Behold The Bridegroom Comes

Behold, The Bridegroom Comes!
Dr. Renald Showers

Chairman of the Pastoral Studies Department, Philadelphia College of Bible
The Comforting Promise

It was a night of destiny. Jesus had gathered with His disciples in the
Upper Room. In a few more hours He would be crucified on a cross.
Jesus had been warning His disciples concerning His coming death,
resurrection and ascension to heaven. The prospect of these events
caused the disciples to be greatly disturbed. In order to ease their
fears, Jesus made the following comforting promise from John 14:1-
3.
Let not your heart be troubled: you believe in God, Believe also in me. In my Father's house are
many mansions: if it were not so, I would have told you. I go to prepare a place for you. And if I
go and prepare a place for you, I will come again, and receive you unto myself; that where I am,
there you may be also.
Jewish Marriage Customs

Those who live in the modern western world do not catch the full
significance of Jesus' promise. This is due to the fact that in His
promise Jesus was drawing an analogy from Jewish marriage customs
in biblical times. Since this is so, those marriage customs must be
examined if one is to grasp the significance of the promise.
The first major step in a Jewish marriage was betrothal.1 Betrothal

involved the establishment of a marriage covenant. By Jesus' time it
was usual for such a covenant to be established as the result of the
prospective bridegroom taking the initiative.
2
The prospective bridegroom would travel from his father's house to
the home of the prospective bride. There he would negotiate with
the father of the young woman to determine the price (mohar) that
he must pay to purchase his bride.
3
Once the bridegroom paid the purchase price, the marriage
covenant was thereby established, and the young man and woman
were regarded to be husband and wife.
4
From that moment on the bride was declared to be consecrated or
sanctified, set apart exclusively for her bridegroom.
5
As a symbol of the covenant relationship that had been established,
the groom and bride would drink from a cup of wine over which a
betrothal benediction had been pronounced.
6
After the marriage covenant had been established, the groom
would leave the home of the bride and return to his father's house.
There he would remain separate from his bride for a period of twelve
months.
7
This period of separation afforded the bride time to gather her
trousseau and to prepare for married life.
8
The groom occupied himself with the preparation of living
accommodations in his father's house to which he could bring his
bride. At the end of the period of separation the groom would come
to take his bride to live with him. The taking of the bride usually took
place at night. The groom, best man and other male escorts would
leave the groom's father's house and conduct a torch light
procession to the home of the bride.
9
Although the bride was expecting her groom to come for her, she
did not know the exact time of his coming.
10
As a result the groom's arrival would be preceded by a shout.
11
This shout would forewarn the bride to be prepared for the coming
of the groom. After the groom received his bride together with her
female attendants, the enlarged wedding party would return from
the bride's home to the groom's father's house.
12
Upon arrival there the wedding party would find that the wedding
guests had assembled already. Shortly after arrival, the bride and
groom would be escorted by the other members of the wedding
party to the bridal chamber (huppah). Prior to entering the chamber
the bride remained veiled so that no one could see her face.
13
While the groomsmen and bridesmaids would wait outside, the
bride and groom would enter the bridal chamber alone. There in the
privacy of that place they would enter into physical union for the first
time, thereby consummating the marriage that had been covenanted
earlier.
14
After the marriage was consummated, the groom would announce
the consummation to the other members of the wedding party
waiting outside the chamber (John 3:29). These people would pass
on the news of the marital union to the wedding guests.
15
Upon receiving this good news the wedding guests would feast and
make merry for the next seven days.
16
During the seven days of the wedding festivities, which were
sometimes called "the seven days of the huppah," the bride
remained hidden in the bridal chamber.
17
At the conclusion of these seven days the groom would bring his
bride out of the bridal chamber, now with her veil removed, so that
all could see who his bride was.
The Examination of the Analogy

Earlier it was stated that in His promise in John 14 Jesus drew an
analogy from Jewish marriage customs in biblical times. Now that the
marriage customs have been considered, it is essential that the
analogy be examined. In what ways was Jesus' promise analogous
with Jewish marriage customs?
In the examination of the analogy the first thing that should be noted
is the fact that the Scriptures regard the Church to be the Bride of
Christ (Eph. 5:22-23).
In addition, just as the Jewish bridegroom took the initiative in

marriage by leaving his father's house and travelling to the home of
the prospective bride, so Jesus left His Father's house in heaven and
travelled to earth, the home of His prospective Church, over 1900
years ago.
In the same manner as the Jewish bridegroom came to the bride's

