Vin DiCarlo DiClassified Drills

DiClassified
Drills
D I C A R L O D I C L A S S I F I E D
The DiClassified Drills
Underground Training Manual
Vin DiCarlo
Warm Dominance Drills p9
1.Eye Contact
2.Positive Visualisation
3.Acknowledge Flow
4.Aikido Spin
Opening Drills pl6
1.Punchy Questions
2.Question + Compliance
3.Question + Compliance + Mini Cold Read
4.Question + Compliance + Mini Cold Read + Isolate
Intrigue Drills p23
1.Hooks(Missing Information)
2.Cold Reads
3.Hedge yourbets
Leader Drills p30
1.Question - Mini Isolate
2.Compliment - Kino
3.Kino - Meet Friends (Isolate)
Thread Management Drills p38
1.Simple Thread Flow
2.The Negotiator
Role Playing Drill p35
1.(a)Daddy Daughter
l.(b)Old Flame
1.(c)Teacher - Student
l.(d) Vacation
Credibility Drills p45
1.Friends Stories (Statement - Related Story)
2.Qualification - Compliment
3.Problem - Reframe
DiCarlo Escalation Drills p50
1.Incidental - Overt Class 1
Follow-Up Drills (Logistics)
1.Getting Phone Number
2.Getting Day 2
Logistics Drills
1.Changing Venues (Lets Go!)
2.Isolation
Escalation Ramp Drill
1.Memorization of Ramp
Advanced Cold Reading
1.Pace and Lead
2.Coversational Cold Read
3.Magic Mirror
4.Derren Brown Mentalism
Sexual Tension Drills
1.Sensual Language
2.Double Entendres
Compliance Drills
1.Dirty Compliance (Re-Frame)
2.Imaginary Compliance
Reality Replacement Drills
1.Compliance Levels
2.The Virtual/Imaginary Ladder
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p66
p93
p71
p73
p83
p96
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Contents
1. Welcome to DiClassified Drills .......4
2. The Attraction Hi erarchy 7
3. Warm Domi nance Drills 9
4. Starti ng Conversations with Groups 14
5. Opening Drills 16
6. Int ri gue Drills 23
7. Leadership Drills .....30
8. Role Playing Drills 35
9. Managing Conversational Threads 38
10. Credibility Drills 45
11. The DiCarlo Escalation Ladder 50
12. Follow-up Drills 61
13. Logistics Drills 66
14. Advanced Cold Readi ng Drills 71
15. Sexual Tension Drills 78
16. Compliance Drills 83
17. Escalation Ramp 87
18. Ramp Drill 93
19. Reality Repl acement Drills 96
20. A Quick Word From Vin 99
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Wel come to DiClassified Drills!
The purpose of this program is to instill the deep belief within you that
pick-up is easy.
I will do that by removing the mysticism and hocus pocus from pick-up.
The belief orfeeling that pick-up is hard, difficult or complicated is an
i l l usi on.
If you preferto keep things simple in life, this can be the only guide
you'll ever need.
So prepare for an experience. Take good notes. Write down your re-
alizations. Participate FULLY.
This is not just designed to help you out a little bit with yoursocial life
this is hardcore pick-up training.
You're not here to hearme lecture for7 hours a day and then watch me
talk to girls at night. You're here to rewi re your automati c re-
sponses and change your entire ment al strategy.
I can do this because I have built this bootcamp structure on a gradient
of increasing difficulty. That is, every one of the 36+ drills in this pro-
gram is built on a foundation of everythi ng that has come before.
You will take two major concepts away from this weekend:
1. A drasti c i mprovement of your soci al i ntel l i gence. Compe-
tence in social intelligence can be defined as the intelligence that
lies behind group interactions and behaviors. Any intelligence is not
something you are born with, but rather something that can be de-
veloped.
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Wel come to DiClassified Drills, Cont.
Everyone has a threshold of how much social "input" orinformation
they can process at a given time. This places restrictions and blind
spots on theirsocial interactions.
The drills will push to your threshold, and then way beyond it.
You can think of as working out yourmental muscles. By doing this
over and over a variety of different ways, your entire personality will
evolve.
Don't worry though, you won't lose yourcore identity. This process
simply allows your true nature to shi ne through, uni nhi bi -
ted. You will lose a lot of yourold dysfunctional behaviors that kept
you from reaching your goals in this area of yourlife.
2. Internal i zati on of the DiClassified System and wi th it, a
deep knowi ngness that attracti on is a process. Many guys
believe that attraction is eitherthere or it isn't. Many successful
naturals simply believe that with them, it's always there.
While it is true, a woman can be attracted ornot, it is also true that
attraction is a process that anyone can lead anyone else through.
People have built in responses. Some of your current auto-
matic responses may be limiting you in ways you don't
yet even realize.
All women also have these automatic responses. Yourjob is to learn
and practice a set of cognitive tools that you can use to learn to lead
these responses in predictable ways. Foronce, you will be creating
attraction on purpose.
Please keep this booklet safe, and private. If you are going to share your
experience, I preferthat you only share this experience with no more
than 3 of yourclosest friends. That way we can all enjoy the "elite" or
"underground" nature of the bootcamp. Here's to your success, Vi n
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Drillset Sequence #1
You Need to Establish a
Strong Int ernal Frame
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The Attracti on Hi erarchy
The hierarchy consists of five levels of conditions that dic-
tate whethersexual attraction will be present ornot.
Each one is dependent on the earlierones. So in other
words, the lowerlevels serve as a necessary foundation on
which the higherlevels may build.
Forexample, Level 3: Connection, does not function as at-
tractive unless both Level l: Warm Dominance and Level 2:
Intrigue are both present.
The Hierarchy is as follows:
Level 1: Warm Dominance
Level 2: Intrigue
Level 3: Connection
Level 4: Credibility
Level 5: Leadership
These levels will be drilled to the point of internalization in
orderto construct a personality which is naturally attrac-
tive.
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Wa rm Domi nance
It means: To Possess a steadfast emotional state that is
completely independent of transitory social interactions.
In otherwords, yourlivelihood, yourenergy and yourhap-
piness is completely independent of the girl you are talking
to, orherfriends, orotherpeople in the vicinity.
If you have everacted differently around a girl because you
were attracted to her, you did NOT possess warm domi-
nance.
If you were upset orthrown off balance because a girl was-
n't attracted to you, you did NOT possess warm dominance.
The key is to draw yourenergy from things in yourlife
OUTSIDE of meeting women.
Meeting women should be a fun activity that you do, not a
need to be fulfilled.
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Wa rm Domi nance Drills
Drill #1: Face to Face Encounter
Purpose: To get comfortable emotionally with another
person who you do not yet know.
