Journal Week 7 Ahs 8100

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This past week I further developed personal skills by being flexible, understanding and

considerate. I had two scheduled phone conferences Monday, one at 10:00 am and the other at

2:00 pm, one call with the board member that I will be working in conjunction, developing the

peer-to-peer curriculum, and the other call was with my site supervisor. Both rescheduled for

later that day due to unexpected emergencies; I obliged both requests. Neither one of the calls

took place that day at the rescheduled times, the board member and I rescheduled again for later

during the week and unfortunately, my site supervisor never called nor did she reschedule for

another day or time. Instead, I received an email requesting a revision of the time to chat

weekly; I accepted the request.

Although unexpected emergencies arise in everyones life, I feel that there should have

been more communication and respect of my time. I waited patiently that day to hear from my

site supervisor. Instead, I received an email the next day asking to change our scheduled phone

conference time. I am flexible and accommodating as I know life gets in the way of life, at

times. I often hear comments from Great Dames board members and my site supervisor, that

they are busy with work, family, and other priorities, therefore, they were unable to start,

complete, or finish assigned tasks. I have taken these statements; personally, many said in a

condescending manner, by some. I have a life as well, and I have life happen to me too.

However, I do my best to be considerate of others and their time. I am indeed working on not

taking things so literal and personal.

Through self-reflection and self-understanding, I hope to gain further awareness of my

reactions towards others. Although I have learned to not reply to rude people and their

comments, it does not take away the sting from their remarks. Taking things personally has been

a weakness of mine. Ive read dont take anything personally; nothing others do is because of
you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are

immune to the opinions and actions of others, you wont be the victim of needless suffering.-

Don Miguel Ruiz- The Four Toltec Agreements. I have this meme in my phone so that I can

refer to it when I feel myself feeling sensitive to others ill-mannered comments.

I am a strong-minded individual that speaks up for myself and others when wronged.

However, I have had to learn not every hurtful comment or rude person deserves my energy.

This approach works for everyday life and professional settings. I have found strength through

journaling and revisiting my thoughts. When I journal, I leave my thoughts there on the paper,

and often I can move past negative emotions. I chuckle to myself sometimes as I write thinking,

this does not bother me or matter to me now. Im moving forward towards my future, not

looking in the rearview mirror rehashing the past. As the saying goes, when you know that you

know, you know. -Unknown

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