
uses this knowledge to her advantage.
As a woman, and even as a femme fatale, it is just ne to
have one-night stands and sleep with men early on in your
relationship. There is no shame in this, especially if this is
how you tap into your sexual con dence. However, if you
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want a man to fall at your feet and to control him, you will
need to slow things down. The longer it takes for you to
open up or give a man something he wants, the more he will
ght to have you. This also means he will grow even more
attached to you as time progresses. The femme fatale
knows her worth and makes men earn the right to see and
touch her, and she won’t settle for less. She has boundaries
and upholds them, no matter what happens or who asks.
Any man who disrespects these boundaries will be quickly
thrown to the side. Not chasing a man can mean multiple
things. It means not allowing your world, time, and schedule
to revolve around a man. It may mean not texting rst or
o ering to plan dates early in the relationship. It also means
having other options. If a man has not made it o cial with
you, then you do not belong to him. All of these behaviors
will actively force a man to step into his own masculine
energy and prove himself to you.
Natural feminine energy becomes passive around
masculine energy, letting them work and provide. But the
femme fatale and her dark femininity take this to a whole
new level. She knows what she deserves, and she will never
settle for less. This is one sure re way to guarantee that you
will not be needy and dependent on any man. The femme
fatale recognizes her power and will never let herself need a
man more than he needs her. A man is simply an addition to
her life, making it better, not someone who becomes her
whole life. The trick here is that the femme fatale has
detached from the outside world and loves herself, so she
won’t be easily impressed or won over.
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Manipulative Power
The femme fatale archetype is most iconic for her
seductive and manipulative powers and how she a ects the
men around her. The techniques that the classic femme
fatale uses will bring a person to their knees and make any
target man obsessed with her. Manipulation can be used for
good and for bad. If you are looking to make men obsessed
with you to get what you want, I do not view this as a
negative thing. The femme fatale uses her tactics in subtle
ways and always leaves mystery in her wake. This makes
her much more intriguing.
Charm is the way to a man’s heart or at least the key to
controlling it. Actually, charming a snake is very similar to
charming a man. If you can stroke his ego in a way that
makes him feel comfortable and con dent (but not con dent
enough to have you) your e orts will be enhanced.
Con dence, sensual body language, a bit of physical
contact, and irty energy all work to make a man bow down
to you.
The cool thing about the human brain is that it is
predictable. You can do little things to make people naturally
more agreeable with you. The rst is the rule of three yeses.
This is a practice that plays on the fact that it is easier to say
something a second time and a third time than it is for the
rst time. When you decline something, it is easier to say no
a second time than it was the rst time you said it, and the
same thing goes for agreement. If you want someone to
agree to something, try to nonchalantly get them to
physically or verbally agree to three or more things. By the
time you get to what you are actually asking for, they will
associate the conversation with agreeing.
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Another subtle manipulation tactic is to use linking words
to enhance your image of logic. People are more inclined to
believe and agree with someone who they view as logical,
and you can use certain words in conversation to make you
more agreeable. These words include yes (or agreement),
therefore, besides, clearly, obviously, that is why, naturally,
and so on. The more logical your words sound, and the
more con dently you speak, the more people will
unconsciously believe what you are saying.
A choice that doesn’t really give a man a choice is
another very e ective manipulation strategy. If you can o er
him a choice that he gets to make, you are letting his
masculinity feel important. This strokes his ego. But if you
are trying to win him over or get something from him, you
need to be strategic with the options you give him. Make it a
choice that bene ts you either way, or make one option
something he would never rationally choose, which forces
him to the other option. This technique means that you are
completely in control the whole time, even if he thinks he is.
The next tactic plays on natural human curiosity. The
femme fatale is the master of mystery, and this mystery
works extremely well to aid in manipulative techniques. The
human brain is drawn to un nished actions and phrases.
This is why we keep watching TV shows. This is why the
actress who doesn’t disclose much is so enchanting, and
this is why we keep reading a good book. These things
keep us guessing and, thus, interested in continuing. If you
want to trick someone into becoming obsessed with you,
creating mystery around your being is one of your greatest
powers. Leave before anyone else does, let your words trail
o , and don’t give whole or detailed answers when
someone asks you something.
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Flattery is the nal manipulation tactic we will cover, but it
is one that you must use carefully. The femme fatale doesn’t
o er compliments and attery to everyone, and she uses
this strategy on rare occasions. To make a man obsessed
with you, o ering him no compliments, then randomly
admiring something about him will give him butter ies. He
will think about you and the compliment for the rest of the
day, if not longer. Be careful with what compliments you
o er, and don’t go overboard with them. Just as your time
and energy are valuable, so is your appreciation.
Emotional and Physical Detachment

