77 Ways To Attract A Girl
77 Ways To Attract A Girl
77 Ways To Attract A Girl
August 2009
77 Laws of success with women and dating
1. Accept everything the way it is. (after you can change the things that your not happy
with).
2. Take responsibility.
Stop being a victim and start being someone that ads an effect in the world.
3. Work on yourself
You are the only person that you can actually change. You cant change other people or its a
lot of harder.
4. Evict your inner Wussy.
Stop whining about things and complaining about others.
5. Build a powerful and capable self-image that you love.
What is a self-image? Ask yourself are you the person that you want to be?
6. Move your frame of reference inside.
7. Stop making identity meaning out of external events.
8. Eliminate failure by learning from it.
9. Compare your progress & success only to yourself, not to others.
10. Evolve constantly & consciously - always seek the next level & paradigm.
11. See yourself as "high status"
12. Stop apologizing.
13. Stop seeking approval.
14. Stop giving approval in order to get it.
15. Stop trading status for approval.
16. Untangle things like past, present & future... physical, logical & emotional .. short,
medium & long-term gratification... fear of something & actual event ... & other non-useful
combinations.
17. Surround yourself with sucess models, whether they be in person, in books on audio, or
on video.
18. Know your purpose or path in life & stay on it.
19. Travel
20. Every day, find your center, become centered, then make yourself the center.
21. Focus on the core skills & your inner game & the techniques will take care of themselves.
22. Accept & embrace transition anxiety as an opportunity to see things from a beginner's
perspective automaticly.
23. Learn to enjoy the process of learning more than the actual result of the learning.
24. Teach others every great thing you learn immediately.
25. Never whine, bitch, or complain... ever.
26. Objectify your demons so you control them instead of them controlling you.
27. Become selfish so you can become generous.
28. Surround yourself with success models, while eliminating failure models.
29. Keep doing what works & stop doing what doesn't work.
30. Maintain your composure.
31. Prove to yourself over & over that you can deal with "rejection"
32. Learn to sacrifice short-term gratification in exchange for long-term success.
33. Learn how to always enjoy yourself, not matter what's happening around you.
34. Value yourself & your time more than any woman.
35. Develop your awareness.
36. Learn to control your emotions - Cultivate that pause between stimulus and response.
37. Become unbelievably honest, authentic & blunt when it's time to be direct.
38. Become an expert on your own self-deception habits.
39. Become an expert on your own self-deception habits.
40. Balance learning, praticing & doing.
41. Constantly improve yourself.
42. Stop projecting your strength and & weakness onto others.
43. Eliminate destructive or negative habits by replacing them with positive ones.
44. Recognize when you are loing control of yourself and stop.
45. Make your territory yours.
46. Lead
47. Stop idealizing women.
48. Stop idealizing relationship.
73.When you find yourself losing power with a woman, stop, step back & wait until she comes
to you - pull the needle out of your arm immediately.
74. Always have three female friends around you that are very similar to the type of woman
you want to be meet.
75. When you find something that really that she really likes, stop, pull back & make her
really want it before you tease her with a little more.
76. Learn how to make conversations interesting for women.
77. Learn what it means to be a "Renaissance Man & become one.