Nuntak Manphazaw Tawh Lawhcinna (Online)
Nuntak Manphazaw Tawh Lawhcinna (Online)
Nuntak Manphazaw Tawh Lawhcinna (Online)
NUNTAK
MANPHAZAW TAWH
L AW H C I N N A
(Meaningful Life Leads To Success)
T. S a w m L i a n
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Lawhcinna lunggulh a
haksatna, buaina, natna,
launa, lawhsapna, lunggimna leh
lungkiatnate in a buaisak mite’ tha thak
lakna a suak theih nading
leh
Lungdampihna ........................................................... 11
KHEN - IX : MAKAI
39. Makai ...................................................... 142
40. Kimakaih dan tuamtuam ............................ 144
41. Makaite cinna ........................................... 150
42. Makaite puk theihna .................................. 154
43. Makai dinmun sangpen .............................. 156
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T. Sawm Lian
August 20, 2012 Daihna Cabin
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Prof. C. Thang Za Tuan, M.A., Ph.D. Pyi Nya Yeiktha
Deputy Director General & Adviser (Retd.) No. 1. BEHS Ahlone Compound
Excellent Performance in Administrative Field Yangon, Myanmar 11121
Ph: 95-1-212533
ZOLUS Journal Chief Editor
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LUNGDAMPIHNA
Hih laibu in, tuhunah zat leh zuihpah lian theih ding-a kigelh
sinsen ahih manin a simkha khempeuh te’n meetlawh ding uh hi.
A nuntakna uah zong thathak lakna, kibawlphatna leh lawhcinna
tungsak takpi ding hi, ci-in ka up ngiat manin hih laibu hong
bawlkhiat theih ka pakta a, ka lungdampih gige hi.
Dated Yangon
August 29, 2012 Prof. C.Thang Za Tuan, Ph.D.
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1. A MANPHA LAWHCINNA
2. LAWHCINNA A TUNGSAKTE
Na nu leh na pa zahtak in
Lai Siangtho sung i et ciangin nu leh pate thumanlohna
pen samsiatna leh sihna ahihna thu kimu hi. Absalom in a
pa David thu a manlohna hangin khansih a, siampi Eli tate
in a pa leh Pasian thu a manlohna uh hangin amau bek zong
hi lo a innkuanpihte nadongin mulkimhuai takin sihna
thuakin, Samson in a nu leh pa thumang loin Filistia nungak
kiang nop a sak luatna hangin sihna thuak hi.
Tuate tawh a kilehngat lian, nu leh pa thumang Timoti,
D. L Moody, Joseph, Mahatma Gandhi leh midang tampi
pen a nasepna uah lawhcingin, mite phawkden leh mithupi
a leitung tangthu sunga kiciamteh den dingte ahi uh hi.
3. NGAIHSUTNA MAAN
A phattuam ding
nuntak manpha kilangkhiasak in
Tua banga a hoih lam tawh na ngaihsutna na uk theih
ciangin, mite adingin ngaihsutna leh nasep hoih neih sawm
in. Nang le nang na kimuanlahna hong kiam semsem ding
hi. Mah le mah kimuanna (self confidence) in nuntak
khiatlahna, laigil nuntak manpha taka zat nopna hong neisak
ding hi. Tua bang nuntakna na neih ciangin mite in na kianga
om nuamsa ding uh hi. Lamdang mahmah, a sia lam a
ngaihsunden mi kiang sangin, a hoih lam a ngaihsun theite
kiangah mi te’n om nuamsazaw uh hi! Tua bang ngaihsutna
maan, phatuam ding, leh nuntak manpha na neih leh, na
kianga om peuhpeuhin a hoih lam ngaihsutna tawh thu hong
kuppih pah ding uh hi.
Na maia om mi pen
a hoihna penpen muhsak in
I gensawm pen nuntakna maan leh hoih, nuntak nuam
leh manpha neih theih nading ahih lam mangngilh kei ni.
Maan (photo) i kizaih ciangin (eimah tektekah) i hoih deuh
hun om a, i hoihloh deuh hun zong omin, hoihzawk ding
lametna tawh i nuihna hanga i hoihzawk tuanloh hun zong
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om hi. Mi khempeuh in i melpuakzia bekah zong hoih tuamna
i neih ciat bangin, hoihlohna zong kinei ciat hi.
Innkuan, lawmta, khuapih-tuipih deihhuai pipi i neihte
pen Pasian hong piak ahi hi. Mi khatpeuh, a hoihna san tak
uh en lehang, hoih mahmahna nei ciat uh a, tua tak pen
muhkhiatsak siam leng, i kiangah a om uh ciangin hoihin,
manpha mahmah ding uh hi.
Sepkhiat ngamna hi
Lawmte tawh sep ding genkhop hun cianga, ‘Ama’n hong
vaihawm hen’ ci-a na min a lawh hun uh a om ngei hiam?
Ngaihsutna maan neite in kimuanngamna nei uh a, tua pen
mite in muhpihin, amah bek hi loin, midangte zong makaih
a, amaute tungah vaihawm a, bul a pan masa dingin
muangngam uh hi. Tua bang mite, mite muan bangin omin,
mite muan bangin sem thei takpi uh hi.
Lungkiat pahpahlohna hi
Pawlkhatte pen i lungkia baih mahmah hi. A cil panin a
lawhsam hi-in kithei-in, i lungsim puakzia maan lo hi.
Lungsim puakzia a maan leh, mah le mah kimuanna leh a
taka sepkhiat ngamna piang a, tua in cihtakna leh a lungsim
kho piangsak hi. Nekzonna leh sumbawlna khat peuhpeuhah
khatvei lawhsapna om khin hi. Tua bang hun ciangin mi
pawlkhatte a lawhsamin kingaihsunin tawpsan pah uh a, a
lungkia pahpah lote in sem kik uh a, lawhcing uh hi.
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Sep khialh pen a kinei thei mah hi. Ahih hangin mibang
lote bekin a sep khialhnasa uah semkhial kikkik uh hi.