In order to fully tap into your manipulative and seductive
power as a femme fatale, learning to detach from people
and things is a key skill. To be detached means to be
objective, disconnected, or separate. Being detached from
speci c people, manifestations, and things means you will
become more rational. Your seduction and manipulation will
not be tainted by emotions or personal experiences if you
learn the art of detachment. It will allow you to see people
and experiences for what they are, not how you want to see
them. It also works to remove unrealistic expectations.
Learning to become detached also means that you are
not dependent on others, while people will become more
dependent on your rationality and logic. You don’t need
anyone or anything, and people will learn to respect you
more. Even further, detachment can help your goals and
manifestations stay logical and attainable.
Learning to detach from people and things requires four
main steps. These will be discussed below:
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1. Accept it.
It is time to accept the fact that not everything is

meant for you or your life. What is truly meant for you
will come and stay. Anything not meant for you will
disappear. Your happiness and ful llment are in your
hands alone, and it is up to you to take control. Do not
let the actions of others a ect you or your well-being.
Accept that they are on their own journey as well. No
matter how much you want or wish for something or
someone, they can leave at any moment. It is up to
you to accept that this is how life works and you can
keep your head held high no matter what.
2. Release it.
When you accept that only your life is under your

control, it is time for you to release that which you
can’t control. Stop forcing things into existence. If you
can’t have something, then release it into the universe.
Embracing the thought that everything happens for a
reason will make this release so much easier.
Something you can do to practice this release is to

write down on a piece of paper the things you are
trying to force. Then, tear the piece of paper up, throw
it away, or burn it. This is a physical sign of release
and shows your brain that you are no longer going to
ght to control these things.
3. Allow it.
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free from external and internal judgment. Letting
yourself live unrestricted and open to what the
universe has for you will leave you detached and
objective more often than not. When you accept
yourself as you are and allow yourself to express who
you are, you will be far less inclined to people please
and be dependent on others.
4. Physically detach.
Emotional detachment is one thing, but physical

detachment is equally as important. Physical
detachment can mean taking time away from your
partner on a regular basis, practicing alone time, and
not always saying yes to meeting up with friends.
When you let yourself be more physically distant from
others, your value will skyrocket. Your time and energy
are valuable, so make people view it as such.
To physically detach, you can start by listing di erent

people and situations who do not make you feel ful lled.
These are the rst people and experiences you will need to
distance yourself from. Let yourself cancel plans and say no
to these people and show them that you are physically not
available. Then you can move on to other people and
experiences in your life.
Steps to Becoming More Sexually Con dent

Sexual con dence is where it all starts. If you want to
treat men the way a femme fatale does and be respected by
men just as a femme fatale is, con dence in your own
sexuality is the key. However, sexual con dence isn’t really
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something you can will into reality. While believing that you
are con dent in yourself can be helpful, it isn’t the whole
picture.
Sexual con dence is the con dence that you bring with
you into sexual situations. However, it all starts with body
con dence. You are a sexual being, and if you have a poor
body image, your sexual con dence will naturally plummet.
Start addressing your self-image, practice positive
a rmations in the mirror, and even write yourself love
letters. All of these things can improve your view of your
body. Body positivity is great and all, but it is often highly
unrealistic. You aren’t going to feel 100 percent about your
body all the time, even if you are consistently working on
improving your self-esteem. Instead of striving to be happy
about your body all the time, try to aim for body neutrality.
This means that you accept your body no matter how it
looks or how you feel. It is not a good or a bad body ever. It
just exists as your vessel for life and sexual experiences.
Another way to improve sexual con dence is by getting
used to talking openly about sex. This doesn’t mean you
need to tell strangers about your sexual experiences. It just
means that you can communicate desires, needs, and ideas
with your sexual partners. The more normally you can talk
about sex with your friends and partners, the less taboo it
will be. A lot of low sexual con dence can stem from the
fact that we as women are shamed for enjoying sexual
experiences. So, start talking about sex like it’s normal
because it really is!
Accepting compliments with grace and humility is
another little way of boosting your sexuality and con dence
in general. By “accept compliments,” I don’t just mean
saying thank you or smiling politely. I mean that you need to
accept compliments as true to your being. Someone liked
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something about you so much to say something about it, so
you must possess something really special.
An orgasm a day—well, maybe not every day, but
whenever you feel like it. Self-pleasure and exploration are
some of the greatest ways to boost sexual con dence and
decrease sexual dependence. When your orgasms don’t
depend on someone else, you will be less needy and less
likely to sleep with a guy just for pleasure. When you are in
control of your orgasms and sexual pleasure, you will also
know your value more deeply. You deserve good sex. You
deserve pleasure, so let the men around you know that you
really don’t need them. And if you are sleeping with a guy, it
is because you want to, not just for him and not just for
sex.
Finally, it’s about time you start saying “I guess we’ll see.”
When you live your life with this attitude and mystery,
people will consider you with higher levels of respect. You
know your answer, but they don’t, and that is something to
be proud of. Keeping the men in your life guessing if they
will have a chance to see you naked is an amazing way to
boost your sexual con dence. Try it!
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1. What is your current relationship with the men in your
life? Is this how a femme fatale would treat men?
2. How do men tend to see you at this point in your life?

How are you going to change this to channel your
inner femme fatale?
3. What are your goals with manipulation? Who will be

your target? What are you trying to get from them?
4. Do you think that you are currently dependent or

detached? How does this make you feel?
5. What exercises will you begin practicing for emotional

and physical detachment?
6. On a scale of one to ten, how con dent in your

sexuality would you say you are?
7. What strategies will you be using to become more

sexually con dent starting now?

