Wedding Traditions in Romania

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Radu Andreea Maria, 7th grade E

WEDDING TRADITIONS IN ROMANIA

Nowadays, Romanian weddings are an interesting combination of old and new, religion
and tradition. When a couple decides to get married, there are lots of steps and procedures
which have to be followed before this event.

The events on the wedding day usually happen like this: on a Saturday morning, the
couple goes to the city hall to get legally married, then the bride goes to her parents’ house,
and the groom to his parents’. They start the preparations for the religious ceremony. The
groom is getting dressed and shaved by his best man and some other friends, then they go to
the godparents’ house and together with them, they go to pick up the bride. Meanwhile, the
bride is getting prepared by her bridesmaids. The groom, the godparents and the young men
arrive at the bride’s house with pine trees which are left at the gates for luck. Then, all the
people go to the church for the ceremony. After this ceremony, people usually have a photo
session before going to the restaurant.

The party at the restaurant normally starts at about 7pm and lasts till dawn. There are
also certain traditions to be kept. The party should start with the first dance of the newlyweds,
followed by a lot of dances with all the guests, accompanied by a lot of food and drinks on the
tables. At around midnight, the bride is kidnapped by a group of people from the wedding and
taken to another place. Then, the groom and the godfather must pay a ransom. If the bride is
kidnapped before midnight, the groom pays, if afterwards, the godfather.

After the wedding cake is served, the bride’s bouquet is caught and the party is almost
finished. There is another important tradition. The godmother takes the veil from the bride’s
head and replaces it with a head scarf. While the godmother is trying to put the scarf on the
head of the bride she is supposed to refuse and ‘fight’ against it, by pulling it down three times.
The gesture symbolises the transfer from a girl to a married woman who will take care of the
household and future children.

After this moment, the young woman who caught the bride’s bouquet or another
unmarried friend will take the bride’s place on the chair and the new wife will put her former
veil on the head of the young lady. The dance begins again, but this time around the future
bride to be. This is the last important moment of the wedding reception.

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