Application: Sit across from yourpartnerand hold eye
contact without flinching, looking away, laughing orfidget-
ing.
This should be done forabout 5 minutes.
Drill #2: Encounter plus Visualization
Purpose: To be able to see the abilities in otherpeople,
which in turn creates those abilities in yourself.
Application: Sit across from yourpartnerand while hold-
ing eye contact, visualize that person having success with
women. (Having conversations, getting phone numbers,
women pleasantly involved in the interactions)
Drill back and forth for 2-3 minutes. After the drill you
may debrief and share what you visualized.
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Drill #3: Acknowl edge-Fl ow
Purpose: To be able to keep yourattention flowing despite
a person's non-compliance.
Appl i cati on:
1. Sit across from yourpartner, holding eye contact.
2. Partneruses stock "woman tests" to try to reject you.
3. You must move on using stock acknowledgements.
Do not react negatively, laugh orotherwise try to make your
partner feel bad.
Woman tests:
I don't like that shirt.
Why are you talking to me?
I only talk to good looking guys.
Buy me a drink.
We're having a private conversation.
Acknowl edgement s:
Cool. Check this out....
That's great. And...
Awesome. By the way...
This drill should be done until you can comfortably move
on quickly and without any negativity.
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Wa rm Domi nance Drills, Cont.
Drill #4: Ai ki do Spi n
Purpose: To be able to interpret any negative remarks or
tests as positive indicators of interest.
Appl i cati on:
1. Sit across from yourpartner, holding eye contact.
2. Partnerinsults and belittles you verbally.
3. Each time you receive an insult, you must interpret it as
positive, and react to it with enthusiasm.
Drill as if it's an actual conversation with a woman.
Exampl e:
Partner: This might not be the club foryou, maybe you
should try the gay bar down the street.
You: I know aren't gay bars awesome! One time a bunch of
us went, and my female friends absolutely loved the fact
that they weren't getting hit on continuously. Anyway have
you ever sang karaoke?
This should be done back and forth for 15 minutes.
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Drillset #1 Not es:
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You Need to be Able to
Start Conversations with
Groups, Take Control
and Manage t he Group
Dynamic
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St art i ng Conversati ons wi t h Groups
When approaching a group of people it's important to be
aware of a three different factors:
Your Energy.
Friendly, warm and assertive. Open with a big smile, and
approach them confidently. Do not hesitate orshow any
signs of insecurity.
Your Presence.
Speak loud enough so that the whole group can hearyou.
Stand up straight and have relaxed body language. Make
eye contact with everyone in the group.
Your Conversational Content.
Should be kept light, positive and somewhat relevant. Top-
ics that work well are yourimmediate surroundings, fashion
and cities.
Note: Opening is easy. Many people lose confidence in
theirmaterial. But it is that very loss of confidence which is
harmful to the interaction. Have confidence in yourmate-
rial, and anything can work.
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The Easiest Way to Open
The fastest, easiest way to open a group is with short, punchy
questions.
I preferNOT to use stories as openers. If you rely on a story
forthe first 30 seconds, how are you going to make it
through 4 hours of natural interaction?
Use Short Questions.
Good Questions:
1. Hooks. Why are Manhattan girls so friendly? Why are
women so possessive?
2. Humor. Who invited the physics'club? (If there's a
group of nerds nearby)
3. Accusations. Are you wearing socks? (If she has white,
non-distinct shoes on) Are those bracelets (If she's wear-
ing huge hoop earrings)
4. Controversial. Should Paris go to Jail? Do you guys be-
lieve in psychics?
Bad Questions:
1. Tourist Frame: Do you guys know any good bars?
What time is it?
2. Rapport Seeking: What is yourname? Where are you
from?
3. Supplicative: Can I buy you a drink? Are you a model?
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Opening Drills
Drill #1: Punchy Questions
Purpose: To build confidence in opening with short,
punchy questions.
Application: Approach the group and spontaneously ask a
question.
Don't worry if you use a "bad" question at first, we will re-
peat the process overand overquickly to build yoursponta-
neity.
Approach the group, with awareness of yourenergy, pres-
ence and conversational content. Launch into yourques-
tion. The goal is to deliveryourquestion, and have everyone
in the group hearand understand it.
If anyone in the group objects to yourenergy orpresence,
you must try again. The objectorshould give one point of
feedback, and allow you to try again.
You must get universal affinity from everyone in the entire
group. Drill until you can achieve this consistently.
Reminder: The fourtypes of good questions are hooks,
humor, accusations and controversy.
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Opening Drills, Cont.
Drill #2: Compliance Escalation
Purpose: To set a strong precedent of leadership, by using
a quick, and easy compliance request.
Application: Approach the group with a punchy question.
Immediately follow it up with an easy compliance request.
The request may ormay not be related to the initial ques-
tion, it does not matter.
Easy Compliance Requests:
Hold my drink one sec.
Here, turn around, let me see.
Let me see yourhand.
Wave to my friend overthere.
Also, rapport seeking questions can now be effec-
tive since they will be delivered through the right
frame:
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What's yourname?
Where are you guys from?
Who's the leaderhere?
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Opening Drills, Cont.
Drill #3: Mini-Cold Reads
Purpose: To generate fast intrigue by playfully making
snap judgments on girls within the group.
Application: Approach the group with a punchy question.
Immediately follow it up with an easy compliance request.
Aftergetting a positive response to eitheryourpunchy
question orcompliance request, use a mini-cold-read on
anyone in the group.
It does not have to be related to eitherof the previous two
bits, and can in fact be directed toward anyone in the group.
Examples:
You're trouble
Girls like you get away with murder
You're a recovering nerd, aren't you
This girl has good taste in fashion, I'm giving hera job
I can tell that you're intuitive
You're a shy girlbut when you're with the right people,
watch out
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Openi ng Drills, Cont.
Drill #4: Leadership
Purpose: To incorporate active escalation into yourinter-
actions. Instead of waiting around hoping something hap-
pens, you make it happen.
Application: Leading with the sequence created from the
previous 3 drills, this time, use the leadership momentum
you create to mini-isolate yourself with an individual of
yourchoice within the group.
Example:
You: Who invited the physics club? (Laughter)
You: Come overhere. (Girl comes over)
You: It was you, wasn't it? I can tell. You're a recovering
nerd... Aren't you... (Girl: Why do you think that?)
You: It's ok I won't tell anyone. I was a nerd once too, here,
let's share some equations. (MiniIsolation) (Be sure not to
say this too seriously, she should know you are kidding,
but it will definitely disarm the rest of her group)
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Drillset #2 Notes:
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You Need to Hook FAST
and Get Her Chasing You
Immedi atel y
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Int ri gue
It means: To withhold yourpoweron some level, whetherit
means holding back information, compliance ordirect indi-
cations of yourinterest.
