SMADE Magazine: Davido Edition
SMADE Magazine: Davido Edition
SMADE Magazine: Davido Edition
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AFROBEATS
FALZ MI ALAD
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WIZK GOLD EXCLUSIVE INTERVIEW
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KENN PLATNUM
THE ‘SELF MADE’ JOURNEY SO FAR
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This has got to be our most exciting issue yet! dominate the Afro-pop sound around the world;
We’ve stripped it all the way back and this you’ve been warned!
time we’re giving you pure luxury and
minimalism at its finest. We bring you a stellar lineup of
concerts all year round from Falz
We present you with the 30 to Adekunle Gold, we’ve got
Billion Edition dedicated to plenty of events to fill up your
our cover star Davido! With calendar-you can thank us
such an epic year in 2017, later.
we just had to sit down with
the man of the moment. So There are a few more gems
don’t worry, all the burning hidden there but I’m not going
questions you’ve had for to give them all away now am
years can finally be answered. I- Get reading already!
I didn’t get to ask if he’s single
though-Sorry ladies Enjoy!
Contributors
Junior Adeosun:::Adeshope Olajide:::Wadzani Tausu
Sir Banko:::Opeyemi Ogunsanwo:::Hadiza Ayinde::: SDR Photo
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FEATURE
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THE KING OF AFROBEATS
Interview with Davido
Indulge in our exclusive Q&A
session with Africa’s sensational
artist
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A DAY WITH CHANGING THE FACE
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KING SMADE
SIR BANKO The Business man and OF FASHION
The DMW President takes us entrepreneur takes us Four of the very best African
through a typical through his Self Made fashion designers talk to us
day in his life Journey about the fashion industry
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Production tips from some Get some juicy inside BUG THIS YEAR
of the very best producers scoop on Dremo, ‘Must Go” destinations
currently in the game Yonda, Peruzzi, Ichaba of 2018
and Mayorkun AGONY AUNTY 42
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FALZ Our Aunty answers some
THE BADH GUY intriguing questions from real
Talks about his first people with real
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The Nigerian
HighLife song ‘Sweet
Mother’ by Prince
Nico Mbarga became
an international
success
American Jazz
saxophonist Branford
Marsalis samples
Fela’s ‘Beast of
No Nation’ on his
‘Buckshot LeFonque’
Album
}The creation of the Afro-
Pop sound is brought
to life with artists like
JJC, Olu Maintain, Tony
Tetuila, StylPlus, 9ice,
Zule Zoo and Wande
Coal in the limelight
2face Idibia: the
song ‘African
Queen’ became
internationally
acclaimed
‘Game Over’ by Wizkid album ‘Ayo’ Drake and Wizkid’s
Psquare’ (produced gets great reviews in ‘One Dance’ became
by /JMartins). Nigeria the USA with viral
created a brand new single ‘Ojuelegba’
sound for Africa
No.1 on the US
Billboard Hot 100
Wizkid tops
Wizkid US Billboard
King Sunny breaks
Ade pioneers Dynamic
Twins create America
Juju music
a 'new'
The 'African sound
Highlife Queen'
music gains American Phenomenon
international Jazzist The creation
success samples of Afro-pop
Fela's Music
bashment
is this the TAKEOVER? Originally there were
question marks being
Written by ADESHOPE OLAJIDE aka @SHOPSYDOO raised by DJ’s about
the quality of the
music not being good
enough for plays due
I to substandard beats,
n the last edition, I wrote an swing/Afro-bashment movement is made them and the genre even bigger
article about “the rise of UK that they are all of African descent than anyone imagined in such a short
Afrobeats” which discussed the
credibility that Afrobeats music has
from countries such as Ghana,
Gambia, Congo and Nigeria. Although
space of time. With such backing by
major labels, this meant Radios like
bad mixes and let’s be
gained in the UK and outside of Africa they grew up in the UK listening to the BBC, Capital FM, Kiss, The Beat honest-in some cases,
in general, within the last two years
with successes for acts like Mista
the likes of Grime and Dancehall
they are also fans of Afrobeats,
103.6, Rinse FM including pirate
stations have ensured their playlists BAD SINGERS.
