Parshat Yitro January 22, 2011 17 Shevat, 5771

TORAH
Rabbi Frand on Parshat Yitro
ARTSCROLL, 394 The Prototype of first copy having been the first day: "On the
HERTZ, 288
Mishpat Amongst destroyed by Moshe next day Moshe said
HAFTORAH the Jewish People following the sin of the to the people, 'You
ARTSCROLL, 1154 Golden Calf). have committed a
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The Parsha is named grievous sin!'..." In our
after Yisro, because Rav Yosef Dov HaLevi situation it is just the
Times
Yisro gave Moshe Soloveitchik quotes the reverse -- "On the
Candle Lighting 4:41 pm Rabbeinu good following principle: every next day" refers to the
Friday Mincha 4:40 pm counsel. Moshe time we find the day after a wonderful
Rabbeinu had a expression "And it was on day -- the first Yom
Haskhama 8:00 am
problem - he was the next day" (Vayehi Kippur. On that next
Youth 8:30 am
overwhelmed. People m'mochoras) in the day, Moshe sat in
Parsha Shiur 8:30 am lined up from Torah, the Torah is trying judgment of the
Main Minyan 9:00 am morning until night to to contrast or connect the people.
have him settle their two days. Either
Intermediate 9:00 am
Minyan disputes. Moshe had something terrible The Torah is trying to
no time. Yisro gave happened on the tell us that there is a
Beit Midrash 9:15 am
him the advice to previous day and the connection between
Gemorah Shiur 4:00 pm establish a system of Torah is indicating that the first day of
Mincha 4:30 pm courts. the next day was better, judgment -- the first
or something tremendous day in Jewish history
Shabbat Ends 5:50 pm
Rashi, on the words happened on the where people went for
Sunday Jan. 23 7:30/8:30 am previous day and the dinei Torah (decisions
"And it was on the
next day" [Shmos Torah is indicating that from a Rabbinical
Mon. Thurs. 6:35/7:45 am the next day was infused Court) -- and the Day
18:13], says that this
was the day after with the spirit of the of Atonement. What is
Tues.Wed. Fri. 6:45/7:45 am previous day. the significance of this
Yom Kippur -- the
day Moshe connection?
Late Maariv 8:15 pm descended from the In Shmos 32:30
mountain, following (immediately after the sin Rav Soloveitchik
Mincha Sun./Fri 4:50 pm receipt of the second of the Golden Calf), we described the mood of
copy of the Ten find an example of a the people on that
Latest times for Commandments (the terrible event happening day: they had
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Jews, who when they have a dispute with a

committed the terrible sin of worshipping the neighbor or a business partner they don't run
Golden Calf, and they did not know whether to court -- they run to a Din Torah.
they would ever be forgiven. Moshe Rabbeinu
descended from the mountain on that very first The first thing the Dayan asks when one
Yom Kippur and told them in the name of G-d "I comes to a Din Torah is "Do you want Din or
have forgiven, as you have Pershara?" [Sanhedrin 7a] Do you want me to
requested" [Bamidbar 14:20]. rule based on Choshen Mishpat (the section of
the Code of Jewish Law covering financial
The people realized that there is forgiveness, transactions), telling you who is right and who
there is atonement; each of them felt like a new is wrong, with an absolute winner and an
person. Imagine the mood that the people must absolute loser -- in which no consideration is
have felt -- there was relief, good feeling, peace, given to a person's honor or financial
brotherhood, and generosity. Everyone felt condition? Or do you want me to find an
wonderful. arbitrated compromise so that everyone can
walk out a winner?
When people went into court with their litigants
on that next day, they did not feel stingy, The Talmud [Sanhedrin 6b] paskens (rules) --
combative, and antagonistic. They felt open and and this is codified by the Rambam and the
giving, and friendly and compromising. They Shulchan Aruch -- that the preferred method is
went into Mishpat (judgement) suffused with the to compromise (Mitzvah livtzoah). Why?
spirit of the previous day -- the day of "I have Because of the above-mentioned teaching --
forgiven, as you have requested." The Torah is among the Jewish people compromise is not
telling us that if this is the way the first Mishpat extra-judicial.
was done among the Jewish people, then this is
the prototype for how Mishpat must always be This is not equivalent to the secular concept of
done among the Jewish people. "settling out of court". Settling out of court is
not the domain of the jurist. The jurist in
What difference does it make? Can one really American law is not the humanist. In American
feel that way when he steps into a courtroom? law, Rabbi Soloveitchik notes, they are two
There is a difference. In Jewish jurisprudence totally distinct personalities.
there is a settlement called Peshara
(compromise). The Jewish Dayan is also the compassionate
Judge. He is also the mensch, the humanist.
Today, Baruch Hashem (thank G-d), people go He worries about the poor person who comes
to dinei Torah. I say 'Baruch Hashem' because before him and how he will leave the court, and
years ago no one went to dinei Torah -- they advises both parties to compromise. The
went to secular court, which is usually reason for all this is that Judgment originated
prohibited. Today we have sincere, religious in Klal Yisroel on that special morrow following
Great Neck Synagogue
the first Yom Kippur -- when a spirit of
Shabbat Activities Program
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prevalent in the nation.
Dale Polakoff, Rabbi
Ian Lichter, Assistant Rabbi It should be this way for all generations as well.
Dr. Ephraim Wolf ,z”l, Rabbi Emeritus Dinei Torah should always be approached by
Michael Bleicher, Daniel Schwechter, Rabbinic Interns
Zeev Kron, Cantor
searching for a way that both parties can
Eleazer Schulman, z”l, Cantor Emeritus emerge as winners, not one a winner and one
Mark Twersky, Executive Director a loser.
Joseph Hecht, President
Harold Domnitch, Chairman of the Board
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WOMEN’S ROSH CHODESH NIGHT OUT
Every month in honor of Rosh Chodesh, women from our community RABBI REISMAN
gather together to learn and hear a Torah presentation that brings The Rabbi Reisman simulcast takes place every Saturday
insight to our daily lives. For this month of Shevat, the Women's Rosh evening in the Weinstein Torah & Tech. Center. The time for
Chodesh program will host a Tu B’shvat Seder. Please reserve January is 7:30 pm.
Wednesday night, Jan. 19th. Please see page 3.
Thelma & Emile Kattan and family would like to express
PARENT CHILD LEARNING ON MOTZAI SHABBAT
Every Saturday evening, there will be a new program at Great Neck
their hakarat hatov to Rabbi Polakoff, Ellen and Jerry
Synagogue, parent-child(ren) learning. From 6:30 – 7:30 pm, par- Weinstein for their unforgettable help and kindness through
ents of middle school age children are invited to come to GNS for this
special program.
their hard time following the death of her father Naim Ben
Harun and gratitute to the community for their support.
INTERMEDIATE MINYAN with Rabbi Ben Skydell will meet on Janu-
ary 22, at 9 am second floor classroom Middle school building. Kid-
dush and shiur following davening. All are welcome.