Sepkhialh i neih a, tua hanga i lawhsap leh tua i sepkhialna
pen lungkiat nadinga zang loin, a hoihzaw lampi hong lak
danin tuat ding hizaw hi.
8. LAWHSAPNA ZAWHNA
Na lawhsapna enkik in
William A. Ward in, “Lawhsapna pen i hankhuk a to hi
loin, hong sinsak sia hizaw hi. Lawhsapna in hong zo hi lo a,
hong zekai sak hi bek lel hi. Car i hawl uh a, pai nading lampi
om nawn lo a bingcip bang hi loin, lampi danga i pai kik
nadinga i kilehna mun bang ahi hi” ci hi. Hih bang lama
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lawhsapna i ngaihsut theih leh, lawhsapna pen lawhcin theih
nadinga hun manpha mahmah hong suak ding hi.
Mi lawhsam dingte nuntakzia na theinuam hiam? Bang
hiam khat bul pan uh a, lawhsam hi-in kithei-in, a bulpat
hoihsa uh pen taisanin na dang khat sepsan kik uh hi. A
kingakna pen, ‘Nasepna a lawhcin pah kei leh na bulpatsa
pen nusia cip inla, maimangsak in’ cih ahi hi. Mi lawhcing
khempeuh in sem uh a, sem kikin, sem kikkik uh hi. A kisuih
khak uh ciangin pilvan nading lampi mukhia uh a, a tawpna-
ah lawhcing uh hi. Churchill in, “Kibawlphatnaah mainawtna
om a, bucinna zong kibawlphat kikkikna-ah om hi” ci hi.
Na lawhsap kik hun ciang hoih takin na lawhsapna hang
enkik in. Hangsan takin sem kik inla, tua hi leh na sep masak
hun sangin lawhsapna in haksa hong sazaw ding hi.
Na hatlohna theician in
Hih pen a haksa pen hi. Mi kim in hatlohna kinei hi. A
piang thei lo ding mawk ngaihsut a, tua ngaihsutna i nopna
hang bekbek a hun sauveipi zatna, kihihsakna, thadahna,
sem taktak nuam lo a midang thatang tawh meet sawmna,
a theician pen banga theihcet taktaklohna, zu le sa, guihtheih-
khamtheih khawng pen lawhsapna hi nuam mahmah hi.
Ahih hangin hihte pen mimal sunga om thusim ahih manin
eimah mahmah in zong i sangzo kei a, paulap dang bawlin,
midang i mawhsak thei zel hi. I hatlohna mukhia a kibawl
hoih taktak dingin sittel ngam muanhuaina i nuntaknaah
kidawkhiatsak kisam hi. Lungsim leh pumpi-ah a taktaka
ki-ukzawhna zong kisam hi.
Hangsan taka ama hatlohna a zo pen kua dang hi loin
English paltan tangthu a min dai nawn lo ding Lord Nelson
ahi hi. A hunlaia galsiam leh hangsan minthang Nepoleon
tembaw thupi tak a zopa pen mawtaw guitheite’ guihzah
sanga nasiazawin tembaw gui zel a, tua bangpi mahin a hun
tamzaw pen tui tungah zangbei hi. Eite hi lehang, “Ka nekzon
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nading hi ke’n teh..” ci kha ngel ding hi hang.
Hih kidona pen pualam kidona sangin sunglam kidona
hizaw hi. Na zawh hangin kuamah in a tuamin pahtawina
laipi hong pia lo ding hi. Ahih hangin, thaman pen a taktakin
nangmah teekteek in na nuntakna-ah na phattuampihzaw
ding hi. Tua pen a manphatna ahi hi.
Na sepdan laih in
Lawhsapna a zo dingin a poimawh mahmah khat pen,
lawhcing ding a na sepdan laih kul hi, cih theihna ahi hi.
‘Thuakzawhna nei ing’ cih mana sepdan ngeina tawh
lawhsapden pen mi pil lo nasep dan ahi hi. Tua pen mi tampi
sepdan hi a, ‘lawhsapna’ sangin ‘haina’ hizaw hi. Na
tatkhialhna munah na tatkhialh den a, lampi thak, sepdan
thak na ngaihsut kei leh na ngaihsutna pen maan lian lo
cihna hi.
Na tatkhialhna sa pen na lawhsapna a piangsak ahih
manin thupi lo leh neucik ahi zongin a kigawmkhop ciangin
lian mahmah cihna hi. Mopawi bawl hun cianga lungdamna,
nuamna leh phawkden theihna a bawl tampi pen na
neucikcik - zungbuh, niangtui, paak, maan kizaih, leh
thuciam khawng hi leltak hi. A tuam tekin a thupiloh hangin,
ni khata a veka a kigawmkhop ciang hun thupi leh ciamteh-
huai hong suak hi. Tua bang mahin, na neucik in zong
phawkden dinga nuam lo zah dongin lawhsapna munah hong
lutpih thei hi. Tua manin, na sep kik ciangin na sepnasa a na
khialhnate-ah sepdan thak ngaihsun inla, sepkhialhna hang,
a kisam neu cikcikte mangngilh lo dingin kithawikhol in.
Lungkiatna mahmah!
Lawhsapna cih thumal tawh a kinai mahmah, a
zakdahhuai mahmah kammal pen ‘lungkiatna’ ahi hi.
Lawhsapna leh sepkhialhna pen nisim a mihingte nasepna
sunga a omden hi a, lungkiatna cih thumal pen mulkimhuaiin
zakdahhuai mahmah pah hi. Guiawkna khauhual tawh kinai
mahmah zaw lai! Kicianzaw a sin kisam hi.