The femme fatale has a unique relationship with men. She
is the object of their fascination, sexual interest, and daily
questioning. She is mysterious, beautiful, ery, and
unpredictable. But these things are only attainable through
detachment, manipulation, and raw sexual con dence.
When a woman possesses these things, she becomes
utterly irresistible, and men will bow down to her.
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Knowing how you will treat men as a femme fatale is
di erent than actually making a man obsessed with you.
The art of seduction takes practice, but the next chapter will
cover in detail just how you can master it.
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Chapter Five
The Art of Seduction
What Actually Is Seduction?
Seduction is the art of persuading someone into doing
something. This often applies to sex and subtle sexual
manipulation but can also mean making a man obsessed
with you or even getting him to fall in love with you. Women
have natural seduction powers, but many don’t feel free to
tap into them. The femme fatale knows her strength, and
she uses it to her advantage. In general, seduction means
getting someone to do something they wouldn’t normally
do.
A seductive woman knows her beauty and combines this
with her knowledge of manipulation to get what she wants.
A lot of people will say that seduction is evil, trickery,
unethical, and sinful. Don’t get me wrong, seduction can
possess these qualities, but at its core, it is about charm,
desire, femininity, and sexual con dence. The word
seduction can have a lot of negative connotations, but
whatever you decide to call it (persuading, wooing,
charming, or winning a man over), the principles are the
same.
When the femme fatale plays on her seductive side, she
starts with desire—not the desire of a man, but her own
desire. She sees what she wants, and she will go after it no
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matter what. Despite the rejection, hurdles, and hard times,
she will persevere. After desire, seduction requires a hell of
a lot of con dence. Sexual con dence, self-con dence, and
generally high self-esteem are required to actually move
forward with the seductive process. Body language is
another imperative aspect of seduction. It embodies your
desire and will be the greatest tool in your pursuits. Without
opening your mouth, you will be able to express your
feelings, and that is a big reason why self-con dence is so
important. The nal piece of the seduction process is
arousal. You need to get the other person to desire you, and
without arousal (mental, physical, or sexual), you will never
persuade them.
Seduction is a form of charm and is one of the most
e ective ways of getting a man to be obsessed with you.
But why would you even want that? The answer is simple:
to get what you want. This could be sex, this could be
money, or this could be various favors. When a man
becomes obsessed with you, he will want to do anything
and everything for you, with you, and to try and please you.
What Causes Obsession?

Love and obsession often feel the same to us. This is
because our brains can’t really di erentiate between the two
feelings. In the long run, someone can pick up on the
di erences, but in the beginning, one may easily mistake
obsession for love. Love is euphoric. It makes us act like
kids, and it makes us susceptible to suggestions.
If someone becomes obsessed with you, it is likely for a
few basic reasons:
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✤ You ll a void in their life.
✤ You appear to be the ideal version of themselves or

their romantic partner.
✤ You awaken parts of their personality they normally

suppress.
Di erent things cause di erent kinds of obsession. Some

men are naturally more predisposed to it. Others may really
enjoy attery. Regardless, all men like having their egos
stroked. When you compliment a man, show a bit of skin,
are mysterious, and never let him get too close, he will keep
thinking about you. This is the start of an obsession. When
you have him in a place where he reaches out more and
more, you are close to having him wrapped around your
nger.
While obsession can be an amazing tool, you need to be
careful not to let it go too far. Unless you want a man to
think about you every second of the day and stalk you, you
need to be very aware of your work. You need to be in a
con dent mental place and be sure you are not vulnerable.
This is why becoming comfortable in your dark femininity
and femme fatale persona is so important. Your shadow will
guide you, and your intuition will let you know if something
isn’t right. You just need to listen.
e Rules of Seduction
To seduce a man, you need to play by their rules, prey on
their weaknesses, and use your femme fatale powers to
your advantage. Any kind of woman can use these
techniques, but when the femme fatale uses them, her
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seductive power becomes unstoppable. Robert Greene’s
The Art of Seduction rst explored these rules; however,
here, I will support them with the dark feminine powers this
book has equipped you with.
Choose the Right Victim

All of your e orts will depend on who your target is. A
mouse would never attack a lion, but a venomous snake
could. You need to survey your potential victim thoroughly,
and you need to know just how susceptible they are to your
pursuits. You will have to know their weaknesses, their
defenses, and their tendencies. A man who is content with
himself and his life will not be a good target. Instead,
choose someone who is vulnerable or who can easily be
made vulnerable. We will cover di erent types of men and
how you can target them later on in this chapter.
O er a False Sense of Security

Don’t jump into your e orts too early or too obviously. By
being too direct, you will likely make a man raise his
defenses, and these rarely ever lower. In the beginning, you
cannot show any bit of the seductive powers you hold.
Instead, it should begin indirectly and from afar so your
target becomes sexually and romantically aware of you
slowly. Just like with a snake, you need to comfort the man
into feeling safe with you, and that is when you strike.
Send Mixed Signals

