Zero To 60 Method: Goal - This Puts Into Exact Words THE Goal
Zero To 60 Method: Goal - This Puts Into Exact Words THE Goal
Zero To 60 Method: Goal - This Puts Into Exact Words THE Goal
The following is a quick and concise reference guide or cheat sheet for the most important concepts and mindsets from the Complete Game Revision System. Much of this will not make full sense until you have read the entire collection of notes and have gone out and applied them. Each of the following sections breaks down each part of a seduction into 3 items. These items are the building blocks, and once you understand their purposes, everything will sense. So use this guide as a reminder to yourself after youve finished the course, as a refresher, and as a cliffs note for the whole course (minus relationships)
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Goal - This puts into exact words THE goal of this phase of seduction. There is no other goal, so do not try to accomplish anything else in this stage of seduction except the goal stated. Just as you cannot cash a check before you receive it, dont try to do things out of order or add menial mental masturbation principles to fundamentally simple concepts. Once you have accomplished the goal, this phase is finished. Move on, dont stay on this stage. Mindsets - The MOST important distilled things to remember in this stage; both in terms of thinking and taking action. Implementation - An example of what a typical situation or scenario would look like and work out to in this phase
2. Mindsets:
I am out to genuinely meet women and seduce them Even if I am feeling lazy, I am going to put in the effort to talk to people till something sticks Being that my goal is to go out and seduce women, I am going to constantly keep myself in check to see if I am going up to women because I want affection (want them to like me) from them or if I am operating out of horniness and a desire to sleep with her I am not out to validate being pimp or not It doesn't matter how I feel, I don't need to be some alpha male or confident to talk to a girl
3. Implementation: Sample mental dialogue- man... Im really tired, I dont even know if Im going to have energy to go out. Damn it, but no I told John Id go and wing with him, got to do this, lets go out... wait hold up, why am I going out in the first place? Let me look over my 0 to 60 cheatsheet --OH yeah, Im going out to SEDUCE WOMEN. Am I ready for that? Damn I really dont know if I feel up for that, but you know what, I know I am going to at the very LEAST put in the effort to talk to women. Oh look, theres a cute girl... what do I say to her? I hope she doesnt reject me--Oh wait, damn I just caught myself wanting the interaction to go well with her instead of starting with my desired goal in mind. Im here to seduce her, not to beg her to like me. Great, now that I remember all this, Im ready to roll
Opening
1. Goal: Get into an interaction with a woman and letting her know you are there to meet her and not merely make idle passing comments or remarks 2. Mindsets:
Opening a girl is done for it's own sake. It's not for it to go well or not. Genuine opener tops being alpha or anything else. Organic beats awesome preconceived lines. When you are not in the mood to seduce or at least meet women, it's time to re-evaluate why youre out there and refer to grounding mindsets above Just get something going and to introduce yourself to women. Don't think beyond saying hi to anyone, especially if you are not in a particularly social mood Breaking point is building 2-3 continuous minutes of conversation within 10 minutes to shift from negative to positive Can slip back into negative anti-social lazy mode if you spend too long avoiding taking action Introduce to make it obvious you are there to meet her and not make idle chit chat with her
3. Implementation: Get her attention to the highest ability of your ability to take action. If you are in a good and social mood, that means go for as organic and genuine an opening as possible. If you are out of state, apathetic, etc... just remember to stay humble and genuine. THE IMPORTANT THING IS TO JUST DO IT! After you have her attention, introduce yourself as soon as possible to switch the vibe from Im here chatting you up to Im here to meet you person to person. Milk the intro to gauge initial interest level.