Intrigue can also be described as a negative compliance ra-
tio. This means that the girl is working harderin the inter-
action than you are.
For exampleearly in an approach you need to demon-
strate that you know more about herthan she knows about
you.
She should be physically turned more toward you than you
toward her.
Lateron, she should be talking more than you are, and you
should be more relaxed than her.
On a date, she should travel furtherthan you do to meet
her.
Maintaining this balance is the key to creating a
vacuum that continues to pull her toward you.
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Int ri gue Drills, Cont.
Drill #1: Hooks
Purpose: To learn standard hooks that can be used to get a
woman curious about you, and trying to find out more in-
formation. These are good early on in the interaction.
Application: Begin by starting out with a standard hook
from the list below. Yourpartnerwill then pick up on the
implied question, and try to get a logical answerto it. You
respond immediately with a line from below, orone you
made up. The line must not give away the logical answerto
the question.
Standard Hooks: (Unanswered question in italics)
Why are X girls so friendly? (X=locality)
Where are you from?
You're not going to believe this... but...Mars.
Is it true what they say about X girls?
What do they say?
Come here... Closer... Closer... that you're extremely gul-
lible.
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Do you always act like this when you go out?
Act like what?
Ask so many questions...
Do you know who you remind me of? Never
mind.
Who do I remind you of?
In about 2 minutes my friend will get here... and he'll tell
you the answer.
Drill until your response is immediate, with no hesitation
and you feel comfortable with leaving unanswered ques-
tions.
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Drill #2: Cold Reads
Purpose: To amplify intrigue by demonstrating that you
have some secret knowledge about them. This in turn
makes them even more curious about you.
Application: Use the standard cold reads from the list be-
low. After you can deliver all three without reading off the
page, (they don't have to be word for word) in an authentic
manner, create an original read based on something you be-
lieve may be true about your partner.
Standard Cold Reads:
A lot of guys think you're aloof and distant, and they
don't realize that it's just a shield, and they never really
give you a second chance. And one of the things that
makes you most happy is to show your real self to some-
one.
I get the sense that people around you and the circum-
stances of your life right now expects you to act like a
grown up adult, but deep down, you're still just a little
girl with little girl dreams and little girl wishes.
Even though you're aware of what your friends think,
you're happiest when you can experience the freedom of
making your own decisions, and doing what you really
want to do.
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Drill #3: Hedge Your Bets
Purpose: To calibrate yourcompliments by making them
conditional and thus, retaining yourpower.
Application: During conversation, give yourpartnera
compliment, but then hedge it, in otherwords, make it con-
ditional and much less flattering.
Examples:
You're a lot of fun. Especially fora blonde.
I could really see myself hanging out with younow and
then.
I'd really like to buy you a drink, in a couple hours.
Yourfashion is amazing, in the lighting in this bar.
We HAVE to hang out, once I get to know you.
You come across extremely intelligent, fora girl I met in
a club.
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Drillset #3 Notes:
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You Need to Accurately
Recognize and Capitalize
on Open Wi ndows
of Opportuni ty
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Leadershi p
It means: The state of being in control of the social situation
and producing certain outcomes through perceiving and ex-
ploiting windows of opportunity.
Once you have fulfilled the previous fourlevels of the hier-
archy, the game is simply a matterof using leadership to
escalate largerand largerlevels of compliance.
It is not just important to spotting windowsit is also im-
portant to be able to interpret events as windows. Because
so many people have such a weak grasp of reality, they look
to others forinterpretation.
The more you practice these drills, the more certain you be-
come, and the more often you will create a reality that
works in yourfavor. More people will follow you.
The otherhalf of the equation is having the propertools to
escalate in these windows. We will drill a numberof these
tools so you become comfortable in various situations.
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Leadershi p Drills
Drill #1: Question -> Mini Isolate
Purpose: If a girl asks you a personal question, she is most
likely interested. The purpose is to train you to react posi-
tively with a simple mini-isolation the first time a girl dis-
plays strong interest by asking a question.
Application: Partnerpicks a topic. You and yourpartner
have a simple conversation on that topic. At some point
yourpartnerasks you a question that displays a genuine in-
terest. You react by stepping to the side and pulling your
partners attention toward you, as you answerthe question.
You do not have to move yourpartnerany distance, you are
simply changing theirorientation away from the group and
toward you.
Drill back and forth for 10 minutes. It is important that
you only mini-isolate when the question is enthusiastic and
genuine. Do not respond if the partner asks the question in
a bored manner or is looking away, etc.
Example:
Partner: You're a musician? What instrument do you
play?
You: (Pulling yourpartner's attention to the side) Well I've
been playing guitarfor10 years. But it wasn't always easy...
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Leadershi p Drills, Cont.
Drill #2: Compliment -> Kino
Purpose: If a girl gives you a compliment, she is putting
herself on the line. It is a big window she is opening foryou.
You should reciprocate it with a simple kino escalation.
yourpartnergives you a compliment which may be physical
orbased on information given in the conversation. (Side
note: Most girls will give a physical compliment because
that's all they know.)
You will react by pulling yourpartnercloser(with yourarm
on the opposite waist) while anchoring yourhips together,
as you eitherreciprocate the compliment oramplify it by
asking questions like "Really? Why do you think that?" with
a positive vibe.
Drill back and forth for 10 minutes or until the move is
natural.
Example:
Partner: You have really nice eyes.
You: (Pulling yourpartnerclose) Thanks, I think you're
really attractive too. And you've got such a great energy.
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Leadershi p Drills, Cont.
Drill #3: Kino -> Meet Friends
Purpose: When a woman starts touching you, orrecipro-
cating yourkino, it's not only a huge indication of interest,
but it can also be dangerous if herfriends are around. When
this happens, you must take the lead and relocate her.
yourpartnergrabs yourhand.
At this point you say "You know what? My friends would
love you. Let's go meet them." If she is in a group, turn to
the group and say "Guys, I'm stealing yourfriend fora mo-
ment, we'll be right back."
Drill back and forth for 10 minutes.
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Drillset #4 Notes:
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You Need to Step Outside
the Context of a Pick-up
by Creating Alternate
Scenarios with Role-
Playing and ot her Playful
Devices
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Role-playing Drill
Drill #1: Role-playing
Purpose: To create a fantasy scenario by using playful dia-
logue. The fantasy allows herto disengage herlogical mind
and bypass socially programmed objections.
Application: Partnerpicks a role-playing theme from the
list below, and you playfully talk to yourpartneras if you
are in that role. Keep the dialogue consistent with the role.
