Contributions To The Conceptualization of Love in John Donne's Poems: From Physical To Metaphysical
Contributions To The Conceptualization of Love in John Donne's Poems: From Physical To Metaphysical
Contributions To The Conceptualization of Love in John Donne's Poems: From Physical To Metaphysical
June 2016
Acknowledgements
First and foremost I would like to express my appreciation to my tutor Dr. Joan Curbet
for his kindest support and assistance from the very beginning. The production of this paper
could not have been possible without his guidance. Thanks for all the honesty, time and
Special thanks to my friends Jenifer González, Claudia Mas, Ariadna Moreno, Ivan
Pérez and Teodora Toma for their patience and support throughout the process of elaboration of
this paper.
My final words of gratitude are devoted to my family. I would like to express especial
thanks to my aunt who has bore, understood and helped me with my nerves. Finally I would
also like to thank my parents who have always supported me in everything and encouraged me
in every aspect of my life. Thanks to their unconditional love for always and forever.
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Abstract
The aim of this paper is to analyze three representative poems of his early period before
his marriage regarding his personal notion of love. These poems are “The Ecstasy”, “A
Valediction: Forbidding Mourning” and “The Good Morrow”. These poems will be analyzed in
terms of style and in terms of meaning. I will emphasize his witty and direct style in contrast
with the Petrarchan way of writing love poetry. Even in those first love poems the relationship
between physical and metaphysical love are central to his conception of human love. I will
underline the originality of this conception that continues to be a universal matter regardless of
the years. The way in which Donne uses conceits to represent his ideas are still stunning and
groundbreaking nowadays. Firstly, I conclude that Donne was able to combine spirituality and
sexuality in his writing in such a way that one reinforces the other. Secondly, that his elaborate
manner of writing, talking and reflecting his ideas made him a great poet. And thirdly that his
imaginative way of widening minds is still innovative.
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TABLE OF CONTENTS
Acknowledgements .................................................................................................................i
Abstract ................................................................................................................................... ii
1. INTRODUCTION ..........................................................................................................4
REFERENCES ..................................................................................................................... 21
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1. INTRODUCTION
The seventeenth century was not known for its permissiveness; in this
period, writing about sex and the pleasures of the body explicitly was often difficult.
The poet John Donne analyzed love as a concept and wrote about it from so many
love, this author came up with some of the most passionate poems of his time. Donne
astonished his contemporaries with a new way of approaching this subject in poetry,
but, most importantly, he did it in a very personal way, which combined the physical
with the metaphysical. The present paper will consider the way in which body and soul
Donne used many conceits and metaphors in his verse, a technique that was very
extended among his contemporaries. Poets such as Spenser and Sydney were much
more concerned in idealizing the mistress than in representing her from a direct and
realistic point of view; in contrast to them, the love poetry of Donne seems far more
direct. He also seems to have integrated his personal experiences in his writing (up to
the moment of his marriage). But, at the same time, this does not imply a weakening of
spirituality; on the contrary, in his works it seems as if sexual union and spiritual
connection are different but complementary ways in which love can unfold and manifest
itself.
The aim of this paper will be to explore the way in which John Donne combines
these different aspects of love in his poems; I will try to prove that his
writing deliberately cover the erotic and sensual but also the spiritual and metaphysical,
in such a way that one aspect balances or complements the other. My aim is not to offer
an extensive study but to concentrate on a few representative examples that will allow
us to understand Donne´s originality in treating these subjects. I will also consider the
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cultural context (specifically, the late Elizabethan era) in order to evaluate the
originality of his approach. In this way, I hope to prove that, as a poet, Donne was
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2. JOHN DONNE AND HIS SINGULAR APPROACH TO
POETRY
John Donne (1572-1631) was a major English poet of the late sixteenth and early
seventeenth centuries. In his own days he was highly prized among his small circle of
admirers; however, throughout the eighteenth and much of the nineteenth centuries his
work was scarcely read or appreciated. Some authors from the eighteenth century, such
as Samuel Johnson, regarded him only as an ingenious, clever and intelligent poet, but
nothing more than that; in spite of this, some important authors of the twentieth century
such as T.S. Eliot and William Butler Yeats not only admired his work, but, more
importantly, came to take him as a model in some particular aspects of their own poetry.
