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NEGOTIATION PREP WORKSHEET

DECIDE WHAT YOU WANT

❏ What’s your ideal job?


❏ When were you happiest in your work or at home? How are things
different now?
❏ Is there something that you love but have stopped doing?
❏ Whom do you admire or envy? Why?
❏ Are you good at something that you never get to do?
❏ What drives you crazy or could be better?
❏ What will you regret if you never do?
❏ What do you need to feel happy? Are any of these missing from your
life?
o Stimulating, challenging work
o Likable colleagues
o Feeling that you’re part of a team
o Power and responsibility
o Autonomy
o Flexibility
o Clear evidence that your work is respected
o Freedom to be creative
o Feeling that you’re making a contribution/doing something
o worthwhile
o Potential for widespread recognition
o Opportunities to learn new things
o Rewarding friendships
o A stable, happy private life

❏ Who are your role models?


❏ What would you want if you were certain you could get it?

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Short-term goals

❏ Personal
❏ Financial
❏ Health
❏ Hobbies
❏ Self Improvement
❏ Material
❏ Philanthropic
❏ Political
❏ Just fun

Long-term goals

❏ Personal
❏ Financial
❏ Health
❏ Hobbies
❏ Self Improvement
❏ Material
❏ Philanthropic
❏ Political
❏ Just fun

Factor in fairness

❏ Are you being paid what you’re worth?


❏ Have you been promoted to the level you deserve?
❏ Does your title describe your level of responsibility and authority?
❏ Are you progressing in your career at a brisk pace?
❏ Are you being given assignments that use all your talents?
❏ Are you doing work commensurate with your abilities?
❏ Do you feel recognized for the full scope of your contribution?
❏ Are you doing more than your share of the household chores?

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DO YOUR HOMEWORK

Size up the situation you’re dealing with

❏ Number of issues.
❏ Number of parties.
❏ Nature of your relationship.
❏ Will the contract be binding?
❏ Costs and benefits of delay.
❏ Is there “linkage”? (Will the outcome affect negotiations with others?) If
so, who will be affected and how?
❏ Will the process and/or outcome be public or private?
❏ Behavioral norms for negotiation in this situation.
❏ Are there precedents for what you’re asking?

Identify sources of information you need

❏ Websites
❏ Trade publications
❏ Business press
❏ Professional associations
❏ Mentors
❏ Supervisor or manager
❏ Networks
❏ Colleagues
❏ Friends

Find out what you can about the other side

❏ How well is the organization doing?


❏ What are the organization’s short-and long-term plans?
❏ What are the other side’s interests
o Concerns
o Priorities over the issues
o Likely target(s)
o Likely BATNA
❏ How do decisions get made?
o Who has influence over the decision-making process?
o Relevant policies, procedures, and precedents.
o Internal political issues that may influence the outcome.
❏ What common goals do you share with the other side?
❏ Where do your interests conflict with those of the other side?
❏ What problems might prevent them from giving you what you want?

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ASSESS YOUR BARGAINING POWER


❏ Education
❏ Training
❏ Special skills, unique strengths
❏ Work history
❏ Depth of knowledge or expertise
❏ Years of experience
❏ Demonstrated performance excellence
❏ Reputation in your field
❏ Awards won
❏ Important outside contacts
❏ Support of a powerful mentor
❏ Social or interpersonal skills
❏ Leadership or team-building abilities
❏ Internal alliances (if you’re employed)
❏ Knowledge of the organizations culture, processes, history
❏ Flexibility (re: timing, scheduling, etc.)
❏ Alternatives (another offer?)
❏ Strong BATNA
❏ Weak BATNA on other of table
❏ Preparation
❏ What sets you apart from your peers?
❏ Why does the other side need you?

Boost your bargaining power

❏ Improve your credentials.


❏ Improve your BATNA (get another offer?).
❏ Make yourself indispensable.
❏ Think creatively about ways to help your organization:
o Can you give something up?
o Can you do something extra?

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MAKE STRATEGIC DECISIONS

Approach

❏ Competitive (single-issue negotiation, relationship will not continue).


❏ Cooperative (multi-issue negotiation or ones that involves longterm
relationship).
❏ What information will you reveal (and in what order) and what will you
conceal?

Mode of communication

❏ Face to face
❏ Telephone
❏ Email
❏ Letter

Timing

❏ How much time do you need to prepare?


❏ When will your bargaining power be highest?
❏ What is the best time for the other side?

Location

❏ Find a location that will be free of distractions.


❏ Chose a room setup that promotes cooperative discussion
❏ Decide whether aids such as a whiteboard, flip chart, blackboard, or
projector would be useful.

Opening

❏ Should you make the first offer?


❏ How much information do you have about the other side’s reservation
value?
❏ Can you anchor the negotiation and influence the other side’s
estimates of your reservation value if you go first?
❏ How can you punt if the other side wants you to go first and you don’t
want to?
❏ Estimate the number of rounds the negotiation is likely to go.

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CHOOSE THE TACTICS

Offers and concessions

❏ Decide on a first offer that anchors the negotiation above your target.
❏ Choose counter offers that will position your target halfway between
each of their offers and yours.
❏ Plan to concede less in each round, and to use the amount you
concede on each round to influence their perception of your
reservation value.
❏ Develop phrases to put the ball back in the other court.
❏ Identify a proposal from the other side that’s close enough to your
target to offer to split the difference.

Win / Win

❏ Ways to initiate the negotiation that convey a cooperative approach.


❏ Descriptions of your interests (not positions).
❏ Questions that will allow you to identify their basic interests.
❏ Information to share that will illustrate your interests and perspective.
❏ Identify pairs of issues that you thing you can logroll—lower priority
items you’d be willing to trade in return for things you want more.
❏ Techniques and phrases that you can use to deescalate conflict.
❏ Methods for generating creative solutions that address both sides’
interests.
❏ Ways to move the other side away from defending his or her position
and over to problem solving.
❏ Comments, actions or gestures that will build trust and promote the
alliance.

Style

❏ Mannerisms that will help you present yourself as “relentlessly pleasant.”


❏ Nonverbal behavior that will reinforce your cooperative approach.
❏ Phrases that suggest a “let’s work together” attitude.
❏ Positive ways to frame your argument.

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GET READY

Roleplay

❏ Choose a partner.
❏ Schedule a time.
❏ Find a room.
❏ Rehearse and repeat.
❏ Figure out what will put you in an upbeat, positive mood
❏ beforehand.
❏ Choose incentives to reward yourself with after it’s over.

Stay calm and close the deal

❏ Compose constructive responses to roadblocks.


❏ Plan strategies to delay or take a break if necessary.
❏ Consider ways to get the negotiation back on track if it loses focus or
veers toward impasse.
❏ Imagine ways to prevent yourself from compromising in the heat of the
moment.
❏ Design open-ended questions to slow things down and get the other
side to clarify its point of view.
❏ Develop questions to ask if you don’t understand why they’re resisting
giving you what you want.
❏ Are they worried about how they will justify the agreement to others?
❏ Is there not enough in it for them?
❏ Are they afraid to set a new precedent that will influence future
negotiations with others?
❏ Is your negotiation a low priority for them?
❏ Are they waiting for more information or to see how other issues resolve
themselves?

Keep your BATNA in mind and know when to walk away!

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