Martin Luther King in, “Leng in, na len theih kei leh zong
tai in. Na tai theih kei leh zong pai in. Na pai theih kei lai leh
zong bawkvak lel in. A thupipen-in, mai i nawt ciat ding hi”
ci hi. A mai lamah i gensa mah bangin lungkiatna pen i
zatkhialh vanglak leh lauhuai mahmah a, kigui-awkna
khauhual tawh kigamla het lo hi. Nang na hi a, na kianga
mi khatpeuh ahi zongin, lungkiat mahmah hun om thei hi;
Mihing nuntakzia ngeina khat ahih manin. Ahih hangin,
lungkiatna panin lametna pakkhia kik thei a, a lampi om hi.
11. LUNGGIMNA
A manpha lo lunggimna om
‘Ka lunggim’ ci-a i buaina tampi pen phatuam het lo hi!
Hoih taka i ngaihsutlohna hang ahi hi.
Lunggimna 40% pen nuntakna in a phutkhak ngeiloh
na thakte hang hi a, 30% pen lunggimna hanga kilamdansak
theihloh ahi hi. Lunggimna 12% pen nangmah sanga
niamzaw hi a na theih mi pawlkhat in hong elna leh hong
gensiatna uh na theihkikna hanga lunggimna hi a, 10% pen
cidamna lam tawh kisai ahi hi. Cidamna bawl hoih sawm
tuan lo a, lunggimna leltaka zat pen a kisapna om loin, i
cidamna in thuak behlap zawsop hi. Tua ban lunggimna 8%
pen gimna taak, thu picing hi, ci uh hi.
Hih a sin mite tehna panin tuat sin lecin na lunggimna
tampi pen a kisam het lo hi kha ding hi.
Etdan siam in
Ci uh hi, i lawmngaih i deihdan liante zong a etna mun
a hoih kei leh hoihlohna bang hiam nei uh hi. Melsia mahmah
zong a etna lam a hoih leh sia lua lo thei veve hi. Na i etkakna
leh i tehna tawh kituakin i tuak thute pen kilamdang thei hi.
Khangmoi numei khat in college boarding panin a nu
laikhak hi. “Nu aw, ka college nuntakzia hong hilh ning. Col-
lege ka kah cilin cimtaak mahmah ing a, ka lawmte sum
guksakin, tua tawh honda cycle kawmin ka taikhia hi. Tele-
phone mung phukha in ka khe ka ciaksak a, doctor tangval
khat in hong buaipihin a inn uah hong paipih hi. Hong khual
mahmah ahih manin ka ki-it mahmah uh a, kiten zong ka
sawm uh hi. Ahih hangin ka sisan testna-ah natna lauhuai
nei cih kidawk a, bangbang hi leh nau paai khin ka hih manin
hong ciah phot ning.
A taktakin nu aw, ka thugensate ka ciamnuihna hi. Kong
gelhsa thute bangmah tung lo hi. Hoih takin lai ka sim thei
a, haksa ka sa mahmah hi. Geometry-ah mark 5 mu ing a,
geology ah zong fail demdam ing. Ahih hangin na khat
peuhpeuh a etdan na siam nadingin hong kawi gen gawp hi
ing!” ci hi.
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Tua laikhak cil lam a sim ciangin a nu ngaihsutna pen
vana khai bangin na mahmah ding hi. A sinlai ah a failna
thu a zaksakpah sangin, tua bang a siahuaizaw a hilh
masakna in a nu heh nading nakpi’n daisak ding hi.
Lunggimna na neih leh tua sanga siazaw na tungah a hoih
lo hong kibehlaplohna hangin lungdam inla, na hamphatna
ngaihsun in. Tua in hong dawn tuam mahmah ding hi.
Thusim genpih
theih ding lawm hoih nei in
Koppih nei lo a sawtpi a om ‘senior’ kicite in haksatna a
tuak theih zel uh pen mah le mah kimuanlahna, bucing lo a
kitheihna leh maban om loa theihna ahi hi. Nupa a kiten
ciangin ta hoih tak, gam luah ding, Khristian innkuan.. cih
lam bek ngaihsutna hi lo a, nuntakna ‘balance’ a bawldik
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ding hi, kici hi. Tua muna a poimawh mahmah pen
lunggimna kihilhtuah theihna leh i kingakngamna ahi hi.
Thusim khempeuh kihilh kisam khol lo hi. Ahih hangin,
lunggim huna koppihte kianga thusim hilh ngam lo leh hilh
taak lo nupa kikopte’ nuntak pen tawlhuai mahmah hi.
Hauhna leh minphatna in vengsak thei lo a, gam khangto
ah nupa kikhenna tamsak mahmah hi.
Kilungnuamsak in
A lunggim ngei lote pen mi ngeina nuai lam hi nuam uh
a, lunggimna pen mi ngeinate neih ahi hi. Gensa bangin, na
lunggim ciangin mi bang lo na hi pah kei a, a taimangsan
nading na zon danah na pilvan kisam hi. Mikim in lunggimna
taisan nading lampi kizong ciat hi. Eima nuntak a nuamsak
lo, zahtakhuai lo, leh lunggim kibehlap nadinga lungnopna
zon khak pen poi mahmah hi. Thangtatna leh nu le pa (sex)
lama lungkimna zong pen dinmun lauhuai taka nuntak
theihna ahi hi. Tua sangin kimawlna, exercise lak, ngaihsutna
dang hong neisak thei ding lam ngaihsunin, zing thawh baih,
khe tawh saupi pai, lawm thak bawl, pak leh ganhing buaipih,
khualzin khiat, kimawlna mun a pai, naupang tawh kimawl,
tumging lam lim zat..... cih khawng pen lungsim gimna a
dawn theite ahi hi.
Lunggimna pen mawk taikhiatsan sawm kei in. Hong
tung pelmawh dingin ngaihsun lel in. A ngah ding leh maingat
dingin kigingkholzaw lecin tawldam ding hi. Pelh theih ahih
leh pelh inla, pelh theihloh ahih leh buai gawp loin a vensak
ding dan ngaihsun in. Na lunggimna pen nangmah hong
puksak hi loin, na thanemna pen hong thahatsak vanzat hoih
khat suaksak sawmin ‘hangsan’ takin maingatzaw in.