Silva, Moelogo, Maleek Berry, Sona, obviously through their roots and have support the new acts and their genre
Kwamz and Flava just to name a consciously or unconsciously fused all quicker than they would have if it
few. Fast forward to 2017 and a new the elements (beats, broken English, were still an underground genre. the platforms quickly reaching more audience, continue its entry into the
sub-genre has emerged again from the melodies) together to create the fast- Stonebwoy have now acknowledged
Afro-swings/Afro-bashment’s music consumers in the UK and mainstream market and gain the right
UK scene which has become hugely rising genre. Although Afrobeats acts based in globally before any other African acts attention by the music buying fans.
embraced in no time. the UK and Africa such as Wizkid, growing influence on the UK urban
and mainstream music market around the world can, making not
This new genre has taken a stronghold Davido, Sarkodie, Mista Silva, only the genre popular amongst the In my closing opinion, the more
Although it goes by various names; in the Urban music game largely Moelogo, Maleek Berry and Sona are by collaborating with the likes of
Kojo Funds, J Hus and Lotto boyz young Urban music lovers, who by the genres created by Africans or people
Afro-swing or Afro-Bashment is a because of the catchy songs and huge still making strides in the UK urban way spend more time on streaming of African descent out there making
blend of Afrobeats, Dancehall, a bit of young fan base it boasts, however the market, a space that would have as a means to climb their way up
in the industry or increase their platforms on their phones than at waves THE BETTER, in the past pop
Grime and a bit of R’n’B. This genre massive machines behind the acts and been solely occupied by the Afrobeats clubs and parties nowadays. . acts have profited and benefited from
has been made very popular by acts their music can’t be overlooked. Since acts (as an emerging genre) is now popularity within the UK urban scene
#SmartMove. African influences, sounds, creativity
such as Kojo Funds, J Hus, Yungbane the initial interest and massive support largely been filled by UK Afro-swing/ Does the success of Afro-swing/Afro- and our brothers and sisters never got
and Not3s with hits like Dun Talking, from influential platforms like GRM Afro-bashment acts that are signed, bashment mean the end or decline of a penny or credit for it. So as I always
Did You See, Addison Lee etc. Some Daily and LinkUpTV (online platforms understand the mainstream music One other glaring factor in the Afro-
swing/Afro-bashment phenomenon is which Afrobeats music made in the say IT’S AFRICA’S TIME (whether born
of us Afrobeats enthusiasts will argue with large UK young audiences) the game, will dance to the record label UK or around the world was breaking in Africa or outside) right now so let’s
that this sound was coined by Burna attention of big music fishes i.e record tunes and respond to plans and ideas the massive influence of the streaming
platforms i.e Spotify and Apple, due into the UK mainstream market? celebrate and elevate each other and
Boy as he came into the game years labels like Sony, Warner etc. were that the labels have put in place to NO it just simply means there is a be part of the movement. Afro-swing
ago singing with such a vibe, which quickly drawn into the Afro-swing promote them (that can’t be said by to the massive subscription numbers
they posses and the major label new competing genre with similar or Afro-bashment the takeover? I’d say
I feel the UK acts may have copied movement with Dollar and Pound the some of the Afrobeats acts who see elements that no one saw coming and more like welcome to the party.
and developed. The interesting yet signs in their eyes. They started promotion, press as a waste of influences within these platforms,
the UK Afro-swing/Afro-bashment it’s going to take a lot of hard work,
inspiring thing about all the acts handing out single and album deals to time). To top it off , popular Afrobeats fantastic content and huge promotion
mentioned above running the Afro- these leading acts which in turn has acts like Mr Eazi, Burna boy, acts with label affiliations get first
dibs at the most popular playlists on for Afrobeats to compete for the same
8AM - Next, I open the 30 Billion group and executive/management talent are
chat and brainstorm with the team on plans all in the same space discussing and
and strategies - It’s called “UPDATE” so brainstorming plans and ideas. The
this is when we get all the plans for the atmosphere is serious and playful at
day. Sometimes Jiggy, sometimes dulling, the same time.
sometimes funny, sometimes sad but
most times it’s Bag (money) updates. This 1.30-6PM - Call time active. The
morning routine right here is a daily ritual creative talents get into their element
with the 30BG execs! and start to make magic. Shooting a
video can be fun and hectic but we
9AM - Part of the day’s agenda is that we’ve grind out of passion so we never get
got a 2 day,2 video shoots kinda day! tired on the job! Work Work Work
Call time is at noon so I’ve got 3 hours to that’s the motto of the day! Shooting
make some business happen. I manage flicks to Hits all night until the
to squeeze in DMW Business & Ardent morning to get lucky.
