Developing Personal-Social

Qualities for Creating a Healthy

School Environment

NISHTHA,
NCERT
 Objectives of the Module

• Build an understanding of personal-social qualities among

teachers

• Facilitate reflection on one’s own personal-social qualities for the

development of the same in learners

• Create an environment in schools/classrooms where everyone

feels accepted, confident, cared and are concerned about each
others well-being.
UNDERSTANDING PERSPECTIVE TAKING
What Do You See?
Write what people see in the picture-young woman ,eagle,
old woman, child with feather in cap, river flowing, side pose
of child,…
(Explain-other people may see other things)

Ask
•why did people see different things? is there a correct way to
see the picture?

•What did you feel towards those who saw the picture the
same way as you did?

•How did you feel about those who saw it differently?

•What did you feel when you “discovered” the other/new

aspect of the picture?
• Now think of a situation when you saw something in one
way and someone else some other way?
• How did you feel about the person who saw it
differently?

*People seeing same picture can see different things without

either being wrong -relate it to real life situation where
different perspectives have developed new understandings
or led to conflicts

This will help Students to :

• Understand that people may have different perception of
the same thing
• Appreciate that seeing things does not mean necessarily
mean someone is right or wrong.
 Perception Game
Helps students to understand how individuals perceive and interpret
words and ideas differently

Write the word e.g. RIVER

Close eyes-See, hear, feel ,smell it
Ask to share their thoughts
Write down their words and sentences

Details of flowing water, boat in river, clothes being washed, dried river,
river in pictures in books,…

Small group-FAMILY/SUCCESS/FRIEND/….
-each person/student writes and shares
Discuss how personal experience filters what we see, hear,
imagine

All of us have slightly different experiences/influence what we see

and how we see the world

Our perceptions are never exactly like anyone else’s

WE SEE THE WORLD LITTLE DIFFERENTLY

To check-
*Did students/participants understanding of these words changed
after discussing in groups?
What Do We Perceive?
Teacher :Ducklings are learning the rules of crossing the road

Psychologist: Are ducklings modeling behavior of the

mother?

Scientist: “With this speed and width of the road, they’ll

cross the road within 15 seconds.”

Feminist: “Why must the mother duck bring the ducklings to

cross the road but not the father duck?”

Police officer: why they are not using zebra crossing?

Student :ducklings are learning to cross the road

*Personal experiences make us see things differently

 PERSPECTIVE TAKING HELPS TO
See situation from another person’s point of view
Encourages to think of an alternate reality
Visualize things from a new point of view
Promotes Critical Thinking
Develops Empathy
Read others emotions
See k ing solutions
Working collaboratively
Listening to others point of view
Beliefs of the Mental Set
Read from Top to Bottom
Read from Left to Right
We see what we get prepared to see
 Learner Beliefs and Mental Set

• Students read a paragraph describing a new lecturer.

• Half the students received a paragraph that listed the

lecturer’s qualifications and then noted at the end that he is
considered as a "very warm" person.

• The other half of the students received the same description

but with an ending that said the lecturer is considered as a
"rather cold" person.

• The lecturer gave the same talk to all the students.

 Effects of Mental Set
• Those who had known the lecturer as a warm person rated the
lecturer more favourably.

• In contrast, the students who had known the lecturer as a cold

person rated the lecturer as aloof and unsociable.

• People develop likes or dislikes within 1/10 of a second, and

that virus serves as anchor against which subsequent learning
or interaction is adjusted.
Teachers Beliefs and Expectations
• Some students took a disguised IQ test. Scores were kept
confidential.

• Teachers were told that about 20% of the students could be

expected to be doing better than expected in comparison to
their classmates. Teachers were told their names.

• At the end of the study, all students retook the same IQ-test.

• Those who were expected to be doing better scored more

than who were not so expected.

• Clearly, teacher expectations can influence student

achievement

• Example-Teacher Questioning
 Brain Research
Shows emotions like; anxiety , anger etc can create
neural static, sabotaging the ability of the prefrontal
lobe to maintain working memory
• Continual emotional distress can create deficits in a child’s
intellectual abilities, crippling the capacity to learn.
• Emotionally upset we say “ just can’t think straight”
 Teacher Behavior and its Consequences
• Repeated humiliation faced by the child may result in strained
relations with the teacher , build anxiety and mutual aversion
that may develop into a “spiral of dislike”

• Consequences of teacher reprimand /punishment are not only

for the targeted child but also psychologically damages the
others in class- creating a “ripple effect”

• In such situations the students focus more on avoiding

behaviors or coping with fear, shame, humiliation etc. arising
from them, than on their participation in the learning process.
• Psychological damage of such experiences can be extensive
as the rejection felt by those who are maltreated makes
them vulnerable and are “at risk” for developing anti social
behaviors and for dropping out of school.

