Communication Assesment
Communication Assesment
Communication Assesment
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These competency areas represent critical skills involved in effective communication. Each area is explained briefly in the paragraph under each respective heading.
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This booklet is yours to complete and keep as a reference document. Remember, your overall profile is likely to change over time; what you fill in about yourself today might not apply in three, six, or twelve months. However, if you are honest with yourself, this profile will serve as an accurate picture of your overall ability to communicate effectively, and help you identify where you should concentrate your efforts to improve. You can fill out another assessment in the future to see how far you progressed.
Empathizing
This section on Empathizing examines the extent to which you think about the perspectives and feelings of others when they are communicating with you, and the degree to which you adjust your style to accommodate them. This category asks the question: How well do you create a climate of warmth and sincerity, where people feel comfortable sharing their thoughts because they know you will listen?
Please complete this part of the questionnaire as honestly as possible. It can help you improve your ability to communicate effectively. The choice scales are as follows: 1 = almost always; 2 = very frequently; 3 = frequently; 4 = occasionally; 5 = almost never. Fill in all the boxes up to the score you select so you create a shaded bar.
Almost Always
Almost Never
1. I maintain good eye contact and give people my full attention. 2. I smile warmly at people when they appear to want to talk to me. 3. I let people finish what they are saying without interrupting. 4. I think about why as well as what people are saying. 5. I show genuine interest when people are talking to me, whatever the subject or topic. 6. I use a variety of careful questioning approaches to help understand the other person. 7. I generally mirror peoples facial expressions when I listen to them. 8. I engage in as much small talk as necessary to help people feel comfortable. 9. I like to find out something about the people with whom I talk. 10. I look at the feelings or emotions behind the words people are using. 11. People who know me would say that I am sincere and genuine in my communication. 12. I encourage people to speak their minds openly and share their concerns. (Add up all the column scores and divide by 12) AGGREGATE SCORE
INTERPRETATION
Scales predominantly in the ones and twos (almost always and very frequently) suggest that you naturally generate a spirit of warmth toward others, and offer lots of help and support in facilitating an easy flow of two-way conversation. You usually listen attentively and adapt or adjust your personal style to suit the situation as much as necessary to create the best possible climate. Scales predominantly in the fours and fives (occasionally and almost never) suggest that you have a more transactional communication style, where a discussion or conversation is only a functional exchange of words. You are not likely to consider any circumstantial context or feelings, and you show a tendency to push your own agenda or communication priorities at the expense of the other party.
says it. Because of this, they often miss important parts of the overall message and create the impression that they have only a limited attention span for deeper or more complex issues. A low score indicates that the individual is likely to spend as much time as necessary engaging in small talk or conversation that helps them understand where the other party is coming from so they can offer supportive and insightful comments that can help to open up the discussion. This means that they will seek to establish the most appropriate communication climate for the circumstances, and offer an empathetic ear.
IMPACT
An individual who scores high in this area will usually keep their communication very direct, putting personal outcomes or needs very much at the forefront. They tend to interrupt frequently and guess what the other person is going to say before he or she
Almost Never
1. I avoid interrupting while the other person is speaking. 2. I make sure that Im in the right frame of mind for all important discussions. 3. I try to find quiet environments in which to talk and listen to people. 4. My body language is positively conducive to attentive listening. 5. I listen enthusiastically and positively. 6. I avoid trivializing the ideas or views expressed by people I am talking with. 7. I look people in the eye and regularly nod in order to demonstrate that I have understood them. 8. I focus my attention on the speaker and concentrate on what is being said. 9. I try not to let my mind wander when someone is talking to me. 10. I am calm and patient in conversation and discussion. 11. I take information in on several different channels where necessary. 12. People who know me well would say that I am a good listener. (Add up all the column scores and divide by 12) AGGREGATE SCORE INTERPRETATION
Scales predominantly in the ones and twos (almost always and very frequently) suggest that you are an attentive listener and appreciate the tenor of most communications, in whatever form they are conveyed. You are genuinely interested and you try to concentrate on what people are saying, maintaining a calm and patient demeanor so people can get their message across without interruption. Scales predominantly in the fours and fives (occasionally and almost never) suggest that you do not always fully appreciate what people communicate, and thus you miss important components of the overall message. You are also prone to being easily distracted, and tend to jump into conversations before the other person has finished speaking. of poor listening habitsthe listener hasnt focused or taken enough time to hear the complete message, and the mind has been allowed to wander to other things and other priorities or tasks. A low score suggests that the individual is an appreciative and attentive listener who freely gives all their attention to the speaker in order to hear and appreciate the complete message. A person who scores low in this area makes an especially valuable contribution when important or complex information needs to be communicated for insight or comment.