As soon as your target is aware of your presence and
may be interested in you, you need to keep up that interest
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before it shifts to someone else. Being too obvious about
your own interest is not the way to go. Men love a chase.
They love a puzzle. You will need to tap into your mystery;
be both ethereal and earthly, innocent and sexual, soft and
intense all at di erent times. He will crave you, he will want
to know more, and he will become obsessed with the
thought of you.
Show Yourself as an Object of Desire

It is in our nature to be attracted to things others are
drawn to. Men will not nd you nearly as attractive if other
men don’t nd you attractive. You may not change anything
about your physical appearance or your disposition, but if a
man sees you with someone else, he will automatically see
you as more desirable. You need to show your target that
others are just as hungry for you as they are, if not more.
You are a prize to be won over, even if you are the one trying
to seduce him. He will feel like a winner, and you will be a
point of vanity to him, making you all the more attractive.
Create a Need
A man perfectly satis ed with his life will not be seduced.
Tension and anxiety must be sown into his head for your
pursuits to be e ective. Subtly stirring feelings of
discontent, dissatisfaction, fear, and anxiety will make him
want you more. When a man feels inadequate, you will show
yourself as the answer to his worries. Create a need that
only you can ful ll because these negative feelings are the
catalysts for seeking pleasure.
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The Art of Insinuation
Mastering the art of insinuation is key to not being too
forward with a man. The femme fatale is powerful and ery,
but she also knows when to tone it down. This can be used
in many ways: to show your desire for him, to plant seeds of
anxiety, or even to show your openness to him. If you are
too obvious, his walls will go up and your e orts will be
useless. Conveying your intention to his subconscious is
how you will move forward. O er strong statements that you
follow with an apology, be ambiguous, and shoot him sexy
glances across the room. These are all small and barely
perceptible ways of getting your point across.
Enter Their Spirit

A lot of people, especially men, lock themselves into their
own little worlds. This can make your target hard to
persuade and stubborn. The best way you can lure him out
and practice your seduction is by entering his spirit. You will
need to play by his rules, adapt your attitudes to his moods,
and do what he enjoys. This will stroke his ego and stir up
just the right amount of narcissism. This o ers him safety.
He will not have to ght, react, or worry, and that is when
you will begin true seduction.
Create Temptation
Temptation is one of the greatest lures when it comes to
properly seducing a man. Showing him glimpses of the
pleasure and beauty that is to come without giving him true
satisfaction will drive him crazy. You are the forbidden fruit,
and as soon as he catches the smallest sight of the relief
you can provide, he will nd himself ensnared in your web of
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temptation. Play on his preferences, weaknesses, and
fantasies, but always leave him wanting more of you.
Creating Suspense
Seduction is a spell, and as soon as a man knows what
to expect from you, it loses its power. Creating suspense is
to keep the upper hand and to be the guiding force in the
dance between you. When he is curious about what
happens next, when he is intrigued to know more about
you, and when you leave him wanting more, he will continue
to follow. Spontaneity is fun and desirable for men. Again…
they love a puzzle. You will always be in control of the
situation, one step ahead, and your victim will love it.
Sow Confusion
Men are often too consumed by their thoughts, worries,
and beliefs to care much about what the people around
them are stressing about. The trick to getting a man to listen
is to say exactly what he wants to hear. Fill his senses with
what he nds beautiful and pleasant. This is the true nature
of the language of seduction. Flattery, comfort, sweet
promises, and beautiful words are the ways of enchanting a
man with your lips. This will not only force him to listen, but
will also have him throwing away his e orts to resist you.
Pay Attention to Details

Seduction isn’t in the massive gestures of romance. It is
found in the subtle o ers and the little things you do on a
daily basis. Paying attention to details means mesmerizing
him because he will grow suspicious if you seem to try too
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hard. O er him little cards and gifts that will make him think
of you throughout the day. Keep him distracted, and lull him
nearly to sleep with your subtle care and seductive powers.
Your Presence
Your target needs to feel familiar and comfortable when
he is in your presence. A lot can happen when your target is
alone, and the rst thing that you want to avoid is him being
relieved to be away from you. Cool and controlled reactions,
a comforting presence, and the enjoyable company you
bring to the table will make a man fall for you and want to
be closer to you. Start associating and familiarizing yourself
with poetic energies so you can give o that same energy
when you are around your target.
Strategic Weakness and Vulnerability

Too much cunning can make a man suspicious of your
intentions, so to avoid this, you need to make him feel
stronger and as if he is in charge of the situation. If you
seem head over heels for him, weak, and vulnerable, he will
not even wonder if your actions have hidden goals. This will
make your e orts look far less calculated and more genuine
and natural. Physical signs of weakness such as tears and
being bashful or asking for help on a regular basis can help
create this illusion.
Desire Versus Reality

Daydreaming is a way that many people escape the
monotony of their lives. If you are the one to create an
image around yourself that a man can daydream about, you
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will have him wrapped around your nger. Aim to be the
perfect woman he has always desired, or at least to appear
that way. Play on his wishes, fantasies, and deepest regrets.
Make him confuse reality and desire, and when this
happens, you will successfully have seduced a man into
falling for your illusion.
Isolate Your Victim