Drill back and forth until you feel comfortable with each of
the 4 themes.
Daddy-Daughter:
There's a lot of strangers around here, so stay close and hold my hand.
If you're a good girl later, I'm going to take you forsome ice cream.
Old Lovers Reuni t ed:
This is wonderful. This barreminds me of ourfirst date. Ah, Paris was
wonderful, so many cute little cafes and shops. We almost went broke
with all the shopping you did!
Teacher- St udent :
Now pay attention. I'm going to teach you something very important.
You only got a A- on yourlast test, but if you work a little harderthis
semester, I think you might get an A.
Vacati on:
I'm so glad we decided to come to X-City this yearhoney. So many
things to see, and we can leave all of ourcares behind. No work, kids or
dishes to do!
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Drillset #5 Notes:
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To Succeed wi th Women,,
you Must be an Excellent
Conversationalist
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Managi ng Conversati onal Threads
Have you everbeen in a conversation with a personand
were overwhelmed with topics that you wanted to talk about.
It was almost if every new topic reminded you of three other
things that you wanted to communicate with this person.
That's the vibe you're going forin pick-up. Not only does it
allow herto go into "fate" mode, but it also serves as a con-
venient distraction to yourescalations.
This next section is all about managing conversations. You
could literally spend a month on this topic alone.
What is a Thread?
A thread is nothing more than a piece of communication. It
is a single idea. By calling it a thread it allows us to give it
structure, and understand it's function more easily. Take for
example...
"Last year I took a girl to a hotel rooftop in New
York City as a first date. She freaked out."
This can be broken down like this:
"[Last year] I took a [girl] to a [hotel] [rooftop] in
[New York City] as a [first date]. She [freaked out]."
Where each majortopic in the thread is encapsulated in [].
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Threads, Cont.
Let's list the topics:
Last year Rooftop
Girl New York City
Hotel First date
Now, in orderto keep the next thread relevant, it should in-
clude one of those 6 topics.
Any of the following threads could follow as a socially intel-
ligent response:
Last Year:
Wow, last year must have been crazy foryou. Actually it
was pretty good forme. I really figured but what I want to
do with my life...
Girl:
Do you take all the girls you date to places like that? Wow.
If I know most girls, they would eitherfreak out orlove you
forthat.
Hotel:
Was it a nice hotel? I hope it was. Cockroaches on the first
date aren't going to win you any points.
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Thread Management Drills
Drill #1: Simple Thread Follow
Purpose: Get comfortable carrying on a conversation in-
definitely, without routines.
Application: You and yourpartnerwill generate threads
as in the previous example. Use statements ratherthan
questions, and try to provide multiple topics in yourthread
so that yourpartnerhas a few different directions to pro-
ceed.
Drill until you feel you can carry on a conversation about
any topic as long as you like.
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Thread Management Drills, Cont.
Drill #2: The Negotiator
Purpose: To be comfortable steering the conversation to
achieve any desired outcome you wish.
Application: You and yourpartnerwill generate threads
as in the previous drill. However, this time, you will use the
list of "good topics" and "bad topics" below.
Yourpartnerstarts by creating a thread on a neutral topic.
You will try to talk about every topic on the "good" list,
while avoiding topics on the "bad" list.
As the conversation progresses, the partnermakes it more
and more challenging by attempting to throw "bad" topics
into the mix.
Drill until you feel comfortable that you can control the
flow and direction of any conversation.
Good Bad
European Vacation Teenage Pregnancy
Childhood Dreams Sex with Sluts
YourBest Friend Breast Cancer
Current Pop Music YourPorn Collection
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Drillset #6 Notes:
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You Need to Establish
Credibility and Become
Real Person to Her
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Credibility
Credibility is what allows a woman to trust you.
It has 3 main levels. First, she should feel that you are safe
and trustworthy. This is needed forherto feel safe sleeping
with you.
Secondly, she should feel a bit connected to you. You should
have some amount of commonality, and share the same
awareness of life, especially 'social' themes.
Even demonstrating that you perceive similar obstacles in
life will help you create this. If not, she may feel that you are
too good forher and likely to abandon her.
You need this forherto continue sleeping with you orto
start a relationship with you. The key to maintaining the
type of relationship you want is to be absolutely congruent
to the things you talked about to build credibility in the
first place.
Thirdly you should be able to give herdirection. By first un-
derstanding her reality, and then showing enough compe-
tence to change herreality, you will be able to exert great
influence in herlife.
This is the level of credibility that will get herto change her
existing life plans ordrop herboyfriend to be with you.
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Credibility Drills
Drill #1: 'Club Guy Anni hi l ator'
Purpose: To show herthat you are a real person, and step
out of the 'club guy' persona.
Appl i cati on: Partnerpicks a topic, and makes a statement
on that topic. You should relate that to that topic by sharing
a story of one of yourfriends orfamily members, referring
to them by theirfirst name.
Exampl e:
Partner: Yeah I'm going to school for marketing.
You: Really? I love marketing. It's totally not what I went
to school forthough. It's strange. So many people end up
doing something completely different than what they went
to school for. I have this friend Mike forexample. He went
to school forphilosophy but ended up working at his fam-
ily's restaurant.
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Credibility Drills, Cont.
Drill #2: Beauty is Only Skin Deep
Purpose: To demonstrate that you genuinely like heras a
person, and aren't just trying to get in herpants.
Application: Partnerpicks a topic, and makes a statement
about that topic. You ask a question to coax yourpartnerto
reveal something about himself. Once yourpartnerdoes,
you are going to take a genuine interest in whateverhe has
revealed, and give him a compliment forit.
Drill back and forth for 5 minutes. It is important that you
show a marked increase in your interest level after the
partner reveals his information.
Example:
Partner: I like coming here afterwork.
You: Oh yeah? What do you do forwork?
Partner: I'm a veterinarian.
You: Really? That's great. I bet you're really compassion-
ate. Wow, I'm envious. That's great you get to do something
in life you're very passionate about.
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Credibility Drills, Cont.
Drill #3: The Limiter
Purpose: To demonstrate that you not only understand
herself-imposed limitations, but you also offera way out,
and a new way of thinking about things.
Application: Partnerpicks a topic, and shows uncertainty
ora lack of confidence on that topic. You show empathy,
show herthat you understand herproblem. Then you show
hera new perspective orway of looking at the problem that
makes it less scary.
Drill back and forth for 10 minutes. It is important that
you do not offer advice or a solution to the problem. You
are simply showing her how to see the problem in a less
threatening way.
Exampl e:
Pa rt ne r: I am taking psychology class right now., but I'm thinking
about dropping it. It's really hard.