IMPACT
An individual who scores high in this area is likely to find communication frustrating or even confusing. This is sometimes the speakers fault, but more likely it is one result
Clarifying
This section on Clarifying looks at the extent to which you use careful and incisive questioning techniques to successfully translate the words and actions of the other party in order to understand their meaning. This category asks the question: How well do you gently question and probe the other person in a conversation or discussion, in order to ensure that you accurately interpret their message?
Please complete this part of the questionnaire as honestly as possible. It can help you improve your ability to communicate effectively. The choice scales are as follows: 1 = almost always; 2 = very frequently; 3 = frequently; 4 = occasionally; 5 = almost never. Fill in all the boxes up to the score you select so you create a shaded bar.
Almost Always
Almost Never
1. I avoid making the other person feel as if they are being interrogated. 2. I look for the underlying message behind peoples words. 3. I paint word pictures to help describe the senders message in a different way. 4. I gently gather missing information as a conversation flows in order to build the story. 5. I regularly paraphrase to test my interpretation of what is being said. 6. I carefully probe when I do not fully understand something. 7. I use open questions to get people to explain their ideas. 8. I demonstrate that I can be helpful and genuine in conversations. 9. People who know me would say that I ask incisive questions in conversations. 10. I summarize what I think Ive heard to make sure that I have understood clearly. 11. I am happy to speak up when I am confused or unsure. 12. I offer my interpretation of what is being said in order to verify my understanding of what is being communicated. (Add up all the column scores and divide by 12) AGGREGATE SCORE INTERPRETATION
Scales predominantly in the ones and twos (almost always and very frequently) suggest that you are skilled at using a variety of conversational techniques in order to check information without making the other party uncomfortable, or feel that they are being interrogated. You generally adopt a gentle and careful questioning approach whenever you feel unsure and are not clear about the message being transmitted. Scales predominantly in the fours and fives (occasionally and almost never) suggest that you rarely use questions to increase your understanding, or your questions are somewhat vague or give the impression that you have not been listening or are not interested in all they have to say. unlikely to summarize or paraphrase the senders message, thus creating the impression that their mind is elsewhere. They will usually ask questions only when they want more information on subjects that are of interest to them. A low score suggests that the individual is likely to create a climate in which the speaker sees that the listener is concentrating and trying to completely understand the communication. This is achieved by using questions to demonstrate openness and demonstrating a genuine desire to understand, rather than showing off superior knowledge or asking a question for the sake of saying something.
IMPACT
An individual with a high score generally engages in highly transactional discussions and conversations; questions of clarification are asked only rarely. These individuals are
Understanding
This section on Understanding looks at the extent to which you make sense of what you see and hear in order to engage fully in a conversation and respond intelligently, according to the circumstances. This category asks the question: How well do you reflect and process information while someone is speaking, in order to understand the key aspects of what is being communicated and how you might respond?
Please complete this part of the questionnaire as honestly as possible. It can help you improve your ability to communicate effectively. The choice scales are as follows: 1 = almost always; 2 = very frequently; 3 = frequently; 4 = occasionally; 5 = almost never. Fill in all the boxes up to the score you select so you create a shaded bar.