Weak victims are the best targets, and isolated people
are weak. Slowly isolating your victim will make him more
vulnerable and dependent on you. Over time, you can bring
him into your environment, your perfectly crafted world, and
separate him from his friends, family, and home. He will feel
a sense of being in constant change and not know what to
do. He will only have you to lean on, and your comfort will
bring him relief. The deepest form of seduction can occur
where nothing is familiar to your target.
Prove Yourself
Surprisingly, a lot of people want to be seduced. It feels
romantic and like a whirlwind of emotions. If someone has
their defenses up or resists your e orts, it is likely because
they are questioning your intentions. They may doubt you
are attracted to them or what you really feel about the
relationship. Small actions can help you prove to them that
you are well-meaning and only want to win them over.
Strategic vulnerability and signs of weakness can help with
this rule of seduction as well.
Regression
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People naturally try to relive and recreate the great
pleasure they experience in their lives. The most intense and
driving pleasure-related memories will stem from childhood
and subconsciously are connected to a parental gure. By
bringing these memories back and diving deep into the
craving of your target, you can position yourself as the
solution and them as the needy and reliant child. If they are
unaware of you doing this, the emotional response this
triggers will have them falling at your feet.
The Taboo
Civilization lives by a long list of social limits regarding
what certain people can and can’t do. This dates back to
the earliest humans, and many of our current taboos can be
traced back centuries. Some are more intense, while others
just de ne what is and is not polite. Humans are naturally
rebellious and want to push the limits to see what they can
get away with. By playing with taboos and social limits, you
will give your target the thrill of stepping out of his comfort
zone. A lot of men crave a taste of the dark side, and the
dark femininity that you channel as a femme fatale can
show them the way. You can take them farther than they
may have ever imagined, which strengthens your target’s
dependency upon you.
Spiritual Lures
Every single person has insecurities. Some are insecure
about their self-worth, some about their body, some about
their success, and others about their sexuality. If you aim to
seduce through physicality and sexuality, your target will
naturally feel self-conscious. If you are the one who can lure
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your target out of his insecurities and into a spiritual self-
awakening, he will associate you with strength, comfort, and
divinity. This spiritual mist you o er will leave him lost in a
space between strength and insecurity. This state will make
him an easier target and far more attached to you. If you
want to take this a step further, you can make your sexual
encounters with him a work of spirituality that appears to be
the union of two souls.
Combine Pleasure and Pain

The worst mistake you can make in your seductive
pursuits is being too nice to your target. In the beginning,
kindness is a charm. It is alluring, and it creates a false
sense of safety. But being too nice can make a man grow
bored with you. It is too monotonous, and he knows exactly
what to expect. You are trying too hard to please him, you
are overly sweet, and it all seems like insecurity. Just like
when you eat a cake that is too sweet, he will want a
change of avor. Rather than o ering too much kindness,
instead, in ict a bit of pain. Turn the tables, and make him
feel insecure, guilty, and anxious. O er a break from each
other, come back with healing, and o er that initial kindness
again. This will keep him on his toes, worried to please you
as well. The lower the lows, the higher the highs. When you
break him a little at a time, he will appreciate the good times
more than ever.
Let Them Chase

If you put in too much e ort as the pursuer, a man will
lose the drive to bring energy to the relationship. The
tension will loosen, and your grip on him will too. You need
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to shake him a little and make him worry he will lose you.
Once you have a man charmed and under your spell, step
away, distance and detach yourself, and watch as he starts
to chase. Show him subtly that you are growing bored and
that you might not stay much longer, and that is when he
will wake up and his interest in you will grow.
Physicality
Physical lures are just as e ective as spiritual ones. A
man who thinks too much will be a di cult target. He will
see through emotional manipulation and develop doubts at
the slightest thing. You need to put his racing mind at ease
and awaken subtle senses and perceptions. While your
relaxed disposition and airy energy make him comfortable,
your voice, eyes, and body language will seep sexuality.
Never force anything physical. Instead, work to raise the
temperature in the room with your sexual tension, and
watch as he melts in the palm of your hand.
Bold Moves
Your victim will not be ready to openly say he desires you
or act on it the moment he does, but you will be able to tell.
This is the time to stop being so gentle, kind, and
chivalrous. Now you need to surprise him with a bold move.
In the early stages of a relationship, one person will have to
play the o ense, and this will be you. Don’t hesitate, and
don’t give him time to think; just go for it.
Be Wary of the E ects
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Possible negative e ects follow successful seduction,
and one must be aware of them. After the initial desires and
emotions have reached their peak, things naturally tend to
drop in the opposite direction. Disappointment, distrust, and
wariness may follow, and you will need to be ready. A
second seduction may be required, and this time, you will
have to ght even harder than before.
Little Things That Cause Seduction

