Bo Sanchez
Bo Sanchez
Bo Sanchez
If Your Dreams
Are God s
Dreams
Introduction
The Three Powerful Secrets
Behind
All Successes in Life
In 1997, I wrote hundreds of dreams on 15 pages of paper.
Today, most of these have already been fulfilled.
I ve written bestselling books.
I ve founded fantastic organizations.
I ve enjoyed financial freedom.
I ve been blessed with a great family.
And after almost 30 years of helping people fulfil their
dreams, I ve realized that there are really only three essential things
you need to make your dreams come true.
Not 47 things.
Not 86 things.
Just three!
Sorry, I don t like complicating stuff, so let s cut the chase
right here in the introduction of the book. Here are the three most
important things you need to become a great success in life: Desire,
Belief, and Action.
Desire
You need to want your dream from the depths of your
soul. How intensely do you desire your dream? How
deeply do you want it to happen? Many people don t
achieve their dreams because they don t want it bad enough.
Belief
Belief is nothing else but a feeling of certainty. The more
certain you feel that you can accomplish your dream, the
faster you can make them a reality. Many people don t
achieve their dreams because in their heart of hearts, they
doubt they can really do it.
Action
Albert Einstein said, Nothing happens unless something
moves. Successful people aren t the most knowledgeable
people on earth. But you can be totally sure that all of
them have a bias for action. Many people don t achieve
their dreams because they know but they don t act.
Look at the champions of the world today
from Michael
Jordan and Tiger Woods to Bill Gates to the late Mother Teresa
and you ll discover these three simple secrets operating in their lives.
This little book you re about to read is about the first
ingredient: Desire. Because unless you have enough desire for your
dream, the other two won t matter.
Friend, you can make your dreams come true.
But first, choose the dreams that you feel intensely about.
Many people get bogged down on the How without
understanding that if the Why is big enough, the right How will
come to you.
Why do you want this dream?
Where is it coming from?
In this book, I ll propose that you choose the dreams that
spring from your soul
or what I call Soul Dreams.
What are your deepest desires?
This is the power that can fuel you to success.
Ask yourself: What do I really, really, really want in life?
Tell me what you really, really, really want in life, and believe
me, there s no force more powerful than that in human nature.
Here s a problem: Many of us are not successful because we
don t know our deepest desires.
Power Quote:
Many people get bogged down on the How without
understanding that if the Why is big enough, the right
How will come to you.
Chapter One
The Dreamer Grows Up
When I was a kid, I dreamt of owning a Voltes V robot.
If you re my age and lived somewhere in Asia, you know what
I m talking about.
You must have seen it: a 6-inch metal figure with a tiny head,
a sword handle on its chest, and rectangular arms and legs. During
my time, if you walked in a toy store, half of the floor space would be
occupied by Voltes V robots. And every seven seconds, you d hear a
little boy scream, Let s volt in!
Oh, I prayed for it, craved for it, and salivated whenever I saw
it in the store.
It was The Christmas gift. No other toy could compare.
On Christmas Eve, I d rip open my gifts, and if I saw that it
was a silly shirt, or a toy car, or a rubber ball, or a grand piano (just
kidding) I d toss it and rip open the next gift
hoping that
someone gave me The gift that mattered.
But no one did.
Because those robots sold for a steep P700 and during my
time, that was worth a lot of mullah.
My parents just couldn t afford it.
So for a year, I dreamt of owning the robot.
Chapter Two
A Soul Dream Was Born
I had my spiritual conversion at age 12.
And as a 13-year-old boy, I read the life story of St. Francis of
Assisi.
Chapter Three
The 4 Signs of a Soul Dream
Why do some dreams die while others never do?
In my life, I ve noticed that when dreams are connected to the
deepest part of my life
my soul
they get fulfilled.
I call these Soul Dreams.
Soul Dreams are fuelled by almost super human passion. A
touch of the Divine wakes up from within, and we re transformed
with heroic perseverance.
Before you read these 4 Signs, I urge you to write down your
dreams on paper.
Believe that what you can write down on paper, you can write
them down on reality.
So don t edit your thoughts. Just write and don t stop.
But once you re through, read the next four chapters where
I discuss the 4 Signs. And based on these 4 Signs, read again your
dreams and check the dreams that have at least one of the 4 Signs
that I ll be explaining to you.
But don t cross out the dreams that you didn t check. It s
possible that you just don t see the soul connections yet. So keep
them.
But do celebrate your Soul Dreams that have a powerful
Why behind them.
Here are the 4 Signs of a Soul Dream
Chapter Four
Sign #1
The Dream Is Connected
to Your Most Important Values
When I was 16, I dreamt of owning a 4x4 Toyota Pick-Up
with monster wheels. I saw it in the movie of Michael J. Fox Back to
the Future and fell in love with it. I imagined myself driving the minitruck
and feeling powerful and handsome.
