Take Two
Take Two
Take Two
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About The Author
Sandy Kumskov is a holistic counsellor, qualified through
the Australian College of Natural Medicine (now Endeavour
College). She works within the mind‐body‐spirit framework,
NLP practitioner, and Certified Energy Coach.
She is the author of many eBooks, including The Personal
Peace Journal, and the How To Love Your Body Program..
She runs a successful counselling practice in Paddington, Brisbane, Australia,
where she works with women who want to move their lives to the next level,
whether in body image, health, relationships, or business.
Sandy uses the powerful tools of energy transformation to help you find your
way, because she has seen rapid, amazing, transformations in her clients,
that were either not possible with talk therapy only, or would have taken
much much longer to achieve.
As a coach, Sandy helps women transform their beliefs about what is
possible, and develop systems and processes to take their businesses where
they want them to go, and beyond!
Get it done and get on with life, is Sandy’s motto, and energy therapies are
the perfect tool to make that happen.
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With warmest wishes for your success…
Table of Contents
Thought Field Therapy .................................................................................................................... 1
Dumbfounding Results.................................................................................................................... 2
The Thought Field ........................................................................................................................... 2
Where’s the Research? ................................................................................................................... 3
Therapies Galore ............................................................................................................................. 3
Where did Emotional Freedom Technique Come From? ............................................................... 4
What is it? ....................................................................................................................................... 4
It Sounds Weird............................................................................................................................... 5
Accepting the Truth is the Key ........................................................................................................ 5
Emotional Suppression ................................................................................................................... 6
Affirmations .................................................................................................................................... 6
Inevitable Explosion ........................................................................................................................ 7
The Tapping Points and First Script ................................................................................................ 8
Trying it out ..................................................................................................................................... 8
Where to From Here? ................................................................................................................... 11
And finally….Top Tapping Tips ...................................................................................................... 12
Take Two: The Power of Meridian Tapping Therapies
THE ENERGIES OF CHANGE
A new healing paradigm has been emerging over the last few decades, and is
gathering momentum as we head into the new planetary energies. Based on
understanding of the body’s energy fields used for millennia in Eastern medicine,
energy therapies are a transformative wave gaining momentum across the world,
changing the way we think about healing.
These new energetic treatments have been spearheaded by healers like George
Goodheart, John Diamond, Donna Eden, Hale Dwoskin and Gary Craig. These and
other leading‐edge healers have systematised their processes and made them
available to anyone who wanted to learn and use them. Many of these therapies
are easy to learn, and just about anyone can generally get good results working by
themselves.
And yet they are old; several thousand years old at least, based in the ancient
Eastern principles of Qigong (pronounced chee‐gung). The translation of qigong is
“energy cultivation” or “working with the life energy”. What that means then is
that we are now looking at and using ancient wisdom in a new way.
THOUGHT FIELD THERAPY
The roots of the current wave of energy therapies lie in Thought Field Therapy
(TFT). Psychologist Dr Roger Callahan developed TFT in the early 1980s. Frustrated
with the generally‐poor healing rates that talk‐based‐therapies deliver, something
around 5% i , Dr Callahan continually searched outside mainstream psychotherapy
for new ways to help ease his patients’ distress.
After working with a woman named Mary for more than a year, Callaghan was at
his wits’ end. Mary had a life‐long severe water phobia ii ; the worst phobia of its
kind he’d treated in his 20 years’ clinical experience. But Mary still suffered great
anxiety when near any water; bathed in just a few inches of water; took very
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brief, stress‐filled showers; and couldn’t even look at the sea without fear
overcoming her.
DUMBFOUNDING RESULTS
During one session she indicated her fear felt like it was in the pit of her stomach.
Dr Callahan had some familiarity with acupuncture meridians, and knew that the
stomach meridian had points on the face. In a desperate leap of intuition he tried
an experiment: he had her tap with her fingers underneath one eye, while
focussing her mind on her fear.
With just two minutes of tapping on this meridian, Mary said the fear was gone.
That night she waded into the sea up to her waist, and was completely fear‐free!
Callahan was astonished.
Over the next months he tried variations of the treatment with other patients and
gradually developed a set of specific multiple‐point ‘algorithms’ to act not just on
phobias but on each of the main emotional states.
THE THOUGHT FIELD
He called the resulting system Thought Field Therapy, as he knew that a thought
is basically energy. Emotional disturbances around a particular incident, a
perturbation, are contained in the Field that has been extensively researched by
scientists across the globe. This research proves without a doubt that human
intention can influence the outcome of anything at all, including your own body
and emotions, and events and circumstances outside the body. iii
Callahan began training therapists in using his algorithms and diagnosing the
underlying problems before treatment could begin. There are currently thousands
of TFT therapists around the world, and even more people using the technique to
help themselves through difficult times.
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TFT routinely helps between 75 to 80 percent of people get complete relief from
emotional distress. In the hands of a skilled therapist, success rates climb to
around 98 percent.
WHERE’S THE RESEARCH?