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13. MUHKHOLHNA
Mai lam muhkholhna hoih nei dingin mi pil hih kul sese
lo hi! Mikim hih theih leh nuntakna sunga guanlut theih ahi
hi. Hih thei lo dinga hong ngaihsunsak pawlkhat om hi.
Na nuntakzia-ah kilangkhiasak in
Na muhkholhna pen lawhcing dinga na upna pen bang
hun peuhin na lungsim luahden ahih kisam hi. Na thugen
leh na gamtatzia panin zong na kiim na kianga mite in
lawhcinsak na sawmna thu a theih uh kisam hi. A guka
lawhcinsak sawm pen haksa mahmah banah, a sia lam sep
baih hi. Tua manin lawhcin na sawm leh, na kiangate na
theihsak ngam ding ahi hi. Pua lama nang le nang na
kimuanna in sung lamah kimuanna hong pia thei hi.
Lous Pasteur : Lous Pasteur pen amau hun laiin Chemisty subject-ah
amah kaana minthang leitungah om lo phial dinga mipil khat ahi hi.
A lawmngaihnu tawh May 29, 1849 in kiteen sawm uh hi. Tua ni
a tun ciangin Pasteur meel muh ding mahmah om lo hi. Kiteenna uap
ding teng zong tung khin uh a, zipipa meel kimu nai lo ahih manin
mipite sinkham uh a, a laboratory ah na semin, a kiteen ni uh mangngilh
kha hi dingin um uh hi. Laboratory a et uh leh na om takpi a, biakinn
lamah paipih pah uh hi. “Tuni pen na kiteen ni ding uh ahih lam thei lo na hiam?”
ci-in a dot uh leh, “Tuni a experiment ka sep ma-in bel thei mah ing. Experiment
ka hih ciangin mangngilh ing a, nong pai zenzen uh lungdam mahmah ei” ci ziau a,
zui-in, kiteenna nei uh hi. Lawhcing dingin nasepna haipih phial zong
kisam hi.
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KHEN - V : HUN
19. HUN
Lawhcin nadingin
hun a tamlohna ngaihsun lo
America gama mi ngeina, kum 72 tunglam, mi tampi
hun zatdan kaikhawm uh a, a hun zatdan uh tangpi a tuat
uh pen hih bang ahi hi :
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* Kum 21 sung ihmut na’n
* Kum 14 sung nasep na’n
* Kum 7 sung kipuah kizem na’n
* Kum 6 sung nek le dawnin
* Kum 6 sung khualzin na’n
* Kum 5 sung traffic jam, tui ngak, ticket lakna
* Kum 4 sung na sinthak na’n
* Kum 3 sung kikhop leh committee
* Kum 2 sung telephone tawh mi hopih
* Kum 1 sung van zong (telephone, pen, mitlimlang etc)
* Kum 3 sung na dangah..
I hun khempeuh gawmkhawmin mun nga-ah khen
le’ng, tua lakah khat bang bek pen hanciamna taktak tawh
lawhcing dinga sepna dingin mihingte in kinei bek hi. Mi buai
mahmah, sep ding a hau mahmah a kigen Americante in
zong nasep hun hizah bek a neih uh leh, ei a bel tawm
mahmah zawlai ding hi.
Hun zatsiam pen sin theih hi. Ahih hangin, theory a pass
theih hi loin, a taktaka zat pah ding ahih banah, kuama peuh
adingin TUHUN panin a tak suaksak pah theih ahi hi. “Min-
utes pen manpha takin zang leng naikal pen amahin hong
kihek manpha ziau hi” ciin Lord Chesterfield in gen hi. Hih
anuaia thute pen hun a mawk beisak, khantoh nading a
nawngkaisak leh nidang hun lai pek pan tuni ciang dong hong
buaisak den thute ahi hi.
‘A kisam pak’ om
Gam makai leh senior officerte hun a beisak mahmah
pen ‘kisam pak’ hi, kici hi. Geelna kician tak a neih uh hangin,
sihna-manna, zite geeltawm programme tuamtuam, leh a
kisam lua lo pawlkhat in a geelnasa uh susia hi. Amau bek
zong hi loin, tangpi-tangta a buaisak pen hih thu ahi hi. Hih
bang buaina a vengsak dingin secretary kician, mi hehsak
het lo a pute programme geelsa a paisuak theih nading a
geelsiam miliante in cial thei uh hi.
Tua banah hunciam khat neih a, tua hunah nasep khat
neih ding zong kisinhuai mahmah hi. Hih in ngaihsutna
kician neisakin, nasep mazang tuam hi. I nasep leh i sepna
mun a kituak lo zong om thei lailai hi. Tua banah telephone
pen nasep nading a vanzat hoih mahmah khat ahih laiin,
sep ding sem man lo liangin telephone sila suak theih hi. Tele-
phone tawh kiho ciangin a kisam lo tampi kigen thei a, kul lo
hi. I gennop leh gensawm pen kician takin gen ziau leng hong
hopihte in zong tua bangin hong hopih pah lel uh hi. Tua
banah nasep pat baih pen nasep mazanna khat ahi hi.
Lungsim na
Hehsuak, lungzuang, mi huat leh deihgawh cih bangte
in mihing nuntak hun tampi mawkbeisak hi. Hihte pen ‘na
tungah tungsak kei in’ cih theih hi lo a, mihing nuntakna a
kihel ahi hi. Mikim in kinei khin a, ahih hangin, i maingatdan
kibang lo cih thu bek ahi hi. Hihte hanga sauveipi kibuaisak
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sangin, puakkham vet leng, kapkhia-in, i lunggimna
khempeuh pen Pasian nasemte kiang hiam, i lawm hoih leh
i mi muante kiangah kipholhkhia khin vetin, i nuntakna
sunga kiphumsim tampi genkhia vet leng, tua in hong
suaktasakin, nuntak ngeina hong neisak kik thei hi.
