Sri. Narayan Rao B.

Tatuskar
Founder
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DRISHTIKSHEP
Sri. K Suresh Navale
National Advisory Committee BHAVSAR VISION INDIA - CHENNAI
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V O L U M E I , I S S U E V M A Y 2 0 1 1
Sri. Sunil Malathkar
Governor Area 104
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Sri.Mahadev Rao Utharkar

Governor Ambassador
Area 104
Mobile - 9841575069
BVI CHENNAI - MAY 2011 MEET
Being a hot summer; BVI Chen- The GANDHI Beach
nai conducted its May meet at @ Chennai
Sri.Chandrasekar Sutrave the Cool Ambience—Gandhi
President Beach on 14th from 6.30 pm to
Mobile - 9444176414 8.30 pm. Many Members were
present for the meeting on the
pleasant evening.
Smt.Rajalakshmi Utharkar
President Elect
Mobile - 9884727257
The following points were dis-
cussed and agreed upon by the
member present.
Smt.Shashi Navle
Vice President  Speaker Meet by 2nd week
Mobile - 9884577047 of June 2011
 Conference Visit 2011
 Vadhu Var Mela 2011 Snacks were distributed to
Smt.Usha Malathkar all the members present
Secretary
for the meeting.
Mobile - 9884951910

Sri.Ganesh Rao Barade

Joint Secretary
Mobile - 9840266049
THE BOSS !!! - By Shashi Suresh
A man wanted to buy his son a parrot as a birthday present.
Sri.Uma Rani The next day he went to the pet shop and saw three identical parrots in a cage.
Mahenderkar
Treasurer He asked the clerk, "how much for the parrot on the right?"
Mobile - 9380605853 The owner said it was $250.
"$250." the man said. "Well what does he do?"
Sri.Bharani Malve
"He knows how to use all of the functions of Microsoft Office 2007", responds the clerk.
Captain "He can do all of your spreadsheets and type all of your letters."
Mobile - 9840790449
The man then asked what the second parrot cost.
The clerk replied, "$500; he not only knows Office 2007, but is an expert computer programmer."
Sri.K S Siddesh Ram Finally, the man inquired about the cost of the last parrot.
Jingade
Bulletin Editor
Mobile - 9500002095 The clerk replied, "$1,000".
Curious as to how a bird can cost $1,000, the man asked what this bird's specialty was.
The clerk replies, "Well to be honest I haven't seen him do anything.
But the other two call him *"BOSS"!!*

SERVICE / FRIENDSHIP / LEADERSHIP

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VADHU VAR MELA - A GREAT EVENT !!!

BHAVSAR VISION INDIA—CHENNAI IS VERY PROUD TO INFORM
THAT THE VADHU VAR MELA FOR THE YEAR 2011 WILL BE CON-
DUCTED ON JULY 24, 2011 AT THE FOLLOWING ADDRESS:

BHAVSAR KSHATRIYA SAMAJ

LONG BAZAAR STREET
VELLORE

Please do present yourself with your child for the Mela. We at BVI Pray God Almighty; “Lord Pan-
duranga” to bless your child with a beautiful “VADHU OR VAR”

AN IMPORTANT NOTICE !!!

This is an e-Bulletin which is being circulated to 500 Bhavsar Bandhus every month. And the num-
ber of circulation is increasing day by day. A half-a-page of this e-Bulletin has been allotted/
available for MATRIMONIAL ADVERTISEMENT. The Tariff/Rate for this advertisement is Rs.500/-
only. We request each and every one to utilize this opportunity and send us the softcopy of your
Child’s Profile / Photograph and Demand Draft favouring BHAVSAR VISION INDIA-CHENNAI,
payable at Chennai. The DD has to be sent to : CS DAV School, # 29, Circular Road, United India
Colony, Kodambakkam, Chennai—600 024. The advertisement will appear as below:

Name K.A.Ashok Kumar Kamithkar

Father's Name K.Arvind Kamithkar
Mother's Name A.Shanthi Kamithkar
D.O.B 24/07/1884 - Time : 8.00pm, Height :172cms
Nakshatra Rohini
Rasi Rishaba
Qualification BBA, MBA, PGD in Labour Law, PGD in Admin Law
PGD in Mkt Mgmt, Persuing M.Sc., Psychology
Occupation Senior HR with SPI Cinemas Pvt Ltd
Salary Rs.20000/- per month + Consultant in Statutory Compliance
Sister One – Married
Address 45A, Rajeswari Nagar , 6th Street, kolathur ,Chennai-600099
Contact +919677063646 / E-mail : [email protected]

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BVI YELLOW PAGES !!!

