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Abuse Disguised as Tough Love?

Corporal punishment in children is defined as punishments in which physical

force is used and is intended to cause pain or discomfort as a way to behave or

discipline one’s child. Approximately a hundred children die from corporal punishment

and tons more suffer from disabilities from corporal punishment. It is dominant in asian

and mexican households, as it is somewhat a part of their tradition. Corporal

punishment can occur anywhere. From schools, sports and most commonly in the

household. Though it is banned in most countries, it is still a practice parents do to, as

they claim, instill good behavior and discipline in some countries, such as the USA and

Canada.

Supporters of corporal punishment often rely on personal anecdote, claiming that

physical force was used on them as a child and they turned out just fine. However, there

are no studies proving the effectiveness of corporal punishment. In fact, corporal

punishment is proven to be more harmful than it is helpful. It is said to be linked to

behavioral disorders, anxiety disorders, depression, emotional instability, low

self-esteem, suicide attempts, trauma and many more. Research also shows that ⅔ of

all people in treatment for drug abuse report that they were physically and emotionally

abused as a child. Corporal punishments are what hinders parents and their children in

creating a bond, and could even have lasting effects on the psyche of the children.

Corporal punishment is also a very unhealthy way of introducing discipline to your

children. At an early age, children may perceive violence as a solution to all their

problems which is definitely not the case. What most parents fail to see is the fine line
between immediate compliance and fear. Doing something because you were told to do

so is very different from doing something because you fear that they might do

something to you. Also, the child could project aggression towards his or her peers

thinking that it is okay since his or her parents do it to the child.

Overall, it may be said that the disadvantages of corporal punishment outweigh

the benefits of it. A parent should be the first person the child will go to if they are

troubled, but if fear was instilled at an early age, it may be that the child will avoid their

parents in times of trouble, afraid that he or she might get shouted at or beaten up. Just

because corporal punishment is common in many households and traditions, does not

mean it is morally correct. To put an end to this unfortunate tradition, we must resort to

positive reinforcements and healthy communications for discipline.

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