In the mid-twentieth century Donne had become again a major name in the tradition and
canon of English poetry, widely read both in academic and extra-academic contexts.
John Donne´s style was radically innovative in his period, because to some
extent he departed from the Petrarchan and courtly models of writing poetry. His work
often seemed to entail a shift from a classical or impersonal level towards the personal;
one of the reasons for this was his capacity to generate a sense of a direct, expressive
style. Sometimes his poems resemble direct conversations, especially in their opening
lines: the sense of intimacy and confidence that he achieves in this way are highly
representative of his writing. In some occasions, Donne makes use, as we will see, of
several Neo-platonic concepts, that enrich the intellectual content of the poems, yet he
does not sustain a full Neo-Platonic doctrine throughout his works, as Ramie Targoff
has stated: “There is little doubt that Donne learned from Neo-Platonism, and that he
deployed it for his own purposes in the poems…Donne was not a Ne-Platonist at heart,
however” (Targoff 2008: 59). As we shall see later in this paper, Donne integrates Neo-
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Platonism at specific moments, but that does not stop him at all from developing his
Donne is widely known by the use of conceits; he excelled in the use of complex
metaphors that combined two different ideas, or that compared apparently unconnected
objects. Unlike the Petrarchan imagery, which involved fixed comparisons between two
objects that had been long associated with each other in the previous literary tradition,
Donne compares two unlikely objects and gives them an extended and often unexpected
device for establishing similarity between incongruous objects. But Donne is not
change, in both the materials and the structure of his poems” (Carey, 1990: xxv). One
which a comparison between human love and the arms of a compass is made; at first
glance these two objects have nothing to do with one another, but Donne manages to
show the connection between them to the reader. Moreover, the poet enlarges the notion
of love, analyzing it from every possible angle he can imagine: in this way, he is able to
expand the perception of his readers and their sensibility, through a clever use of
imagery.
contextualize them in their period and, more specifically, within the trajectory of his
life. Most of the poems that concentrate on love and eroticism correspond to the earlier
period of his poetry that was shaped by his experiences in life. John Donne was the third
of six children, his father died when he was 4 years old, and his mother remarried twice.
He studied at the University of Cambridge but didn‟t obtain the degree because his
Catholicism compelled him not to take the compulsory Oath of Supremacy; however,
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the torture and death of his brother Henry, because of harboring a Catholic priest, made
him question his Catholic allegiance. He was appointed chief secretary of Sir Thomas
Egerton, the uncle of Anne More, who would become Donne´s wife for the rest of his
life. He secretly married her, who was younger than him, in 1601, and at that moment
both Anne‟s uncle and her father raised legal objections to the unannounced wedding,
and put the poet in prison. He was released shortly after, when the marriage was legally
accepted, but he did not have regular work for thirteen years. He had to survive his
wife‟s death as well as the death of his daughter at the age of eighteen, and this might be
the reason why he wrote some of his famous metaphysical poems about death, including
As Carey clearly states, John Donne‟s vital experiences influenced several of his
earlier poems:
Even though most of his secular poems cannot be dated exactly, some critics
think that the more innovative ones were written in the 1590s; unfortunately, there is no
evidence to support this. In all cases the depth of the poems often makes them difficult,
the language he uses, though witty, is accessible. The freshness of his writing comes, at
least in part, from the adventurous and contradictory nature of the poet himself; as a
original.
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Some of the poets of the seventeenth century were influenced by him, including
Thomas Carew, Richard Lovelace and John Suckling. Carew even once praised “Donne
as the monarch of wit who purg‟d “The Muses garden”, threw away the lazie seeds/ Of
123). But, as I have mentioned earlier, his work went into relative obscurity for nearly
two centuries, until it was rediscovered and appreciated again in the twentieth century.
