english project

New Generation Parenting and their

Effect on Children

Harshita Kanojia Aayushi Patel

Medha Arora Vaidehi Rathod
Adrija Das Hansini V.

Class: XII
Rajhans Vidyalaya
2023-2024
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 acknowledgement

A project is a golden opportunity for learning and self-

development. We consider ourselves fortunate and privileged to
have such wonderful mentors guide us through the journey for the
completion of the project.
Our sincere thanks to Ms. Kala Gangadharan, Principal of Rajhans
Vidyalaya, who, despite being extraordinarily busy, took time out
to address us and guide us.
Our heartfelt gratitude to our English teachers for their patience
and belief in us. Their investment in the complete process, constant
encouragement, and insightful feedback helped us achieve our
objectives.
Lastly, we would like to thank our members who coordinated and
worked effortlessly to complete the project. We would also like to
thank our family members who supported and helped us complete
the project within the deadline.
 driving question

"Differences between the parenting styles of two

generations and their effects on their children."

Statement of Purpose: Our purpose of doing this project

is to conduct thorough research on the parenting style of
different generations and the changes (positive/negative)
that have come through the years and their effect on
their child and mindset. This article explores the different
approaches to parenting, highlighting the factors that
have influenced these changes and their impact on the
parent-child relationship.
 action plan

Start the project with a discussion on 16/10/23.

Collect and merge the interview material till 8/11/23.
Finish the project on 23/11/23.

The group leader, Harshita Kanojia, coordinated

with the group and discussed their views on the
topic "the difference between the parenting styles of
the current generation and the previous generation."
The first step was to have a discussion with all the
group members on the various questions to be
asked to the interviewees by their respective
interviewers. After this, we had a discussion on the
allocation of topics and duties. We then proceeded
with the interviews. The kids were interviewed by
Harshita, Adrija, and Ayushi, and the parents were
interviewed by Vaidehi, Medha, and Hansini. These
interviews, which are in the form of audio
recordings, were merged by Vaidehi.

Following the interviews, Medha, Ayushi, and Adrija

presented the research outcome in the form of a
report, an article, and an essay with a pie chart,
respectively. Other tasks like writing the introduction
and driving question, drawing the action plan, and
bibliography were completed by Harshita, Adrija,
Hansini, and Ayushi. Lastly, the PowerPoint
presentation was made by Harshita.
 methodology

For our project, we decided we needed to frame our content around the
opinion of the parties affected. We decided to use one of the most popular
qualitative methodologies which is conducting an interview.

Our interview contained 3 main questions which helped us understand the

respondents' views on our topic, i.e., "the difference between the parenting
styles of two generations". We approached a total of 6 respondents, 3 of
them being young children and the rest being their parents. This ensured a
variety of opinions and a spectrum of distinct points of view to avoid any
kind of bias.

The first question was structured around the main idea itself. Respondents
were asked to detect differences in the different parenting styles. The
second question revolved around the changes that take place as the child
grows up. Respondents, including the young children, noticed a very visible
difference here. The last question asked them to get into the shoes of the
child and think about what he/she goes through. This set of questions gave
us a considerable amount of information to conclude and form this project.
 report

Over time, parenting styles have evolved, leading to a significant shift in the role
of parents in a child's life. Modern parenting emphasizes a more nurturing and
emotionally supportive approach, prioritizing open communication and mutual
respect. Parents today are more inclined to be mentors and guides, fostering
independence and critical thinking in their children, compared to earlier
authoritarian or dictatorial styles. This shift aims to create a supportive
environment that encourages a child's holistic development while valuing their
individuality and emotional well-being.

According to the data our group has collected, there is a common thread in the
responses of the participants - the communication is more open-ended and less
authoritarian.

Almost all participants agreed that in the past, parents primarily held an
authoritative role, emphasizing strict discipline and conformity to societal
norms. They were seen as the ultimate authority figures, and children were
expected to follow instructions without question. This approach often lacked
emotional connection and understanding of a child's individual needs and
feelings.