A manphapen ngaihsun in
Na hun, thatang, leh sum zanga nasep ding tuamtuamte
manphatna na tuat ding ciangin, bangin nang tungah meetna
hong piakik thei lianpen ding hiam? cih ngaihsun in. Mihing
nuntakzia-ah mi tampi in ‘Pareto Principle’ kici kizang zel
hi. Tua pen ‘80/20 principle’ zong kici hi. A omzia pen : Na
pen 100 hi leh, na khat peuhpeuh na sep ciangin a meetna
pen nangma’n 80 zang lecin, a ban 20 pen midang (khua,
pawlpi, gam etc) adingin na zang thei ding hi. Hih pen mi
ngeina khat i omdan ahi hi. Ahih hangin meetna pen suma
meetna bek hi lo a, tu-a na omna mun lianah, nang adingin
bang manpha pen hiam? cihna lel ahi hi. Gentehnain : Nasep
pawlkhat pen sum hauh nading lama meetna hi lo hi. Ahih
hangin tua munah lungnopna, lungkimna, leh maitaina
thupi mahmah hong pia thei om a, nang adingin manpha
mahmah thei veve hi.
Pawlkhat ki-khami sakin, meetna lam limlim ngaihsut
pen Pasian tawh ‘kigamlatna’ a sa om hi. Hih bang
ngaihsutna kigawmkhawm in minam khantoh nading
buaisak thei hi. Mikim in ei adinga manpha leh meet
nadingah nasep kithalawp a, tua thalawpna in thanuamna
piangsakin, a thanuamte khutah sum lutin, gam le nam
khangto lel hi.
Ngeinaseh
A kisam masa theihna pen khatvei thu-a theihtheih hi
lo hi. Ni khat thu a hih dik theih hi lo hi. Zingthawh a nop ni
a hih theih zong hi lo a, nuntak sung a ngeina a neih ding ahi
hi. Tua banah, sintawm theih hi. Hih bang a ngaihsun siamte
mi hat, mi hangsan, thukhensat siam mite hi uh a, suanhuai,
pahtakhuai uh hi.
Hun 91
24. LAWHCINNA-AH
MIDANG ZONG KIHEL HI
Midangte thupingaihsut in
Midangte in na thupingaihsutna thu a theih ma un amau
Kizopna hoih 95
na theihtelna bangciang hi hiam, cih thei lo uh hi. Na pilna,
thu tampi na theihna, na ngaihsutna tangzaina leh na
khantohna khempeuh pen midang nuntakna-ah na lutpih
ding ciangin a tuamin koih kei in. Amaute thupingaihsut inla,
a ngaihsutdan uh, a muhdan uh, a san (pom) dan uh tawh
kituakin tuate a nuntakna sungah lutpih in.
Wall Street Journal in Teleometrics International-te
muhkhiat khat gelh a, Officer 16,000 nekzonna a sinna uh
statistic sungah, tuate laka a lawhcing 13% pen a meetna
zah mah un a mihingpih a thupingaihsutte ahi uh, cih
mukhia uh hi. Kizopna hoih na bawl nop leh ‘na kizoppih
dingte’ thupingaihsut mahmah in.
Muan taakin om in
Pasian thu ahi a, nungak-tangval lawm kingaihna thu
leh vanzuakna lam ahi zongin, na khat peuhpeuhah na maia
mi in hong muang ngam hiam? cih pen a poimawh mahmah
ahi hi. Van i lei ciangin a hoih leh hoihloh etcian theih hi
khin lo a, ahih hangin van i lei veve hi. Ahang lianpi pen, a
zuakte kimungngam hi, cihna ahi hi. Pawlkhat in, ‘Sumbawl
mi na hih leh pastor banga nuntakzia hoih na neih ding kisam
kei’ kici thei hi. Ahih hangin vanzuak khot i ut leh i nuntakzia
a hoih lo ahi zongin a leite muan taak beek hih i sawm kisam
hi. Khatvei mite muangamloh a na om leh, mi’ muan hih kik
nadingin haksa taka thasan kisam a, sum tampi zat kul hi.
Tua ahih manin mi te’n hong muanloh hih ding kidophuai
mahmah hi.
Kinialna taisan in
Kinialna haihuai mahmah pen taisan ngam ding ahi hi.
Khatveivei taisan pen zawhna hi thei hi. Genkhopna,
thukikupkhopna leh kinialna pen a tuampi hi a, kinialna in a
thumaanna lam sangin, a genpa dikna leh zahtakhuai ahihna
lam hong liansak a, ahih hangin kizopna nakpi’n siasak hi.
‘Hat’ leh ‘zozaw’ hih sawmna mun peuhah kizopna sia thei
hi, cih i theih ding kisam mahmah hi. I ngaihsutdan a kibang
kei deuh zongin, a hatzaw om tuan loin dinmun kibangah
omin, i thugen khawlsak ding ahi hi. Hih thu i gen cil pan i
Kizopna hoih 101
thupi pen ‘lawhcinna’ hi a, maan lo taka ‘gualzawhna’ hi lo
hi. Tua bang kinialna hunah hih anuaia thute phawkden in:
1) A om ding mah hi a, pelh sawm kei in : Mihingte pen
kithutuak khit theih hi lo hi. Meel a kibatloh mah bangin
ngaihsutdan zong kibang lo hi. Tua hang leltakin na
kholhpih pen, ‘Maan lo hi’ ci pah kei in. Tua banah,
ngaihsutdan kibatlohna in geelna hoihzaw, muhna
tangzaizaw leh theihsiamna lianzaw hong pia a, phatuam
taka zat ding hizaw hi.
Mihing nuntakzia-ah a lamdang mahmah om a,
thumaan leh maan lo lam sangin eima hihna leh mi hong
zahtakna kepbit nopna lian mahmah hi. Tua bang a mah
le mah kikepbit nopna hangin midang’ ngaihsutna leh
ngaihsutpiakna hoihzawte i ngah ding bang kingah lo
thei hi.