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3. THREE REPRESENTATIVE PIECES OF JOHN DONNE'S
STYLE
In this part of the paper I have analyzed three representative texts belonging to
Donne´s earliest period, poems that were written before his marriage: “Ecstasy”, “A
Valediction” and “Good Morrow”. These are all poems that belong to his initial, but
already very original, development as a stylist. I have selected these poems primarily
because in them the use of metaphysical conceits is plain to see; and secondly, because
their theme is mutual love. The connection of souls through the contact of bodies, and
the conciliation between the physical and the metaphysical, is made evident in these
three texts.
The origin of the title comes from the Greek word (ἔκστασις: Ek stasis). The
word comes from the Greek ek meaning “outside” and stasis meaning “stand”.
feeling or state of great happiness. In this state of rapture the soul leaves the body; it is a
state of trance, in which the person who experiences it is transported outside himself or
herself. Making love is no longer a bodily experience, but becomes a spiritual one:
This state of ecstasy leaves the person who experiences it “unperplexed”. The
body is a necessary part in the process of transcending; sex is essential in this process,
but it is not only sex, because it directly leads to something greater. The souls of the
lovers seem to emerge from the bodies and go to meet each other, holding an encounter,
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“Our souls, (which to advance their state,
Were gone out), hung „twixt her, and me.
And whilst our souls negotiate there,
We like sepulchral statues lay;
All day, the same our postures were,
And we said nothing, all day”
(Donne, 1990: 121)
Body and soul seem to have separated from each other. While the bodies of the
lovers lie side by side, their souls interweave, communicate and get closer to each other.
Because of this imaginative projection of consciousness into the souls, following a Neo-
Platonic model, a poem that apparently had begun in an erotic encounter becomes
something more sophisticated. Far from representing the mere act of having sex, the
interaction between these bodies becomes the indispensable in-between stage towards a
divine experience. Again, in strict Neo-Platonic fashion, the encounter of two bodies
loving each other opens a further level of experience, and it is on that spiritual level that
different souls can meet and negotiate, and eventually become one. The separation of
the lovers´ souls will take place only when the consciousness returns to their bodies:
Thus their bodies become a “book” of love: there the lovers can interact
physically, both before and after their sexual encounters, and their sexual intercourse
permits the melding of their souls. Similarly, in a book one writes sentences, one letter
united to another letter uninterruptedly, until they finally become a story with a
message. The comparison between the “book of love” and their bodies is a sustained
metaphor for the effects of love, and it represents very creatively a form of union that
(potentially) everybody can achieve. However, in the following lines (“And if some
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lover, such as we…”) Donne‟s tone becomes far more arrogant. He assumes that he and
his lover have turned into a paradigmatic example of what love should be, thus implying
that they are superior to all the other lovers, and that others should take them as example
and try to emulate their manner of loving, which has become purer than the rest. This
insolence, which allows him to present himself as a particular example, almost an icon
Margaret Fetzer makes the following point about the poem: “The transference
from soul to body, and of the love mystery to the book progresses smoothly: any
potential bystander can observe the lovers as they move to their bodies, or to the writing
of the book, or indeed to the poem of their love‟s mystery” (Fetzer 201: 38).The act of
loving is regarded here as a means of connecting two different souls, two different
essences becoming something greater: only one being. Making love can be regarded as
an experience of getting to feel all the things that, though existing, are incomprehensible
for the body.This experience –only to be enacted by those who have the capacity and
the sensibility to reach it- is made possible because body and soul are connected. One
could not go through such an experience without the body as means of departure
At first sight the poem may seem to be talking about opposite dimensions: the
physical and the spiritual, but in fact both appear to be complementary. Along the same
lines Fetzer suggests the following about the poem: “The Extasie debates the pros and
the cons of spiritual against physical love and here, too, the speaker insists that the two
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“Transcendence of the physical world and
morality is accomplished not by denial of the
body, but through its fulfillment (...) Donne‟s
poems sometimes insist that transcendence,
spiritual love is also sexual indeed, that lovers
transcend the physical through embracing the
body. (...) Bodies make spiritual love more
lasting. They are also the only means whereby
two souls can fully unite. Souls can only “flow”
into each other through the body, that is,
through sexual love”
(Guibbory cited in Corns, 2004: 137).