However, with changing times parenting has shifted towards a more

empathetic and supportive role. Modern parents strive to build strong emotional
connections, providing guidance while also encouraging open communication
and mutual respect. Also, few respondents believe that parenting style has
evolved with the advent of technology and globalization, the role of parents in a
child's life has expanded beyond physical presence.
They now navigate the challenges of digital parenting, ensuring their children's
responsible use of technology and guiding them through the complexities of the
online world.

When asked about the impact of the different parenting styles, participants
gave mixed responses. Some participants responded that while newer parenting
styles led to "friend and respect" relationships between them and their children,
others think that along with good effects, the new styles have a few drawbacks
as well such as misuse of parents' friendliness by the child, entitled children
indulging in bullying, etc.

However, overall the general belief was that each parenting style has its own
advantages and disadvantages, and it is preferred that parents take the best of
both styles according to their children's needs. Since the "one style fits all"
approach does not work in parenting.
 article

Introduction: This article explores the different approaches to

parenting, highlighting the factors that have influenced these changes
and their impact on the parent-child relationship.

Shifting Priorities: Our parents' generation often emphasized discipline

and obedience, whereas the current generation places greater
importance on nurturing emotional well-being, self-esteem, and
individuality. Today's parents strive to create a supportive and loving
environment that encourages self-expression and personal growth.

Communication and Connection: While our parents' generation relied

heavily on parents as their decision makers, today's parents
appreciate open dialogue, active listening, and mutual respect. This
shift makes for a stronger connection between parents and children,
allowing for more meaningful relationships and increased
understanding.

Education and Achievement: The approach to education and

achievement has seen many changes as well. In the past, academic
success and career stability were often the primary goals for children.
However, the current generation recognizes the importance of
education, focusing on emotional intelligence, creativity, and critical
thinking. Parents today encourage exploration, personal interests, and
a balance between academic pursuits and other areas of life.
Technology and Digital Age: The rapid advancement of technology has
significantly impacted parenting styles. Unlike our parents' generation,
which witnessed the emergence of technology, today's parents are
raising children in the digital age. Balancing screen time, managing
online interactions, and teaching digital literacy have become essential
components of parenting. Parents must navigate the challenges posed
by technology while encouraging responsible and healthy usage.

Gender Roles and Equality: Parenting styles have also evolved in

response to changing gender roles and a greater emphasis on equality.
Our parents' generation often adhered to more traditional gender roles,
with defined expectations for mothers and fathers. Conversely, the
current generation strives for equal partnership and shared
responsibilities in parenting, valuing both parents' involvement in
childcare and household duties.

Conclusion: The differences in parenting styles between the current

generation and our parents' generation are reflective of societal
changes, cultural shifts, and the evolving understanding of child
development. Today's parents prioritize emotional well-being, open
communication, and holistic education, while navigating the challenges
of the digital age and promoting gender equality. Recognizing and
understanding these differences allows us to bridge the gap between
generations and create a nurturing environment that supports our
children's growth and development.
 essay

Parenting, the art and science of raising children, is a timeless endeavor that holds
profound significance in shaping the future of individuals and society at large. The
importance of parenting cannot be overstated, as it serves as the foundation upon
which a child's character, values, and worldview are built. Effective parenting
encompasses a myriad of responsibilities, from instilling core values to providing
emotional support, fostering educational growth, and preparing children for the
challenges of adulthood.

Over the years, parenting style has changed significantly due to a variety of social,
cultural, economic, technological, and psychological factors. Change in parenting
style has been multifaceted. As per data collected through our survey, it is seen
that there has been a shift from authoritarian parenting style to permissive
parenting style. Authoritarian parenting style is parent-driven where parents tend
to inculcate discipline among children by instilling fear in them. According to our
interviewees, 'beating' and 'bashing' were quite common among millennial parents
and teachers. Permissive parenting is child-driven and is characterized by high
levels of warmth and responsiveness but low levels of control and discipline.

Instead of dictating strict guidelines, they often allow their children considerable
freedom in making their own decisions. One of the main reasons for this shift is a
change in psychology of children over time. Nowadays, children have to face a lot
of pressure to survive in this super-competitive world and may also suffer
depression for not being able to cope up. In such cases, strict parenting will put
more pressure on children and may do more harm than good. Also, Gen-Z tends to
oppose the domination of their parents over them and believe in having their own
freedom and space. Excessive domination results in conflicts and creates a
generational gap between them.