When we think of little things a woman can do to push
her seductive powers to the next level, we often imagine
high heels, miniskirts, and red lipstick. While these things
are awesome, they are not the only helpers in the art of
seduction.
Your eyes are powerful. The way you look at a man can
completely change the way he thinks about you. Something
as simple as a bit of prolonged eye contact can be the
cherry on top of your seductive strategies and make him
obsessed with getting you to look at him like that again. You
could look him up and down a couple of times before
meeting his gaze, driving him absolutely crazy. Even further,
o ering him a light, eeting smile for no reason at all while
looking him in the eyes can be another great trick to use
every now and then. Eyes are the windows to the soul, so
take advantage of this and sneak into his subconscious with
just a few extra steps.
Touch is another tool you need to get comfortable with. A
light brush, a lingering touch, all of it will have him thinking
about you long after your encounter. If you want to
capitalize on this even further, be sure to use your mystery—
never tell too much, and always leave the conversation on a
satisfying and happy note.
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Di erent Types of Men—How to Seduce Each
Di erent men require di erent approaches when being
seduced. This section will cover nine categories of men, one
of which your target is bound to fall under.
The Innocent One

The innocent man will be the easiest type of man to
manipulate and seduce. Their view of the world is vulnerable
and kind. They often see the good in everyone around them.
These men tend to be naive, quiet, submissive, and
obviously vulnerable. To seduce the innocent man, you will
need to avoid acting soft and innocent like him because this
will be the last thing he wants in a woman. Revealing
glimpses of your shadow self, your strength, and your dark
femininity will put you in a place of superiority. You will need
to prey on his weakness and place yourself as the leader of
his life, guiding his decisions and guiding him to further
vulnerability. As soon as you have gotten him to fall for you,
it’s time to bring him into your world of re, strength, and
darkness. From here, he will become dependent and feel
like he can’t move forward in life without you.
The Geek
The men who tend to see everything logically are
classi ed as “the geek.” They are often highly intelligent and
are likely interested in sciences. These men deeply analyze
their situations and very rarely allow emotions to guide their
choices. Society has likely already labeled this kind of man a
“geek” or a “nerd,” and they may be insecure about it. The
rst thing you need to remember with these men is that you
should not try to challenge their intelligence. If you appear
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smarter or try to mentally control the relationship, he will
push you away, and you will never break through his
defenses. The geeks feel intellectually superior to everyone
in their lives, but this can actually become a sort of prison. If
your target man is the geek, you will need to play on the fact
that he is missing excitement and freedom in his life. Let him
dominate you with his smarts, but you need to take the reins
when it comes to life. Be spontaneous, impulsive, and fun,
and bring him amazing life experiences. This will ll the void
he has been looking to replenish for a long time, e ectively
seducing him and creating obsession.
The Cold One

Men who fall under this category are easy to spot. They
keep their guard up and very rarely show their emotional
side. Their friends and family will describe them as tough,
cold, or insensitive. The “cold” men may seem to lack any
vulnerability, but this is all just a way of protecting
themselves as a result of past experiences, trauma, or
feeling like they need to uphold a masculine image. These
kinds of men will take a lot of work, but they are not
impossible to crack. You will need to take time and care to
peel back his defenses, and be sure to keep a rming his
strength and masculinity. O er him praise and attery about
how strong he is, how well he provides, and how logical his
choices are. With men like this, you need to remember to
not be too serious, keeping the relationship fun and playful.
Don’t try and force anything, especially a connection. This
will only make him push you further away.
The moment you see a sliver of an opening in his walls—
this may be a moment of happiness, vulnerability, or even
anger—you will need to make a mental note. These
glimpses of emotions will be your openings to breaking him
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and seducing him completely. Slip into those cracks, and
prey on the openings he accidentally reveals. This is when
your seductive powers will really begin to work.
The Narcissist
Everyone has come across a narcissistic man before.
They are self-absorbed and extremely high-maintenance,
and they seriously believe the world revolves around them.
These men love themselves in the worst ways possible and
annoy everyone around them with their massive egos. The
thing is, they are actually completely dissatis ed with
themselves and their lives. They seek validation through
outside approval, then turn it inward and speak it about
themselves. This means the key to gaining their obsession
is by feeding into their ego. But every so often, stop all of it.
Leave them wondering why they aren’t receiving a rmation
from you, then come right back. This pain-and-pleasure
cycle works on a lot of men, but it is the best strategy to use
with the narcissist. Keep doing this over and over, and you
will bring him to his knees. These men will become addicted
to your praise and approval, and soon enough, they will be
wrapped around your nger. Just be sure that you don’t
overdo it by damaging their ego because, if you go too far,
they will want nothing to do with you. The key is being
subtle: praise, pull away, challenge, and repeat.
The One Who Fears Commitment

I personally love using my seduction techniques the most
on these kinds of men. They are the ones to pull away the
second things get too serious in a relationship, never
wanting to let it get too deep or to get too attached. You can
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pick this man out by noticing a few things: they likely shut
down emotionally and pretend to be nonchalant all the time,
and they don’t seem attached to a single thing in life, rarely
even a job. The number one thing to remember when
seducing this type of man is that everyone wants what they
can’t have. It’s just in our nature. Never discuss the future.
Hide your real intentions, and even try to mirror their casual
nonchalance. He isn’t likely used to women treating him this
way, and you will embed your energy and presence into his
mind. You should never be the one to put a label on your
relationship, and you can even call him a friend. Acting like
this alongside your subtle seduction techniques will make
him enamored with your sensual being and mystery, and he
will start to chase.
The Controlling One

