Rule #1: "Women Loves To Talk... About Themselves."

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Rule #1: "Women Loves To Talk...About Themselves.

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You can always get a conversation going by asking a woman about
herself. The trick here is NOT to ask interview-type questions like
"where do you live" and "what do you do". Rather, you need to ask
her a more interesting question which makes she feels that you're
genuinely interested in WHO she is. To do this, you gotta "listen
actively"... check out the next rule.

Rule #2: "Listen Actively".


 
When you talk to her, listen up for "titbits" that you can use later on in
the conversation. These are five things to watch (listen?) out for -
interests, places, holidays, food, music. Probe her so that you can learn
about her as much as possible... and so that you can get to ask her
meaningful questions later on.

Rule #3: "Be In Context".


 
Comment about the location that you're in. For example, have you
lived there for a long time, or you're just there for business? Are there
any interesting places nearby? Relate to her interesting stories about
places that you've been to. (It's perfectly fine to make up stories too
in case you're wondering... just make sure you practice so that you
don't sound like a fluke).

Rule #4: "Observe Her".


 
Pay close attention to what she's wearing, or how she's standing or
sitting. Tell her something about her body language -  for example,
say, "You can tell a lot from how a person sits. From what I observe,
it looks like you appear to have a strong personality to most people,
although you may have a soft spot for some." Use cold reading lines
too  - they work like magic. (I'll cover more about cold reading in the
next issue of TRL).

Rule #5: "Project To The Future".


 
Ask for her opinion about something which is going to happen to you
in the future. Are you going somewhere soon? Are you going
somewhere for a holiday? Or are you moving to a new city?

For example, say: "I'm looking for a good Tex Mex restaurant
around here. There's this girl I met who wanted to treat me to
dinner and I am really craving for some Tex Mex grub. Could
you recommend any good places?"
For instance, if I'm talking to a girl who seems to like me, I
may say something like: "Aren't you a sarcastic one? I don't
mind, though; I'm like that, too. Maybe we can hang out sometime
and make fun of other people at their own expense. Our karma
would get so tainted, though. On second though, we shouldn't even
consider being friends."

This will most likely trigger some kind of active sexual tension
in the woman, making her insist to be your friend so you can have
fun together.

Do you understand how this works now? Do you see why it's
considered powerful?

This particular example focuses a certain psychological


mechanism.

Whenever somebody says we can't have something, tension builds


inside of our bodies and our minds start wanting to release
tension by trying to get what we can't have.

This is how car salesmen work. Whenever there are prospects


hawing and hemming over a car, salesmen know that, by telling
other prospects the car will be gone the next day because of the
amount of people interested in buying it; there will be higher
chances of the prospect buying the car right away.

However, if this tension is sparked during attraction and dating,


it will become sexual.

This is why you need to structure active sexual tension as a


circle of tension:

1). Spark it.

2). Increase it.

3). Release it.

4). Spark it again.

Good movies work in a similar way.


See, movies start by introducing some sort of drama or conflict
to spark unresolved emotions and tension in the audience.

The emotional tension builds up until the climax where it is


released to bring resolution to the drama or conflict.

Lastly, the movie sparks the tension again to make you see the
next movie.

Here is a dialogue that will make you more familiar to the


concept:

A woman comments on something you say to her friend.

Girl: That's disgusting.

You: I knew you wouldn't be able to handle it!

Girl: Hey! It's not that. I could totally handle it.

You: Oh yeah? How about thumb wrestling?

(You shamelessly cheat to win).

Girl: Hey, that's cheating! Rematch!

You: Wow, you're quite feisty, huh? I kind of like that.

Girl: Thanks.

You: You just won a point in my books. You're a one now.

Girl: Haha. You're such a funny guy.

You: You just like the right people.

Girl: I could say the same about you. You're talking to me, after
all.

You: Well, let's see how much we like each other, then. (Grab her
and give her a kiss.)
You: Mm. I think I do like you.

I'm not making this up. It works. In fact, there are many
psychologically deep mechanisms that work the same way.

There is the push and pull, for one, where you have to
emotionally push the woman away and reel her in again. This can
build up a lot of sexual tension.

However, another powerful thing is at play here...

There is a special class for sexual tension.

Each kind of sexual tension within this class can do much more
than just arouse women.

They each emotionally drive women to do something.

This is why this class is known to be filled with "compliance


triggers."

Within the last few years, I have found a ton of compliance


triggers that you can use to get the women that you want.

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