WANNA INCREASE YOUR BUSINESS !!!
HERE WE GO…...
BHAVSAR VISION INDIA—CHENNAI IS VERY HAPPY TO INFORM THAT THEY ARE
LAUNCHING A NEW INNOVATIVE IDEA WHICH WILL INCREASE THE BUSINESS OF
OUR BHAVSAR BUSINESSMEN!!

ANY GUESS ???

YES - YOU ARE RIGHT….

IT IS THE YELLOW PAGES OF BVI

As you are all aware; Bhavsar Vision India Chennai is circulating its e-bulletin every month
to 500 members across India. The number of circulation is increasing day by day.

Businessmen—We are here! You can double your business revenue by posting an advertise-
ment of your Company in our monthly e-Bulletin; which in turn will help BVI-C to do pro-
jects for our Community.

The tariff of advertisement is here under:

 Header & Footer : Rs.500/- per ad

 Quarter Page : Rs.1000/- per ad
 Half Page : Rs.1500/- per ad
 Full Page : Rs.2500/- per ad

Payment for the advertisement can be made by means of Demand Draft favouring BHAVSAR VI-
SION INDIA-CHENNAI, payable at Chennai. The Softcopy of the Advertisement and the Demand
Draft has to be sent to : CS DAV School, # 29, Circular Road, United India Colony, Kodambakkam,
Chennai—600 024
NOW WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR !!!
GRAB THIS FACILITY!!!

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FLOWER BUD FROM BVI - CHENNAI

Our Founder
Shri.Narayan Rao B
One of our young flower bud from Bhavsar has blossomed giving out sweet fragrance
Tatuskar
with blooming colors. Aravind Barade, son of Mr. Ganesh Rao Barade and Bhagya
Lakshmi Bai Barade had joined IIM-Ahmedabad a year back.

This young Vice President of our Youth Bhavsar Vision India, Chennai (a.k.a Vision
2020) marched forward and decided to intern with Dr. APJ Abdul Kalam. He left be-
hind all those high paying corporate office for a sole motive of learning and finding an
opportunity to serve the basic grass root level instead of providing luxury goods to
well-off people. Under the ellited and most respected ex-President of India, Dr. Kalam,
Aravind has now worked for two months under various social and national initia-
tives.

Dr. Kalam under his tight schedule of flying from countries to countries, graciously
invited Mr. Ganesh's Rao family to spend some time over a cup of tea with Mrs. and
Mr. Ganesh Rao and his two daughters, Deepa Bai and Aarthi Bai. The professor him-
self inquired about the respective fields of Mr. Ganesh Rao's daughters and was happy
to listen to what young minds had to say with an open ear. He reflected back by giv-
ing them valuable advice and also few books to read and get motivated. Though being
an ex-President he was a simple, down-to-earth, jovial casual adhmi who spoke simple
but powerful words.

Jai Ho Bhavsars

MOTHER’S DAY
God could not be everywhere and therefore he made mothers.

Many hugs
Only love never anger
Deepa Barade Teaching me
Helping me
Vision 2020 Every smile when I was sad
Raising me to be strong
President
It spells Mother. Thanks for being u.

VISION 2020 dedicate the month of May to all Mothers.

Bhagyalakshmi Bai Barade's children surprised her by a surprise gift

on Mother's day.

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Ultimate truth (Uncanny-but true!)

Whenever I find the key to success, someone changes the lock.

To Err is human, to forgive is not a COMPANY policy.

The road to success??.. Is always under construction.

Alcohol doesn't solve any problems, but if you think again, neither does Milk.