WOMEN’S TUESDAY LEARNING Gedale Horowitz and Family would like to thank
The Tuesday class with Amit Yagoubi will begin at 10:30 am.
The class will focus on “Tomer Devorah” How to tap into the 13 attrib- Rabbi Polakoff, Rabbi Lichter, Cantor Kron and the
utes of G-D. Five weeks cost $50. Individual classes $12.
entire congregation for their outpouring of sympathy
NEW MEMBER DESSERT RECEPTION
We welcome new and prospective members of Great Neck Synagogue
and support following the death of their beloved wife
to a Dessert Reception on Saturday evening, February 12th at 8:30pm and mother, Barbara Horowitz, z”l.
at the home of Debbie and Hal Chadow, 50 Dickenson Place. Rabbi
Dale Polakoff will offer welcoming remarks. Please join us!
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layperson to imagine how easily the wheels of justice can get WEDDING GOWN GEMACH
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Saturday, 17 Shevat
Stuart Kaufman for Rose Kaufman
WANTED DONATION OF A USED CAR David Sedgh for Yaacov Sedgh
The synagogue is looking for someone to donate a car Paul Wein for Shirlee Wein
for use as a deterrent for security measures. It will be Sunday, 18 Shevat
Victor Ancelson for Carolina Galateanu
painted to look official and a beacon will be installed on Leon Fuks for Bonnye Fuks
the roof. The car does not have to run well, it just has Didi Hutt for Moshe Cohen
to be able to be driven in and around the shul. The body Monday, 19 Shevat
needs to be in decent condition. Please contact Scott Elena Berkowitz for Dvora Fridman
Marc Epstein for Fred Epstein
Danoff if you have such a vehicle, and would like to
Hedva Kessler for Ray Majus
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Call Scott at 516-606-4922. Y Ellen Siegel for Alter Aviezer Givner
A Fay Smith for Richard E. Smith
Tuesday, 20 Shevat
KOL HANEORIM PROJECT H Benny Hakimi for Mina Hakimi
This year in conjunction with our 59th Annual Journal Dinner we are
launching a new and exciting project in honor of our children. We
R Elizabeth Katzwer for Benjamin Katzwer
Robert Knepper for Elizabeth Knepper
are very blessed to have a shul with so many families, young and Z Tricia Moslin for Harry Solomon
old, with numerous children and grandchildren. Each Simchas
Torah our children and grandchildren gather together under a
E Wednesday, 21 Shevat
Idida Kaplan for Aba Abramovsky
special tallis for Kol Haneorim, an aliyah dedicated to the children. I Iraj Kashani for Monavar Kashani
Our project is to dedicate a new tallis that will be a true piece of
art that will be used each Simchas Torah as well as displayed
T Gitty Louzoun for Israel Malek
Sydelle Slochowsky for Max Olshin
throughout the year. We have commissioned an experienced artist Thursday, 22 Shevat
to design this tallis exclusively for the families of GNS. We know Arnie Flatow for Morris Flatow
that you will want to be a part of this unique and historical GNS Norman Lee for Helen Rose
opportunity. There are a limited number of dedication opportunities Diane Seidle for Louis Melnick
so we ask that you to please respond quickly and generously. We Rita Silverman for Dora Pentol
encourage all families to participate in the project; together we can Friday, 23 Shevat
create a beautiful tallis to cover our children as they receive their Sheila Bachman for Max Bachman
bracha. Please go to the website www.gns.org and see the Philip Hanfling for Yehuda Schneider
Albert Safdieh for Irene Lipstein
rendering of this tallis and the list of donation possibilities.