Unit 4 Activities
Unit 4 Activities
Unit 4 Activities
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Journal Activity: What Do Others “Know” about Us?
Think back to the practical portion of the Unit 2 quiz. When you took the role of
the speaker:
1. What did the listener “know” about you?
What did he/she not know about you?
What did he/she think he/she knew about you?
2. How did he/she “know” these things about you as the speaker in the situation?
3. How did this “knowledge” affect the way he/she listened to you?
How did this “knowledge” affect what you said or did in the conversation?
B
Journal Activity: Consider Your Influences
Consider the influence of each of the factors that affect self-concept throughout
your life.
C
Journal Activity: The Sources of Your Cultural Beliefs
This activity is designed to increase your awareness of your cultural beliefs and
how you got them. For each of the beliefs noted below, try to answer these six
questions:
What were you taught? Phrase it as specifically as possible, for example: I was
taught to believe that…
Where were you taught this? In your home? Around the dinner table? At
school?
Why do you suppose you were taught this? What motives led your parents or
teachers to teach you this belief?
BELIEFS
1. The nature of God
4. Male-female differences
D
Journal Activity: How Well Do You Know Yourself?
Compared to your friends’ knowledge of themselves, how well do you know
yourself?
E
Journal Activity: Compare Your Johari Windows
For each of the Johari Windows shown below, choose a different relationship in
your life and then draw in lines indicating the size of each of your 3 main selves
(Open, Blind, and Hidden).
Relationship 1 (choose someone NOT very close to you):
Known to Self Not Known to Self
Known to Others
F
Relationship 3 (choose someone you are SOMEWHAT close to):
Known to Self Not Known to Self
Known to Others
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Journal Activity: Who Am I?
A. Think about what you know and think about yourself by taking the “Who Am
I?” test (Bugental & Zelen, 1950).
Complete each of the sentences below. Try not to give only positive or socially
acceptable responses; respond with what comes to mind first.
I am __________________________________________________
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B. Fill in each column below as quickly as possible.
My Strengths or Virtues My Weaknesses or Vices
I
C. Return to the two lists you have made in parts A. and B. and mark items
according to these directions.
4. Next to each item you wrote in A., mark whether you believe this statement about
yourself is influenced by
C = cultural teachings
O = significant others’ views
S = social comparisons
I = your interpretations and evaluations
5. Next to each item you wrote in A., mark whether you consider this statement about
yourself to be
+ = positive or favorable
- = negative or unfavorable
Ø = neutral
6. Next to each item you wrote in B., mark whether you consider this statement about
yourself to be
7. Choose one or two items from either of the lists (A. or B., or both) that you would be
willing to self disclose. Be sure to consider both negative and positive items!
Explain how, when, and to whom you would be willing to self disclose these
statements about yourself.
8. Choose one or two positive or favorable items from either of the lists (A. or B., or
both) and write a self-affirmation based on these items.
J
Journal Activity: How Much Do You Like Yourself?
Look back at your responses on the Who Am I? journal activity. The answers to these
questions reflect your self-esteem, the value you place on yourself.
In general, do you describe yourself in more positive ways or more negative terms?
Based on your responses, how valuable a person do you think you are?
K
Journal Activity: Increasing Your Self-Esteem
Look at your responses to the Who Am I? and How Much Do You Like Yourself? journal
activities. Based on what you have written in these journal activities and what you have
learned about increasing your self-esteem, explain at least three ways that you can
increase your self-esteem in your own life.
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Group Activity: Culture and Disclosure/Self Disclosure
In your group, brainstorm and write down your ideas about the following
questions:
1. What does your culture say about disclosure? about self disclosure?
3. What different expectations does your culture have about disclosure and self
disclosure for men and for women? between members of different
generations?
4. What specific topics are taboo for disclosure/self disclosure in any kind of
discussion?
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Group Activity: Benefits and Dangers of Disclosure and
Self-Disclosure
In your group, brainstorm ideas to answer each of these questions. Don’t just
settle for one or two ideas—develop a long list of each.
1. What are the rewards or benefits of disclosure or self-disclosure?
N
Group Activity: Guidelines for Self-Disclosure—
Disclosing
Work together in your group to come up with as many “guidelines for self-
disclosure” as possible to share with the class.
O
Group Activity: Guidelines for Self-Disclosure--
Responding
Work together in your group to come up with as many “guidelines for responding
to self-disclosure” as possible to share with the class.
P
Group Activity: Responding to “Self” Damaging
Communication
Read each of the following statements, which could be very damaging to your self
esteem and/or self concept. Then, identify at least 2 ways you could respond in
each case. Remember: Not all responses need to be spoken!
1. A student who is taking several classes with you says, “You look really upset. I heard
that you failed the math exam.”
3. Your older sibling says, “You don’t have many close friends. Maybe you don’t get
along very well with people.”
4. When you ask someone you are interested in for a date, he/she replies, “No, thanks.
I’d rather not go out with you.”
5. An acquaintance says, “I see you’ve put on weight. Would you like to join my
workout session at the gym?”
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Group Activity: Observing Self Awareness, Self Esteem,
and Self Disclosure
The following questions are based upon the movie, What About Bob?
1. In the movie, Bob’s self-awareness evolves. Describe how his Open, Hidden,
Blind, and Unknown parts of the Johari window change. Then, compare
Bob’s self awareness to that of his psychiatrist, Dr. Leo Marvin.
2. Bob and Sigmund (the doctor’s son) have a conversation in which they
disclose information in the Hidden self and bring it to the Open self. Describe
this conversation. Why is Sigmund more open with Bob than his father?
3. Bob’s level of self-esteem changes in the course of the movie. Describe one
scene in which he becomes aware of an increase in self esteem. How does
this level of self esteem increase? How does his level of self esteem affect his
communication strategies?