Almost Always
Almost Never
1. I avoid assuming that the other persons perspective is the same as mine. 2. I give people time, attention, and encouragement so they can get their message across. 3. I respect other peoples feelings when I offer my comments. 4. I piece together all the different parts of what people say and do to make sense of it. 5. I ask the other person to re-phrase their message when I am confused. 6. I suspend judgment about what is being said for as long as necessary. 7. I correctly identify the level of someones feelings and emotions in a conversation. 8. I am good at reading between the lines wherever necessary. 9. I connect what people say to me in order to achieve a better mental understanding. 10. I carefully follow the flow of the conversation so I can respond appropriately. 11. I seek to put what I hear into a reasonable context, based on my experience. 12. I expect conversation and discussion to improve my knowledge and understanding. (Add up all the column scores and divide by 12) AGGREGATE SCORE
INTERPRETATION
Scales predominantly in the ones and twos (almost always and very frequently) suggest that you carefully sift and sort what you see and hear when individuals are talking, and work hard to understand the entire message and respond in a way that amply demonstrates your understanding. Scales predominantly in the fours and fives (occasionally and almost never) suggest that you tend to be lost in longer or more-complex conversations, and fail to spot the more subtle or underlying messages that are communicated. You do not usually take the opportunity to reduce or eliminate your confusion by asking questions, paraphrasing, or summarizing.
participate as actively in a conversation as they might and their responses are not as helpful and intelligent as they could be. A low scorer uses empathetic listening techniques and recognizes that they should not make judgments regarding how other people think or send their messages. They will progressively assemble the information that is communicated, and look beyond the words to feelings, emotions, and other contextual factors.
IMPACT
A high scorer does not always follow another persons line of discussion or argument and doesnt find it easy to predict where the conversation is headed. As a result, they dont
Almost Never
1. I quickly sense when a persons feelings do not match their words. 2. I can tell when the other party is distracted or their mind is somewhere else. 3. I can tell when the climate for open communication is not quite right. 4. I am good at reading other people. 5. I watch peoples facial expressions and hand movements very carefully. 6. I adjust my communication style if I feel that I am losing the other persons attention. 7. I am good at sensing a negative atmosphere when I walk into a room. 8. Inconsistencies between words and body language are easy for me to identify. 9. I quickly notice changes in tone or intonation. 10. I try to pick up on an individuals underlying feelings. 11. I pick up on and understand non-verbal clues and signals. 12. I can easily tell when someone is confused about what Im saying by observing their body language. (Add up all the column scores and divide by 12) AGGREGATE SCORE
INTERPRETATION
Scales predominantly in the ones and twos (almost always and very frequently) suggest that you are tuned in to the non-verbal clues or signals that are deliberately or accidentally offered by other people in different kinds of communication. You are usually alert to the signals and are able to interpret them successfully. Scales predominantly in the fours and fives (occasionally and almost never) suggest that you generally miss or misinterpret non-verbal clues given by others because you dont appreciate what they mean. Because of this, you are not likely to be good at reading other people, sensing the climate for communication, or spotting general discrepancies between verbal and non-verbal messages.
about 10% of the entire meaning) and oblivious to clues from facial expressions, movements of the hands or feet, changes in inflection and tone, and other clues that help paint a complete picture of what people are saying and feeling. A low scorer focuses as much on non-verbal communication as they do on the words being spoken, and constantly looks for reinforcement of underlying feelings or inconsistency. They tend to almost intuitively read people and situations, even where words are few or non-existent.
