Achievement For All - Structured Conversations
Achievement For All - Structured Conversations
Achievement For All - Structured Conversations
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Contents
Why is there a need for the structured conversation within Achievement for All? What is the structured conversation? Introduction Considerations for holding the structured conversation The framework for the structured conversation Stage 1: Explore Stage 2: Focus Stage 3: Plan Stage 4: Review Introduction Materials needed Model agenda and notes for one day training course Exercise 1: Giving and receiving feedback Exercise 2: Non-verbal communication Exercise 3: Paraphrasing (1) Exercise 4: Paraphrasing (2) Exercise 5: Summarising and choice points Exercise 6: Using questions Exercise 7: Setting goals and targets Handout 1: Setting up triads and small groups Handout 2: Observing the structured conversation Handout 3: Personality type Handout 4: Goal setting with hard to reach parents Handout 5: A model record and action plan Handout 6: Checklist for reflecting on the structured conversation
Part 3: Resources
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Introduction
Why is there a need for the structured conversation within Achievement for All?
Achievement for All is a pioneering programme intended to support schools and local authorities (LAs) in providing the very best opportunities to ensure children and young people with special educational needs and disabilities (SEND) fulfil their potential. The project makes support and resources available to bring together current strategies and initiatives established to drive up pupil progress and achievement that many schools and LAs already model as they focus on pupil outcomes rather than educational processes. Achievement for All does not offer a single solution to the underachievement of children with SEND; rather the programme endeavours to discover and disseminate the best inclusive practice in improving outcomes for the most vulnerable learners. One of the key aims of Achievement for All is: To improve the engagement of parents of children and young people with SEND with their schools. We want parents to become more engaged in their childs learning, have increased confidence in the education system and better relationships with their childs school. Parental engagement is therefore at the heart of the strategy for Achievement for All. It is critical to the successful implementation of all three strands of the project (see diagram). There is a particular focus on parental engagement within Strand 2 through the development of the structured conversation.
Children and young people 2. Structured conversation with parents 3. Provision for developing wider outcomes
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The need for the structured conversation emerges from two key findings. In 2007 a study by Harris and Goodall1 found that the engagement of parents with the process of their childs learning is critical to the childs achievement. There is a consistent relationship between increasing parental engagement (particularly of hard to reach parents) and improved attendance, behaviour and student achievement. The second finding arose from the Lamb Inquiry2. The Chair of the Inquiry, Brian Lamb, reported to the Secretary of State in 2009: What has struck us quite forcibly is that it seems no one has had a discussion with parents about the outcomes they aspire to for their child. Achievement for All is a programme designed to ensure the greater inclusion of all pupils with SEND. If the approach is working well, parents of SEND pupils will be actively engaged in their childs learning and achievement; SEND pupils will participate more fully in school and community life; they will narrow the gap in achievement between themselves and their peers and have a clearer idea of what will constitute good progress for them. The structured conversation is intended to support the greater engagement of parents by enabling them to make their contribution heard and understood by teachers and the wider school.
establish an effective relationship between parent and the key teacher; allow the parent an opportunity to share their concerns and, together, agree their aspirations for their child; set clear goals and targets for learning and improvement in wider outcomes; determine activities which will contribute to the achievement of those targets; identify the responsibilities of the parent, the pupil and the school; agree the date and time of the next meeting; clarify the most effective means of communication between meetings.
Perhaps most importantly, the structured conversation should help to establish a wider school culture of listening to the thoughts and aspirations of parents of young people with SEND. In short: receiving as well as transmitting information. If these purposes are achieved then parents should: feel more confident to engage with their childs school; be given opportunities to contribute to their childs learning, express their views and concerns and be confident they will be acted upon; develop appropriately challenging expectations of what their child can achieve. be more effective at listening to parents about their childs learning; provide better information to parents about their childs learning; use the outcomes of the conversation with parents and pupils to improve the learning and teaching for individual targeted pupils.