In the past decade, research psychologist David Feinstein and colleagues have
been conducting or shepherding experiments required to ‘prove’ the techniques
to the scientific and medical communities. There’s not much money to be made
with energy therapy because it actually fixes issues, so there are no long‐tail
profits through ongoing drug therapies for life! The money for research is limited,
so progress in understanding how and why energy therapies work is rather slow.
Nonetheless the research results are very clear and back up many thousands of
people’s clinical and personal experience around the world: energy therapies
work!
If you’d like to find out more, Google for David Feinstein.
THERAPIES GALORE
In 2010 new variations of energy therapies are still emerging and will doubtless
continue to do so. Amongst the most widely used are Be Set Free Fast,
EmoTrance, Tapas Acupressure Technique, EFT ‐ to name a few. Just like some
people prefer dark chocolate and some prefer jelly babies, the variety of ways we
can connect to ourselves with the help of energy therapies is a matter of
preference.
From here on we’ll use and refer mainly to the one I think is both easiest to teach
in text, and my favourite use‐most‐of‐the‐time tool, Emotional Freedom
Technique (EFT), a meridian tapping therapy.
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Please do not think this means I think that any other energy therapy techniques
are somehow deficient. While I mostly use EFT in my practice, I almost always use
a combination of several therapies depending on the person and their
circumstances in the moment.
WHERE DID EMOTIONAL FREEDOM TECHNIQUE COME FROM?
One of Callahan’s students, Gary Craig, an NLP Master and personal performance
coach, simplified TFT’s complex algorithms and diagnostic procedures. He added
concepts developed from NLP, and with incredible generosity and a flair for
marketing, gave (yes, for free) the work to the world. He named it Emotional
Freedom Technique.
Anyone can learn and apply EFT to their own body and own issues in just a few
minutes. And that’s just the beginning: it’s been very effectively applied to
animals, babies, even over distances as people action Gary’s driving belief: try it
on everything.
WHAT IS IT?
EFT is a simple, usually painless technique, which corrects what Gary Craig calls
‘short circuits’ in the body’s energy system. Acupuncturists call them blocks in the
meridians. While repeating a ‘setup statement’ to focus the mind and correct any
possible energy reversals, you tap with your fingertips on various points on your
head, face, torso, and hands.
The points are the beginning or end point of the body’s major meridians, and are
illustrated on page 7.
You don’t need to be diagnosed and you often don’t even need to be able to
name the feeling. All you really need is your natural human ability to tune into the
feeling in your body when you think about an incident in your life; for example, a
knot in your stomach, or a tightening in your throat, and so on. The tapping
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movement sends a pulse of kinetic energy through the meridian. It seems that
combined with your focus, the new energy you’re adding in to your system clears
the blockages that cause emotional or physical pain. Often it takes several rounds
to clear the blockage, and often several aspects of the problem will need to be
addressed before it’s completely cleared.
EFT’s results are easily as clear and consistent as those of TFT. It is bringing
physical and emotional healing to tens of thousands of people across the world.
IT SOUNDS WEIRD
Well yes, on the face of it, it does sound weird and it looks weird too, especially if
you’re large‐breasted like I am, and have to – support – your breast to reach the
point under the breast, or when you tap under your arm with the same arm
instead of crossing over your body with the opposite arm, you can look a bit
chimp‐ish!
But try it – you’ll soon get over the weirdness and won’t give it another thought
until you teach it to someone else who thinks it sounds and looks weird!
ACCEPTING THE TRUTH IS THE KEY
When you have a trial run through with Meridian Tapping, you’ll notice something
strange:
You are saying what’s true for you, right here right now. And then you’re
saying “and I’m okay with that”; accepting the complete package of you
with the idea, feeling, or memory that makes you uncomfortable or causes
you pain.
That seems counter‐intuitive on a couple of levels.
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EMOTIONAL SUPPRESSION
Firstly, we are trained almost from birth to suppress our emotions, to keep a stiff
upper lip, to just get on with it! An emotion is energy in motion (e‐motion) and
when we suppress it, we shut down the energy pathways in the body that are
designed to carry the emotional frequencies. iv
When we say, “I am angry”, we tie the emotion, the energy, into our identity. Any
emotion is energy, not you. You are not happy, sad, angry or heartbroken. You are
you experiencing a normal natural human emotion. E‐motions are energy in
motion. Energy. In Motion. That’s all.
Often the energy is so slowed by our intention to suppress it, that it sticks where
it’s not supposed to! Starting to process your e‐motions with tapping is simply a
way of teaching your energy body to work in the way it was designed to do.
AFFIRMATIONS
Secondly, if you’ve done any kind of personal development work at all you have
probably done some affirmations. Affirmations are a way to transform negative
thoughts and behavior patterns into ones that serve you better through
repetition, to say what you want to be possible in your life.
The theory goes that repetition changes the pathways in the brain that run the
patterns we learned earlier in life, and which run our lives now unless we take
steps to change them.
Affirmations do work:
• If you repeat them often enough: we’re talking tens of thousands of times
• If you also find and change the underlying, usually subconscious, beliefs that
drive the thoughts and behaviors.