In order to get a Loan, you first need to prove that you don't need it.

All the desirable things in life are either illegal, expensive or fattening or married to someone else.

Since Light travels faster than Sound, people appear brighter before you hear them speak.

Everyone has a scheme of getting rich?.. Which never works.

If at first you don't succeed? Destroy all evidence that you ever tried.

You can never determine which side of the bread to butter. If it falls down, it will always land on the
buttered side.

Anything dropped on the floor will roll over to the most inaccessible corner.

As soon as you mention something? if it is good, it is taken?. If it is bad, it happens.

He who has the gold, makes the rules ---- Murphy's golden rule.

If you come early, the bus is late. If you come late?? the bus is still late.

Once you have bought something, you will find the same item being sold somewhere else at a cheaper
rate.

When in a queue, the other line always moves faster and the person in front of you will always have the
most complex of transactions.

If you have paper, you don't have a pen??. If you have a pen, you don't have paper?? if you have both,
no one calls.

Especially for engg. Students----

If you have bunked the class, the professor has taken attendance.

You will pick up maximum wrong numbers when on roaming..

The door bell or your mobile will always ring when you are in the bathroom.

After a long wait for bus no.20, two 20 number buses will always pull in together and the bus which
you get in will be more crowded than the other.

If your exam is tomorrow, there will be a power cut tonight.

Irrespective of the direction of the wind, the smoke from the cigarette will always tend to go to the non-
smoker.

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VOLUMEI, ISSUE V

GOLDEN RULES !!!

Dear All

Words from a person who really experienced his life. Kindly spend some time in reading this.. Easily we can win life
to some extent.

Bride Groom Thoughts : For those who are Married as well as for those who will get Married.- Sharing A Few
Thoughts For Would Be Grooms -

1. Never compare your amma's cooking with your wife's. There is no faster way to dig your own grave than that. Please un-
derstand that your mom's cooking has the backing of 20 odd years of experience... don't expect that from your wife whose
hardly into the process. What if she were to compare your earning capacity with her dad's.. So shshshhhhh..!
2. Never go out of your way to please the lady with flowers, chocolates and gifts during your engagement period. If ever you
do , please follow it up post-wedding too. When you could cover 20kms in 15 minutes when you are engaged just to spend
some time with her, how dare you forget her birthday post - marriage,even after you are given the broadest of hints by her.
Remember expectations always double...ever heard of them being halved?
3. Do compliment her every now and then, verbally or with gifts! What are those lovely Teddies and Archies gift cards for?
Don't sit there like the Lord Of The Rings expecting to be waited upon! Of course she will do it but everyone likes to be ap-
preciated and pampered.
4. This is very important. Sulking or complaining about marriage being a big mistake is a strict NO -NO. You got into it with
your eyes wide open, brimming with enthusiasm. No one ever pushed you into it. So why this drama now.
5. Be Brave and take your own decisions and stand up by them. Consult your parents for advice but realize that you are grown
up enough to lead your life. Respect your partner's views at all times! Remember she has given up a lot more to make a life
with you!!

Sharing Thoughts For WouldBbe Brides - [Don't know how many will take it in the right sense. But still]

1. Don't expect too much from him. Less the expectations lesser the disappointments.
2. Don't ever dare to plan any outing or movie on a day when there is an interesting cricket match going on. REMEMBER
SPORTS is more important to him than anything else. You spoil his day and He spoils yours .
3. Over Emotions, Sentiments... Woha... What are these? Tears are not going to give any results either. It's just a temp. atten-
tion tht u get. No one likes Crying Babies m Whining Wifes.
4. Never dare to cross with his mother.Even if he says "My Mom's cooking is the best. U are nothing in front of her." take it
easily with a smile. Tell him tht u are learning from his mother and will try to do it better. U are not gonna lose anything.
5. Try to know his friends and understand that they are also part of his world. Allow him to spend few weekends or occasional
night out parties with his friends. But at the same time make sure that u get u r due importance! It must not be tht he
roams arnd with his friends forgetting that you exist at home.
6. Don't start fighting for silly things.Forgetting bthdays n Anniversaries is not a big mistake. Men are not blessed with "2
GB RAM" for storing everything in main memory. If you are very particular abt present gifts n parties on u r bthdays n
anniversaries. Make sure u remind them well in advance by some means (I know it sounds stupid. But if u are so particular,
Do it for u r own good)
7. Take him for your shopping only if he's interested. If you are going for Window Shopping or for saree purchase,Better go
with your friends/go alone. He is better at office/home watching cricket.
8. Give him importance always.

