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    Therapists commonly ask introductory questions at the first counseling appointment to help guide treatment goals and facilitate positive change. Some typical initial questions therapists ask include: what brings the client to counseling, if they have seen a counselor before and why, how they define the problem and how it makes them feel, what makes the problem better or worse, what positive changes they want to achieve, how they would describe their mood, what they expect from the counseling process, what would make them happier, and how they would rate their interpersonal skills. The questions are meant to help the therapist understand the client's perspective and priorities to inform the counseling approach.

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    Therapists commonly ask introductory questions at the first counseling appointment to help guide treatment goals and facilitate positive change. Some typical initial questions therapists ask include: what brings the client to counseling, if they have seen a counselor before and why, how they define the problem and how it makes them feel, what makes the problem better or worse, what positive changes they want to achieve, how they would describe their mood, what they expect from the counseling process, what would make them happier, and how they would rate their interpersonal skills. The questions are meant to help the therapist understand the client's perspective and priorities to inform the counseling approach.

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    Therapists commonly ask introductory questions at the first counseling appointment to help guide treatment goals and facilitate positive change. Some typical initial questions therapists ask include: what brings the client to counseling, if they have seen a counselor before and why, how they define the problem and how it makes them feel, what makes the problem better or worse, what positive changes they want to achieve, how they would describe their mood, what they expect from the counseling process, what would make them happier, and how they would rate their interpersonal skills. The questions are meant to help the therapist understand the client's perspective and priorities to inform the counseling approach.

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    10 Introductory Questions Therapists Commonly Ask

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    Therapists commonly ask introductory questions at the first counseling appointment to help guide treatment goals and facilitate positive change. Some typical initial questions therapists ask include: what brings the client to counseling, if they have seen a counselor before and why, how they define the problem and how it makes them feel, what makes the problem better or worse, what positive changes they want to achieve, how they would describe their mood, what they expect from the counseling process, what would make them happier, and how they would rate their interpersonal skills. The questions are meant to help the therapist understand the client's perspective and priorities to inform the counseling approach.

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    10 Introductory Questions Therapists

    Commonly Ask
    Therapy is about the fine art of asking directive
    questions. So what should you expect from your first
    appointment with a counselor, social worker or
    psychologist?

    The answer is simple: You should expect easy, brain-


    expanding questions, questions and more questions. A
    “change map” (often called “treatment goals”) is then
    created to guide you in solving the problems that are
    currently plaguing you.

    Here are 10 of the more typical questions a


    psychotherapist will ask to prime your mental pump for
    positive change during the counseling process. Following the question is an example
    of what it might sound like.

    1. What brings you here? “It seems like you know yourself pretty well and have
    thought a bunch about what you would like to talk about here. People who
    show up here have courage galore, perhaps even a tad bit of exasperation. If
    you don’t mind, I’m going to ask you some questions, and take notes about
    what you say so I can keep it fresh in my memory. Oh, and feel free to interrupt
    me at any time or steer the conversation to where you need it to go. In your
    mind, what brings you here today?”
    2. Have you ever seen a counselor before? “You seem pretty comfortable and
    confident coming in here and talking about the challenges in your life. Have you
    ever seen a counselor before? If so, how many meetings did you attend and for
    what issues? Did you achieve the results you sought, and did your results
    ‘stick?’ What one thing do you remember most that your previous
    counselor/psychologist/social worker told you? What went right, or what didn’t
    turn out the way you would have liked it to?”
    3. What is the problem from your viewpoint? “Everyone has a different
    perspective on what the problem is, and who or what the solution is. The point
    of counseling is to create positive changes as rapidly as possible without
    feeling hurried. How do you see the problem or how do you define it? Which
    difficult people in your life are causing problems for you? How do you get along
    with people at work? How would you describe your personality? What are three
    of your biggest life accomplishments? Who or what is most important to you in
    your life? What is the problem from your viewpoint?”
    4. How does this problem typically make you feel? “We all have problems or
    challenges that we must face. Are you an optimist or a pessimist? How do you
    feel when a problem pops up unexpectedly? Although feelings aren’t right or
    wrong, good or bad, every problem has a way of making us feel one way or
    another. So, how does this problem typically make you feel? Do you feel sad,
    mad, hopeless, stuck or what?”
    5. What makes the problem better? “How often do you experience the
    problem? What do you think causes the problem to worsen? Have you ever not
    had the problem or noticed that the problem went away altogether? Have you
    tried certain tools, read books or pursued avenues in the past that have worked
    well to solve the problem? How does the problem affect your self-esteem or
    your sense of guilt?”
    6. If you could wave a magic wand, what positive changes would you make
    happen in your life? “Setting goals creates focus. Do you regularly set positive
    goals for your work life, love life and fun life? What is your attitude about
    change? What are your positive change goals? How would you like to improve
    your life to be more satisfied and happy? If we can find ways to make the
    problem better, perhaps we can find ways to greatly reduce or even eliminate
    the problem.”
    7. Overall, how would you describe your mood? “Moods come and go like the
    weather. Some of us are moodier than others or pick up someone else’s mood
    like a cold. Still others are pretty thick-skinned about emotional events. In your
    case, what makes you feel anxious? Is your mood like a roller coaster, or is it
    pretty steady? What brings you down or makes you feel blue? What’s
    guaranteed to make you feel up? How do you get yourself out of a bad mood?
    Do you use drugs, alcohol, sex, money, or other ‘mood soothers’ to make you
    feel better? What have people close to you told you about your moods?”
    8. What do you expect from the counseling process? “Everyone who comes
    here expects something different. I believe you are paying me to help you
    achieve your positive goals as quickly as possible. Some people like to receive
    homework, some clients like to vent and have me listen, and others want a high
    level of interaction. How do you think you learn best? Do you think of me as
    your communications and relationships coach? What do you expect from the
    counseling process? How many meetings do you think it will take to achieve
    your goals? How might you undermine achieving your own goals? Do you blame
    anyone for your problem? Do you use good advice to grow on? How will you
    know when we are done?”
    9. What would it take to make you feel more content, happier and more
    satisfied? “On a scale of 0-10, how content are you with your life? What keeps
    happening repeatedly that frustrates you? What do people keep doing that you
    dislike, and what do you wish they would change? How do you typically handle
    irritations, aggravations and frustrations? Do you get mad easily? How does
    your anger come out? What baggage or resentments do you carry from the
    past? What wrongs have been done to you that you haven’t forgiven? What
    changes could someone make that would really make you happy? What has
    been a major life disappointment? Do you feel mad when you don’t get your
    way or lose control? Who is pulling your strings, and why?”
    10. Do you consider yourself to have a low, average or high interpersonal
    IQ? “Would you rate your communication skills as negative, neutral or positive?
    How well do you get along with your life partner? Do you love your life partner?
    What positive relationship rules do you follow? How would you describe your
    relationship with your kids or grandkids? Do you get along with your siblings?
    How would you best describe your relationship with your parents? What family
    conflicts have you been embroiled in recently? What relationship have you been
    in that you judged to be a failure? Who do you call upon when your heart is
    hurting to mentor you? Have you put time and money into improving your
    communication skills lately? What is your biggest vulnerability or Achilles heel
    in relationships?”

    Emotional intimacy is created when you know the honest answers to the questions
    above.

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