You: Yeah I totally understand. It's such an abstract science, and so
complicated. At the same time though, it's really just describing things
that everyone experiences all the time. And when you start to relate
things you're learning to your own thought processes or people you
know, the subject becomes a lot more familiar.
You: (Incorrect) You should study more. When I was in school I would
study 5 hours every night.
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If You Don' t Know How to
Touch Women in a Way
t hat Turns t hem On, You
will be Nothing More than
Just a Fri end
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The DiCarlo Escalation Ladder is a step-by step for-
mula, followed by a numberof laws which govern it's use for
maximum effect.
It is designed to provide a smooth escalation, contain-
ing no significant jumps that may cause a woman to object.
At the same time, the DEL contains no extraneous steps
which are non-essential to the seduction process. This re-
sults in a FAST escalation sequence which is compatible with
a variety of verbal structures, and has been field tested and
perfected by myself, Vincent DiCarlo, in hundreds of trials.
1. Eye Contact and Initial Conversation
Eye contact is the first step, It's use shows social
awareness and always improves yourchances of starting a
conversation. Start yourconversational game shortly after
eye contact.
2. Incidental Class l
The first class of incidental kino involves the arms
and hands. Shaking hands, tapping people on the shoulder
and brushing arms are all very common things that we do on
a daily basis. Done in an incidental manner, i.e. occurring
merely by chance orwithout intention orcalculation, it is
extremely effective at building initial comfort.
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Incidental Class l Examples:
Hand shaking
Arm brushing
Light touching on herarm to emphasize yourpoints
Anchoring herarm nearelbow to hold herclose as you
talk
Standing next to herwith yourarm touching hers
High Fives
Palm Reading
3. Overt Class l
There is an unmistakable recurring pattern through-
out the DEL: incidential kino, followed by overt kino. Overt
means open to view orknowledge; not concealed orsecret.
While incidental kino is usually done in a context
which masks yourintention, overt kino is not. The inciden-
tal kino which precedes it creates the familiarity necessary
forthe overt kino to be accepted. The duration of overt kino
should be anywhere from 5-10 seconds.
Overt Class 1 Examples:
Holding hands
Arm in arm escorting
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DiCarlo Escalation Drills
Drill #1: Incidental to Overt Class 1
Purpose: To build the ability to seamlessly transition from
incidental class l kino to overt class 1 kino.
Application: Create an ongoing topic of conversational
threads back and forth with yourpartner. Integrate incidental
class l kino, simultaneous with the conversation. After3 occur-
rences of incidental kino, initiate overt class 1 kino.
Drill until your partner feels comfortable with your overt
kino,
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4. Incidental Class 2
Class 2 kino involves any contact which takes place
on hertorso orlegs. This is slightly more intimate than class
1, but does not include erogenous zones such as herbreasts,
crotch orinnerthighs. Those areas are not paid any direct
attention until the escalation ramp - to be defined later.
Incidental Class 2 Examples:
Standing very close with yourlegs touching hers
Sitting close togetherwith yourlegs touching hers
Lightly and incidentally brushing her abdomen with
yourhands while talking
Briefly touching herback with yourpalm while
speaking as if you are pulling herin to hearyou better
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5. Overt Class 2
Overt class 2 kino is usually done while sitting down.
It's not necessary, but definitely a smart place to make the
transition to sitting down. This class of kino should be done
in a protective, almost romantic manner.
Frontal Hugging (done best as a positive reaction to
her compliance)
Escorting herthrough the barwith yourhand on her
lowerback
Sitting next to herand placing herleg overyours
Holding herabdomen on the side while sitting down
and talking
Placing herhand on yourthigh
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incidental class 2 kino to overt class 2 kino.
threads back and forth with yourpartner. Integrate inciden-
tal class 2 kino, simultaneous with the conversation. After3
occurrences of incidental kino, initiate overt class 2 kino.
kino.
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6. Incidental Class 3
Herhair, face and neck are the regions included in
class 3. Many guys make the common mistake of touching
these areas too soon, with a girl they first met.
Girls are surprisingly protective of theirhair, face
and neck placing these relatively high on the ladder. An-
othercommon mistake is that more experienced guys will
generally skip this step altogether, only to face last minute
resistance lateron.
Incidental Class 3 Examples:
Brushing (orpretending to brush) something off of
herface
Talking very closely with yourface touching hers be-
cause the environment is extremely loud
Touching an interesting necklace she's wearing,
meanwhile allowing yourfingers to lightly caress her
neck
Playfully pinching hercheeks
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Placing herhead to rest on yourshoulder
Moving yourface into herneck and smelling her
Lightly stroking herface with yourfinger, close in,
looking into hereyes
Running yourfingers through herhair, close in, look-
ing into hereyes
Holding herbehind the neck with yourpalm to the
side of herneck, looking into hereyes
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incidental class 3 kino to overt class 3 kino.
threads back and forth with yourpartner. Integrate inciden-
tal class 3 kino, simultaneous with the conversation. After3
occurrences of incidental kino, initiate overt class 3 kino.
kino.
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You Need to Have
Powerful Tools for Phone,
Email, Texting and Other
Forms of "Follow Up"
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Follow-up Drills
Drill #1: Getting a Phone Number
Purpose: To create a chain of agreement combined with a
technically smooth numberclose.
Application: Yourpartnerwill start a random thread. At
some point you will get the topic on one of yourhobbies.
Once yourpartnerdisplays interest in that, you will provide
an opportunity forhim to be involved, and get the phone
numberas a minorlogistical detail.
Drill back and forth until you feel you can get anyone's
phone number with ease.
Partner: Me and my friends usually only come here on the weekends.
You: Me too. I'm usually too involved with the theatre during the week.
Partner: What do you do in the theatre?
You: I'm the production manager. We do some amazing shows. You
should check us out sometime.
Partner: Sure that sounds cool.
You: Great, I'll give you a call then.
Partner: Ok.
You: Ok... (Take out yourphone forthe exchange)
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Follow-up Drills
Drill #2: Mock Phone Conversation
Purpose: To create the properframe forall future interac-
tions in the very first phone call.
Application: Yourpartnerwill start a random thread. At
some point you will suggest meeting upon yourterms. Im-
mediately afterintroducing the meet, make it conditional by
requesting additional compliance.
Drill back and forth until you are comfortable with having
the meet on your terms.
Partner: I have lived in this city forall of my life.
You: You know, I was really thinking about that, and I came up with a
great idea fora really special experience forthe two of us.
Partner: Oh really?
You: Yeah. But you have do to do a few different things. First, you have
to bring yourcamera. Second, bring a bathing suit. You probably won't
need it, but just in case. Thirdly, meet me at the Platinum hotel. What
time can you make it?