This kind of man wants to dominate every aspect of their
life. They usually feel the need to control everything around
them due to past experiences and childhood vulnerability.
These men are the boyfriends who tell you what to wear,
who to hang out with, and what to do. All of this control
stems from feelings of deep powerlessness. They lack a
sense of security no matter how hard they try to control
everyone and everything, and this will be their ultimate
weakness that you will prey upon. To seduce a man like this,
you need to make him feel like he’s in control, even if he
isn’t. Let him make little decisions, go along with his plans,
and atter his masculinity. Then, after some time, go o the
rails and start pulling the strings in your own life and being
unpredictable. He will become obsessed with trying to gain
control again, and this will keep him coming back to you.
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The Romantic
Another easy man to seduce is the romantic. They are in
love with the idea of being in love and are practically
begging to be seduced. These men seek commitment and
romance, and that is exactly what you will give him. To
seduce a man like this, you need to play into his fantasy and
his greatest desires. They believe love is some fantasy world
they have dreamed of, so you will rst need to discover his
dreams, then play with them. Give him romance, thrills,
adventure, and sweetness. The key is to not let yourself get
too attached because, when he decides he’s too
comfortable or when he messes up, you will need to
become cold and distant. This will make him panic. He
won’t know what happened, and he will crave your old
persona again. He will miss the kindness and the romance
and ght to win you over again, e ectively gaining his
obsession as you repeat this cycle.
The Player
The players are always playing with women like they
might a board game. However, they seek the approval of
everyone around them. They go for top-shelf (at least looks-
wise) women and nd con dence and validation in their
sexual partners. They have multiple partners and nd deep
satisfaction in getting any woman they want. These men like
to keep their options open, will engage in a lot of hookups,
and be intimate with many women at the same time. They
appear hard to tie down, and this is exactly how they view
themselves. The player is fun, irty, the life of the party, and
can come o as a little narcissistic. The key to seducing the
player is to show that you are sensual, fun, and irtatious,
but never give it to him. Playfully insult him, damage his
ego, and make him wonder why he can’t have you. Never let
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him know your next move, and never be the one to chase.
These men want to have power over every woman they
come across, and not getting to you will drive him crazy.
Another strategy to try with these men is to pretend to be
completely innocent and unaware of their intentions. Don’t
give him too much, but let him think he’s in control, when
you are the one actually pulling the strings. If he thinks he’s
controlling the situation, but then you suddenly pull away, he
will freak out and ght to get you back.
The Unappreciated
These men live in their peers’ shadows. They often cope
through comedic relief and can’t seem to gain experience
when it comes to women. These men will be labeled as
sidekicks and rarely have their time to shine. Their deepest
desire is often to be as con dent and good with women as
the player, but they’ve never had the chance. You need to
start slowly with these men. Build trust and make him feel
comfortable. Get to know him. Make him laugh. Give him
attention when you’re in a group setting, and show him
favor over his friends. This will be an entirely new
experience for him, so gaining his attraction and desire will
happen quickly. Don’t be too forceful with it, and feed his
ego just a little at a time. This will make him fall hard and
fast for your sweetness and attery. This is the attention and
validation he has always wanted, and you are the one to ll
that emptiness and, therefore, win over his loyalty and
possible obsession.
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1. Why are you looking to make a man obsessed with
you?
2. Who is your target man?
3. What steps are you going to take daily to utilize the art
of seduction?
4. What are your goals with your target man and your
seductive e orts? Be as detailed as possible for
manifestation and goal-setting purposes.

Seduction, manipulation, and obsession will be your
greatest powers over men as a femme fatale. With the
tactics outlined in this chapter, you can bring any kind of
man to his knees and have him chasing after you.
Seducing men has straightforward steps and techniques,

but what happens when someone breaks up with you? How
can you get your ex back? How can you possibly be a
femme fatale anymore? The next chapter will answer these
questions.
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Chapter Six:
Healing After a Breakup
Going through a breakup is never easy. This relationship
ending may have damaged your con dence, left you feeling
broken, and the loneliness has likely set it. The rst step in
becoming better after a breakup is to focus on yourself and
healing your heart. You need to let yourself be sel sh: go to
the spa, spend money on yourself, and focus on what you
missed about being single. Do everything you couldn’t while
in a relationship, and let yourself slowly heal. You will need
to learn to center your life, schedule, and interests around
you. This is when the self-transformation can happen.
Practicing the reinvention steps to become a femme fatale
works very well at this time.
A mistake many women make is going through a “ho
phase.” A lot of people say that the best way to get over a
man is by getting under another. This may be true for some
women, but never let your emotions lead you to do
something you might regret. A breakup isn’t an excuse to
sleep around. Sexual freedom is one thing, but lowering
your value is something else.
Steps to Get Over Him and to Be a Better You