Schools should:
1. Engaging parents in Raising Achievement: Do parents know they matter? Harris and Goodall (2007) 2. Lamb Inquiry: Report to the Secretary of state on the Lamb Inquiry Review of SEN and Disability Information, Lamb (2009)
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The National Strategies | Achievement for All The Structured Conversation Handbook to support training Although the purposes of the structured conversation are clear, it is useful to remember that there may be a number of obstacles to opening this line of communication, for example:
parents may have personal reasons for finding it difficult to engage with the school and its teachers, not least being their own experience of school; parents may have lower expectations and aspirations for their child than does the school, and have little motivation to engage further; in many cases, the significant adult in a childs life may not be a parent, but a carer or a residential social worker for whom the notion of an engaging conversation may have less resonance; there is a considerable level of skill involved on the part of the teacher in conducting a purposeful conversation directed towards achieving several objectives. Some teachers will need support to develop these skills.
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both participants have some degree of motivation; both participants agree the parameters of the conversation that has been contracted; the physical context is conducive to an open dialogue.
As a minimum, participants must believe in the possibility of a better outcome than they have had before. The environment for the conversation should be reasonably comfortable, quiet and private. Although it may not be said explicitly, there should be a mutual awareness that unless otherwise specified, the contents of the conversation that do not relate to the child and the childs welfare, but are concerned with the parents personal circumstances will remain confidential to the participants. The conversation is intended to be a mechanism that, once established, will allow teacher and parent to build upon their understanding, share strategies, knowledge about the child, and knowledge about the curriculum and how progress through it is improved and assessed. In other words, to become genuinely collaborative in supporting the childs achievement.
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aims of the conversation; time available; arrangements following the conversation; confidentiality.
the idea of a structured conversation may become less mysterious and threatening; the ground is cleared; a purposeful tone is set; if agreement is genuine both people are more likely to take part wholeheartedly; if you do not reach sufficient agreement, at least some time is saved.
It is very helpful if the key teacher is clear and concise about their own intentions and view of the conversation, listens very carefully and above all that genuine agreement is reached before proceeding.
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There may be a significant gap between what the parents expect and what the key teacher may expect or can provide. Two parents may also of course not agree with each other about what is best for their child. It is important that the key teacher considers how they will give feedback to the parents throughout the conversation, particularly where there is a lack of common view (see Exercise 1 in Part 3: Resources on page 23).
Frequency of meeting
It is anticipated that there will be up to three structured conversations with parents during the course of a year. It will be useful to clarify this expectation at the first meeting. Since these meetings will be longer than most teacherparent meetings, it will also be helpful to discuss at which meetings the child will be present, and whether for all or part only. As far as possible, meetings should be aligned to the normal cycle for discussions with parents of all children but should also allow opportunities for parents to initiate a conversation when they have concerns or when they feel things are not going well. Following the structured conversation, the key teacher will need to inform all the appropriate school staff of the outcomes and agreed curriculum targets. More detailed guidance regarding the requirements of schools may be found on page 34 of Achievement for All: Guidance for Schools.
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EXPLORE
FOCUS
PLAN
REVIEW
The key skills needed to effectively implement each of the four stages are explained in more detail throughout this document.
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Stage 1: Explore
Skills: attending; paraphrasing; communicating understanding; use of silence This stage is concerned with helping the parent identify the range of issues they would like to address in raising their childs achievement.
What does the parent want for their child and believe is attainable in the best possible circumstances? What are the childs needs? What does the parent think is the limit of the childs capacity? What strategies have been tried effectively in the past either at home or at an earlier stage of education? What have been the barriers to achievement?
However, these are difficult questions to answer, and a barrage of such questions will soon leave the parent feeling anxious and beginning to give answers that are unconsidered. It is of central importance, therefore, in this early stage of the structured conversation, that questions lie in the tentative tone of the teacher and are grounded in what the parent is saying rather than what the teacher wants to say.
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For example: Parent: He said to me the other day: Cheryl Cole is very pretty, and I said, jokingly, I dont think shes married. And he said, all serious: I cant get married. Im Downs. And it struck me hes all the time conscious of what he cant do. Cant read well, cant make friends, probably wont get a driving licence or a girlfriend. Consider the range of options the teacher has by way of response:
Well, Im only qualified to talk about the reading part of that .
Or
You never know, he might meet someone who will find him attractive. Or Has he thought about joining a youth club? Or Perhaps the most upsetting thing for you is his lack of belief in what he might be able to do?
Notice that the fourth option is expressed as a question the question is: have I understood correctly
what you have said and what you are feeling? Its tone is tentative.
The parent might reply: Yes, and Im afraid school only seems to make him less confident.