home for the purpose of obtaining her through the establishment of
a marriage covenant, so Jesus came to earth for the purpose of
obtaining the Church through the establishment of a covenant. On
the same night in which Jesus made His promise in John 14 He
instituted communion. As He passed the cup of wine to His disciples,
He said: "This cup is the new covenant in my blood" (1 Cor. 11:25).
This was His way of saying that He would establish a new covenant
through the shedding of His blood on the cross.
Parallel to the custom of the Jewish groom paying a price to purchase

his bride, Jesus paid a price to purchase His bride, the Church. The
price that He paid was His own life blood. It was because of this
purchase price that Paul wrote the following to members of the
Church: "know ye not that...ye are not your own? For ye are bought
with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and your spirit,
which are God's" (1 Cor. 6:19-20).
Analogous with the Jewish bride being declared to be sanctified or

set apart exclusively for her groom once the marriage covenant was
established, the Church has been declared to be sanctified or set
apart exclusively for Christ (Eph. 5:25-27; 1Cor. 1:2; 6:11; Heb.
10:10; 13:12).
In the same way that a cup of wine served as a symbol of the

marriage covenant through which the Jewish groom obtained his
bride, so the cup of communion serves as the symbol of the
covenant through which Christ has obtained the Church (1 Cor.
11:25).
Just as the Jewish groom left the home of his bride and returned to
his father's house after the marriage covenant had been established,
so Jesus left the earth, the home of the Church, and returned to His
Father's house in heaven after He had established the new covenant
and risen from the dead (John 6:62; 20:17).
Corresponding with the period of separation between the Jewish

groom and bride, Christ has remained separate from the Church for
over 1900 years. The Church is now living in that period of
separation. Parallel to the custom of the Jewish groom preparing
living accommodations for his bride in his father's house during the
time of separation, Christ has been preparing living accommodations
for the Church in His Father's house in heaven during His separation
from His Bride (John 14:2).
In the same manner as the Jewish groom came to take his bride to
live with him at the end of the period of separation, so Christ will
come to take His Church to live with Him at the end of His period of
separation from the Church (John 14:3).
Just as the taking of the Jewish bride was accomplished by a

procession of the groom and male escorts from the groom's father's
house to the home of the bride, so the taking of the Church will be
accomplished by a procession of Christ and an angelic escort from
Christ's Father's house in heaven to the home of the Church (1
Thess. 4:16).
Analogous with the Jewish bride not knowing the exact time of the
groom's coming for her, the Church does not know the exact time of
Christ's coming for her.
In the same way that the Jewish groom's arrival was preceded by a
shout, so Christ's arrival to take the Church will be preceded by a
shout (1 Thess. 4:16).
Similar to the Jewish bride's return with the groom to his father's
house after her departure from her home, the Church will return with
Christ to His Father's house in heaven after she is snatched from the
earth to meet Him in the air (1 Thess. 4:17; John 14:2-3).
In the same manner as the Jewish wedding party found wedding

guests assembled in the groom's father's house when they arrived,
so Christ and the Church will find the souls of Old Testament saints
assembled in heaven when they arrive. These souls will serve as the
wedding guests.
Parallel to the custom of the Jewish groom and bride entering into
physical union after their arrival at the groom's father's house,
thereby consummating the marriage that had been covenanted
earlier, Christ and the Church will experience spiritual union after
their arrival at His Father's house in heaven, thereby consummating
their relationship that had been covenanted earlier.
Corresponding with the Jewish bride remaining hidden in the bridal

chamber for a period of seven days after arrival at the groom's
father's house, the Church will remain hidden for a period of seven
after arrival at Christ's Father's house in heaven. While the seven
year Tribulation Period is taking place on the earth, the Church will
be in heaven totally hidden from the sight of those living on the
earth.
Just as the Jewish groom brought his bride out of the bridal chamber
at the conclusion of the seven days with her veil removed, so that all
could see who his bride was, so Christ will bring His Church out of
heaven in His Second Coming at the conclusion of the seven year
Tribulation Period in full view of all who are alive, so that all can see
who the true church is (Col. 3:4).

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Behold, The Bridegroom Comes!

Dr. Renald Showers

The Comforting Promise

Jewish Marriage Customs

The first major step in a Jewish marriage was betrothal.1 Betrothal

The Examination of the Analogy

In addition, just as the Jewish bridegroom took the initiative in

In the same manner as the Jewish bridegroom came to the bride's

Parallel to the custom of the Jewish groom paying a price to purchase

Analogous with the Jewish bride being declared to be sanctified or

In the same way that a cup of wine served as a symbol of the

Corresponding with the period of separation between the Jewish

Just as the taking of the Jewish bride was accomplished by a

In the same manner as the Jewish wedding party found wedding

Corresponding with the Jewish bride remaining hidden in the bridal

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