My problem was that unlike the movie producers of Michael
J. Fox, my father said he could only spare P40,000 for my first car.
So years later, even when I already added my own little
savings, instead of a 4x4 monster vehicle, I ended up with a tiny,
peepsqueaky, mouse-like owner-type jeep assembled in some
backyard with scrawny second-hand re-treaded tires. I installed a
used air-conditioning unit, closed it up, and painted it all white. So
my friends called my jeep a rolling refrigerator.
Being home-made, the thing conked out on me every two
weeks.
Now fast forward some 20 years later and I now can afford to
buy a 4x4 Pick-up, the top-of-the-line version if I wanted to.
But like the Voltes V robot, it would be the last thing I will
buy today.
It s bumpy. It s a waste of power. It s a waste of 4x4
technology. (The roughest thing I ll ever drive on will be the potholes
on Manila s roads. Hmm. On second thought )
More importantly, it can t fit my wife, my kids, and a crowd of
friends who usually like to hitch with us. I can t tell them, Just hop at
the back and stand under the heat of the sun.
I now drive a simple basic minivan. Cheap. Friendly. Smooth.
Happy.
Because today, my life revolves around my family. Next to
God, they are my most important value. A 4x4 monster? The dream
wasn t connected to a deep enough value. I just liked it, but I wasn t
passionate for it.
It wasn t a Soul Dream.
Chapter Five
Sign #2
The Dream Must Bring You
Closer to God
From a poor missionary, I wanted to become a millionaire
missionary.
It was mad. It was audacious. It was totally heretical. And no
one in my circle of friends ever tried it. But the thought of becoming
a millionaire entrepreneur and a servant of God at the same time
fascinated me no end.
Why? Two reasons.
First, instead of always begging money from people for my
own personal needs, I wanted to have enough for my needs and more
than enough to give to God s work.
Second, I was constantly faced by the needs of the people
I was trying to help not just their spiritual needs but also their
financial needs. I preached about prayer, faith, salvation, healing,
and heaven. But I never talked about money, even if that was what
they wanted me to do. How could I even dare teach them to grow
financially if I was totally ignorant about money? (I m embarrassed to
say this, but at that time, the best skill I possessed concerning money
was begging for it.)
Third, I wanted to help people financially.
But I couldn t because I didn t have any.
No, I didn t love money. But I began to develop a passion for
two things about money: how to grow it and how to give it away.
I find this very difficult to explain to religious people. But
today, when I create wealth, I feel God s Presence in a very palpable
way. Because it isn t just for me. I create wealth to fulfil my Life
Purpose
which is to love as much as I can.
Chapter Six
Sign #3
The Dream Must Be Connected
To Your Life Purpose and Core
Gifts
It was my dream to have multiple income streams.
At the start of my brave journey towards holy wealth, I got
into almost every business under the sun. I sold ice cream, motor oil,
herbal juices, memorial plans and even squid balls. In the past 10
years, I ve failed in eight businesses and lost three million pesos. But
I learned lessons that I will hold precious forever. (Will you forget
what you learned from a 3-million-peso, 10-year-long seminar?)
One of the most important lessons is this: If I wanted to
succeed, my business should be either connected to or at least not
distract me from my Life Purpose and Core Gifts.
My core gift is to communicate. I m a preacher and a writer.
This is what I believe God wants me to do. If I want to succeed in
business, that business has to use my Core Gifts and fulfil my Life
Purpose too.
Here s a crucial lesson many people don t know about: In
order to succeed in life, you should forget about developing your
weaknesses. Instead, concentrate on your strengths. Delegate your
weaknesses. Hire other people to do what you don t do well. But you
should focus on your strength.
Imagine if Tiger Woods stopped playing golf and decided to
develop a singing career or ramp modelling or theatre. Will he still be
successful?
I repeat: Focus on your Core Gifts.
Only then will you succeed.
That was why I had to give up all of the businesses I
mentioned above. Aside from the fact that I kept on losing money
anyway! But that s because they never used my Core Gifts.
gave to me.
My dream has always been to serve the poor.
Chapter Eight
Some of Your Dreams Are Too
Small
Enlarge Them!
One day, I met a man whose youthful dream was to own a
shiny blue Jaguar and a fancy mansion with a swimming pool. As the
decades went by, he said he grew very rich. But recently, he also found
God. Suddenly, he told me that the Jaguar and the mansion have lost
their sizzle. They are no longer very exciting dreams for him.
He is now excited about other dreams. Like earning as much
money as he can so he can fund more projects for the poor.
My friend s source of joy has changed.
I ve realized that as we grow up, our dreams grow up as well.
I ve learned that small Dreamers dream small.
And big Dreamers dream big.