Teacher: Perhaps one of the key issues we need to discuss is how we find ways to help him get a sense of
genuine achievement?
Notice also that the rhythm here is conversational. There are no long silent periods where the teacher simply listens without response. Nor is the teachers part of the interaction a series of internally generated questions, rather she is demonstrating an understanding of what the parent is saying through the use of paraphrasing.
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Another difficult aspect of paraphrasing is capturing depth or intensity of emotion, which an anxious parent of a child with SEND may very well be experiencing. Firstly, you observe that one or more emotions has been expressed or clearly implied. Secondly, you decide this is an emotion that matters. Thirdly, you choose an apt word. Fourthly, you say it in such a way that the other person can readily check how accurate it is and refine and clarify, for example furious and scared rather than frustrated , or vice versa. A question that a teacher might ask is: Why should I be concerned about what the parents feeling. I am, after all, only paid to teach the child? In many ways this is a fair question. The answer is that teachers have a professional responsibility to teach children including children with SEND. The parents of children with SEND will have experienced, and be experiencing, complicated feelings about their child. In all likelihood it will be very difficult, and counterproductive, to attempt to entirely separate these feelings from the task of engaging with the parent in raising the childs academic and social achievement. Therefore it is useful to acknowledge these feelings and try to work with them as part of the overall aim of engaging the parent constructively in their childs education.
Use of silence
Silence is allowing time for thoughts and feelings, or just a natural pause. The main skill is distinguishing between working silences, natural breaks, and hostile, bored and stuck silences. If the parent seems deep in thought thinking through an idea or observation then allowing silence is very skilful and likely to be helpful. If its a natural break, a lull, again silence is skilful. For the other kinds of silence, it is best to say something like Im not sure whats going on here or I notice youre very quiet. May I ask why?
Stage 2: Focus
Skills: summarising, choice points and figure ground; focused questions This stage is concerned with helping the parent identify the key issues and priorities for action. It involves being explicit about the nature of aspiration and need.
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For example: Teacher: Youve talked about him leaving the site at lunch time, and the people he spends time with out of
school, and the worry that if he attends the trip to London he might wander off and get lost.
It sounds as if youre really concerned by the prospect of John attending the class field trip?
Stage 3: Plan
Skills: giving information; setting goals This stage is concerned with the actions that need to be carried out to address the identified key issues.
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For example: Teacher: Hayley is actually making good progress; and is very close to achieving the two levels you are speaking of. If we can agree what needs to be done to support her to achieve just a little more, she can make the two levels. Having identified key priorities, and clarified the issues around them, this stage is concerned with the actions that need to be carried out to address them. It is important at this time that the parent has as much opportunity as possible to say what they may do to support progress. It is also important that the parent and teacher set and agree challenging but achievable targets. These should be framed in language which is clearly understood by both parties and, most importantly, by the pupil. They will provide a framework against which progress can be measured. The processes and activities which will help to secure achievement of the targets should be discussed and ideally should include responsibilities for the parent, the teacher, the pupil and the school. The focus of goal setting is concerned with raising achievement. It is anticipated, therefore, that goals will be ambitious (i.e. likely to achieve more than the child is now, or will do if they continue at their current rate of progress) and constructed around the principle of identifying the pupils current trajectory of progress based upon prior attainment and adding an element of challenge.
Focus on outcomes
Critical to the success of Achievement for All is the need for schools and LAs to maintain an outcomes based focus. This applies to all processes developed within each of the three strands and is particularly important at this planning stage of the structured conversation. The conversation with parents will cover long-term goals for achievement in literacy and numeracy skills and in the wider outcomes. These goals might be the trajectory for achievement at the end of the current key stage within Strand 1; the wider outcomes will focus on goals within the aspects identified in Strand 3. These long-term goals will guide the smaller steps targets set at the planning stage of the conversation.
Setting targets
It is a key principle of Achievement for All that the three strands are interdependent and that progress in one strand will affect change in the other two. It is therefore important that targets set in one strand are clearly linked to improvements in the other two. There is a focus on educational outcomes, but in Achievement for All and in this conversation, there must be an emphasis on how progress in the wider outcomes is going to support this. When setting targets it is important to adhere to, and build on, the culture of target setting within the school. However the additional focus on targeted children will lead to increased expectations of progress from the teacher, parent and child and result in accelerated, rather than predicted, progress.