Solutions (my marketing company - experts
in branding & marketing) 7-11PM - We’re cooling off after the
shoot vibes and head to Shisha Room
10-12PM - Meetings with a few corporate to cool the nerves. Shisha Room
clients who wanna bring that bag in one Lagos.NG is our No.1 cool down spot
or numerous ways with our hot talents at which is also co-owned by The Plug
DMW (Banks, Liquor brands, Telcos) etc. Asa Asika! We enjoy a few drinks
Business meetings In general - It’s called and puffs of that good green and good
“Still in the meeting” vibes. Overall, everyone’s getting
ready to get back to work the next day
12.30PM - Now this is the best yet most for Day 2!
tasking and crunching part of our day.
Especially Day 1 of the 2 day video shoots. With DMW it’s good vibes all day!
But we’re shooting with Director Q today Every day is a payday if you’re in the
which is always exciting. First we all right hands!
rendezvous at the shoot location with all
team members present. Each talent has his Dreams come true at DMW - We
own team, so when it’s a rendezvous like Living!!
this it’s a full gang situation. Both creative
MOSTLY A’S
You’re so close to stardom you can
a I’m a natural, I b Depends on c I hate being in almost taste it. You were born for
love being in the my mood but I front of a camera. showbiz and if you’re consistent
limelight. I’m can feel like I’m I’m more of a you will go far. Just don’t forget our
at ease when under pressure behind the scenes commission when you hit the big
taking pictures sometimes kind of person time, we helped you discover your
and videos potential after all!
2. It’s a normal day but you’re looking really good. All of a sudden
paparazzi start pursuing you as they think you’re a celebrity, what
5 minutes with
bizzle
do you do?
a OMG It’s game b I’ll pose but c I’m running and
4 - 6 POINTS
time. I’m about I’ll be walking losing them as
to pose like my really fast to soon as I can MOSTLY B’S
life depends on get out of the You’re so close to stardom you can
it. This needs to situation almost taste it. You were born for
go on Snapchat showbiz and if you’re consistent
you will go far. Just don’t forget our
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a Blast them on b Cuss them out to c I don’t have time
social media my friends and to even react to It’s no surprise that Abiodun
and make sure family but next that nonsense. Osikoya also known as Bizzle is
everybody time I’ll keep my They’re false
fun
recognised as the ‘Connect Guy’.
knows my side business more rumors anyway Apart from this he’s also a media
of the story private 0 - 3 POINTS and entertainment consultant, the
facts
Co-founder & Principal Consultant
4. Would you sleep with someone to get you further in your career? MOSTLY C’S of The Plug Entertainment. He’s
a Hell yeah I’ll I’ll say no c My body is We hate to burst your bubble but also a Top social media influencer
b you really don’t have what it takes
you need
do whatever it right now but precious and I’d so it’s really hard to miss him on
takes my answer never use that as to be famous. That’s OK though, you your timeline!
might change a method to get to can still be rich and powerful in so
to know
depending on the top because if many different ways!
who it is and the I do it once it will
circumstances never stop
5. When you post an image/video on social media and it gets loads
of engagement how do you react? My passion is anything to do
with music and tech I’m scared of heights so I
a Hell yeah I’ll b I’ll say no c My body is never go on high rides at
do whatever it right now but precious and I’d amusement parks
takes my answer never use that as I’m double jointed
might change a method to get to
depending on the top because if I love to travel
who it is and the I do it once it will I love to sing, even though I
circumstances never stop have a terrible singing voice
EMOTION
The most exciting part
EQUIPMENT about producing is the
Investing your money emotion and energy
in good equipment is that comes from the
a good way to show STORAGE process, rather than
you’re taking your If you’ve got unreleased the technical aspects of
career seriously. Your music that you’ve been production. Enjoy every
input is your output. storing for 2 years or little bit of it whilst
more, you may want you can.
If you’re going to take to consider licensing/
selling the beats
expert advice from rather than
just sitting on
them.
anyone in the game,
you’re better off AUTHENTICITY VOLUME
getting it from award- The best advice is to
always stay true to why Louder doesn’t make it
better. Keep the volume
winning producers like you started making
music in the first place. THE FINAL
at a decent level and
make sure you check
Da Beatfreakz. The PRODUCT IS ALL
THAT MATTERS
your mixes when the
track is both loud and
musical duo share 6 Trust the process, it
will all be worth it in
quiet.
junior adeosun
been a particular moment holiday destination? Well
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for when we suddenly home is always a good
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company hasn’t reached I love my people and my
its peak yet. I’m always country, although I may not
trying to do something new class it as a holiday because
and something bigger so I I’m always working. I can
think there are still many also say I really loved
more chances to break new Zanzibar the last time I
businessman extrodinaire ground.