IMPACT
A high scorer tends to be almost completely reliant on the words that people use in communication (words are only
Almost Never
1. I try to make sure that the air time in a conversation is equally shared. 2. I find it easy to get the other persons attention when speaking with them. 3. I believe that feedback is the breakfast of effective communicators. 4. I am appreciated for my direct and clear communication style. 5. I openly demonstrate that I appreciate feedback from other people. 6. I avoid engaging in emotional language or negative feedback responses. 7. I am not concerned about the other partys motives for providing feedback. 8. I focus my attention on the key lesson to be given or taken from the feedback. 9. I avoid insults and avoid demeaning the other party when offering critical comments. 10. I focus on the facts in giving and receiving feedback. 11. I see every constructive criticism as a positive opportunity to improve. 12. I am sensitive to my needs and the needs of others in every communication. (Add up all the column scores and divide by 12) AGGREGATE SCORE
INTERPRETATION
Scales predominantly in the ones and twos (almost always and very frequently) suggest that you are a frequent giver and receiver of feedback, and you see it as a positive way to improve communication and knowledge (for yourself and others). You are likely adept at giving feedback to others and in inviting others to give feedback to you (and acting on the valuable advice you receive). Scales predominantly in the fours and fives (occasionally and almost never) suggest that you are not a frequent giver and receiver of feedback of any sort, and might even go out of your way to avoid making constructive comment to others or letting them offer comment (positive or negative) to you. You might even adopt a silent approach or become evasive when asked to offer or take feedback.
others and, in turn, do not expect others to offer feedback to them. Conversations will tend to be somewhat mechanical and exchange-orientated, with neither party gaining the benefit of useful guiding or coaching communication. An individual whose scores here are low is likely to quickly establish as much conversational rapport as possible with the other person. This is usually done by suggesting that they are open to receiving and giving constructive feedback as a means of building strong relationships, as well as by having deeper or more genuinely worthwhile discussions with people.
IMPACT
A high scorer is likely to adopt a closed communication style in which they offer little or no constructive feedback to
Almost Never
1. I communicate feelings as well as ideas and facts. 2. I use multiple channels to get messages across to people. 3. I make sure my deeds match my words. 4. I find that I can lift team spirit and morale through effective communication. 5. I am able to get complicated ideas across clearly. 6. I deliver my communication at a pace and in a way that is comfortable for others. 7. I say things in a variety of slightly different ways in order to reinforce what I mean. 8. I am highly conscious of the other persons needs. 9. I change and vary my communication style according to the situation. 10. I find the right words for the circumstances. 11. I select the most appropriate method to transmit my messages. 12. I avoid using jargon, gobbledegook, and inappropriate language. (Add up all the column scores and divide by 12) AGGREGATE SCORE
INTERPRETATION
Scales predominantly in the ones and twos (almost always and very frequently) suggest that you think carefully about the way you transmit your message and the communication style that you adopt in order to communicate effectively. To do this, you try hard to always be clear, concise, and consistent in what you say and do. Scales predominantly in the fours and fives (occasionally and almost never) suggest that you are prone to forget the needs of different audiences to which you communicate. You also do not always select the most appropriate communication channels (you use mainly one single communication or delivery style, regardless of the situation).
yields mixed results in terms of other people listening or understanding and acting appropriately on what they have heard. A low scorer is usually acutely aware of the power to communicate and influence people successfully through good preparation, understanding of the audiences needs, and use of a variety of ways to communicate to ensure that every individual is given the best opportunity to appreciate the message.