Partner: Hmm ok. I can make it at 7 O'clock.
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You Need to Create
Effective Dating Scenar-
ios, i.e. Design Emotional
Experiences t hat Lead a
Woman t o Your Desired
Outcome
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Making Logistics Work
Logistics: The overall management of the way resources are
moved to the areas where they are required.
In the case of pick-up, however, howeverwe'll replace the
word "resources" to "women". Logistics is best described as .
coordinating movement from one venue to anotheruntil
you end up in isolation where sex can take place.
It's always best to take a pick-up as faras possible on the
first day / night you meet a woman, but if there are circum-
stances which restrict eitheryourorherfreedom, then it's
best to take a numberand resume anothertime.
It is also important to note also that in the end, all restric-
tions are emotional.
Even if she has to go to school, work, oreven meet her
friend it is still an emotional restriction. She misses work ->
She gets fired -> Short on money and has to find more work
(emotional upset.)
So the betteryou get at game, the more these restrictions
disappear.
This section will deal with venue changing considerations as
well as how to get phone numbers and schedule dates.
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Logistics Drills, Cont.
Drill #1: Changing Venues
Purpose: To use powerful leadership and assumption to
get a person to accompany you to the next venue.
Application: Use the scripts below to suggest going to an-
othervenue.
Start leading yourpartnerconfidently as you say the script.
Be fully assumptive, and truly believe yourpartnerwants to
join you.
Yourpartnerwill pass / fail you on yourconfidence, and
how enthusiastic he feels about going with you.
Drill back and forth until your delivery is confident and
assumptive, and your partner wants to join you.
You: I'm hungry. Let's go to the dinerand grab something
to eat.
You: I'm having a great time. Let's go window shopping
downtown.
You: I'm in the mood forcoffee. Let's go to Starbucks.
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Logistics Drills, Cont.
Drill #2: Isolation
Purpose: To use intrigue and curiosity to pre-empt and
overcome any possible uncertainty about being alone with
you.
Application: Yourpartnerwill read down the list of isola-
tion windows. You will respond without hesitation, with an
answerthat builds intrigue. Start by using the structures
below, and then create yourown.
Drill until you can create intrigue structures on the fly
without any hesitation. This is a speed drill.
Isol ati on Wi ndows:
Where are we going?
Why do we have to stop at yourplace?
I have to get up early in the morning forwork.
What do you want to do now?
Intrigue Structures:
I guess you can come inside, but only fora little bit. But you have to
promise not to laugh at my place, ok?
I'm staying with my friend Rob. You're not going to believe how nice his
place is. Oh I have a special surprise foryou too.
Cool. We'll have to make it fast then, you're not going to believe it when
you see this video I have.
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You can Demonst rat e
Cold-reading Abilities
Borderi ng on t he Realm
of Psychic Meanwhile
Building a Profound
Connection wi th a
Woman
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Advanced Cold Readi ng
Cold Reading is a skill of making a "read" on a person with
little to no priorinformation.
It is how psychics make a living. Basically you are telling a
person something that they think you couldn't possibly
knowunless you were theirbest friend.
Cold reading does many things, all beneficial forpick-up:
It establishes you as an authority
It demonstrates an understanding of herworld
It creates intrigue, because you know more about her
than she knows about you
It allows you to shape herbehaviorin any way you
choose
It creates the feeling of an "instant connection"
It supports the fate / destiny theme that women love
The truth is, there isn't anything special ormystical about
this and it can be learned very easily.
A good cold read both makes sense, and generally can be
true forany person who hears it. They are even more effec-
tive when the person hearing it either:
1. Sees internal orexternal evidence to support it
2. Is told by an authority
3. Wants to believe it
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Advanced Cold Readi ng Drills
Drill #1: Pace and Lead
Purpose: To shape herreality by showing a strong under-
standing of it.
Application: When the mind hears two true things in a
row, it will automatically accept the third thing a true with-
out objection. Sitting across from each other, you are going
to make two plain observations, followed by an implication
that follows from the observations.
Example:
Your partner is sitting across from you, upri ght ,
looking you in the eyes. You may say:
"You're sitting across from me, looking me in the eyes, and I
can tell you're ready to get started with the drill."
Notice the first two were plain observations, and the third is
only implied.
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Advanced Cold Readi ng Drills, Cont.
Drill #2: Conversati onal Cold Read
Purpose: To make a complimentary generalization based
on information learned in conversation.
Appl i cati on: Start a conversation back and forth by gener-
ating threads. After3 or4 threads pass, you make a cold
read based on that information.
Drill back and forth until you feel comfortable with the
structure of a cold read.
Exampl e:
Partner: "I think that white shoes should neverbe worn
with black leatherbelts."
You: "Yeah I agree. Shirts, on the otherhand can usually be
any color regardless of yourbelt."
Partner: "My favorite shirt is white. That way I can wearit
with whateverothercolors I have on."
You: "You seem to pay a lot of attention to your appear-
ance. You're the type of person who wants to be perceived
in a positive way and because of that you've developed a
really keen awareness of fashion. You really know what
you like."
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Advanced Cold Readi ng Drills, Cont.
Drill #3: Magic Mirror
Purpose: To give her a compliment that exactly matches
her ideal self image.
Appl i cati on: Start a conversation back and forth by gener-
ating threads. At some point yourpartnerwill try to express
who he is by putting his best foot forward. It may be
through a story orthrough sharing his dreams ormaking a
self-statement. At this point you will simply give it back to
him in yourown words.
Drill back and forth until you can deliver the compliment
transparently.
Exampl e:
Partner: "I'm studying to be a nurse. I like to see that my
work is appreciated and I really like helping people."
You: "Yeah I could tell when I met you that you're a people
person. You want to help but at the same time it can be
overwhelming when people depend on you so much.
There's not many women out there that actually have the
strength to do what you do. "
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Advanced Cold Reading Drills, Cont.
Drill #4: Derren Brown Style Mentalism
Purpose: To create an emotional state where she feels as
though whatevercold read you use is completely psychic.
Application:
1. Establish yourself as the authority by leading the inter-
action, and getting rapport by pacing reality.
2. Ask if anyone has eversaid anything to him in the past
that was really convincing, orit was something he
wanted to believe.
3. Coax yourpartnerinto an emotionally suggestible state
by asking him to imagine that time.
4. While you're coming up with the read, tell yourpartner
to "Hearme say the line".
5. Delivera cold read that both sounds good and is gener-
ally true foreveryone.
Drill back and forth until you feel you can deliver a cold
read very convincingly.