Escalation
1. Goal: get to a mutual it's on moment 2. Mindsets:
Nothing you can do is more attractive to her than escalation. The ability to escalate when she is not attracted yet is one of the most crucial skills anyone can possibly have. Focus on developing this Also, the ability to escalate on a girl YOU are not 100% attracted to is one of the most crucial skills that you will ever develop for getting good at escalating fast. You dont have to sleep with her if you dont end up getting more aroused by her. You will never get good at escalation if you only practice only perfect women Get closer to her than any normal person ever would. This will make it uncomfortably close for someone with low interest but simultaneously a HUGE turn-on for someone who is interested in you A good majority of escalation is really just managing the tension you just cause in her. Shes not used to it, she wasnt expecting it, but do not doubt for a second that nature has started its course of making her uncontrollably attracted to you. Your ability to maintain rapport through her cute little rationalizations during this transition process determine your seductive ability Remember, If she is still around, you escalate unabashedly, persistently, and until she leaves. Use combination of escalating the vibe, seductive eye contact, and going for the its on moment. While this may not sound impressive, remember that what nature does in the background is more impressive than anything you can ever do or say for the majority of girls
Every drop of pressure is 100% on her to say no to you or stop you. She may try to make you leave by indicating you are creepy, unwanted etc. See these words for what they are: a desperation move to bait you into breaking rapport or going social/logical so the seductive tension lifts. As long as you respond to all resistance or tests by smirking, getting even closer to her, and escalating, her only way to avoid being seduced by you is to physically remove herself from you (like you are forced to do if you ever hope to get over an ex)
3. Implementation: Escalate the vibe right from milking intro. Focus on seductively speaking to her with seductive eye contact and touch. Forget about words. Use seductive eye contact, grab her hand, play and caress with it until she pulls her hand away or returns the gesture. If she caresses back, you have the IOM and can go to next step. If she pulls her hand away, repeat the same exact process and go for the IOM again in 2 minutes. You can do this forever as long as she stays and youre still interested in practicing your escalation skills or seducing her. Youre the one that decides when/if to leave a girl
Pleasure Offer
1. Goal: Get her to arousal point of no return and go somewhere where sex can happen Mindsets:
If she resists, this is where persistence is most important. (see persistence reward ratio) I should caress her up to the arousal point of no return She may say/imply that I am perverted, but as long as she stays and I escalate, nature will take care of the rest Dont argue or acknowledge that shes resisting you by verbalizing it ever! Action combined with non-verbals trumps all in getting her to go with you. Im in a race against time. As soon as shes aroused enough to go, go NOW. No dilly dallying. No couple-based kino like hand-holding etc. Only kino that will turn her on. Use kisses like nitro, use them to propel an interaction forward. The effectiveness of these is entirely linked to how much youve been using them. If youve been making out with her all night, this will not work nearly as well.
3. Implementation: After getting the mutual its on moment, you two are now caressing and in a loveydovey mode. Time to remember what youre here to do tonight, and that is to SEDUCE her. With that back at your focus, you put your arms around her waist, start caressing her in more intimate areas. She starts getting turned on, gives you a bit resistance by calling you a pervert when you try to escalate further, to which you calmly smirk knowingly at her while getting closer and never letting the tension let up. You lean in to kiss her, but pull back at the last second, telling her you dont kiss girls in public, then breathe in and smell her neck etc. You curse under your breathe about how you cant help it, pull her in, kiss her passionately for a few seconds, then break it off, grab her hand, and lead her out the venue without saying a word. She obliges.
Sex
1. Goal: Overcoming potential barriers and resistance so you can a start a sexual relationship with her 2. Mindsets:
Having sex with someone you are attracted to can still be a mood-based decision. I already know she likes me and is attracted to me, and I have her in a location where it can happen. The only thing left that can stop us from hooking up is her not being in the mood. Just as everything is better when its mutual; the best way for sex to happen is when there is so much tension that the first kiss at the seduction location leads to clothes flying off and both of us overrun by a desire to have sex together Make it easy for her to touch you. Just like with mutual hand caressing, the easiest way for a girl to get in the mood to have sex with you is to make it easy for her to pleasure you. Playing on her egoic fantasy of being this hot little vixen that can get me off is by far the easiest way to turn her on If I get her back to my place or hers, first thing I do is go into the bathroom, take off my boxers, and put my pants back on commando style Once I get back to where she is, I leave the top button of my pants unbuttoned and zipper unzipped discretely so that any foreplay will end up with it just popping out, making it easier for her to play with it I blame my arousal openly on her sexual attractiveness, its something she cannot refute unless she wants to deny her fundamental ability to attract a man
If she is uninterested in doing any of these things, its my option to say goodnight and if I want, live to fight another day
3. Implementation: After arousal point of no return, you guys jump in a cab. You are still seductive but you save your kisses to be used as nitro later when you are alone. You get back to your apartment, take off your boxers in the bathroom, go back to her sitting on your bed, unbutton your pants, and pull her into you. A passionate makeout leads to clothes flying everywhere and no resistance to sex. Lets say she resists you though, you calmly and coolly descend down that ladder of escalation and make it easier for her to touch you. For example, you grab her hand and put it on your leg. If that doesnt fly, you can ask her for imagery/dirty talk, and try to get her in the mood for pleasuring you.