IMPACT
For a high scorer, communication is a challengesomething to get over-and-done-with as quickly as possible. Transmitting your message is regarded as a chore that often
General Interpretation
The scores from each of the seven competency areas on the previous pages will combine to create a small histogram when the blocks are shaded in, with the composite score at the bottom of each section being the average of the twelve scores (total scores in the category divided by 12). Averages of 2 or less in each category are good, scores of 2 to 4 should bear further thought and reflection, and scores of more than 4 are in need of attention and deserve immediate focus. In an overall sense, each section is a self-contained mini-questionnaire in its own right. Your average scores for all seven competency areas can be plotted alongside one another on the chart below:
Empathizing
5
5 4 3 2 1
3 2 1 1
1 2
5 4 3 2
Giving and Receiving Feedback (Add all seven average scores and divide by seven)
1 2
Clarifying
3 4 5
3
4
3
4 5
Understanding
Plot your average score in each competency area on each corresponding axis and connect the crosses to create a quick diagrammatic view of your overall Communication Profile. The closer your scores are to the center, the better. Efforts to start improving your communication skills can be concentrated where scores are highest (generally greater than 3). Although there is no prescriptive strategy that can be recommended for everyone (you must develop your own personal plan), general actions to be taken in each category are as follows: Empathizing Try to smile at people more often, and be as friendly and sincere as you can when they are talking to you. Make a strong effort to put yourself in the other persons position and imagine what they might be feeling or where they might be coming from. Nod or show in other ways that you have understood at regular points in any conversation. Maintain as much direct eye contact as you can and show genuine and focused interest in the communication. Generally avoid showing any distractionphysical or mental. Rehearse asking questions in a variety of different ways to get people to say more or to elaborate fully on what they mean. This can involve using more paraphrasing, using examples or analogies, or asking the other person directly to explain what they are saying in a different way. Avoid judging another persons message or intentions too quickly: concentrate on the entire communication over as long a time as is necessary. Also look for key themes or core points in conversations, and use questions to confirm your understanding before responding. Quietly watch for the more subtle signals given by the communicator in terms of their physical actions or the tone of their voice. To do this, you must be silent for much longer than you are used to as you progressively learn what the different non-verbal signals mean. The words constitute about 10% of the message! Think of giving and receiving regular constructive feedback as one of the primary ways that we learn and improve. Make notes on what you hear and offer feedback to others. Frequently invite other people to offer open feedback to you. Recognize that your actions are likely to speak the loudest when you are communicating to others. You therefore should do things to support your verbal messages to help people to understand where you are coming from. Also, practice varying your personal communication approach to suit all kinds of different situations.
Understanding
Reading Non-Verbal Clues Giving and Receiving Feedback Transmitting Your message
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The areas most in need of attention (in priority order) and their aggregate scores are:
SCORE COMPETENCY
1. 2. 3.
My specific plans for becoming more effective in Competency 1 are:
IMMEDIATELY () By when
1. 2. 3.
Signature Date
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Action Notes
Now that you have plotted your scores and read the associated descriptions for each competency, use the space below to make a number of action notes for yourself. Ideally, you should focus on areas where the scores are high (weak areas).
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ABOUT THE AUTHOR Jon Warner is a professional manager with over 20 years experience working with multinational companies in the United Kingdom, Europe, the United States, and Australia. He has been the senior staff member in human resources departments, and has held several professional leadership positions with responsibility for large groups of employees. Jon has in recent years been involved in wideranging organizational consultancy work and the pursuit of best-practices leadership for such major organizations as Mobil Oil, Quantas, United Energy, Dow Corning, Coca Cola, Barclays Bank, National Bank, Honda, BTR, Gas and Fuel, Air Products and Chemicals, and Caltex. Jon is managing director of Team Publications PTY Limited, an international training and publishing company committed to bringing practical and fun-to-use learning material to the worldwide training market, such as the One Page Coach storyboard-based integrated training packages. He holds a masters degree in Business Administration and a Ph.D. in organizational change and learning, and lives and works on Australias Gold Coast. REFERENCES Bendeich, Jan. 1994. Workplace Communications. Woodlands Communications. Burke, Peter. 1993. The Art of Conversation. New York: Cornell University Press. Condrill, Jo and Bennie Bough. 1998. 101 Ways to Improve Your Communication Skills Instantly. Goalminds. Hybels, Sandra and Richard Weaver. 1997. Communicating Effectively. McGraw Hill (5th edition). Misteil, Sean. 1997. The Communicators PocketBook. Management PocketBooks. Westra, Mathew. 1996. Active Communication. Brooks/Cole Publishing.
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