Here are two secrets I d like to share with you about Big
Dreams.
First, Big Dreams are more exciting. That s pretty obvious.
Second, Big Dreams attract more resources from God s
universe.
I believe that when we fulfil our Divine destiny, all of creation
conspires to bless us, assist us, equip us, and provide for us.
This has been my experience.
Focus on Soul Dreams and the bigger the better. Stretch!
Expand! And believe that this is the reason why you were born.
And everything you need will come rolling down at your feet in
submission.
Opportunities. Friends. Connections. Wisdom. Money.
They will come.
Why?
Because Soul Dreams are connected to your Life Purpose.
How will you know your Life Purpose?
Chapter Nine
Examine Your Roots
As an 8-year-old kid, I had two passions.
My first love was drawing.
As my teachers lectured on Math, Science, and English,
you d see me crouched on my desk, as though taking notes furiously.
But the truth was that I d be lost in the magical world of robots,
spaceships, superheroes, giants, aliens, and monsters. I d doodle on
every empty space within a two-meter radius around me. I d draw
everywhere: My books. My desk. My lunchbox. My schoolbag. And
my classmate s back when he wasn t looking. I d cover any horizontal
surface with Superman, Batman, Voltes V, Tarzan, and Bruce Lee.
But ultimately, I had to create my own superhero
and his
name was SuperKid.
Which of course was my secret identity.
I was a small, thin, shy, unpopular, and not-too-bright
student in school, but in reality, I was the great SuperKid in disguise.
I designed his bullet-proof costume, his jet-powered boots,
his red shield, and his stun gun (I couldn t kill anyone, so stunning
criminals was my only alternative). SuperKid was also a Kung Fu,
Judo, and Karate expert, and he defeated criminal syndicates, drug
cartels, and the entire underworld.
When I hit puberty, SuperKid began rescuing beautiful
girls in distress with regularity. And these women naturally fell
in love with me, their hero. In my comic books, I rescued Farrah
Fawcet-Majors (Charlie s Angels
original version), Linda Carter
(Wonderwoman), Lindsey Wagner (Bionic Woman), my Social
Studies teacher with the pretty smile, and of course, Cedz, my
seatmate in Grade 5 with the cute dimples.
My Second Passion
Here s my second passion: telling jokes.
Chapter Ten
Roots Lead to Fruits
Friends, now that you know my two passions as a child, you
can see why I became a writer and preacher. (Huh?)
Okay. I admit it s not very obvious.
Let me explain.
Some of you might say, But Bo, why didn t you become a
cartoonist? Or a stand-up comedian?
Because at age 12, I met God.
At age 13, I started preaching.
At the age of 20, I wrote my first book.
I realized that the creativity that I developed as a child
through drawing, even creating the world of SuperKid and all his
damsels in distress, proved useful.
I Still Doodle and Tell Jokes
If you listen to me preach or if you read my books, you ll
realize that I ve NOT stopped drawing and telling jokes.
Oh, yes, I no longer doodle with lines and circles and shapes.
This time, I doodle with my words.
With nouns, verbs, adjectives, and adverbs, I create pictures.
Usually, I create funny pictures.
This is one of the reasons why my books are bestsellers.
(Ahem.)
I also preach by telling stories, painting pictures in front of
people.
Chapter Eleven
Your Core Gifts and Passions
Will Lead You to Your Life Purpose
Discovering your life purpose doesn t have to be rocket
science.
It s really very simple.
You don t need to read a hundred books to discover it.
You don t need 10 years of navel-gazing and meditation to
find it.
You don t need to fly around the world to get it.
Just ask yourself two simple questions: Passion and Potential
l Passion: What do you enjoy doing?
l Potential: And what do you do well?
That s it!
That s how God wants you to bless the world.
Don t Diversify
Diversify only when it comes to the stock market. (I ve
learned that it s always wise not to buy just one stock, but many.)
But when it comes to your Core Gifts, don t diversify!
Imagine if Michael Jordan decided to diversify. Hmm, I
know I m good at basketball. But perhaps I could take up baseball
and try that out (Okay, no need to imagine. He actually did try
baseball and failed miserably.)
Don t deviate. Don t diversify. Focus on your strengths.
This is important: Forget about developing your weakness.
Epilogue:
Start Writing Your
Soul Dreams Now
It s not enough that you dream.
It s important to dream the right dreams.
Are some of your dreams no longer exciting to you?
Perhaps a deep part of you has already realized that they
were superficial.
Replace them.
Search the deepest part of who you are.
What great things do you want to happen?
What are your Soul Dreams?
How will you fulfil your Life Purpose this year?
Don t limit yourself.
Don t say, It s impossible.
It becomes impossible only when you say it is.
Everything is possible to those who believe.
May your dreams come true,
Bo Sanchez