• Even though physically punishing children may lead to short

term compliance it may build ground for bullying, fighting in
schools or playgrounds because of displaced aggression.

• The psychological disadvantage is that it provides an

inappropriate model of behaviour to children; they learn
that you can get your own way by hurting other people .
 Developing Personal-Social Qualities
• Students from diverse backgrounds, unique experiences,
personal characteristics, interest and abilities … contribute to
the development of their personal-social qualities
• Students have varied experiences in school (learning,
classroom situations, success or failure, interaction with
teachers, principal and other students)…impact on their lives
• School environment creates a context for the students to
develop their personal -social qualities wherein –
▪ Feelings and emotions play a significant role in how
student’s approach learning and what they learn
• Positive feelings enhance motivation and facilitate
learning and performance.
• Negative feelings and emotions detract from
motivation and interfere with learning
 Role of Teachers
Personal and social qualities helps students in becoming
confident individuals who are able to take appropriate
decisions in every aspect of their life
• Teachers when display - interested to know and help
students, care about them etc. –
• help students to feel safe and secure emotionally
• encourage to replicate similar qualities in their day-to-
day interactions

• Teachers through their effective communication skills help

students to learn to communicate meaningfully and
effectively

• By imbibing and displaying personal-social qualities set

behavioural guidelines.
 Opportunities in School where
Personal-Social Qualities can be nurtured
• Curriculum provides space for the development of personal-
social qualities along with cognitive development

• Various schools activities - Morning Assembly, Annual Day,

Celebrating Festivals, Mid-day meal, kitchen garden, Eco
Club, Youth Club, etc

• Pre-vocational Education (at upper primary stage) - Conduct

of activities linking it with pre-vocational education help
children develop personal-social qualities
 Understanding Learners
Teachers can support academic, personal and socio-emotional
needs of making adjustment with school and people in the
school.
• taking responsibility of one’s own action, particularly
academic.
• building awareness about ones physical, emotional and
social self and understand that she/he is unique.
• developing healthy habits (development of self-image and
self-esteem.
• establishing healthy peer relationships.
• developing understanding of the diversity in classrooms.
• developing feelings of belongingness, being appreciated
and accepted.
 Qualities and Skills Necessary to Provide a
Healthy Environment in School/Classroom
Sensitivity and Care
• Qualities necessary for building, maintaining and improving
any interpersonal relationship.
• Role in building and strengthening the bond between
teacher-student, student-student, teacher-teacher etc.
• Sensitivity and care when expressed through verbal and non-
verbal behaviour by teacher conveys an understanding for
each others strengths and weaknesses without being judged
or evaluated.
• Involves awareness of one’s own attitudes towards issues
such as gender, culture, disability, social disadvantage,
human rights, etc
 Activity to develop sensitivity and care
among students
“What do we have in common”
• Make your entire class stand in a circle and count 1-5
• All 1’s form a group, similarly all 2’s, 3’s, 4’s and 5’s from separate
groups
• All 1’s form a group, similarly all 2’s, 3’s, 4’s and 5’s from separate
groups
• Each group is given 4-5 minutes to interact with their team
members and find out 5 things that they have common in them.
These common things cannot be related to their class/school or
anything that is obvious.
• Once time up, the group members from each group share what
are the 5 things common in them and also introduce themselves.
• You may assign the newly formed groups to sit together for the
entire day and be each other’s support in all activities they
undertake in school on that day
 Trustworthiness
• Ability to be truthful and sincere towards one’s feelings and
thoughts both about one’s own self and that of others.
• Ability to be open and frank in communicating one’s feeling
and thoughts, give feedback without disrespecting others.
• Aware of their own thoughts, feelings, actions towards
her/his students, respect them for their uniqueness and
accept them as they are.
• Showing consistency in words, actions and feelings.
Activity to sensitise students on the quality of genuine
interest, concern and respect towards one another
• Divide class in four groups (irrespective of their gender, socio-cultural
backgrounds, abilities etc.)
• Two groups (Group A and Group B) are given a task (you may choose a
lesson that requires group activity for this task)
• Of the remaining two groups (i.e. Group C and Group D) one group is
assigned to extend support to Group A, so that they are able to complete
the task. The other group is assigned to observe what Group B is doing
and provide feedback (if they want) but not provide any other support to
complete the task given to them.
• Once the given task is over Group A and Group B shares their feelings
about
❖ role of ‘other’ group in undertaking the activity
❖ list down the qualities that helped them and those that did not
• Group C and Group D also share their feelings and observations when
they performed their assigned roles
• Encourage a group discussion on the significant role of being dependable
for each other
• Students make their own list of interactions at home, school and
elsewhere, where they should display this quality.
 Positive Attitude towards self and others
• Being a role model for their students, teachers’ positive
attitudes plays a crucial role in developing the same in their
students(feeling/seeing good in oneself and in others, taking
initiatives and leading others, being cooperative, being
sportive etc).
• Display of care, concern, and respect not only for students,
but also for their parents, colleagues and other people
working in the school environment.
• Being role models in handling situations teachers can help
students, who face many obstacles in their growing up years,
both as a learner and in their inter-personal relations.
 Activity for teachers and students to see the
good in oneself and others
Write about your/XYZ’s strength and positive qualities in the list
below:
Today I am .........
Today XYZ is ..........
For example:
• Today I am feeling ‘helpful’
• Today I am feeling patient’
• Today I am feeling ‘curious’
• Today XYZ is feeling ‘trustworthy’
• Today XYZ feeling ‘friendly’
• Today XYZ is feeling excited after playing football.’
 Effective Communication Skills