1. No-contact period: Right after a breakup, break o all
contact with your ex. Seeing his social media or
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getting texts from him will only worsen the hurt. This
will also stop any temptation to call and beg him to
come back.
2. Thirty-day-project reinvention: It’s easy to sit at home

and be sad. So, the rst 30 days after your breakup
need to be “you time.” You will be better inside and
out, and you will soon forget why you thought you
needed a man. This is the time to engage in the
practices listed in this book and become a better you.
3. Start a new hobby: Getting to a better you means

nding new things you love to do. You will have more
free time without a man tying you down, so take
advantage of it.
4. Meditation and a rmation: Centering yourself with

a rmations and meditation is a key step to calming
your mind and gaining clarity during this time.
5. Release your emotions: Bottling up your emotions will

only make the healing process take longer. You need to
release your rage, sadness, and disappointment in
order to become better after a breakup.
6. Take yourself on solo dates: You don’t need a partner

to enjoy dates. This is a great exercise to gain
independence and have a good time.
When He Comes Back

A point in time will come when he comes back to see
how you are doing. This always happens, and if you want to
win him back, now is the time to use your seduction
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techniques. Mirror his behavior, don’t atter too much, and
let him know that you are just ne on your own. You are a
prize that needs to be valued, and if he doesn’t appreciate
that, then he is not the one for you. When he sees your
strength, he will likely begin to chase again, so keep up with
the seductive tactics and self-improvement.
If you are interested in learning more about what to do
after a breakup and how to get your ex back, check out
Femme Fatale’s: Healing After a Breakup.
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1. Why did you go through this breakup in the rst place?
2. What steps will you take to better yourself today?
3. How did you feel about yourself in this relationship?

Were you empowered?
4. What are the best parts of being single again?

Breakups will happen, and they can greatly hurt us and
damage our egos. The reality is that you may not be able to
control the initial breakup, but you can control your reaction.
Becoming a better version of yourself after a breakup will
help you heal and even work to bring your ex back. By
following the steps outlined above, your femme fatale
transformation will ourish and your dark feminine energy
will thrive.
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Conclusion
If you take the steps outlined in this book, unlocking your

powerful dark femininity and becoming the femme fatale of
your dreams will soon be your reality. These tools are here
for you to use and come back to whenever you need.
You have become the master of your feminine energies,
discovered the keys to reinventing yourself, and connected
with your shadow self. Treating men like you are a femme
fatale will be easy after you tap into your feminine power.
Then it is time to master the art of seduction. All of the tools
and rules of obsession and seduction, preying on
weaknesses, and making men bow down to you have been
laid at your feet. It’s time to use them!
You are ready to embark on the journey to becoming the
powerful femme fatale men ght over! Keep up the beautiful
work. Never forget your strength, and remember that the
core of the femme fatale persona is to be unapologetically
you.
Sincerely,
Stacy Del Parr
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You can go anywhere and do anything.

That’s the freedom the Femme Fatale unlocks.

Who Is the Femme Fatale?

✤ A femme fatale wears whatever she feels like:

✤ She is mysterious: The femme fatale doesn’t tell

✤ She couldn’t care less about what others think of

✤ She makes time for herself: In a world where life

✤ She handles hard questions with ease and grace:

✤ A femme fatale has no time for anyone’s bullshit: If

✤ She owns her sexuality: A woman is a sexual being,

✤ She doesn’t care whether or not she has a man:

Some modern examples of the femme fatale persona in

✤ The femme fatale is not always readily available:

✤ Post and talk less: In a group setting, she is not

✤ She doesn’t steer the conversation to be about

✤ The femme fatale doesn’t show o : Con dence is

✤ She is independent and is strategically absent: The

1. Your observance is key:

2. Stop being so judgemental of yourself:

3. Try working with a professional:

5. Learn to label your emotions and experiences:

6. It’s time to dig deep with precision:

✤ What thoughts and emotions are taking up a majority

✤ When you were younger, were you allowed to feel and

✤ Have you been met with aggression and judgment for

When tapping into your shadow self, it is important to not

Tapping Into Your Sexuality

1. Do what you please: This doesn’t need to necessarily be

2. Mirror work: Mirror work is a strategy created by Louise

3. Know yourself rst: The femme fatale not only appears

4. Eye contact and carefully chosen words: Again, sex

5. Wear lingerie for yourself: It is important that you feel

2. Describe your ideal self, con dence, money, success,

3. What femme fatale traits do you already possess? Which

4. Do you feel like you are already a mysterious person? Or

5. Were you previously aware of your shadow self? How are

6. Do you feel like you own your sexuality at this very

7. What are some things you already do to tap into your

Some Points to Remember

Knowing the details of the femme fatale persona is just

1. Are you dependent on the approval of others?

2. Do you experience a large amount of shame and self-

3. Have you found yourself wanting to step into your

4. Do you struggle with repressed trauma or feelings of

5. Are you generally insecure?

6. Do you feel like you can’t control your emotions and

7. Are you unable to sustain a rming relationships and

8. Do you struggle to express your needs?

If you answered “yes” to some of these questions, then

How to Embrace Your Feminine Energy

✤ Get outside: Feminine energy at the core is about life

✤ Practice small acts of compassion for others: Light

✤ Practice gentle self-care: Compassion for others is

✤ Activate all of your senses: A majority of our divine

✤ Dress up for yourself: Dressing up for an event is

✤ Dance: Once again, it is so important to remember the

✤ Try a retreat: There are so many guided retreats

If you are interested in diving deeper into light femininity,