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You can Gain Such
Incredible Command
Over Sexual Tension t hat
t he Int eract i on can be
Turned Sexual on a Dime
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Connecti on
Connection means that you are showing a promise of some-
thing that is directly valuable to a woman.
To most women, pleasant conversation and attention is
enough. To women with a very high sexual awareness, how-
ever, they are looking for"sexual value".
Sexual value resides in this level of the hierarchy. To women
who respond to this, it is a great accelerant in pick-up.
If you find a girl is not responsive to sexual tension (i.e. doesn't
respond to yoursexual language orkinesthetic advances) it
usually means she needs to trust you before responding in that
manner. Skip to Level 4: Credibility in this case.
Sexual tension is produced not only in yourvibe, but also by
yourlanguage.
Once you have levels 1 and 2 present, youruse of sexual lan-
guage will produce a highly aroused state in her. It is usually a
good idea to only do this when you are l-on-1 on with the girl.
The purpose is to drill the different types of language until you
can use it freely without coming across as weird orcreepy.
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Sexual Tension Drills
Drill #1: Sensual Language
Purpose: To be comfortable using vivid and descriptive
language while talking about commonplace topics.
Application: Pick any topic. Talk to yourpartnerabout
the topic, meanwhile using words from the below list of sen-
sual words.
Drill until delivery is normal without laughing, fidgeting
or over emphasis.
Naked
Appetite
Bare
Urge
Stiff
Caress
Supple
Ride
Come
Pleasure
Flowing
Whisper
Hole
Wet
Firm
Member
Entrance
Melt
Desire
Thrill
Erect
Flush
Hard
Tender
Moist
Stroke
Finger
Ease into
Thrust
Release
Longing
Uninhibited
Plunge
Slip
Slide
Tight
Buried inside
Tease
Naughty
Forbidden
Raw
Penetrate
Aching
Erupt
Straddle
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Sexual Tension Drills, Cont.
Drill #2: Double Entendres
Purpose: To be able to project double meaning through
language. One meaning innocent and the othersexual.
Application: Pick any topic. Talk to yourpartnerabout
the topic, meanwhile using phrases from the list below.
Drill until delivery is normal without laughing, fidgeting
or over emphasis.
Fast
Close
Wet
How you feel
How you feel inside
You are quick
It's hard foryou
You are getting close
You're a fast girl
I like it when a girl is
open
It's too late
I'm done
Comes from the same
place
You come
from a good place
You get me
My head is pounding
My head is throbbing
My head is banging so
Hard
You got me
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You can Master with
Complete Facility t he
Enti re Set of Techni ques
Collectively Known as
' ' Vin' s Bag of Dirty
Tricks' '
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Underst andi ng Compliance
Compliance means: The act of conforming, acquiescing, or
yielding.
In otherwords, wheneveryou get a woman following your
lead, and conforming to yourrequests, you have hercom-
pliance.
Compliance is very important formaintaining the attraction
you have built, ormaking it more real.
It's easy to put a woman in a good state, and have herat-
tracted to you, but unless you get herto actually act on that
attraction, you have something that is very transient.
When you use attraction to get compliance orescalate in
otherways, a woman will have something more real to look
back at to realize just how much she really likes you.
The following chapteris various tactics to not only directly
get compliance through leadership, but also psychological
methods of getting hermore likely to comply with yourri-
diculous requests.
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Compliance Drills
Drill #1: Dirty Compliance
Purpose: To get a woman comfortable with putting effort
into the interaction, based on a simple reframe of the situa-
tion.
Application: Yourpartnerwill talk about doing some kind
of work, such as cleaning his home, orshopping forgroceries
orshopping foran item. At this point you will reframe the
work he has done forhimself as work foryou.
Example:
Partner: I spent all day shopping forgroceries and putting
them away.
You: That's really sweet, but you didn't have to go through
all that trouble forme, we can simply go out to eat.
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Compliance Drills, Cont.
Drill #2: Virtual Compl i ance
Purpose: To get a woman comfortable with putting effort
into the interaction, based on compliance in an imaginary
scenario.
Appl i cati on: Yourpartnerwill choose one of the four role-
playing themes. While role-playing along with the theme,
create an imaginary situation where your partnerhas put
work into something in yourfavor.
Daddy-Daughter:
Thanks so much sweetie forbeing a good girl and cleaning up yourroom
forme. Because of that, I'm going to take you to the movies tonight.
Old Lovers Reunited:
So nice being togetherwith you again my dear. And yes, I have saved all
of the love letters you have written me overthe years. And I've kept them
in a pink box underneath my bed. There must be a hundred!
Teacher-Student:
Yourextra credit assignment was excellent. You not only followed all the
directions, but you also did all the research forthe bonus points! Looks
like you'll be getting an A afterall.
Vacation:
I couldn't ask fora betterwife. All the time you spent planning this vaca-
tion has paid off. And booking the flights and hotels... I'm in heaven. I
can't wait to see what you have planned fortomorrow!
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You will Learn How to
Escalate Directly to Sex
in t he Most Efficient,
Smooth Way with NO
Last Minute Resistance
(LMR)
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Escalation Ramp
While the above steps from 1-7 may take anywhere
from 30 minutes to 4 hours, the escalation ramp described
on the following pages is very rapid. The duration of the
ramp should be about 5-15 minutes. Start the ramp very
quickly once you have complete isolation in a sex location.
8. Kissing
Start kissing from a very close proximity. Don't come
diving in lips first from three feet away. Ideally you should
already be in a suitable position forkissing before you try. If
you have overt class 3 kino taken care of, you're probably in
the right spot.
A technique forbuilding sexual tension - move
closely in, slowly as if you might kiss her, and then move
away and start talking about something else. This will build
the tension and she will wonderwhen you're going to actu-
ally kiss her.
A technique to initiate kissing - try placing yourfin-
gerjust underneath herchin and pulling hermouth towards
yours.
Kissing should be light and short at first. You should
be the one to pull away first. Don't use too much tongue at
first, just use it to tease her, and build anticipation.
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9. Kissing HerNeck
Once you have kissed herfora bit, move down to her
neck. Kiss it gently, while holding herclose to you.
Depending on how rough you want to set the mood, feel
free to throw in some gentle biting too.
10. Touching the Bare Skin of HerBack
Once you have established kissing both on hermouth
and neck, move yourhands to herwaist and underneath her
shirt. Continue to hold herclose to you, now with your
hands directly on herback.
11. Stomach to Stomach
Now that you have established touching herskin, be-
low hershirt, simply move yourhand to the front, and lift
hershirt, exposing only herstomach. At the same time lift
yourshirt as well so that yourabdomen is in direct contact
with hers.
It seems innocent, but will meanwhile triggerintense
sexual feelings inside of her. The only time she feels contact
like that is usually when she's naked and having sex.