Leaving Donne´s pretentiousness apart, the most important aspect in this poem
is the bond between the physical and the spiritual; this is enhanced by the revelation that
these two levels are not two different realities, but rather are complementary to each
other, and may come to work together at their best. The individuality of his experience
concept of love, expanding its span and adding meaning to it. Taking into account that
in his era the topics of sexuality and pleasure were often understood in very narrow
terms, it is remarkably brilliant that the poet manages to consider them in an original
This is a well-known piece, but it is also one that directly touches upon the
subject I am exploring in this paper; hence, it deserves a detailed exploration here. The
whole poem is constructed around a single idea: the firm union that true lovers maintain
over the notion of separation. Death, farewell or a temporary separation are not a threat,
since they do not bring fear to those few couples who are fully convinced of their love.
From the beginning of the poem, it is clear that this union is a private affair, which only
concerns the speaker and his beloved, who do not even make external demonstrations of
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“So let us melt, and make no noise,
No tear-floods, nor sigh tempests move,
„Twere profanation of our joys
To tell the laity our love”
(Donne, 1990: 120)
The lover tells the beloved not to cry or sigh, since their bond is so unique that
physical separation cannot separate them spiritually. This separation must be silent and
“make no noise” for it is something that concerns only their private lives. There is a
sense of uniqueness and pride about this complicity; their love is more refined than that
Again Donne introduces the concept of a metaphysical love. Love is much more
than just a physical experience; it is spiritual and, as such, eternal. A separation does not
make it “thin”, but allows it to expand. Here Donne introduces, for a moment, the
notion of the refinement of gold that was practiced by alchemists; and we must
remember that gold was considered the purest of all metals (as Eduardo Cirlot has stated
1997: 350).
The lovers not only know but, most strongly, feel that they are connected for
eternity. They do not regard separation as an end, but as an expansion of their common
soul, which will become even holier, close to the purity of gold. In relation to this idea,
AchsachGuibbory states the following: “With its spiritual powers, love seems enduring,
constant, and capable of transcending the physical, mutable world. The poems of mutual
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love suggest that love may counter the process of change and decay that characterizes
the universe.” (Guibbory in Corns, 2004: 136). When lovers achieve this communion, a
separation is never an end, but a continuation that actually strengthens their connection.
And in this way we reach the central conceit of the poem, the comparison between the
The most surprising aspect here is that the female lover, by being compared with
the firm foot of the compass, acquires several characteristics which would normally be
associated with masculine sexuality. In this way, she “leans”, “hearkens” and “grows
erect”: the development of the conceit, therefore, is surprising, but at the same time it is
very coherent with the idea that has been expressed earlier: that the two lovers are, in
fact, one single being, and one can acquire the characteristics of the other. And in this
way, the union that they have achieved in spiritual terms can communicate itself to their
bodies: these two bodies are one, just like theirs souls are one as well. As Ramie
Targoff has put it, “the lovers are part of a single being, they are connected with each
other whether they are near of far, they lean and hearken in response to one another´s
In this way, the physical and the metaphysical dimensions do not only overlap,
but strengthen one another. Love is something constant that allows the two lovers to
become one, both at the sexual and the spiritual level. Once their spiritual connection
has been accomplished, physical separation is no longer an obstacle: love can persist in
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spite of it. The conceit that compares both of them to the legs of a compass manages to
emphasize this union of the two levels of experience: the physical and the metaphysical.
