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Table of contents

Foreword
Chapter 1:
Marriage Basics
Chapter 2:
Explore Your Personal Values
Chapter 3:
Decide What You Will Not Put Up With
Chapter 4:
Develop A Mental Image Of Your Ideal Mate
Chapter 5:
Participate In Wholesome Activities To Meet Like

Minded People
Chapter 6:
The Importance Of Picking The Right Person

Wrapping Up

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Foreword

A good way to think about the foundation of a marriage is as a team. Teams


tend to perform well when several different factors are present, such as: B.
Cooperation, Communication, Understanding, and Other Similar Qualities.
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Chapter 1:
Marriage Basics

If they can have all these good qualities in their marital relationship, they can
live together comfortably and peacefully, and ideally this should be the
ultimate goal to achieve.

However, life presents many challenges, and without a conscious practice


that helps focus on the positive aspects of a relationship rather than the
negative ones, it can be difficult to focus on enjoying a relationship. can be
very difficult.

Most experts would agree that perhaps the most important element in a
marriage should be communication.

Good communication has always been considered the most important factor
to cultivate if a marriage has a reasonable chance of being successful.

This simple yet extremely powerful tool allows both parties to be fully aware
of each other's thoughts, dreams, perceptions, needs, desires, and many other
useful information, allowing them to live together. , can build and maintain
strong relationships that last forever. The ability to emphasize is another
good trait to practice. This element within the "team" helps both parties
become more in tune with each other's feelings and creates an attitude of
giving more than just taking.

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Everyone would like to be treated with respect and dignity, and this is even
more important as the marriage ages. Most couples tend to make the mistake
of taking each other for granted and this is usually the main cause for
frustration within the partnership.

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Chapter 2:
Explore Your Personal Values

Each individual should have their own value system, which is typically
formed as individuals age from young adults to more mature social
participants. Having good values helps a person on their life journey and
serves as a guide for most decisions.

Being able to explore your personal values and your values as a couple is
rewarding for many reasons, the most important of which is compatibility.

Having compatible values not only makes relationship growth more positive
and viable, but it also helps maintain relationships through thick and thin.

These values help define how both parties think, act, and see each other in a
relationship, and are the driving force behind the relationship. Some of the
core elements that define a person's value system are ambition, competence,
individuality, equality, service, responsibility, respect, dedication,
accountability, empowerment, wisdom, independence, tenacity, optimism,
flexibility, and connection. You need to host someone else. Mental and
physical thought processes.

Most values come from a range of life experiences and inherited family
values.

These values are manifest in the way people function in their daily lives, and
this is a very good way of assessing a person's suitability as a potential
partner in a relationship.

Having good values and compatible or complementary values can help both
of you feel more comfortable and relaxed in your relationship.
This is especially important when making important decisions as a couple
where values play a central role in the process.

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Chapter 3:
Decide What You Will Not Put Up With

When two people decide to enter a relationship, there are often some
adjustments that need to be made, and most of those adjustments are very
easy to accept and live with.

However, that expectation can be completely unrealistic when it comes to


making a complete change.

In fact, it is very difficult to change people overnight when it comes to


factors such as values.

At first, it may not be wise to impose everything that is acceptable or


unacceptable on a person.

But in the long run this is probably a very good idea. Because it saves a lot
of time and can even be heartbreaking when both parties realize that certain
things about themselves cannot or do not want to change. , once accepted,
both can progress to stronger and more focused levels.

Therefore, both parties need to agree on what they want to put up with and
what they don't want to compromise in order to maintain a healthy
relationship. This level of honesty will definitely help both parties
understand each other better and decide whether or not this partnership
should continue.
It is very important to note that entering into a relationship with the intention
of changing the other person is an uphill struggle and, in most cases,
detrimental to the relationship. You must either accept the relationship or
leave.

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Chapter 4:
Develop A Mental Image Of Your Ideal Mate

Most people have an idea of what kind of person they want their future
partner to be, and subconsciously seek out such a person through the dating
game.

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What Do You See

Not everyone succeeds in finding the perfect match.

But with a solid mental image, we can make concerted efforts in the right
direction and be in a better position to make good choices.

Below are some of the elements that ideally make up the behavior of an ideal
partner.

Maturity - Mature individuals tend to be more stable partners, are more


reliable and have experience dealing with various complications within
relationships, so this is of course a very important factor for ownership .

This will continue to be beneficial in many ways as the relationship


eventually develops into marriage and a desire to have children.

Openness – Openness is another great trait to look for in a partner. The


ability to be fair and open in all things gives both parties the opportunity to
explore different issues without the risk of getting into an argument or
worsening it and negatively impacting the relationship.
Honesty and integrity are ideal qualities, which also have a positive impact
on relationships.

This is especially helpful when faced with painful decisions or situations


where honesty and integrity allow the situation.

It should be resolved in the best possible way while reducing the negative
impact of decision making.

Affection – for some this is a very natural tendency and needs to be


expressed, but for others it is difficult to express themselves or receive
affection without feeling uncomfortable in some way There are cases.

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Chapter 5:
Participate In Wholesome Activities To Meet Like Minded People

Meeting people cannot be taken lightly, especially when that person is


looking for a potential spouse or life partner. A little research and conscious
travel can increase your chances of meeting new and interesting people. ,
also actively contributes to the task of finding a suitable life partner.

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Meeting People

One of the best ways to ensure that you find a suitable life partner is to find
healthy activities that are likely to involve like-minded people.
This can certainly be beneficial later in the relationship as both parties
already have something in common, and can pave the way for other
connections that can be just as enjoyable.

These wholesome activities should ideally be ones in which the individual is


fully engaged.

From the outset, it's important to make sure that the person is genuinely
interested and excited about participating in a particular activity, and not just
to catch a future partner.

Being ready to fully participate in healthy activities can help you broaden
your current horizons even if potential partners are out of sight. This creates
a win-win situation and ultimately a waste of time, as this will eventually
become very apparent to all other participants, especially if the lack of
interest or enthusiasm becomes very apparent not.

These healthy activities include more active sports such as surfing, scuba
diving, swimming, sailing, kayaking, golf and team sports, or less strenuous
activities such as bowling, bridge or mahjong.

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Chapter 6:
The Importance Of Picking The Right Person

Choosing the right person to spend the rest of your life with takes a lot of
conscious thought. Neither party can afford to make mistakes and jump
from one relationship to another until they find the ideal one. Not only does
this take considerable time and effort, but it is also taxing on individuals
living with this type of mindset.

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Final Thoughts

When most couples make the decision to be part of a committed


relationship, there are a lot of mental, physical and legal issues that would
have to be dealt with in order for them to take the next step in life as one
unit rather than two individual existences.

These issues can sometimes be very complicated and in some cases


requiring long term commitments of which it would be very difficult to
evade or get out of.

Making a life time commitment to someone is not an easy thing to do and


requires a lot of thought and adjustments on both parts.
The changes made are significant and if the relationship eventually runs its
course or the notion of calling it quits is very evident, then losses will be
incurred on both sides which can sometimes be rather hard to recover from.

Both emotionally and financially, both individual will have to start all over
again and this is certainly not a very pleasant experience to have to
eventually face. Therefore making the right choice from the very beginning
will help both parties avoid such negative possibilities eventually.

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Wrapping Up

Most people look forward to being in a relationship that will last for a long
time, and in order to be able to enjoy such a scenario, the choice of a
partner would be pivotal towards this desired end result.

Hopefully this book has helped.


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