Parent Education: Revision and Vision: (Theoretical and Issues Forum)
Parent Education: Revision and Vision: (Theoretical and Issues Forum)
Parent Education: Revision and Vision: (Theoretical and Issues Forum)
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The Hong Kong Professional Counselling Association 2004
Ching-Man Lam
The Chinese University of Hong Kong
Parents are the earliest and closest mentors of their children; the views,
values, and attitudes of parents have an enormous impact on their
childrens development. Effective parent education is, therefore, critical.
If we are going to provide an adequate parent education service, we need
to have a vision of its goals. This article identifies the common conceptions
of parent education, examines the ideology and assumptions about parent
education, and addresses the limitations of the contemporary practice.
This revisit leads to the redefining of the meaning and goals of parent
education that is, to reconceptualize parent education as parent
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Various studies have examined how family and parental factors predict
child development (Maccoby & Martin, 1983; Otto & Atkinson, 1997;
Rollins & Thomas, 1979). Many links have been discovered between youth
crime and child psychopathology on the one hand, and parental
psychopathology, the parent-child relationship, and the family structure
on the other. Since it is believed that improving family environment, child-
rearing practices, and family communication patterns will diminish child
psychopathology, parent education programs focus on discouraging
dysfunctional parental practices (Abidin, 1976a, 1976b; Maccoby &
Martin, 1983; Rollins & Thomas, 1979), improving parent-child
communication (Gordon, 1970, 1980), and strengthening the relationship
between parents (Haley, 1971; Minuchin, 1974). Parents are responsible
for creating a healthy family life and should be educated in effective
parenting. Proponents of the nurture assumption believe in the critical
influence of parents and advocate the idea of parental licensure (Lykken,
2000; Westman, 1994).
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The nurture assumption has been criticized for ignoring the impact of
poverty, community subculture, and genetic factors (Harris, 1998), and
for laying all the blame for childrens problems on parents (Gerris et al.,
1998). The education model of parent education has also been criticized
for holding parents entirely responsible (Gerris et al., 1998), as well as
being narrow and outdated (Dunst, 1999; Winton, Sloop, & Rodriguez,
1999). These criticisms of the nurture assumption and the education model
have serious implications for the development of parent education and
suggest a pressing need to develop a new vision of parent education.
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Besides, the revisit reminds us that parents not only have parental
duties but also have parental rights and competence. In working with
parents, we need to value and dignify their role, to respect their parental
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independence and freedom of choice, and to have a high regard for their
parental competence. Since parents are adults, professionals must
understand the core constructs of adult learning and avoid teaching and
imposing. If parents do not feel that their input is valued, or if they feel
that they are being judged and evaluated, the impact of parent education
is likely to be negative. Parent education must be provided as though it
were a matter of course, with no stigma attached. Encouraging a sense of
empowerment and developing a partnership relationship are the ingredients
for success in working with parents.
Parents are not the sole agent to hold responsible for the well-being
of children. All the key partners, such as schools, social service agencies
and mass media, have a role in enhancing the child and familys quality
of life. They are both the potential providers and recipients of education,
resources, and support in a mutually reciprocal fashion. The community,
the parent educators and the parents should work together cooperatively
within the social context to establish a supportive culture for parent
empowerment.
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Conclusion
The review of the major conceptions and assumptions of parent
education reveals the shortcomings of its theory and practice, as it stands.
This article advocates the adoption of a broader definition of parent
education, one that encompasses the notion of parent growth, that
reconceptualizes parent education as parent empowerment, that moves
from a professional relationship to a partnership, and that transforms
parenting by changing the cultural climate. We believe it is time to
reevaluate, critically and globally, the vision of parent education. It is
hoped that the vision proposed in this article will promote a dialogue
about new forms and strategies of parent education in the near future.
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