The ‘Ghen Ghen Babe’ is not only known for her monster hit Johnny
but also outstanding performances, flamboyant outfits and killer dance
moves which have landed her MTV Africa Music Awards Best Female not
one, but two years in a row. Her music has a continental appeal which
became apparent when her Mama Africa album became No.1 on iTunes
Africa Chart. She then went on to create a Mama Afrique EP incorporating
French, Portuguese and Swahili; unifying the continent through diversity
and innovation with an Afropolitan sound. This role model has become an
ambassador for African solidarity. Her latest album Black Magic has created
a new buzz with leading track ‘Single and Searching’ ft Falz, reminding us
of why she is hailed as an award-winning entertainer.
KING
Are you the King of Afrobeats? What can we expect from you this year?
We are all kings! Greatness ONLY.
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Some started by learning Youtube and Google are a
and taking over from blessing to our generation
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work full time & have a
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Nigerian designer Amaka
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by saying Michelle Obama,
Lupita N’yongo and Solange
have all worn one of these
pieces which confirms that
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reckoned with. Her collections
tell stories through design as
she incorporates style from
both Nigerian traditions A contemporary
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influences with each piece combining Nigerian cultural
intricately designed with her heritage, British luxury and
signature use of adire. This Italian design aesthetics all
womenswear brand challenges in one go. What is the result?
stereotypical concepts of Perfect executions of pattern
beauty by creating narrative rich evening wear with a
pieces which embody the traditional yet modern flair.
philosophies of sustainability, Onalja celebrates women’s
preservation, strength and style, culture, and femininity.
complex simplicity.
ONALJA
African Fashion has always been Photo Credit:
admired for its bold use of patterns SDR PHOTO
and vibrant colours, but now there
seems to be a new generation
of leaders striving to promote
traditional aesthetics with a hint of
menswear
modernity.
ORANGE
Long gone are the days of
perceiving African attire as CULTURE
You might have heard of
unfashionable or ‘vintage’. Africans
are putting in their best to promote Orange Culture through their
the rich culture all over the world recent Davido x Orange
through style, design and finesse. Culture collaboration, as
Contemporary designers are not part of the Music Matters
only recognising the culture but at Selfridges campaign but
also incorporating it into their Adebayo Oke-Lawal has been
changing the face of menswear
work through the different use Tokyo James’ eponymous fashion since 2011. Orange
of prints and silhouettes. From menswear label captures Culture is a contemporary
Burberry to Stella McCartney, simplicity with an edge. urban streetwear brand aimed
African-inspired fashion has been With years of experience at a creative class of men that
spotted on some of the biggest as a stylist and creative are “self-aware, expressive,
runways over the recent years. director, it was only right explorative and art-loving
It’s becoming very apparent that for James to create a nomads.” Between being
African fashion is about to make fashion-forward menswear shortlisted as a finalist for the
some major moves. collection. The clean LVMH prize and showcasing
line, sophisticated designs at major fashion shows across
The African Fashion Market is are based on the modern the globe, the brand has
reportedly worth $31 Billion African man expressing rapidly gained international
dollars- it’s safe to say it’s booming individuality whilst keeping recognition and become a
right now, and these are some of traditional techniques at noble brand to watch out for.
the designers killing the game. its core.
Don’t say we didn’t warn you!
TOKYO
JAMES
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Interview with
FALZ
THE BAHD GUY
Whether you love him for his quirky rap, hilarious skits
on Instagram or effortless style, there’s no denying that
Falz is a real BAHD Guy indeed. The multi-talented
entertainer has had a rapid rise to stardom and it looks
like he’s just getting started.
