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GREETING CUSTOM AROUND THE WORLD A GUIDE THROUGH VARIOUS

INTERESTING GESTURES AND GREETING CULTURES
The customs and rituals involved in greeting someone are often different from country to
country, and unfamiliar customs can sometimes be confusing. Situations get even more
confusing when different greeting gestures are required between male and female, female and
female, male and male. Travelers, especially when in unfamiliar cultures, almost need a manual
just to make sure not to offend someone when meeting and greeting.
In the USA, it is normal for men to shake hands when they meet, but it is quite unusual
for men to kiss when they greet each other. Greetings are casual - a handshake, a smile and a
‘hello’ will do just fine.
The British often simply say ‘hello’ when they meet friends. They usually shake hands
only when they meet for the first time. Social kissing, often just a peck on the cheek, is common
in an informal situation between men and women and also between women who know each other
very well.
French nationals, including children, shake hands with their friends and often kiss them on
both cheeks, both upon meeting and leaving.
In Japan, the common greeting for men and women as well is to bow when they greet
someone, as opposed in giving a casual handshake or a hug.
In India, people greet with ‘namaste’ (na-mas-TAY) or placing both hands together with a
slight bow. These are appreciated and shows respect for Indian customs. Men do not touch
women when meeting or greeting. Western women may offer their hand to a westernized Indian
man, but not normally to others. Traditional Indian women may shake hands with foreign
women but not usually with men.
In Arab countries, close male friends or colleagues hug and kiss both cheeks. They shake
hands with the right hand only, for longer but less firmly than in the West. Contact between the
opposite genders in public is considered obscene. Do not offer to shake hands with the opposite
sex.
In Belgium, people kiss on one cheek when they meet, regardless of the gender or how
well they know each other.
Chinese tend to be more conservative. When meeting someone for the first time, they
would usually nod their heads and smile, or shake hands if in a formal situation.
In Russia, the typical greeting is a very firm handshake. Assume you're trying to crush
each other’s knuckles, all the while maintaining direct eye contact. When men shake hands
with women, the handshake is less industrial. It is considered gallant to kiss women three times
while alternating cheeks, and even to kiss hands.
A full list would be extensive, as each country differs just a little bit in the way people
greet each other. To add to the hapless traveler’s confusion are the different hand gestures around
the world. Before visiting a foreign country, it is recommended to check on the various meaning
of hand gestures, as a visitor may inadvertently find himself in a very unpleasant situation. Here
is why:
Waving your full arm side to side in many countries is recognized as saying ‘hello’ or
‘goodbye’. However, in East Asian countries it is considered overly demonstrative.
Additionally in some European countries, as well as Japan and Latin America, it can be confused
for a ‘no’ or general negative response. In India, it means ‘come here’.
Counting with fingers starting with index finger toward the pinkie can make people
confused in Germany and Austria as forefinger held up means two instead of one, especially
when ordering around of drinks. In Japan, the thumb alone means five. When Hungarians
count on their hand, they start with the thumb being number one.
Curling the index finger, or four fingers toward you as a gesture of inviting somebody
to come closer, can be mistaken for ‘good bye’ in southern Europe. In Philippines and East
Asia, curling the index finger is used only to beckon dogs.
Pointing directly to someone or something using index finger in Europe is considered
impolite. In China, Japan, Latin America and Indonesia it has very rude connotations. In many
African countries, the index finger is used for pointing only at inanimate objects.
Gestures can say more than words, and just as we are usually very careful when using
foreign languages, we should consider carefully what hand gestures we should display whilst in
different cultures. The world is indeed full of diversities, so enjoy your learning.
Answer the following questions!
1. Why do we need to consider the various greeting custom while traveling around the
world?
2. Which countries that have quite the similar rule of greeting custom based on the
reading text?
3. What is the different way of using fingers between Japan, Hungarian, and Indonesia?
4. What do you think about greeting customs in your country?
5. Review the reading text above by your own words!

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