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Habit 2 Begin with the End in Mind


Handout 1 Setting Goals

Freshman Focus Name


The Great Discovery Date
(from 7 Habits of High Effective Teen—Habit 2--Begin with the End in Mind)

Start Here...
1. Think of a person who made a positive difference in your life. What qualities does
that person have that you would like to develop?

2. Imagine 20 years from now—you are surrounded by the most important people in
your life. Who are they and what are you doing?


3. If a steel beam (6 inches wide) were placed across the space between two skyscrapers
(100 stories high), for what would you be willing to cross? A thousand dollars? A
million? Your pet? Your brother? Fame? Think carefully.

4. If you could spend one day in a great library studying anything you wanted, what
would you study?


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5. List 10 things you love to do. It could be singing, dancing, looking at magazines,
drawing, reading, hiking, daydreaming...

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6. Describe a time when you were deeply inspired.

• 7. Five years from now your local newspaper does a story about you and they want to
interview three people—a parent, a brother or sister, and a friend. What would you
want them to say about you?

8. Think of something that represents you--- a rose, a song, an animal... Why does it
represent you?


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9. If you could spend an hour with any person who ever lived, who would that be?
Why that person? What would you ask?

10. Everyone has one or more talents. Which of the ones below are you good at? Or
write down ones not listed. Circle your choices.

Good with numbers Good with words Creative Thinking


Athletics Making things happen Sensing needs
Mechanical Artistic Memorizing things
Working well with people Decision making Building things
Accepting others Predicting what will happen Speaking
Writing Dancing Listening
Singing Humor Sharing
Music Trivia Crafts

My Mission Statement
"Mission statements come in many forms--a poem, a song, a quote, a picture, many
words, a single word, a collage of magazine pictures, (or photos you have taken). There
is not a single right way to do it. You're not writing it for anyone else but you. It's your
secret document, so make it sing! The most important question to ask yourself is, "Does
it inspire me?" If you can answer yes, you did it right."

"Once you have it written, put it in a place where you can easily access it, like inside your
journal or on the mirror. Or you could reduce it, laminate it, and put it in your purse or
wallet. Then refer to it often, or, even better memorize it." (7 Habits)

So, Just Do It!!


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Habit 2 Begin with the End in Mind
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• The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens

Begin with the End in Mind


"Would you tell me please which way I ought to walk from here?"
"That depends a good deal on where you want to get to." said the Cat.
"I don't much care where" said Alice.
"Then it doesn't matter which way you walk," said the Cat.
From Alice's Adventures in Wonderland

Goals
Short Terms Goals
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Long Term Goals


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• The Crossroads of Life


Do you want to go to college or graduate school?
What will your attitude toward life be?
Should you try out for the team?
What type of friends do you want to have?
Will you join a gang?
Who will you date?
Will you have sex before marriage?
Will you drink, smoke, do drugs?
What values will choose?
What kind of relationships do you want with your family?
What will you stand for?
How will you contribute to your community?

Go for the Goal


Key # 1 Count the Cost....What will it require?
Key # 2 Put it in Pen...A goal not written is only a wish.
Key # 3 Just Do It....Until one is committed, there is hesitancy.....
Key # 4 Use Momentous Moments....Certain moments in life contain momentum
and power.
Key # 5 Rope up....Borrow strength from others

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