Title: Explore The Representation of Asian Parents in Social Media
Title: Explore The Representation of Asian Parents in Social Media
Title: Explore The Representation of Asian Parents in Social Media
Asian parents have always been stereotyped by the social media that they are
strict,with high expectations and having bad English. And this image is often seen in
films, Youtube and for those Asian who study overseas, people would comes up with
accent’.However it is yet to explore why people would have this image for Asian
To start, the process of how this image is being represented will be discussed.First,
the culture difference is causing this to happen, some of the Asian, or Chinese
tradition that seem normal to them, the foreigners would think this is strange, for
specific ways. In Chinese culture, beating bowls while eating is usually regarded as a
sacrifices, so it's better not to do it. From the above it is shown that even in dining
Chinese has its own strict culture.And to further explain how this strict, and high
expectations image formed, the Youtube video by Steven He, ‘When Asian is a
difficulty mode’(Steven He,2021). This video is about how would a game difficulty
be if the difficulty is for Asian.In the video the player is getting killed even if he is
just being touched by a normal leaf. This has shown the difficulty is extreme and it
represented that being in an Asian mode is so difficult.In the video there are a son and
a dad and the dad and they are trying to beat this game. The game boss is the player’s
aunt and she killed the player by simply saying,‘You still trying to be an actor?’ And
the game over screen showing that the player dies from unemployment. As being seen
in Figure1.1, the Asian working in film in 2022 is still low and to act in the leading
role is almost impossible, so this content reflected the reality of Asian not getting the
chance to work in the film industry and those who trying to be an actor would be
considered silly, the parents and the relatives would be expecting them to work as a
of Asian parents. As the video got over 50million views on Youtube and it has
become a meme in the social media, people would use the word ‘Failure’ to describe
the Asian who are not good at their studies. This has created the image of Asian
parents.
The above has shown how the image of Asian parents is represented. However in this
mainstream representation there are forgotten details. The below is going to talk about
it. First, it is not necessarily that it has to be Asian parents that they have high
expectations. It is not a must. Parents from other countries can have a high
expectations too. And as a matter of fact, some Asian nations like China , Hong
Kong , Taiwan are not even that tough like the social media expected. As being
parents in most developed countries. Successful careers are not considered too
important by parents in Asian nations such as China, Taiwan, and Hong Kong, with
15%, 17%, and 19% respectively supporting it as an ultimate goal. Therefore from the
above it is being shown that this impression of Asian parents is just being inserted in
people’s head, rather than being the reality.Then going back the language of the
videos mentioned in the previous part,the Asian aunt said, ‘ Steven, when you get so
fat?’ This is obviously wrong in a sentence structure but Steven He did this on
To conclude, the above part has shown the representation of Asian parents and it has
been discussed that the ways this image of strict,with high expectations and having
bad English is being represented and in the next part it is also had been discussed that
the forgotten issues in these representations. In my opinion, they are better ways to
tell the story.Based on the forgotten part, I think it is better to distinct clearly those
from Asia and those Asian who born and raised overseas.Asian or Asian-American
can have a fluent English speaking skills. Like in the famous movie Shang-
Awkwafina, is called "the American girl" in the film and doesn't speak Mandarin
owing to her U.S. birth.Asian Americans in the U.S. are increasingly alienated by the
perpetual-foreigner myth, which perpetuates the idea that they are forever considered
conclude, the above part has shown the representation of Asian parents and it has
been discussed that the ways this image of strict,with high expectations and having
bad English is being represented and there are also forgotten issues in these
representations.
Appendix
Figure1.1
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