Healthy Relationships PDF
Healthy Relationships PDF
Healthy Relationships PDF
RELATIONSHIPS
tion, so both partners can satisfy their own needs 2Communicate in an open and honest manner.
and the needs of the partner. Remember, healthy 3Be actively concerned about your partners
relationships allow for individuality and personal growth and happiness.
growth, and are mutually benecial.
4Give equal importance to each others thoughts,
Please note that if a partner is being physically, feelings, needs and interests.
sexually and/or emotionally abusive, or is engaging
5Do not attempt to control and/or manipulate your
in and/or encouraging unsafe or harmful behaviors,
partner.
then this is a red ag for the relationship. One
and/or both partners may need to seek professional 6Treat one another as equals in the relationship.
help. Everyone deserves to be treated fairly and
7Keep your life balanced.
respectfully, and to feel safe and comfortable within
a relationship. Remember, everyone has the option 8Be honest, dependable and trustworthy.
to leave a relationship.
9Express support, appreciation and emotional
Some relationships just do not work for whatever warmth for your partner regularly.
reason, and it may be difcult to overcome the sense
10 Keep wants, needs and expectations realistic.
of loss. It is natural to grieve and go through a heal-
ing process, because most relationships carry feel- 11Accept each others individual differences.
ings of love, care and trust. The following are some
12Fight fair and resolve conict through
ways to help cope with the loss:
negotiation and compromise.
Take time to experience and express emotions
like sadness, anger or hurt, because denying 13Learn to agree to disagree and not hold
these feelings will only prolong them. grudges.
Do not use guilt, self-blame and/or bargaining 14Be exible with change.
to end the relationship, as one cannot control
15Enjoy each other and spend quality time
another persons thoughts, feelings or behaviors. together.
Recognize and accept the reasons why the
relationship ended.
Allow for time without high pressure or demands,
and mobilize an effective support system.
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