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Thought-provoking

questions to know what you


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want from a relationship

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15 thought-provoking
questions to know what you
want from a relationship.

Love does not dominate; it cultivates. — Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

Moving through life with that special someone is high on the list of most people’s priorities.
After all, love and connection lifts us, moves us, and changes us.

When we feel happy, safe, supported, and loved inside a healthy relationship, we feel as if
we can conquer anything.

Which sparks the question…

How can we create a relationship that not only lasts,


but becomes better and better over time?

One way is to get crystal clear on what you want in a partner and in a relationship.
It’s what this journaling & reflection tool is designed to help you do.

Whether you’re already in a relationship or you’re open to attracting the perfect person for you,
these 15 deep-dive questions will help you get clear on what you really want - and why.

Split into the three categories of Me, You, & Us - let these thought-provoking questions guide
you to a new level of understanding and awareness that has the power to elevate how you
experience partnership.

With love!

The BestSelf Co. Team.

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ME.
Insights to discover about yourself.

Some of the biggest challenges in relationships come from the fact that most people enter
a relationship in order to get something: they’re trying to find someone who’s going to make
them feel good. In reality, the only way a relationship will last is if you see your relationship
as a place that you go to give, and not a place that you go to take. — Anthony Robbins

Why do you desire a relationship? How do you imagine the ‘right’ relationship
1 will impact your life?

What’s the big dream for your life? For example, do you want to travel, run your
own business, create a family etc. When you’ve pondered on the life you want
2 to create, ask yourself what kind of partnership would you need to fulfill that.
For example, do you want you and your partner to do everything together or do
you want more independence?

What relationship wounds do you carry from the past that could undermine the
3 relationship you desire? How can you work through these now?

Be honest! What are you willing to invest into your relationship? Is this
4 investment in alignment with what you desire to create?

What do you desire from your partner and your relationship that you’re afraid
5 to articulate? What would need to happen for you to be able to fully articulate
these needs?

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YOU.
Insights about the person you’re with [or desire to be with].

Intimacy is the capacity to be rather weird with someone – and finding that that’s
ok with them. — Alain de Botton

1 What characteristics do you desire in a partner and why?

2 What values would they live by?

3 Who are they for:

a. Themselves.
b. Their friends.
c. Their family.
d. Their work.
e. You.

4 How will they make you feel seen, heard, and loved?

5 How will you know they are the right partner for you?

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US.
Insights about your partnership together.

Love is a two-way street constantly under construction. — Carroll Bryant.

What kind of life do you desire to create with your perfect someone? What
1 would you be doing, having, and being?

2 In your perfect scenario, how are you supporting and empowering each other?

What does partnership mean to you and how does this differ from a
3 relationship or intimacy?

If you could wave a magic wand over your current relationship situation, what
4 would you transform?

What are your non-negotiable expectations of your partner and your


5 relationship?

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The meeting of two personalities
is like the contact of two chemical
substances: if there is any reaction,
both are transformed.”
– Carl Jung –

Ready to talk about more relationship topics?


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 Ensure assumptions don’t undermine the quality of your relationship and connection.
 Explore six important areas including finance, health, work, & personal growth.
 Makes it easy to talk about uncomfortable, but essential topics.
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