2) Thangpaihna pan kidawm in : Hehsuak/thangpaihna
pen vanzat hoih hi ngei lo hi. I nuntakzia kibang lo a, a
thangpai baih leh a thangpai hak ki-om a, pawlkhat pen
i kidop kisam mahmah hi.
Na maia om mi pen thu gensak inla, a gen thu
ngaihkhiatsak in. Na ngaihsutdan tawh a kituak kei
zongin a thugen ngaikhia khin hamtang in. Tua in a
hoihzaw ngaihsutdan thak hong pia thei hi.
3) Na kituakna uh zong in : I kinial hun ciangin a vekpi in
i ngaihsutna kituak lo khin tuan sam lo hi. Bang lam
hiamah i ngaihsutdan a kituak om veve hi. Sauveipi
kinialnial sangin, i ngaihsutna kituakna san tak pen
liansakin, tua hi leh haksatna leh buaina lianzaw tawh
kigamlat theih hi.
4) Ngaihsun pha dingin khawl bawl mai in : Kamkupna
muna na ngaihsutdan uh a kibat het kei leh, ‘Na
ngaihsutdan zahtakhuai mahmah hi. Hih bang lamin
ngaihsun ngei lo ka hih manin a kicianzawin hong
102 Nuntak Manphazaw Tawh Lawhcinna
ngaihsun pha ningin, na muhzia banga muh hong sawm
ning e’ cih hoih hi. Thal nial gawp pah sangin manphazaw
pek hi.
5) Lungdam ko zaw in : Na ngaihsutna a maanlohzia hilh
ding bekbeka hong delh tantan a om leh, panmun bawlin
thalnial pah kei in. Nangma hangin hun leh ngaihsutna
tampi zangin hong maingat ahi hi. Tua hangin, nial pah
buatbuat sangin, lungdamthu gen pen masakpen ding
ahi hi. Deihsak takin mi in na ngaihsutna hoih a saklohna
thu hong gen ngam uh ahih manin tua bang mite in hong
it mahmah uh cihna hi.
6) Khensatna bawl pah cidam thei : Committee leh Board
Meeting khawngah papi cingteng a kithalnial uh leh
meetna sangin supna tam piangzaw a, a khawlsak ding
dan zon pah pen pilhuai mahmah hi.
A tunga kigente pen nuntakzia leh sepdan hoihpen hi pah
lo hi. Behlap ding leh kicing lo zong om kha inteh. Hih pen
theidenin, kinialna a pian hun simin maanlohna nei na hih
leh na maanlohna sangsiam in. Maan lo na hihna na
pulakkhiat dan leh, pulakkhiat nading hun maan na theih
leh theihlohah na lawhcinna tampi kinga hi.
Bangci bangin?
Wayne Pennington in, “Midangte tawh kinai nadinga a
kisam mahmah pen i maia om mite’ ngaihsutna, a hun paisa
leh na khatpeuh a ngaihsutdan uh theihsiam ahi hi. Hihte
na theih naak leh midang tawh kinai haksa lo ding hi” ci hi.
Mi pawlkhatte in piteekte kiangah a zat hetloh ding uh
cinsanza tampi khawng thei ding zah dongin mi thuzawh
thei uh a, kam le muk zatsiam lamah kuama demzawh ding
hi lo hi. Ahih hangin mikim in tuhun i dinmun panin sin
ding leh mainawt nading kinei ciat a, mi tawh kibat ding lam
sangin lawhcin kisawmzaw hi. Tua manin hih thu pen kidem
nading a kigelh hi lo a, a bana thu kigelhte zong tua lam
(lawhcin nading) ngaihsutna tawh sim zel in.
Midangte suaktasak in
Thugen hoih taka ngaikhia thei dingin a ngaikhiate in
veiluat nei lo ding hi. Tua bang a neih leh thugenpa thugen a
sungah lut thei lo ding hi. Tua ahih manin thu ngaite in vei
lianpi a neih uh a, tua amau vei thute a gen na hih kei leh
nangma ngaihsutna gen gawp nadingin hun hoih hi lo hi.
Tua bang mahin, midang thugen na ngaih ciangin nangma
106 Nuntak Manphazaw Tawh Lawhcinna
sungah thungaihkhiat a nuamsak lo ding zah dongin
lunggimna na nei hiam? Hihte vensak masak kisam hi.
Mihingte pen mihing kihi ahih manin ganhing bangin i
ngaihsutna khempeuh kigenkhia pah lo a, selsim bangzah
hiam om hi. Tuate bangci theih ding?
Mihingte pen i gamtatzia panin i nuntakzia leh
ngaihsutna tampi kitheithei hi. Tua bang a theisiamte in mi
tampi nuntakzia thei uh hi. A vekpi-in kigen kim thei lo ding
a, pawlkhat gen dih ni :
Mi pen a mit-ah en leng buaina a neih leh neihloh theih
baih pen hi. Hong et ngam kei hiam, hong et nop kei leh
thudang ngaihsun ahih kei leh a zahkai hi thei hi. Phone a
mi i hopih ciangin a aw luanzia uh pen damdamin a gen uh
hangin a tom thei bang pena hong hopih uh leh nang hopih
nadingin hun-awng tam neih lo cihna hi nuam mahmah hi.
Tua bang dinmun na theihsiam masak kul a, na theihsiam
kei leh na kamsiamna zahzahin a cimtakhuai na suak ding
hi. A ngaikhiate in na thugen pen bangci ngaihsut uh hiam
cih pen thugensiamna sangin manphazaw hi. Na
kamsiamna lam sangin a lungsim kihon nading siamna
manphazaw lai hi. Khatveivei ciangin i nuihmai leltakin zong
thu tampi gen thei hi. Tua banah lengla do siam hih ding
zong kisam mahmah hi. I innsungah mi hong sungtum uh
ciangin i neih laka hoihpen, etlawmpen leh deihhuaipen tawh
kivaidawn nuam hi. Tua bang lianin mundangah zong mi
va kholhpih siam le’ng kuama’n hong nial lo ding hi.
