50 Useful Proverbs All English Speakers Should Know: 1. The Grass Is Always Greener On The Other Side of The Fence
50 Useful Proverbs All English Speakers Should Know: 1. The Grass Is Always Greener On The Other Side of The Fence
50 Useful Proverbs All English Speakers Should Know: 1. The Grass Is Always Greener On The Other Side of The Fence
The grass is always greener is a proverb that teaches us its not good to
be jealous (to want what other people have). It may seem like everyone
around you has greener grass, meaning nicer cars, better jobs, etc.
But your neighbour probably thinks you have greener grass too, which
means that your friends and other people think that you have better
looks, a happier family, etc. So instead of thinking about what everyone
else has, this proverb wants you to be thankful for what you have.
Things are not always what they seem. This proverb teaches you not to
make judgments about other people because of how they look or dress. A
book with a boring or plain cover could be amazing. The same is true with
people. A person might look like an athlete or fool, but there is probably a
lot more to them than clothes suggest.
This old expression comes from the days of blacksmiths (people who work
with metal). To shape the metal, the blacksmith would have to beat it with
a hammer. Iron is easier to work with when its hot. This proverb means
you should take advantage of the moment. If an opportunity presents
itself to you, take it! Take action because the chance may not come again.
Or as its more commonly said, Too many cooks in the kitchen. This is a
well known experiencea lot people all trying to work in a kitchen around
a small table or stovetop will make a mess and ruin the food. This proverb
talks about the trouble of too many people trying to do the same thing at
once.
If you eat your cake, you wont have it anymore, will you? So you cant do
both. This proverb is about having two opposite desires, and how its
impossible to get both. Its meaning is similar to the proverb, You cant
have the best of both worlds.
If a lot of people carry a heavy object, it does not feel heavy. That is the
general meaning of this proverb. If everyone works together to complete
somethinglike cleaning, painting or group projectsthen each person
has less to do. More importantly, the job will be completed much more
quickly.
When you are a visitor somewhere away from home, you should act like
everyone else. It is polite to do so, and could keep you from getting into
trouble. This proverb is from the ancient days of the Roman Empire when
the capital city had visitors from all over the world. Cultures were very
different between cities in those times. But while in Rome, one would
behave like a Roman, no matter where you came from.
This proverb tells you not to worry so much! Problems will certainly come
in the future. But what can be done about that now? Its better to think
about what you are doing right nowwithout worrying about the unknown
and take care of issues when they happen.
Lying a lot can be difficult, because you might forget your lies. Soon
enough, someone will find out you are lying. Then, you are in trouble. Or
even if no one ever finds out, you will feel guilty for not telling the truth.
But if you are honest and tell the truth, people will believe you and
respect you. You will earn their trust and sleep well at night.
It would be amazing if the first time you picked up a guitar you could play
it like a rock star. Or if the first time you got in a car, you could drive like a
professional. Or if you could speak English perfectly after one lesson.
Everything is difficult when you are a beginner. But if you stick with it, if
you keep practicing, you can master anything.
This proverb is said to encourage people who want to give up. Sometimes,
we face problems that seem impossible. But if you want it bad enough,
nothing can stand in your way. That is what this proverb meansif you
have the will to meet the problems that are in front of you, there is a way
to overcome them.
Dont rush into things! Make sure you know what is going to happen next.
You would not jump off a cliff without first checking how far the ground is
below or what there is to land on. You should wait a few moments and
make sure its a good idea to jump from that cliff. So when making a big
jump in life, make sure youve looked at the situation and really
understand it before you take a big action.
If someone gives you free things or offers to help you do something, you
cant ask for a different color or choose the perfect time in your schedule.
When you receive free help or goods, you should accept what youre
offeredyou cant be picky (a chooser) because youre not paying!
People sometimes get very upset over small problems. This proverb
reminds you to take a moment and see how important (or not important)
the issue is. Messing up your laundry or being late for work is not very
important when you consider your entire life. So its important to stay
calm and not get angry about tiny problems.
This proverb is a lot like the phrase first come, first served. It simply
means that its usually best to be early. If you arrive earlierwhether its
to a clothing store, restaurant, conference, etc.you will have the best
options to choose from. If you come later, though, the best clothes could
have sold out, the restaurant could be full and have a long waiting time,
etc.
While being the early bird is the best, even latecomers may get something
for coming. It would be a lot worse if they never came at all. This proverb
is said about ending fights with people. Its better to apologize and make
up years later, than to never resolve your fight at all.
This proverb means that a secret has been told. It comes from the Middle
Ages and was common advice given in the market. You may have thought
you purchased a tasty pig, but the seller put a simple cat in the bag
instead. To let the cat out of the bag was to reveal the sellers trick.
When you are starting on a project or a journey, its best to start with a
good attitude and a lot of energy. First impressions (what people think
about you when they meet you for the first time) can last for a long time.
Thats why this proverb is also used when meeting new people or for job
interviews. Having a positive attitudeyour best footis the best way
to make a good impression.
This proverb warns against acting mean to those who provide for you or
who do nice things for you. If you were to bite the hand that gave you
food, that hand probably wont come back to feed you again. Then what
would you eat? So you should be kind and thankful to those who care for
you.