comment it in as much detail as the other two, but it nevertheless deserves a place in
this paper, since it directly touches upon my central subject. The fact that it is so
popular testifies, precisely, to the centrality of the body/soul interaction as a major and
The first stanza of the poem makes reference to the awakening of lovers‟ souls
when they find out what true love means: “I wonder by my troth, what, thou and I,/ Did
till we loved? Were we not wean´d till then?” This opening is very characteristic of the
spontaneity and strength that Donne tries to give to a great number of his erotic poems:
it is a very colloquial beginning, almost conversational. Donne opens this poem in this
direct way in order to get the attention of the reader, and he then proceeds to elaborate
his conceits. At the end of the first stanza, the speaker already introduces Platonic (and,
therefore, spiritual) connotations, when he states that “if ever any beauty I did see/
Which I desired and got, ´twas but a dream of thee”: the beloved already appears here as
the materialization of the dreams, or imaginary constructions, he has had about the
concept of beauty. And then comes the moment of the full awakening:
Here we can see how the speaker is combining the physical experience with the
metaphysical level. He speaks of “waking souls”, which suggests that the spiritual parts
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of the protagonists are experiencing a new awakening, just like their bodies. The erotic
encounter has brought not only a new awareness of their physical nature, but of their
spirituality as well: the souls watch “one another” just as their eyes are doing, and this
implies a continuity of the physical and the spiritual. Love works as an absolute ideal on
the two levels of reality, and these two levels are in total continuity with each other.
By the same token, the world of the lovers is simultaneously reduced and
expanded. On the one hand, the little room in which they have had their sexual
encounter becomes the only place that is necessary for them, the only place they need to
know; on the other, that room seems to widen out into everywhere. Their being together
is sufficient because this is the only world they need; the discovery of each other is, at
the same time, the discovery of everything that is worthy in humanity. Each of them, in
Here the image of navigation is used in order to join together, on the one hand,
the idea of sexual discovery and, on the other, the idea of the exploration of a new
world. The personal perspective is joined with the universal one, so that the speaker can
For one moment, the language of alchemy reappears: the “mixing” that Donne
point the two lovers are aware of having become just one entity because their
attachment has created a harmonious union, that makes them one inseparable being.
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Immortality is a gift given by the creation of such a strong bond between them: if the
juncture of bodies and minds is made with pure love, if the things that are mixed are
It is important to observe that, in the final lines, the speaker does not distinguish
between the physical and the spiritual: the notion of immortality could apply equally to
both levels. The body has been spiritualized, just as the souls have been able to
communicate through the senses, their sight, feel, taste and touch. Eduardo Cirlot, in his
canonical Diccionario de los Símbolos, statesthatfor the gnostics and radical Christian
sects “el mundo físico es, en cierto modo, un sepulcro…pero pero no deja de contener
todas las imágenes del mundo espiritual, que en él se condensan” (Cirlot 1997: 323).
Donne certainly puts the emphasis on the life of that spiritual world, on the images of
infinity that he extracts from it, and on the sense of plenitude that the sexual experience
has granted to the bodies and souls of the lovers. Not only have they discovered each
other, they have also discovered, through a sincere and heartfelt encounter in spiritual
and in physical terms, the best that they can achieve as human beings: a sense of
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4. CONCLUSION
As we have seen in the previous pages, Donne´s poetry was able to break with
the previous traditions of love poetry, and very especially with the Petrarchan tradition.
Donne style was direct, lucid and witty, and managed to give a sense of personal
involvement in his poetry. I think that I have been able to show, in the previous pages,
that he was able to combine spirituality and sexuality in his writing, in such a way the
the one reinforced the other. These two elements, for him, were essential aspects of
human experience, and the writer (or any other person, for that matter) need not
renounce the one in order to embrace the other. On the contrary, for Donne, at least in
his early poetry, the two elements can sustain each other.
One way in which Donne changes the literary styles of the period is by using his
original conceits, through which he relates two objects, or two concepts, that are
absolutely disparate and different from one another. Language shapes the world, and
therefore Donne´s particular way of reflecting reality also comes to modify the way in
which other people come into contact with these ideas or concepts. In his case the
dominant concept in his early poetry is that of mutual love. His elaborate manner and
materializing a new style. Not only does he manage to change the style but also he
manages to change the way in which the content is gathered. His particular way of using
language so as to relate the poetical voice with his experiences made it possible to have
a reinvention of the content of poems about love. The use of imagery inevitably changes
the way in which those realities are understood in the society. Language shapes the
world therefore Donne‟s particular way of perceiving and reflecting reality in his poetry
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also modifies the way in which people come in contact with that idea or concept. In
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