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targets need to be based on an analysis of the childs real strengths and areas for improvement. The teacher needs to prepare for the structured conversation so this information is at hand and can be shared; all targets need to be practical and agreed with parents and children; parents and children need to know what to do in order to make the expected progress to reach the targets; any strategies or interventions should be clarified to include timescales and the success criteria that will be used to evaluate impact; methods and timescales for ongoing assessment and review should be clarified with the parents and child. It may be at this point in the conversation that ongoing communication arrangements will be made with the parents; effective schools have well established systems for assessment, tracking and target setting, including the use of Assessing Pupils Progress (APP). As far as possible schools should use and build on these systems for Achievement for All rather than creating systems which are different and may not be sustainable.
Statutory guidance
DCSF target setting guidance which is concerned with those longer-term goals states that: As for all pupils, those identified as having SEN/LDD are expected to make at least two levels of progress in each key stage. In order to narrow the gaps between the achievement of pupils with and without SEN, targets should aim for three or more levels of progress across a key stage where possible. Where pupils are assessed as being unlikely to reach level 1, schools should use P scales to measure progress and set appropriately challenging targets. Data brought together for the Progression Guidance 200910, shows that for pupils on the P scales, for those at the lower P levels and at the later key stages it is harder to secure two levels of progress, but nonetheless: over 60% of KS1 pupils, with a prior attainment of P5 to P7, make two or more levels of progress in both English and mathematics by the end of KS2; and over 20% of KS2 pupils, with prior attainment of P5 to P7 make two or more levels of progress in both English and mathematics by the end of KS3.
The Progression Guidance 200910 provides data which will help schools to set targets and evaluate progress for those pupils with SEND who are working well below age-related thresholds including within the P scales. The guidance has been widely disseminated across LAs; all School Improvement Partners (SIP) should be referring to it. For schools where the guidance has not yet been accessed it can be downloaded at www.standards.dcsf.gov.uk/nationalstrategies and search using the reference 00553-2009BKT-EN. The accompanying professional development course can be also be found at www.standards.dcsf.gov.uk/nationalstrategies and search for the Progression Guidance Professional Development Course. Once targets have been set, schools will need to record them and clarify what records will be kept of any ongoing assessments.
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differentiated planning by the teacher as part of whole-class teaching; ongoing assessment for learning; the inclusion of pupils with SEND in the whole-school assessment, tracking and pupil progress review structures.
An example form to record the goals, targets and key outcomes of the conversation is included as Handout 5.
Stage 4: Review
Skills: summarising, paraphrasing This stage provides an opportunity to summarise the key points of the discussion, to clarify the next steps and arrange dates for further meetings or alternative communication.
In essence, the review stage of the structured conversation summarises: These are the things we have talked about..., These are the areas we think are most important in order to raise the childs achievement level... and These are the plans we have put in place in order to bring about that improvement and then asks the question: Are the plans working? It is important that the summary is:
not too lengthy (boring and hard to follow); written down at least in note form; and is used to furnish a written action plan that may be communicated to other teaching staff and also copied to the parent (see Handout 5 as an example). How well has the meeting gone? Is there anything else you want to add? Have we missed anything? Have we listened to you well enough and do you think we have understood and appreciated the issues? Can we summarise exactly what we decided? Can we agree when we are next meeting and ways to keep in touch in between?
An important part of the review stage is to establish a very clear line of subsequent communication which should acknowledge at least three routes: regular parentteacher meetings; a named person the parent can call to express immediate concerns or get information from; the next scheduled structured conversation (usually once each term, three a year).
At the point of the next conversation beginning, the teacher may well begin the conversation with a review of progress to date against the agreed goals and targets. This should then lead naturally into an
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exploration of the issues that have emerged as a consequence of the achievement or otherwise of those objectives and outcomes. To summarise, the meeting should lead to the following outcomes:
clear and agreed aspirations for the child; clear goals and targets for the child; a plan of action for meeting the targets; a clear line of subsequent communication.