Technology has become an integral part of family life, and the concept of digital
parenting refers to the strategies and practices parents use to navigate and
manage their children's engagement with technology. As technology continues to
evolve, digital parenting becomes increasingly relevant, addressing concerns
related to screen time, online safety, digital literacy, and the overall impact of
technology on children's well-being.
When asked about the change in the role of parents, many interviewees expressed
that although the general role of a parent of nurturing children and fostering their
development remains the same, the role of a parent has changed from just a
guardian and advisor to a friend. Nowadays, parents try to match their thinking
level with their children in order to understand them and try to shape the minds of
their children accordingly. As notably stated by Dr. Mahendra Kanojia, the ‘FR’
relationship has changed from ‘Fear and Respect’ to ‘Friend and Respect’.
According to him, an increase in technological awareness has also helped parents
to decrease the generational and emotional gap between them and their children.

Over the years, there has also been a notable shift in gender roles within the realm
of parenting. Traditional gender roles, which typically assigned specific
responsibilities and expectations based on gender, have evolved as societal
attitudes and norms have changed. There is a growing trend towards more
equitable sharing of parenting responsibilities between mothers and fathers.
Modern couples often seek a balance in caregiving duties, recognizing that both
parents play crucial roles in a child's development.

Changes in parenting over the years have impacted children both positively and
negatively. Due to an increase in warmth and openness of parents towards
children, children are able to express their problems and ideas without any
hesitation. This has led to the strengthening of emotional connections between
them. On the other hand, excessive freedom and very little control are often
misused by children. They tend to forget boundaries between an adult-parent and
a teenage-friend and show no respect to elders.

So which parenting style is better? A perfect parenting style cannot be determined

as parenting is unique to everyone and it differs depending on various factors like
the nature of children and parents, social trends, time period, etc. However,
according to the interviewees, a mix of both is preferred rather than choosing one.
 evidence

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interview audio
 reflections

1] Harshita Kanojia:
The project not only broadened my understanding of the complexities
within family dynamics but also prompted me to reflect on the role of
external factors such as cultural changes, technological
advancements, and economic shifts in shaping parenting behaviors.
Recognizing the multifaceted nature of this subject highlighted the
importance of adopting a holistic approach to comprehend the
nuances inherent in generational differences. Taking on the role of a
leader in our recent project has been a transformative experience that
has allowed me to explore and develop key aspects of leadership. As I
reflect on my journey, I recognize the multifaceted nature of leadership
and the responsibilities that come with guiding a team toward a
common goal.

2] Medha Arora:
This project given to us by our English teachers really helped in gaining
an insight into a topic which was very relevant to me and yet was
largely ignored still. It helped me realize how lucky we actually have
been to be able to communicate with our parents openly without
unnecessary restrictions on us. I also had to prepare a report which
proved to be very insightful for me.

3] Aayushi Patel:
While doing this project, I came to know many things our parents had
done for us and what more we need to do for our next generation. I got
much support from this group; they gave me ideas and inspiration on
what to write and how I can frame it.
 4] Hansini V:
This project has helped me to know and acknowledge the importance of
the difference in perspective of the current generation and the previous
generation. I am grateful for this project as my understanding has
increased by discussing an important topic with my parents.

5] Vaidehi Rathod:
This English project was very different from the projects I've received in
the past years. As we got the freedom to choose our own topic which
actually created curiosity and interest in completing the project. I had
always noticed the evident difference between the parenting styles but
this project provided a deeper perspective in every aspect. I found the
group to be cooperative as well. The leader also made sure everybody
was considered. Overall, it was an educative but enjoyable project.

6] Adrija Das
According to me, researching parenting styles provided valuable
experience in cooperation, communication, and commitment. I also
learned the correct methodology of conducting the research, of taking an
interview and analysing the data obtained. I think parenting
styles have shifted from an emphasis on discipline to emotional
intelligence and open communication. Digital parenting has become
increasingly relevant due to the impact of technology on children's well-
being. Fathers are increasingly involved in caregiving. I also think that a
mix of authoritarian and permissive parenting is recommended to balance
freedom with responsibility and respect.
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https://helpfulprofessor.com/research-methodology-examples/

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