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The setup statement of EFT can sound like a badly‐formed affirmation and people
often say, “I don’t want to affirm a negative!”
Remember though, you are not using an affirmation when you’re relieving pain
with EFT, you are instead telling the truth for and about yourself, in this moment.
That truth telling and accepting is an important step in transforming what you
don’t want, into what you do want.
INEVITABLE EXPLOSION
Most people find that suppressing their emotions doesn’t work in the long term.
You feel something that’s “not okay”, and you deal with it by putting it in a little
box, putting the lid on it and sticking it away in a dark part of yourself.
Over time you automatically add more of the same to the box. Given the right
trigger, the lid flies off and the suppressed energy roars out. You say or do
something inappropriate, that you’d never say or do if you were ‘in control’.
When I first was taught that most people in Western culture do this, I felt
relieved, because I have behaved or felt like behaving that way in the past. When
well‐meaning friends would say things like, “oh just let it go, it’s not worth it,
move on”, the advice sounded sensible but I had no idea what to do with it. If I
knew how to “let it go” I would have done it!
And then in 2001 I found EFT. This fabulous technique has changed my life, and
I’m sure that if you use it, it could change yours.
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THE TAPPING POINTS AND FIRST SCRIPT
THE TAPPING POINTS
1 Crown of Head ‐ C
2 Eye Brow ‐ EB
3 Side of Eye ‐ SE
4 Under Eye ‐ UE
5 Under Nose – N
6 Chin ‐ Ch
7 Collarbone ‐ CB
8 Under Arm ‐ UA
9 Under Breast ‐ B
10 Wrist ‐ W
11 Crown of Head ‐ C
TRYING IT OUT
Follow this script to try EFT. We’ll focus on something that most people aren’t
aware of, but is very real for almost everyone – constricted breathing.
First of all, notice what happens when you take in a big, deep, breath right down
to the bottom of your lungs. Does your chest expand and fill easily? Or does it feel
like you could breathe deeper, like your chest could be softer, your lungs expand
more?
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Rate that breath on an imaginary scale of 1‐10, where 1 is my chest is really tight
when I take a big, deep, breath and 10 is a full breath is really easy, and write it
here: _____
Tap with one hand on the karate chop point of the other hand, while you say the
setup phrase three times:
“Even though my breathing is constricted, I deeply and completely love and
accept myself anyway.” Remember, say this three times. This focuses your
bodymind on the issue you want to deal with.
Following the diagram above, with two fingers, tap seven to ten times on each
point while saying the reminder phrase. In this case, say “constricted breathing”.
Move fairly quickly, it doesn’t have to be exact or slow.
1. Top of head – tap 7‐10 times and say “constricted breathing”
2. Eyebrow – tap 7‐10 times tap and say “constricted breathing”
3. Side of Eye – tap 7‐10 times and say “constricted breathing”
4. Under Eye – tap 7‐10 times and say “constricted breathing”
5. Under Nose – tap 7‐10 times and say “constricted breathing”
6. Chin/Under Lip – tap 7‐10 times and say “constricted breathing”
7. Collarbone – tap 7‐10 times and say “constricted breathing”
8. Under Arm – tap 7‐10 times and say “constricted breathing”
9. Under Breast – tap 7‐10 times and say “constricted breathing”
10. Creases of wrists: inside of one wrist tapping 90 degrees across the other –
tap 7‐10 times and say “constricted breathing”
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11. Top of head again – tap 7‐10 times and say “constricted breathing”
Now take another deep breath, rate it on the 1‐10 scale, and write your rating
number here: ______. Hopefully it is a lower number. If there is still a bit of
tightness, go back to point 3 above and tap another round, this time saying, “this
leftover constricted breathing”.
And again rate your feeling.
Hopefully by now you’re down to a 1 or even 0.
That’s it, you’re done. Yes that’s really all there is to it. Just rinse and repeat for
any issue you want to move along.
Now, at some point you might get stuck – we all have blindspots, things we simply
can’t see, and that’s when it’s helpful to get help from an experienced
practitioner, or join a tapping circle. Many practitioners (myself included) work
with people all over the world via Skype or phone. Tapping Circles can be more
cost‐effective because you work in a group, sometimes on the phone, and pay a
monthly fee. Often you will work one‐on‐one with the facilitator and the whole
group gets to borrow benefits – highly effective, reasonably priced!
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WHERE TO FROM HERE?
Not Sure Where To Start?
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It’s easy, it’s private, and it can take you very deeply into your life to times,
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This could just be the starting point you’re looking for.
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AND FINALLY….TOP TAPPING TIPS
1. You can’t do it wrong.
2. You can tap in any order you prefer. The order above is easy to remember and
ensures you get all the meridians.
3. Any tapping is better than no tapping.
4. You can’t do it wrong.
i
Tapping the Healer Within, p5
ii
Tapping the Healer Within, p7
iii
More information in The Field by Lynne McTaggart
iv
Concept from Oceans of Energy
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