CFC Youth For Christ Discovery Recollection

CFC Youth for Christ
Discovery Recollection
Talk 3: Sino ang Best Friend Ko? (Who is My Best Friend?)
I.
Introduction
Friendship is essential in a persons life. One cannot go through life without
friends. We seek people that we genuinely like to hang around with, to tell our
secrets to, to comfort us when we are down. Our friends give us our sense of
identity, self esteem and sense of security (barkadas, frat, bros/sis,etc.) They
influence our values, attitudes and life styles.
II.
Power of Friendship
Friendship wields so much power in any persons life. His life is shaped by his friends.
Tell me who you are and Ill tell you who your friends are. Friendship has the power to
build up a person or destroy him. Many of our talents have been destroyed or wasted
due to the bad influences of friends.
A. Friendships That Destroy
1. When they cause us to sin or do things that are not right.
a. Cheat, cut classes, neglect our studies to have fun with our friends
(gimmick)
b. To read or watch smut or engage in sex for fun.
c. To be mean or nasty or when they bring out our negative traits/ character
d. We bully our classmates to show our friends how tough we are.
2. When they make us conform to the wrong set of values and lifestyle.
a. Buying expensive things, wearing expensive clothes so we match our rich
friends even if our parents cannot afford it.
b. Having an early relationship so we will not be called an old maid and be
made fun of by them. Having a girlfriend so they will not call us bakla.
3. When friends have more influence on us than our parents and they make fun
of the values that are taught to us at home.
a. Being ashamed to be in the same social gathering with their parents
because of what their friends will say. This is ridiculous! Terrible!
b. The irony of the situation is that good teenagers who have good parents
who really care for them (but because they do, they are sometimes
perceived to be strict) are being influenced to rebel against their parents
by friends who are broken, who lack attention (KSP) at home and are
looking for someone who can sympathize with them (kadamay).
4. Friends who are smart and have strong personalities but are genuinely
broken (those with big problems), can influence us to do bad things even if
we dont have the same problems they have. We can even be influenced to
magnify our small problems or pay attention to the faults of people who love
us. How stupid can we get if we allow people to steal our joy and make us go
against the people who love us despite their shortcomings.
B. Friendships That Give Life
1. Friends who lead us to God and influence us to do what is right.
2. Friends who bring our the best in our character, personality and talents.
3. Friends who make us whole, who are there to comfort us, heal us and make
us strong.
III.
Friends for Life! (FOR LCCE ONLY)

In YFC, we will put together a group of 7 to 9 girls and the same number of boys
that we will call a love team. They will meet regularly and develop the right
bond of friendship which can last them a lifetime. The reason why we will call
your group the love team is because you will be glued together by your
common love for God and your love for one another as brothers and sisters.
This is not a ligawan group, not at this point anyway. Otherwise, you will
cheapen your friendship if you force the issue of love when it is not the right time.
IV.
How Do We Describe True Friendship?

1. In your class/ love team, everyone is your best friend.
a. You are genuinely warm and friendly to all although you can be close to
some in particular. Do not give special attention just to the person you
are interested in. Do not make the relationship exclusive so the others
feel left out (O.P.).
b. Genuine friendship is not possessive or jealous. You should not be
demanding time and attention. There should be genuine confidence in
one another and you should in fact welcome the idea that they have other
friends.
2. Members of the class/ love team build up each other in love.
a. No negative humor, alaskahan, which puts down the other person.
b. Encouraging/ upbuilding in speech and action, no back-biting, slander or
gossip.
c. Manifest intense loyalty, defend the honor and reputation of your brothers/
sisters at all times.
3. Members of the class/ love team seek the good in one another.
a. Encourage each other in studies.
b. Encourage friends to mend relationships in the family.
c. Encourage your friends to express their talents/ skills.
V.
Conclusion
Friendship is a gift from God. It is a source of our joy and fun. Real friendship is lifegiving and upbuilding. One cannot go through life without friends. Good friends motivate
us to be the best that we can ever be. In our group we can look forward to having the
best friends for life because the source of our friendship is God Himself who is our Best
Friend! Kayo! Sino ang best friends nyo?!!

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