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Materials needed
Checklist of materials for each course
Copies of the agenda Checklist for analysing interviews for observing the DVD DVD: The Conversation DVD: A Parents Story (from Achievement for All Leadership Conferences) Flipcharts Sticky notes Marker pens Data projector and Strand 2 PowerPoint presentation
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Handout 1: Setting up triads and small groups Handout 2: Observing the structured conversation Handout 3: Personality type Handout 4: Goal setting with hard to reach parents Handout 5: A model record and action plan Handout 6: Checklist for reflecting on the structured conversation
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What is Achievement for All? What are the aims? What are the three strands? What is the structured conversation? Why do we need the structured conversation? Aims, benefits and difficulties of the structured conversation.
(See page 4 of this guidance or pages 3 to 6 of Achievement for All: Guidance for Schools for further details.) Explain the conclusions of the Lamb Enquiry (the failure of young people with SEND to keep pace with peers; the need to engage parents and carers in their childs education). 10:00 Ground rules of the day (slide 10) Ask participants what their expectations are of the day and what skills they would like to leave with. Record these on the flipchart. Do not record expectations that are outside the realms of the course. Go through the key points:
Explain that in order for participants to learn the skills of the structured conversation, it is not useful or instructive to employ methods of role-play. Participants should therefore be prepared to discuss genuine issues at an appropriate level in order to provide material for all to practise with, for example:
my journey here this morning; what I most regret not doing at school (as a pupil); what I would like to be doing in five years time; the pupil I find most difficult to teach; my worst lesson as a teacher.
10:10 Negotiating a contract or agreement (slide 11) Explain that the purpose of the verbal contract or agreement is to clearly define the nature of the structured conversation. Chart the principal elements of the contract:
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10.20 Giving and receiving feedback (slides 12 and 13) Exercise 1 Materials: Exercise 1: Giving and receiving feedback; Handout 1: Setting up triads and small groups, flipchart and pen. Activity: Explain that one of the principal learning processes in the course will be feedback by group members given by observers as part of a triad (see Handout 1). It is important that feedback is given constructively and tentatively but not timidly. Use the material in Exercise 1 to inform and stimulate discussion. Ask the question: Why is negative feedback more likely to be remembered? Record answers and discuss. 10:35 The framework for the structured conversation (slide 14) Show the four stage diagram on slide 14. Explain that the framework is a guide to the direction the conversation should take; opening out as issues are explored, narrowing to a point of focus on key issues and widening as parent and teacher endeavour to find solutions to those issues. Explain that there are key skills linked to each of the four stages and these will be explored in turn. 10:40 Stage 1: Exploring (slides 15 to 17) Attending and non-verbal communication Exercise 2 (15 minutes) Materials: Exercise 2: Non-verbal communication; flipchart and pen. Activity: Work through Exercise 2. 10:55 Demonstration of the structured conversation (25 minutes) Materials: DVD: The Conversation; Handout 2: Observing the structured conversation; flipchart and pen. Activity: View DVD: The Conversation Part 1. Ask participants to complete the first section of Handout 2 and provide feedback. View Part 2 of the DVD. Ask participants to complete the second section of Handout 2 and provide feedback. Discuss main points that participants have observed, for example non-verbal signals; examples of where the two meetings differed and why that was. Ask: How was the teacher different in Part 2 of the DVD and what difference did that make?
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11:20 Coffee 11:45 Paraphrasing (slides 18 to 20) Exercises 3 and 4 (45 minutes) Materials: pp1213 of the handbook; flipchart and pen; DVD. Activity: Reiterate what a paraphrase is, and what is its impact. If necessary repeat the final two minutes of the DVD. Work through the two exercises. The flipchart discussion is important and should be used to bring out key learning points. Remember that non-verbal communication remains important even when listening. Try to elicit examples of what observers felt were really effective paraphrases. 12:30 Stage 2: Focusing (slides 21 and 22) Summarising (slides 23 to 25) Exercise 5 (30 minutes) Materials: Exercise 5: Summarising and choice points; flipchart and pen; DVD. Activity: Work through Exercise 5. 13:00 Lunch 13:45 Use of questions (slides 26 to 28) Exercise 6 (30 minutes) Materials: page 15 of the handbook; Exercise 6: Using questions; flipchart and pen. Activity: Work through Exercise 6. 14.15 Stage 3: Planning (slides 29 and 30) Setting goals and targets (slides 31 to 36) Exercise 7 (30 minutes) Materials: Handout 4: Goal setting with hard to reach parents; Handout 5: A model record and action plan; Exercise 7: Setting goals and targets. Activity: Carry out Exercise 7. Explain the use of Handout 5 as a model for recording outcomes of the structured conversation. Ask participants to discuss how they could use the form in their own school context. 14:45 Stage 4: Reviewing (slides 37 to 39) Review the key points:
summary of areas discussed, important issues, goals and plans put in place; summary should be concise, in writing, understood by parent and colleagues; invite parents to check their understanding; sets clear line of future communication.