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12. Kissing herBody-
Having hershirt pulled up affords the opportunity of
moving downwards to kiss and caress the bare flesh of her
abdomen. Start kissing herthere, along the sides, and move
upwards.
Touching and kissing the breasts is optional. It is not
necessary, and in some cases can be detrimental to your
progress. There are some women who have a negative an-
chorto theirbreasts.
Inch toward theirbreasts and feel herreaction. If she
becomes increasingly turned on, then go forit. If she starts
to close down, skip the breasts until you are already having
sex.
13. Incidentally Stimulate Vagina
While you are kissing herbody, you can position
yourself between herlegs and use yourmidsection to rub
against hervagina. If you are kissing hermouth you can po-
sition yourthigh to stimulate hervagina.
You can also be kissing herbody and reach between
herlegs and plant yourhand on the bed below her. Then
use yourforearm to stimulate hervagina. The key here is
that because you aren't using yourhand orfingers, she has
no basis forobjection.
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14. Direct Vaginal Stimulation from Behind (Inside
Panties)
Once you have really amped herup by incidentally
rubbing hervagina, move yourhand around to the back and
slip it inside herpanties and touch hernaked ass.
Next move yourhand all the way down and reach her
vagina. Start first by touching the area around it. Then pro-
ceed to fingerherfrom behind. Women neverexpect to
have it happen this way. Trying to reach yourhand down
the front of herpants will often be resisted, but from the
rearis unexpected and effective.
If she is wearing a skirt ordress, you will instead move your
hand up the back of herleg, and reach hervagina that way.
Fingerherand then proceed directly to step 16.
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15. Direct Vaginal Stimulation in Front
Get herheated up by fingering her, and then when
once she is sufficiently turned on, undo the front of her
pants with yourotherhand.
You can use the Situationally Relevant phrase "My
hand is being crushed" as you do it, although it's usually not
necessary. Since she is engaged by the fact that you are fin-
gering her, she will rarely object to yoursimultaneous un-
doing of herpants. You may also have herundo herpants,
by saying "Unbutton yourpants." as you are fingering her.
Moving to the front, you'll be able to get more pene-
tration with yourfingers, and get herto the point where she
is practically begging forsex. Use a firm "come-hither" mo-
tion pulling forward on the front vaginal wall and stimulat-
ing herg-spot.
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16. Remove HerPants, Sex
The idea is to get herso heated up by fingering her,
that she makes a commitment to sex, verbally orphysically.
There are a few ways to go about this. Firstly, it is
very important that you don't stop fingering herbefore her
pants are off. Too many times a guy will stop fingering her,
and then try to take off herpants, only to get more resis-
tance.
While fingering heryou can say "Do you want me in-
side you?" Which will usually get a "Yes." response. At that
point you say "Ok, take off yourpants." and continue to fin-
gerheruntil herpanties are off, and she's ready to go.
Anotheroption is to skip the question and directly
tell herto take off herpants. Usually with yourfingers busy
at work, she will be more than compliant.
Anothertechnique is to ask her"Do you want me to
get a condom?" In 90% of all girls you ask this, they will say
"Yes." Not because they are saying they want sex, but be-
cause they want to appearsafe and level headed.
You will interpret this as the permission to get a condom
and have sex with her, and it will most likely be met without
opposition.
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Escalation Ramp Drill
Drill #1: Ramp Memorization
Purpose: To internalize the ordered steps of the escalation
ladderramp so it flows easily when it comes time.
Application: Stand in front of the rest of the participants
and recite the steps of the ramp, in order.
Ramp:
1. Kissing
2. Kissing the Neck
3. Hands on HerBack, UnderShirt
4. Stomach to Stomach
5. Kissing Stomach
6. Incidental Vaginal Stimulation (arms, legs, chest)
7. Hand Down Back of Pants, Fingering
8. Hand Down Front of Pants, Fingering
9. Remove Pants, Sex.
Verbal Techniques for Step 9:
Do you want me to get a condom?
Do you want me inside of you?
Take off yourpants.
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You can Suck a Woman
into Your Reality So Deep
that Her World will
Literally Revolve
Around You
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Reality Repl acement Drills
Drill #1: Compliance Levels
Purpose: Drop hints about what compliance you would
like herto perform. Instead of coming outright and asking
forsomething, demonstrate a need forit in a very indirect
manner.
Application: Considering yourmain passion of life, take a
few minutes and describe five different ways a woman can
contribute to that passion. Then put them in orderfrom the
least to greatest amount of compliance.
At this point, you will take turns making requests forthese
levels. Use direct requests forsmall levels and indirect for
large.
Drill until you can tastefully and skillfully make compli-
ance requests.
Small Requests:
Sweetie, go ahead and pick me up some vegetables from the store,
that way we can have a side dish with oursteaks.
You've got awesome taste in music, baby. You have to make a mix
CD forme.
Large Requests:
My friend Joe just got some really cool shoes. He looks really great
with them. I think they're awesome.
If only I had a new set of golf clubs, it would be so much more en-
joyable. And just think, the two of us could spend a beautiful day
together golfing on ourfavorite course.
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Reality Repl acement Drills
Drill #2: The Virtual Ladder
Purpose: To learn a mind-numbingly effective technique
forescalation which seems to have the added effect of mak-
ing girls fall in love VERY quickly.
Application: Perform a virtual-ladderescalation on your
partnerthat is relevant to your city.
Drill until you can consistently perform a virtual ladder.
Exampl e:
When I go back to New York City you have to visit me. First, we'd walk
down 5th avenue and I'd hold yourhand like this (hold herhand). And
we'd look at all the expensive clothing we can't afford ;)
Then we'd go to the top of the Empire state building and we'd look over
the side and I'd hold you like this (hold herfrom behind) Are you scared
of heights?
And if it was wintertime, we'd go ice skating at Rockefeller center. Can
you skate? Ok you can teach me - (hold hands skating gestures)
Then you'd come to my place (if in hotel) Then we'd go back to ourhotel
room with SEPARATE BEDS (if in yourplace), and we'd relax together.
If you were lucky I'd give you one of my FAMOUS massages. I would sit
you down overhere (sit herdown on the bed) then lie down and I would
massage you like this. (Just get yourpartnerto sit down)
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A Quick Word From Vin
Dear Participant,
You made it! Congratulations, it was a lot of
hard work.
This is only the beginning. You now know what
it takes to become truly successful in all of yoursocial
interactions.
So in the future, if you everfeel like you need to
brush up, grab a friend, this booklet, and drill away!
If you have any questions, please visit my web-
site at http://www.vindicarlo.com/forums.
I'll see you there, and good luck!
Vin
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