- RAJALAKSHMI
MAHADEV UTHARKAR

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LEAVE APPLICATION - FUN !!!

See , how people write leave Applications. It's murder of English language. But Too Funny. Just Read It.

The Leave Applications:

An employee applied for leave as follows:

"Since I have to go to my village to sell my land along with my wife, please sanction me one-week leave."

From an employee who was performing the "mundan" ceremony of his 10 year old son:
"as I want to shave my son's head , please leave me for two days.."

Leave-letter from an employee who was performing his daughter's wedding:

"as I am marrying my daughter, please grant a week's leave.."

From an Other Employee:

"As my mother-in-law has expired and I am only one responsible for it, please grant me 10 days leave."

Another employee applied for half day leave as follows:

"Since I've to go to the cremation ground at 10 o-clock and I may not return , please grant me half day casual leave"

An incident of a leave letter:

"I am suffering from fever , please declare one-day holiday."

A leave letter to the headmaster:

"As I am studying in this school I am suffering from headache. I request you to leave me today"

Another leave letter written to the headmaster:

"As my headache is paining , please grant me leave for the day."

Covering note:
"I am enclosed herewith..."

Another one:
"Dear Sir: with reference to the above , please refer to my below..."

Actual letter written for application of leave:

"My wife is suffering from sickness and as I am her only husband at home I may be granted leave".

Letter writing:-
"I am well here and hope you are also in the same well."

A candidate's job application:

"This has reference to your advertisement calling for a ' Typist and an Accountant - Male or Female'... As I am both(!! )
for the past several years and I can handle both with good experience , I am applying for the post.

- N. SRINIVAS PATHANGAY

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VOLUMEI, ISSUE V

10 THINGS TO LEARN FROM JAPAN

1. THE CALM -Not a single visual of chest-beating or wild grief. Sorrow itself has been elevated.

2. THE DIGNITY
- Disciplined queues for water and groceries. Not a rough word or a crude gesture.

3. THE ABILITY
- The incredible architects, for instance. Buildings swayed but didn’t fall.
4. THE GRACE
- People bought only what they needed for the present, so everybody could get something.

5. THE ORDER
- No looting in shops. No honking and no overtaking on the roads. Just understanding.

6. THE SACRIFICE
- Fifty workers stayed back to pump sea water in the N-reactors. How will they ever be repaid?
7. THE TENDERNESS
- Restaurants cut prices. An unguarded ATM is left alone. The strong cared for the weak.

8. THE TRAINING
- The old and the children; everyone knew exactly what to do. And they did just that.

9. THE MEDIA
- They showed magnificent restraint in the bulletins. No silly reporters. Only calm reportage.
10. THE CONSCIENCE
- When the power went off in a store, people put things back on

- N. SRINIVAS PATHANGAY

Minced Mutton Kheema/ Mutton Kothukari

Ingredients: Directions: - RAJALAKSHMI UTHARKAR

Mutton - 1 lb ( 1/2 kg ) Step 1: Wash the minced meat thoroughly and drain water in
Oil - 3 tsp colander. Chop Onion, tomato, Coriander leaves. Grind ginger
garlic to fine paste. Split open green chili.
Onion - 1 no ( medium )
Curry Leaves - 1 strand Step 2: In a pan heat Oil. When hot add curry leaves, green chili
Green Chilli - 2 No and onion. Fry till the onion is translucent. Add ginger garlic
Ginger Garlic Paste ( fresh ground ) - 1 tbsp paste and fry till the raw smell leaves. Add the tomato and let it
Tomato—1 no ( medium ) cook till it is mushy.
Homemade Curry Masala powder - 2 tbsp
Step 3: Add the Curry Masala and fry for few seconds, make sure
Salt - to taste
not to burn the Masala. Add the washed meat and salt and mix
Water 1 Cup
well. Add water and close the lid. Cook till mutton is cooked in
Coriander Leaves - 1/4 Cup
medium flame. Stir often to avoid burning the bottom.
Homemade Curry Masala Powder substitute :
Red Chili powder—1tsp ( or to taste ) Step 4: If you wanted it to be gravy remove from stove once the
Coriander powder—3 tsp ( or to taste ) meat is cooked else fry in medium high till the meat becomes dry.
Add the Coriander leaves at the end. (*) Can be accompanied
with steamed white rice, idili, dosa, parota and chapathi.