Dotna dong in
Mi te’n thu a gen uh ciangin thupingaihsut i hihna a
theihtheih nading baih mahmah uh pen dotna i dot ahi hi.
Tua pen limtakin ngai taktak hi cih kidawkna ahi hi. Ahih
hangin dotna tawh kisai-in dotdan lianpi nih om a, a
thugente’ thugen buaisak nading leh thugente in a thugen
uh lawp taka a zopkik theih nading ahi hi. Dotna na dot pen
amah a maizumsak thei ding a dong tawh a kibat hun om
thei hi. Pilvang in.
Lungduai in
Tampi i genkhinta hi. Mihing kihi ahih manin nuntakzia
kibang lo vive i hi uh a, tua manin kinai i sawmdan leh i
siamdante kibang het lo hi. Mi lungsim zawh nading ahih
nak leh i genloh a tuamtuam zong hong zang ding uh hi.
Tua manin kimansa a, lungduai a, a hun hong tun bang tawh
kituaka sansiam pen hoihin, pilhuai mahmah hi. Pawlkhat
108 Nuntak Manphazaw Tawh Lawhcinna
in kammal kilawm lo leh zawlthu kihel loin thugen siam lo
uh a, a piankhiatna uh leh a nuntakzia uh theihpihna lo tawh
ngaihkhiat cimtakhuai mahmah thei hi. Lawhcin na ut leh,
tua bang mite thugen zong a ngaikhia thei dingin lungduai
in. Benjamin Disraeli in, “Lungduaina pen mihingte pilna a
dawksak thupi mahmah hi” ci hi.
Theihsiamna kisam
Mi khatpeuh in thu a gen leh, bang thu bang thu ahi
zongin, a gen hoih leh hoihloh lamah thukhensatna na bawl
ding ciangin, a gente dinmun banga na kingaihsut zawh ciang
bekin thukhensatna bawl in. Tua hi leh ngaihkhiatdan maan
tawh mi thugen ngaikhia-in, a gen hoih leh hoihloh na thei
pan ding hi. Thugente kim le pam dinmun panin, ama muhna
panin thudik ahi hiam? cih ngaihsun phot inla, tua bang na
ngaihsut khit ciangin dawng pan in. Nangma muhna bek
panin thukhensatna na bawl pahpah leh na bawl khial zelzel
ding hi.
Na thugen ngaite
ngaihsutna theih sawm in
Pawlkhat in vei kihauin, gen ding kal kingaklah hi. Hun
a om nak leh - kuate kiangah, koi munah, bang hunah, bangci
bangin.. cih lam ngaihsun loin i gen gawp uh hi. Gen zoin
kisuakta ziau thei zawmah lai! Na khempeuh a genkhin
bangin kingaihsunin, i genkhit lian ciangin thugen taktak a
pan i hih lam i thei kei hi. A genkhiate lam pan a zo hi a, a
ngaikhiate nuntakna-ah a nasep kipan pan hi. Na
lungnuamsak kei in. Kinaina hoih a bawlsiam mite in a
thugen uh mite in bangci ngaihsut uh hiam cih kankik
hamtang uh hi. ‘Mi te’n hong thupingaihsut hiam?’ ci-a
kankik lam hi lo hi.
Lawhcinna pen i gen hoih leh i gelh hoih lamah om lo a,
a ngaite nuntaknaah thu a gen leh genlohah kinga zaw hi.
Tua bang kankikna leh theihna om loin gen kik dingin
kisakkholh theihloh hi. Tua manin Seminar, Workshop liante
ah a ngaikhiate in a ngaihsutzia uh a theihsak kik nading
hun bawlsak den uh hi. Na thugen pen hoih sa napi, dotna
112 Nuntak Manphazaw Tawh Lawhcinna
hong dot kei uh a, a ngaihsun kik a om kei leh na genma
tawh a kibang na hi hi.
Kisakhol in
Thugente pawlkhat pen sangnaupang thadah pawlkhat
bang hi a, sim ut lo napi’n exam hall-ah panla mahmahin, a
etteh liangte tawh kibang hi. Kisakkholhna lam hoih neihloh
napi a thugen dinga dingkhiat cianga panlak mahmah pen
thu kimot gen gawp thei hi.
Ngaihsun cian lopi a mipi maia thugen pen hihkhial
vanglak le’ng ei le ei kimindaisakna hoih mahmah hi a, tua
bek zong hi loin, Pasian mindaisak theihna zong ahi hi! Tua
manin hoih taka kisakkholh kisam hi. Kha Siangtho nasep i
lametna hang pawlkhat pen thadahna hanga i kisakkholhloh
paulap hi leltak hi. Na kisakkolh hun ciangin hih thu
mangngilh kei in; Tuhuna na maia mite pen na damsungin
tuhun bang lianin kuamah om nawn lo ding hi. Na hih khialh
vanglak leh kumtawnin na minsia ding a, na gen hoih leh
tua tawh kilehngat lian ding hi. Na thugen ding hunsung a
tom mahmah leh na kisakkholhna hun sau hen la, a sen-
tence kizopdan a gelh sangin a point kizop dana gelh pen gen
baihzaw hi.
Cimtakhuai kei in
A kisam pen-in, ‘cimtakhuai kei in’ cih ahi hi. Mipi lam
nga-in dakkhia inla (na ngam leh!), na tungah lametna a
neih uh leh muhloh theihloh hi. A neih nawn kei uh leh zong
na mu thei veve ding hi. Naupangte maia thugen pen kisinna
hoih mahmah khat ahi hi. ‘Dai un’ cih leltak a na thugen
hun kimkhat khawng na zat leh naupangte hang hi loin,
nangma ginatloh man hi kha thei hi. Ciah inla, na khan
(room) sungah lutin kisin kik in.
Kim le pam
Bangci bangin na kigingkhol zongin kician taka gen
theiloh hun om thei hi. Kum kikhia lua omkhopna, lungsim
ngaihsutna kibang lo lua leh lungsim a linglawngsak thei a
omna munteah phatuamngai lua nuam kei in. Mi ngeina
tunglam, thugensiam tungtuang na hih kei leh tua bang
munah thugen lawhcin haksa hi.