14:55 Reflecting on the conversation (slide 40) Explain the importance of taking time after the conversation to reflect on how it went. Activity: Show Handout 6: Checklist for reflecting on the structured conversation. 15:00 Coffee and time for participants to consider questions about next steps 15:15 Feedback on questions and issues Provide participants with the opportunity to discuss any issues they have or questions around
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Part 3: Resources
Exercise 1: Giving and receiving feedback
This is a group discussion. The course leader explains the principles of feedback and why it is important in the context of this training group. In order to derive benefit from the course, it is essential that participants learn how to give constructive feedback. This is a useful skill outside of the course particularly when working with young people who may lack self-confidence. Useful feedback (to yourself or others) is usually:
clear, brief and specific, as in the skill of giving information; constructively critical what the person might do differently rather than what you think they did wrong; balanced positive as well as constructively critical; expressed as your opinion, not as an absolute truth you may be wrong.
A sandwich structure is sometimes recommended but some people find it too contrived. It is:
1. Positive aspect(s)
2. Constructive criticism(s)
3. Another positive aspect.
Receiving feedback (from yourself or others) can of course be threatening and demoralising, even when
the feedback is given skilfully. The following strategies may help:
Try to see the feedback as potentially useful. Separate what is said from your reaction to it (this can be very difficult!). Consider asking for clarification, examples, detail, but with a spirit of open-minded enquiry rather than defensively or accusingly. Consider checking your understanding. Notice if you have a tendency to dismiss positive feedback.
Question: Why are people more likely to recall negative than positive feedback?
Record the responses from the group on a flipchart.
Other points for discussion.
Feedback from an observer is an observers opinion not fact. People giving feedback should own it. All feedback begins with an I as in I think or I wonder... The speakers feedback on how they experienced the conversation is never in doubt.
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A talks for two minutes on a given subject, for example: My most embarrassing moment, or What I would like to be doing in five years time. B listens, nodding and closely attending using non-verbal communication nodding, leaning forward a little, and good eye contact. At the end of two minutes, B attempts to paraphrase what A has said in one or two sentences. C feeds back on what was effective in the paraphrase and non-verbal communication. A feeds back on what was effective in the paraphrase. B summarises what went well and less well.
The roles are exchanged until all three have undertaken each role.
The trainer uses the flipchart to record observer comments on what helped to move the conversation
forward or otherwise.
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whoever is Observer feeds back to the Listener; the Speaker feeds back to the Listener; and the Listener summarises the positive feedback and identifies what could be done better.
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A is asked to talk about an aspect of his/her life that they wish (participants should be reminded to select a topic that is sufficiently low-level not to cause either them or the interviewer distress if the interview is handled badly as it may be. Remember, this is training). B listens carefully, both attending and paraphrasing at regular intervals. At some stage probably after no more than 57 minutes, B should summarise what has been said, trying to identify clearly each issue that A has introduced; so that the summary may sound like: You have talked about the influence your aunt had in your choice to become a teacher, and you have mentioned the fact that you didnt enjoy school yourself driving you to try and teach better than the teachers you had. Also, I think you discovered at university how much you enjoyed drama and performance, and the links you saw with class teaching. I wonder which of these had the most impact on your decision to teach. A continues to speak for another minute or so. C gives feedback to B, carefully noting the impact of paraphrase, summary and choice point. A also gives B feedback on what helped and hindered the development of their thinking.
General discussion: The course leader explains the value of summary and choice point in helping the Speaker become concrete in what they see as important.
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lose some weight; develop a better worklife balance; learn a new skill.
B summarises what A has said and invites him to list the reasons why he would like to achieve this goal.
At the end of the conversation, change roles.