If you have a problem but never talk about it, no one will help you. How
could they? But if you tell someone, things will get better. This proverb is
about someone who complains a lot (the squeaky wheel) because they
get more attention (the grease). For example, a child who cries a lot will
get more attention from his mother than his silent brothers and sisters.
If you take a bite of food thats too big, you wont be able to chew! Plus
you could choke on all of that extra food. Its the same if you take on more
work or responsibility than you can handleyou will have a difficult
time. So its best not to get involved in too many projects, because you
wont be able to focus and get them all done well.
26. You made your bed, now you have to lie in it.
No one likes sleeping in a poorly made bed. If you make your bed with the
sheets all tangled and blankets facing the wrong way, you cant switch
with someone else. You have to sleep in that bed. This proverb uses bedmaking to describe any bad situation in which you may find yourself. You
cant trade places with anyone else. You must live with the results of your
actions, so make good choices.
The Greek philosopher Plato once said that action is character. People are
not defined by what they say because a lot of talk does not mean
anything. People are judged by the things they do. Your actions are more
important than what you say.
This proverb is often said during a fight in which one person is putting all
of the blame on the other person, when both people were actually
responsible. Just as one person cant tango (a Spanish dance with two
people) alone, two people are responsible for some situations, so you
cant just blame one person.
This proverb warns against being too eager. Just because you have five
eggs, does not mean you will have five chickens. It is not a good idea to
make plans based on expectations (what you think will happen). Wait for
all things to come true before building up your dreams. Or worse, your
promises. Things may not happen like you thought they would and that
could get you in trouble.
Milk is easy to get. You may get in trouble for spilling the milk, you
shouldnt cry because it isnt a big deal. Also, crying wont solve anything.
This proverb advises you to stay calm during such small problems. Dont
waste time worrying about little things that cannot be changed. Clean up
the mess and go buy some more milk.
Be careful! If you put all your goods in one bag or all your money in one
stock, you are taking a big risk. It is smarter to spread your wealth around.
That way if one basket should break, youre not left with nothing.
Only a stone that is in the same place for a long time will have moss
growing on it. A stone on the move will remain bare. The same is true with
people. If you remain in one place for a long time, the signs of life
friends, family, objects and your local reputation (what people think of
you)will grow on you. But not if you always move from place to place.
This proverb advises you to do things in the right order. Do not skip over
the more difficult or less enjoyable tasks in order to get to the easier,
more fun ones. For example, if you have an exam to study for the same
night your friend is having a party, study for the exam first. The party
would be more fun, but the exam is more important so it should be done
first.
Still waters run deep describes people who are quiet and calm. These
people often have deep, interesting personalities. So even if someone
doesnt talk a lot, they could still be very thoughtful. The proverb uses
water to describe people. When the surface of a body of water is rough
and fast, it usually means that it is shallow (not deep) and has rocks close
to the surface, like in a river or stream. But water that is calm and still is
often very deep, like in a lake.
This proverb is often used to stop someone from asking too many
questions. Curiosity (when youre excited and eager to know something)
can lead you into dangerous situations. Cats, who are naturally curious,
often end up in trouble. They get stuck up in trees or between walls.
Things that grow on trees, such as fruit or leaves, are considered plentiful
(enough, plenty) because they will grow back. If you eat an apple from a
tree, more apples will continue to grow. But money must be earned
through hard work, and doesnt grow back after you spend it. Once you
spend money, its gone. This proverb is often said to people who
waste their money on silly purchases.
This phrase should not be taken literally. You say this proverb when you
cant do what you would like to do. For example, say you are in charge of
an office and everyone (including you) wants to celebrate someones
birthday. But your boss tells you its against the rules. You could tell your
coworkers, Sorry, my hands are tied. You would like to have a birthday
celebration with them, but you cant.
Only a small amount of an iceberg can be seen above the surface of the
water. Most of it lies below. This proverb uses the iceberg to describe a
situation where you are only beginning to understand the problem. The
little signs that you can see are in fact part of a much larger problem.
If you can see something every day, your mind will think about it. This
proverb is about the habit of forgetting things that are not nearby. For
example, if you want to stop eating chips and junk food, you could move
them from the counter top and hide them in a cupboard. If you dont see
them, you wont think to eat them. Out of sight, out of mind.
This proverb simply means that if you help me, Ill help you too. Usually,
when you do a favor for someone, they do something for you in return.
This can be beneficial (helpful) to both people.
Money, fame, love or anything that happens easily can be lost just as
quickly. If you get a lot of money or suddenly become famous, you
could lose that money or fame very quicklysince you didnt work hard to
earn it.
People say this when things are going badly or when someone is sad.
Clouds stand for bad situations. Every bad situation has some good parts
to ityou just have to look for them. The proverb is meant to help people
feel better and keep going. Its also where the name of the movie Silver
Linings Playbook came from.
Sometimes, to get things done, you have to be pushy or break a few rules.
You may even have to insult some people. An omelet is a tasty dish and
worth the effort to make. However, you must break some eggs to make it.
So if you want to get a worthwhile project done or make changes, you
cant please everyone. Someone might be offended or hurt, so you have
to decide if the price is worth it.
In the old days, fairgrounds would give cigars as prizes for games. The
phrase close but no cigar means that you were close to succeeding in
the game, but you didnt win the cigar. As a proverb it means that even
though you did your best or almost had it right, you werent completely
correct.