Cooking Tips
―Do not freeze the chicken or any meat. Freezing makes the meat
tough while cooking. Keep it in the top layer of fridge and cook
with in 2 days.‖

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TESTIMONIALS on our 4th Bulletin

Dear Siddesh—EXCELLENT! KEEP IT UP. NARAYAN RAO B. TATUSKAR—FOUNDER

Dear Siddesh—Congrats—At the outset, congratulations to you & your team for bringing out such a fantastic e-
bulletin. The entire publication & its matter represent great quality of work done by you all. Keep up the good work &
do keep sending your e-bulletins in future. PRAMOD V SULAKHE—VICE PRESIDENT, BVI GOA CLUB 2011

Dear Siddesh Bow—It is really cool - ASHOK KAMITHMAR

Dear Siddesh—A very exhaustive but excellent e-bulletin - SRINIVAS PATHANGAY

Dear Siddesh Uncle—It was a fabulous one. I really loved it and it was quite interesting too. Keep up the high spirit in
your work. Awesome bulletin once again.- SUGANYA UTHARKAR

Dear Siddesh—Once again you have proved that you have dedication and love in your Editorial work. March month e
-bulletin was very colorful as Holi and April month e-bulletin is a very devotional one. This shows that you work
whole heartedly. I THANK the people those who gave good comments on my articles and it helps me to do more.
Please keep continuing your excellent work. We are always there behind you. GOD BLESS YOU. THANK YOU –
RAJALAKSHMI UTHARKAR

Congrat’s Siddesh! Bringing out e-bulletin in time is more appreciable. It’s colourful and informative. Keep up the good work. –
SHASHI SURESH

Tickle Your Funny Bones…...

A man placed some flowers on the grave of his dearly de-
parted mother and started back toward his car when his atten-
tion was diverted to another man kneeling at a grave.

The man seemed to be praying with profound intensity and

kept repeating, Why did you have to die? Why did you have
to die?"

The first man approached him and said, "Sir, I don't wish to
interfere with your private grief, but this demonstration of
pain is more than I've ever seen before. For whom do you
mourn so deeply? A child? A parent?"