• Communication skills (including gesture and facial

expressions, body language etc.) can convey ideas more
meaningfully and interestingly.
• Effective communication is about knowing what has been
said is understood
• Teachers need to ensure that what she/he is saying is
understood by all the students (irrespective of their diverse
needs and backgrounds).
• Teachers being Attentive listeners…raise questions,
empathetically listen to learners and accordingly respond.
• Listening leads to responding by the receiver of information.
Activity for Listening and Responding
-Inform the group/class that we will count 1-200 in a new way
today.
All the 3 will be shown with a namaste gesture
All the 6 will be shown with a wave of hand
All the 9 will be shown with a left shoulder tap
- show an example..for instance 36 – gesture of namaste and
wave
- all stand and start counting. Ensure that counting is done fast
- Anyone who counts wrong through gesture..sits down
- After 200 is counted..end the activity with an applaud for
those who are still standing since they not only listened to
themselves but they carefully listened to others and responded
appropriately..consistently
 Reflective Activity for SRGs, Teachers and
Upper Primary Students
• Do you often have to ask people to repeat themselves in
order to understand what they are saying?
• Check whether you also attend physically i.e. leaning
forward, maintaining eye contact, etc. while paying attention
to words.
• List where you need to improve in your listening.
 Empathy
• Empathy is the ability to understand the feelings of another
person from her/his perspective.
• students’ frustrations, anger, helplessness, indifference, fear
and all other such emotions will become more apparent
when you empathies with them.
• The skills associated with empathy are: verbal and Non-
verbal communication of Attentiveness
Activity for SRGs, Teachers and Students
on understanding empathy
• Make participants stand in a circle
• All participants are requested to remove their shoes and
keep beside them
• Facilitator now request them to move in the circle and
continuing doing so as long as facilitator keeps clapping
• Participants requested to put on the shoes which are besides
them when clapping stops
• Participants requested to continue moving in circle wearing
the same shoes as long as clapping continues
• Once participants return to their original standing/ sitting
position, participants are requested to take their seat
without changing the shoes
• End of the activity participants encouraged to share their
experience of walking in someone’s shoes
Activity for SRGs, Teachers and Students
to sensitize them on understanding
feelings of others/self
• Identify few emotions (excitement, worry, care and love,
anger, happiness, etc.)
• Ask the group/class to express these emotions through their
facial expression and other no-verbal gestures.
• Reflect when they had noted the expression/gesture in
recent past in themselves and in someone very close (in
family/school).
 Reflective Activity for Teachers on
Empathy

A friend of yours or your favourite character in a TV serial may

have recently experienced negative or a traumatic life event
(i.e., death of a loved one or break-up of an important
friendship) of which you are aware. Try to put yourself in other
person’s shoes, try to experience how that person is feeling,
what she/he is thinking and try to take her/his perspective of
the entire situation. This will help you to understand better
how that person is feeling
Information to Students about Safe and
Healthy School Environment

• CHILD HELPLINE (1098 – 24×7 Helpline for Children) Services

• POCSO (Protection of Children from Sexual Offences)

Let us Reflect 
• What is a safe school?
• What steps your school has take to ensure physical, social
and emotional safety for all?
• What is your role (as a teacher/student) in the same?
Thank You