ENG 100 Midterm
ENG 100 Midterm
ENG 100 Midterm
Communication
• has been defined as a continuous process of meaningful interaction between two or more people
who are trying to inform or persuade each other.
• This implies that while one person is speaking, the other person is expected to listen.
• Later on, the listener become the speaker and vice versa. This is referred to as turn-taking.
Therefore, one major characteristics of a good communicator is in his/her ability to listen. That is, a
poor listener is as good as a poor communicator. Hence, it will be impossible to achieve our
communication objectives without listening to others. There are about 4 major communication
skills which are further subdivided into 2.
1. Expressive skills, which allows people to be able to express themselves properly. These skills are the
writing and speaking skills
Listening
• is a receptive communication skill that involves the process of creating meaning through
understanding and interpretation of messages in a communication process.\
• is also a process of receiving, interpreting and reacting to the messages received from the
communication sender.
• Like every other communication skill, listening is an art that must be cultivated consciously and
carefully.
• involves active efforts of interpreting the sounds, verbal and non-verbal cues as well as the ability to
retain information and respond or react to the message.
Hearing
• refers to the sounds that enter the ears.
• It is a physical process that is passive and unconscious.
• Hearing helps you to perceive sound. You can often hear even when you do not want to.
Listening
• is an active and deliberate activity.
• Listening begins with hearing, but goes beyond hearing
• An active listener pays attention to the language, tone and body language of what is being said.
Hear
ability / sounds coming to our ears
Ex. I can hear the sound of the air conditioning.
Listen
(to)
focusing on sounds
Ex. I hope you're listening to me.
Listening is important to an effective communication. Without the ability to listen effectively, messages are not
properly understood, which can lead to misunderstanding.
According to the diagram, adults spend an average of 70% of their time in some communication activity. They
are either reading, speaking, writing or listening. Research further shows that an average of 45% of this time is
spent on listening compared to 30% speaking, 16% reading and 9% writing.
Listening is a complex process. Let us understand the complex nature of listening by examining the
different stages of listening as presented in the Brooks’ (Figure 1), De Vito's (Figure 2), and Hurier's
(Figure 3) Listening Models.
3. Auding The listener assimilates the words and responds to them with understanding and feeling.
Aside from the listener’s “experiential background,” some skills in thinking can be useful to make the
assignment of meaning an easy task
Five Thinking Skills that the listener can engage in
• Indexing is arranging the listening material according to importance. As the information
H = hearing
U = understanding
R = remembering
I = interpreting
E = evaluating
R = responding
The HURIER model is not a series of steps; the model functions to process interdependent
components of stimuli.
• Hearing is our ability to focus on and perceive the stimuli itself. In addition to the basic,
physical process of capturing and processing the stimuli, the hearing stage also addresses
our need to focus and concentrate on the message.
• Understanding is decoding the message. We attach meaning to the symbols we receive, so
we are focusing only on the verbal message.
• Remembering is retaining what we have heard to be able to act on the message.
• Interpreting is taking the message we have decoded, consider the whole communication
package of nonverbal and verbal, and look deeper at what was meant and what underlying
messages may be involved.
• Evaluating is making judgments about what we have heard. In a critical listening situation,
we obviously need to make careful judgments about what we are being told. In an
interpersonal setting, we need to make judgments of the degree of the emotion and what our
role as a friend may be.
• Responding refers to how we react to the message. We need to consider what is more
appropriate or less appropriate as feedback. We also need to realize our comments,
questions, or even nonverbal feedback can send strong messages about the worth of the
other person and the importance of their concerns.
Self-Reflect:
• Give an example of a time when you felt that your message was misunderstood or you felt as
though the listener dismissed it. How did you know your message had been misunderstood or
rejected? As a communicator, is there anything you could have done differently?
In eighth grade, I asked my friends who were going to the canteen to also buy me a hotdog in
a bun since I could not go because I don't feel well. It took them a long time to come back and
when they did, they said they forgot or that there wasn't any hotdogs left. I got really mad at
them because I felt like they didn't care and they could've bought me other food because they
knew I haven't eaten yet. However, I realized that as a communicator, I could have told them
to just buy me other food in case there aren't any left because they didn't know if I'd like them
to buy other food instead.
• Make a list of positive formative feedback you and other listeners could give during a lecture
or a classmate's speech. How might this positive feedback affect the communicator?
By telling the communicator that he/she did well and his/her message was clearly understood
by us listeners, I believe that the communicator will feel happy and confident because he/she
received positive feedback from his/her listeners.
• Make a list of negative feedback you and other listeners might give during a lecture or speech.
How might this negative feedback affect the communicator?
When we engage in listening we are doing so for many different reasons depending upon the goals in
which we are trying to achieve. There are four different types of listening that are essential to know
when deciding what your goal as the listener is. The four types of listening are appreciative, empathic,
comprehensive, and critical.
4 Types of Listening
1. Appreciative listening
is a type of listening behavior where the listener seeks certain information which they will
appreciate, and meet his/her needs and goals. One uses appreciative listening when listening to
music, poetry or the stirring words of a speech.
2. Empathic listening
is the practice of being attentive and responsive to others' input during conversation. Listening
empathically entails making an emotional connection with the other person and finding similarities
between their experience and your own so you can give a more heartfelt response.
3. Comprehensive listening
is about interpreting the words and ideas of the speaker. Examples of comprehensive listening
examples include watching the news, listening to a peer give a presentation, or taking notes
during a meeting. Because our brains work differently, sometimes comprehensive listening can
be complicated
4. Critical listening
is a process for understanding what is said and evaluating, judging, and forming an opinion on
what you hear. The listener assesses the strengths and weaknesses of the content, agrees or
disagrees with the information, and analyzes and synthesizes material.
Active Listening
Active listening means, as its name suggests, actively listening. When actively listening, you are
fully concentrating on what is being said and not thinking about what you will say next. It means
listening with a genuine desire to understand the speaker’s feelings and perspective without
placing judgment. In addition, active listening involves listening with all your senses.
ASK QUESTIONS.
Ask questions to encourage the student to elaborate on their thoughts and feelings.
SHOW EMPATHY.
If the student voices negative feelings, try to validate them. Consider why they feel this way and
put yourself in their shoes.
AVOID JUDGMENT.
Your goal is to understand your student's perspectives. Try not to interrupt with your own
opinions while the student is speaking.