For example:
A: I feel quite heavy some days; not just in my body but in my brain. I remember when I was younger and used to exercise a lot well, a lot more I also felt more quick witted. Also, I just want to feel more attractive, youthful, I suppose. B: So your goal isnt just losing weight. Its really about regaining some youth and also some capacity you feel you have lost? Having helped A redefine the goal, it becomes clear that losing weight is more of a milestone along the way to achieving something slightly more complex. B: What do you see as the obstacles to losing weight? A: I work long hours and I am really tired when I get home. At weekends I am always taking the kids to clubs and shopping and things and there never seems time for anything else. B: You put a lot into life, but it sometimes feels you dont get much out for yourself? A: Once you have children eh! B: So you go to sleep tonight, and when you wake everything has miraculously improved. How would you know? (Miracle Question) A: Well, Im home, Ive been jogging, and the clock says 5.00 pm. The fridge is full. Im wearing a suit I havent been able to get into for two years and Ive done the Times crossword in five minutes. B: If we were writing down milestones to your goal, which of these do you think is most attainable? A: Work is just silly. I know I am sometimes there when I dont need to be, just because I dont delegate enough. I could get home by 5.00 pm at least two nights a week. And my wife is always saying that it would be cheaper to order shopping online and have it delivered save all that driving to the supermarket. B: Lets make a note of the goal and the steps we have agreed you will take to achieve it, so that we can review progress at our next meeting.
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A conversation for as long as is needed to give useful feedback. A pause for the Observers, the Speaker and the Listener as well, to prepare some feedback. The Observers, but not the tutor, gives feedback to the Listener. The Speaker gives feedback to the Listener. The tutor gives feedback to the Listener. The Listener, who has been listening intently and not taking notes, summarises without comment the main points of the feedback. The Observers remind the Listener of any main points that have been missed (quite often these are positive points) or any perceived distortions. Finally, the Listener gives their view of themselves in the conversation and there is a place for general discussion of conversational skills but not of the topic or the Speaker. The focus is firmly on practise of conversing.
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What seems to help the conversation move forward? (consider non-verbal and verbal language) What seems to hinder it? (consider non-verbal and verbal language) How do you think the parent feels by the end of the conversation? How do you think the teacher feels by the end of the conversation? What has changed for either the teacher or the parent?
b) Watch Part 2 of the DVD: The Conversation What seems to help the conversation move forward? (consider non-verbal and verbal language) What seems to hinder it? (consider non-verbal and verbal language) How do you think the parent feels by the end of the conversation? How do you think the teacher feels by the end of the conversation? What has changed for either the teacher or the parent?
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These terms are deliberately chosen to be positive but most have negative variations, for example, on a different planet and flaky for interested in possibilities, boring and plodding for practical. People with each of these preferences for behaving in certain (opposite) ways have strengths in some settings and careers and corresponding weaknesses in others. For example some teachers and parents are more energised by a flexible, free-wheeling interview or teaching session while others are more at ease with a highly-structured one. Similarly, several forms of intelligence have been proposed. For example Gardners theory includes:
Verbal-linguistic facility with words Logical-mathematical facility with numbers Visual-spatial facility with visualising and manipulating images Bodily-kinaesthetic facility with sport, dance etc. Musical sensitivity to sounds and rhythms Interpersonal part of emotional intelligence, sensitivity to others, to others emotions and needs Intrapersonal also part of emotional intelligence, concerned with awareness of ones own emotions and needs Naturalistic sensitivity to nature.
This theory is controversial but the general underlying principle is that there are other ways of being intelligent than the standard academic way, which is primarily linguistic and logical-mathematical.
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Reserve a room that was private, quiet and as welcoming as possible? Plan the conversation, for example, decide the aim(s), structure? Prepare the room and arrange the seating and furniture? Clear my mind?
The interview itself Did I: Attend well (listen non-verbally)? Overuse any skills? Neglect any skills? Help the parents talk both freely and to the point? Follow up leads? Check my understanding? Help (if necessary) the parents decide on one or more specific, realistic targets? Make sure the pace was conversational and manage any silences? Summarise the main points and agree actions?
Overall Do the parents appear happier or more concerned now than at the beginning? How do I feel? Has the conversation achieved the aims I set out to achieve? What about my style, for example, was I warm, abrasive, too formal? Are there any implications for my next interview with these parents? Do I need to change anything for the next conversation? For example, chose a different room. Which two or three key skills could I work on to try next time? For example, following leads, summarising, agreeing points for action.
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Acknowledgement
AfA Structured Conversation (2009), R.S. Bayne. With kind thanks for his contribution.
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