The ‘Soft Work’ rapper aims to own Record label called BAHD
disrupt the Hip Hop industry Guy Records of course! With so
one song at a time with his much achieved in such a short
signature side parting and clear space of time, we can already tell
retro aviator glasses. Falz is Mr. Falana is going to go down in
also loved for using his music history.
to tackle socio-economic issues
in Nigeria, which could be a He dominated 2017 with tracks
result of his background with from his latest album ‘27’
the justice system. Coming from including ‘Something Light’,
a family of lawyers, it was only ‘Jeje’, ‘Bahd Baddo Baddest’ (feat.
right that he followed suit and Olamide & Davido), ‘Wehdone
studied the same. He obtained Sir’ just to name a few, which he
his qualifications and became a gifted to us on his 27th birthday.
barrister in February 2012. That’s We can’t wait to see what he pulls
right, he’s a qualified lawyer, a out of the bag in 2018!
rapper, actor AND he owns his
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The island of fun with so much to do and flights are only 8 Yes you read right! It might not be the first place that comes
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and white beaches and really really good food and there is World Cup! Football Fanatic or not, this will be the perfect HOW TO PREVENT IT THE MORNING AFTER
plenty to do. Whether you plan a day of water-sports and time to go and experience the atmosphere and buzz of having Well you know what they say, However, if you do find yourself with a
activities around town or learning about the history of the slave the world cup in town. Unfortunately there’s no prevention is better than cure. Here’s a hangover here’s what to do:
trade, every single moment will be worth it. cure for a hangover, but few actions you can take to avoid heavy
there are remedies to make intoxication. • Rest, rest, rest and more rest, Your
you feel better. The party
#4 #5 Whether you’re last night was lit but once • Avoid drinking on an empty
body needs to rejuvenate and
recover.
rounding up that hangover headache
hits you the next day it’s
stomach. Try and eat a good meal • Drink loads of water. The most
your friends, all over! Nausea, an upset
before you begin to drink. The
food will delay the consumption
effective way to cure a hangover is
to rehydrate your body.
taking a stomach and the dreaded of the alcohol in your body. • Painkillers should come in handy
baecation or dehydration...most of us
have been there and done
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before you go to bed after you’ve
for the headache. Grab some
paracetamol and follow the
doing a family that. You may have tried been drinking. instructions on the back.
Morocco Cape Town getaway all different strategies in the
past but here’s some advice
• DON’T drink more.. We’ve all
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BREADWINNER
YES
Our relationships expert answers questions and provides
advice to help readers resolve their dilemmas.
NO
with him? wrong, we’ve come a long way
- Serena, London in terms of female empowerment
There’s no right or wrong time to declare your and equality. It’s not the 1920s
love for each other as you actually have to mean so I don’t believe men should
it and it has to be genuinely felt between the be the only breadwinners when
two of you. It doesn’t necessarily mean there’s women are fully capable of
something wrong. Or it could just be a case As a cultural man, yes I would
where you’re both scared to say it. If so, go for it! working and taking away pressure say it is important but that is due
Make a move if that’s how you genuinely feel. & responsibility to a degree, but I to upbringing. However, I believe
You really have to ask yourself how much you think men should be the primary the word breadwinner is a bit
value your friendship. How close are you and breadwinner. That’s just how I was unnecessary when it comes to the
your bestie? Is she a ride or die; someone you can raised and I think there are some household. Marriage is a unit. You
rely on or do you just go partying together? Either traditions that we should still
way you need to put yourself in her shoes and I’m meeting my girlfriend’s are one. Your wages, your lives,
parents for the first time, do you
adhere to. your everything. Two becomes one.
consider how you would feel if this was the other
way round. Your friendship could potentially have any advice about this? So if one is earning more than the
be ruined if you make a move, is this guy really - Michael, Atlanta Hadiza Ayinde, London other, it doesn’t matter because it
worth it? is now a collective income. The
word breadwinner and man speaks
of a capitalist culture where a
woman is subjective and labelled
as a housewife. The man wins the
I want to move to my boy’s bread, the woman cooks it. What
little sister. Is that breaking the if she earns more? Is she then the
guy code? Ask for permission from breadwinner? Personally, I don’t
- Emmanuel, London him first to avoid any Treat them with the same respect that you would
treat your own parents, which means being believe in that. Being a breadwinner
awkwardness between
you. The little sister’s age well-mannered. Be yourself but don’t get too doesn’t necessarily make you the
is a huge deciding factor comfortable. Ask your girlfriend in advance if man of the house, looking after your
as well because he might there’s anything that they don’t particularly like family and loving your wife and
and avoid doing that.
think you’re too old for her. family more than yourself and putting
Also what do you intend to them first makes you a man. If you
get out of this relationship? happen to win the bread amidst that,
Is it just a fling or do you
actually want to be in a congratulations. But that shouldn’t be
long term relationship with the goal.
her? This could determine
everything. Yemi Ogunsanwo, Gravesend