How To Judge Ken Gilmore Text: Matthew 7:1-6

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HOW TO JUDGE
Ken Gilmore
Text: Matthew 7:1-6

Illustration: 
It’s about Teddy Stallard, who by his own admission was an
unattractive, unmotivated little boy; one of those that teachers
find difficult to like and easy to judge as "the problem child."
Teddy was a source of great frustration for his fifth-grade
teacher, Miss Thompson, who all day long faced his deadpan,
unfocused stare. 

Although she said she loved all her students, Miss Thompson
had to admit that deep down, she didn’t like Teddy as much as
the others. She even received a certain pleasure in marking his
papers with red ink and writing F’s on them. She judged Teddy. 

However, as his teacher, she had his records, and she knew
more about him than she wanted to admit: 
First Grade: "Teddy shows promise with his work and attitude,
but he has a poor home situation." 
Second Grade: "Teddy could do better. Mother is seriously ill.
He receives little help at home." 
Third Grade: "Teddy is a good boy but is too serious. He is a
slow learner. His mother died this year." 
Fourth Grade: "Teddy is very slow but well behaved. His father
shows no interest." 

At Christmas, Miss Thompson’s class all brought her pretty


gifts, and gathered round to watch her open them. She was
surprised when she received a gift from Teddy -- crudely
wrapped in brown paper and tape. When she opened it, out fell
a gaudy rhinestone bracelet with half the stones missing and a
bottle of cheap perfume. 
The other children began to giggle, but she had enough sense
to put on the bracelet and apply some of the perfume to her
wrist. She asked the class, "Doesn’t it smell lovely?" 
When school was over and the other children had left, Teddy
lingered behind. He slowly came over to her desk and said
softly, "Miss Thompson, you smell just like my mother. And her
bracelet looks real pretty on you, too. I’m glad you liked my
presents." 
When Teddy left, Miss Thompson got down on her knees and
asked God to forgive her. 

The next day when the children came to school, they were
welcomed by a changed teacher. Miss Thompson’s eye plank
was gone, and she had been given a new vision to see how to
help, by the grace of God. By the end of that school year, Teddy
showed dramatic improvement and had caught up with most of
the students. 

After that she did not hear from Teddy for a long time. Then one
day she received a note that said: "Dear Miss Thompson: I
wanted you to be the first to know. I will be graduating second in
my class. Love, Teddy Stallard." 
Four years later, she received another note: "Dear Miss
Thompson: They just told me I will be graduating first in my
class. I wanted you to be the first to know. The university has
not been easy, but I liked it. Love, Teddy Stallard." 
Finally, she received another note: "Dear Miss Thompson: As of
today, I am Theodore Stallard, M.D. How about that? I wanted
you to be the first to know. I am getting married next month, the
27th to be exact. I want you to come and sit where my mother
would sit if she were alive. You are the only family I have now;
Dad died last year. Love, Teddy Stallard." 

Miss Thompson went to that wedding. God had removed the log
in her eye, given her clear vision, and by his Spirit in her had
done something for Teddy that changed his life forever. 
And all of this happened because one Christian stopped leaping
to judge and looked to heal.

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