The mourner took a moment to collect himself, then replied,

"My wife's first husband." - RAJALAKSHMI UTHARKAR

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101 WAYS TO REDUCE STRESS

1. Get up 15 minutes earlier 54. Find support from others
2. Prepare for the morning the night before 55. Ask someone to be your “vent-partner”
3. Avoid tight fitting clothes 56. Do it today
4. Avoid relying on chemical aids 57. Work at being cheerful and optimistic
5. Set appointments ahead 58. Put safety first
6. Don’t rely on your memory … write it down 59. Do everything in moderation
7. Practice preventive maintenance 60. Pay attention to your appearance
8. Make duplicate keys 61. Strive for Excellence NOT perfection
9. Say “no” more often 62. Stretch your limits a little each day
10.Set priorities in your life 63. Look at a work of art
11. Avoid negative people 64. Hum a jingle
12. Use time wisely 65. Maintain your weight
13. Simplify meal times 66. Plant a tree
14. Always make copies of important papers 67. Feed the birds
15. Anticipate your needs 68. Practice grace under pressure
16.. Repair anything that doesn’t work properly 69. Stand up and stretch
17. Ask for help with the jobs you dislike 70. Always have a plan “B”
18. Break large tasks into bite size portions 71. Learn a new doodle
19. Look at problems as challenges 72. Memorize a joke
20. Look at challenges as opportunity 73. Be responsible for your feelings
21. Un-clutter your life 74. Learn to meet your own needs
22. Smile 75. Become a better listener
23. Be prepared for rain 76. Know your limitations and let others know them, too
24. Tickle a baby 77. Tell someone to have a good day in Latin or any other new lan-
25. Pet a friendly dog/cat guage
26. Don’t know all the answers then 78. Throw a paper airplane
27. Look for a silver lining 79. Exercise every day
28. Say something nice to someone 80. Learn the words of a new song
29. Teach a kid to fly a kite 81. Get to work early
30. Walk in the rain 82. Clean out one closet
31. Schedule play time into every day 83. Play patty cake with a toddler
32. Take a bubble bath 84. Go on a picnic
33. Be aware of the decisions you make 85. Take a different route to work
34. Believe in yourself 86. Leave work early (with permission)
35. Stop saying negative things to yourself 87. Put air freshener in your car
36. Visualize yourself winning 88. Watch a movie and eat popcorn
37. Develop your sense of humour 89. Write a note to a far away friend
38. Stop thinking tomorrow will be a better day 90. Go to a ball game and scream
39. Have goals for yourself 91. Cook a meal and eat it by candlelight
40. Dance a jig 92. Recognize the importance of unconditional love
41. Say “hello” to a stranger 93. Remember that stress is an attitude
42. Ask a friend for a hug 94. Keep a journal
43. Look up at the stars 95. Practice a monster smile
44. Practice breathing slowly 96. Remember you always have options
45. Learn to whistle a tune 97. Have a support network of people, places and things
46. Read a poem 98. Quit trying to fix other people
47. Listen to a symphony 99. Get enough sleep
48. Watch a ballet 100.Talk less and listen more
49. Read a story curled up in bed 101.Freely praise other people...!
50. Do a brand new thing
51. Stop a bad habit
52. Buy yourself a flower
53. Take time to small the flowers - SUGANYA UTHARKAR

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BIRTHDAY’s & WEDDING BELLS !!!

 On 15th May 2011, our BVI Chennai President
Mr.Chandrasekar Sutrave Celebrated his BIRTHDAY!!!

 Our Vision 20:20 President, Ms. G Deepa Bai Barade,

Celebrated her birthday on 12th May. She celebrated her
birthday with Dr.APJ Abdul Kalam in Delhi. After com-
ing back, her student gave her a surprise party.

 Mr.Ganesh Rao Barade, Joint Secretary, Celebrated his

birthday on 31st May 2011

 Vision 2020 members, Mr.Shiv Sankar Utharkar cele-

brated his birthday on 17th May

 Ms.Tejasri celebrated her birthday on 16th May.

 On 29th May 2001, our National Advisor Mr,Suresh

Navale and our Vice President Mrs.Shashi Suresh Cele-
brated their Wedding Anniversary!!!

Mr.Suresh Navale
Bhavsar Vision India - Chennai is involved in conduct-
Advisor - National Committee
ing medical camps, provide educational scholarship to
Mail ID; [email protected]
the student, Plant saplings to make green environment,
Hand Phone: 0 - 9840149960 conduct Seminars and programs on affects of Global
Warming, Personality Development Programmes, Fu-
Mr.K S Siddesh Ram Jingade ture Educational Guidance, Visit Cancer Hospital,
Bulletin Editor 2011 Blind Schools, Orphanages, to distribute new clothes,
Mail ID; [email protected] food, plates, footwear, etc.
Hand Phone: 0 - 9500002095
We kindly request all the members to share some
good articles, jokes, pictures, thought provoking infor-
Mrs. B Vidya Siddesh Jingade mation and/any informative messages. Please send
Co Bulletin Editor 2011 your articles only to the mail ID given in the Editorial
Mail ID: [email protected] Board Section. All the articles/message will be pre-
Hand Phone: 0 - 9840004700 viewed by the Advisor from the National Committee.
And on his approval; the same will be published in
the e-Bulleting.
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Most of the articles in this bulletin are a forwarded mails/messages.
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