Kammal zat
Ahih theih liai leh na maia om dingte nuntakna, deihna,
leh ngaihsutzia theihcian sawm in. Na gensawm theician inla,
na kammal zat pen hong paikhawmte kum zah, nuntakzia,
Thugen tawh kizopna 115
lai siamna, leh nek le tak zonna dinmun tangpi tawh kituakin
kammal zang in. Tangval gual zu nam philphialte lakah, “Pu
Chiarman..” cici kei in. Meigong zuzuak tanu nungak melhoih
tangthu panin na thugen pan lecin hoih pah lel ding hi!
Kipiakhia khin in
Hoih leh etlawm na deih a, siam tak hih na ut a, mite
thupingaihsut mahmah ding leh mi advance hih na ut leh
thu gen kei mai in! Na thugen ding leh na thungaite a kisap
zah mahin nang zong na poimawh hi. Tua na ngaihsut kei
leh na thugen kuama’n meetpih ngei lo ding hi. A meetpih
pen in zong, “Siam vanglak” a cih kei uh leh, “A nectie
etlawm..” cih khawng bek hi kha ding hi. Na nuntakna buppi
pia inla, nangmaha om ‘khempeuh’ kaikhawmin, sungkhiain
thu gen in.
Thulu tel
Kum 2000 khit ciangin Lamka khuapi a naupangte
nuntakzia dinga kumpi malakna a hoih lote leh mailam
kalsuanzia ding... sau lua a, a thulu bekbek in zong ihmut
suaksak hi! Hih bangte pen a kantel, misiamte’ seminar/
workshopah subject matter specialistte in a ut uh leh zang
hen. Mi ngeinate lakah tom kim tak hi hen. Ahih hangin,
‘Hoihna’ cih leltak khawng tom lua leuleu hi. Haksa na sa
hiam? Tom kim si, a tangpi theihtheihna, a ngaikhiate adinga
theihnophuai mahmah zatsiam kisam hi.
A thalnial pah om
Mipi paikhopnaah hiam, committee tutkhopna munah
na deihdan na gen a, midangte hong dawnna pen, “Sep dingin
hoih kei!” cih hi leh, “Bang hangin?” ciin a taktakin na
dawnkik kei leh zong na lungsimin na dawngkik ding hi.
“Nidangin kisem khin a, kilawhsam khin hi” hong cih kei
leh, “Kua hiam tua bang nasema lawhcing” hong ci nuam
mahmah uh hi. Tua pen a buaihuai mahmah khat ahi hi. A
hoihna a theih hangin a sepzawhloh ding leh sep theihloh
dinga a ngaihsut uh leh tua na thugen a meetna om lo hi.
Tua bang dawnna pen ngah thei na hihna thei in. Tua ahih
Thugen tawh kizopna 119
manin thu na gen ciangin tua banga dotna om theite dawn
nading tawh na gen pah ding hi.
Thugen lo lua
Kam tam tawh a kilehbulh lian mi om hi. Bangmah in a
lawpsak zo lo leh, thupingaihsut a nei vet lo tawh kibang uh
hi. Hih bang mite pen pualama a kidawk bang hi khin tuan
lo uh hi. A ngaihsutzia uh a kigenkhiatsak hun ciangin, “Hi
Thugen tawh kizopna 123
mah hi” hong cih uh leh saan ziau hoih hi. Mi te’n bangmah
a genloh uh ciangin a hang om teitei hi. Zahkaai, cimtak,
kihel pha ban taktak lo hi a kitheihna, kihel taak taktak lo a
kingaihsutna hang zong hi thei hi. Thu pawlkhat gen cianga
lawp mahmah, thudangah a pau nuam mahmah lo a om
leh tua pen a nuntakzia uh hi lo a, a subject tawh kituak a gi
lo lua hi kha thei cih theih ding hi.
Thugen a buaisakte
Thugenkhopna tuam khat a om laia kianga tute tawh
thutuam genna pen committee-na munah hoih lo hi. Tua
bang mite pen amau ngaihsutna genkhia nuam lo, tutpihte
kiangah phunphuna lungkim lel leh, meeting zawh cianga
meeting thusim pulak a, ‘Ka ngaihsutdan hi lo mah hi...’ a ci
kikkikte hi nuam mahmah uh hi. Hih bang mite pen a min
uh tawh sap a, a ngaihsutdan uh hoih taka genkhia pah dinga
ngetziau pen hoih hi, kici hi.
34. THALAWPNA
Kidemna maan
Mihing lungsimah kidemna lianpi om a, a zang siamte
adingin tua pen thupi mahmah hi. Kidemna in thalawpna
piangsak hi. Company nih kikala kidemna pen a ngeina hi a,
company khat sunga nasem tuamtuamte a hoih lama
kidemna pen hoihzaw kan lai hi. Ahih hangin, kidemna
ngeina hi lo, kibawlsiatna, kiminsiatsak sawmna, kisuksiat
sawmna a kihel leh kidemna pen maan nawn lo, manpha
nawn lo cihna hi. Tua bang tung lo lian dinga a geelsiam
mite adingin kidemna pen thalawpna a piangsak hoih
mahmah ahi hi.
Dale Carnegie laibu How to Win Friends and Influence
People kici sungah mi a thalawpsak siam mahmah Charles
Schwab tangthu kigelh hi. Nasepna mun khata Manager in
a cihtheihna lianpen tawh a nasemte a makaih hangin a
sepkhiat uh kibehlap thei tuan lo hi. Charles Schwab cial a,
ama’n bangdang a thupi hih tuan lo hi. Chalk khat la a, sun
lama nasemte kiangah, “Unit bangzah semkhia na hi uh
hiam?” ciin dong a, nasemte in, “Unit guk” ciin dawng uh hi.
Schwab in golpi-in ‘6’ cih bek factory sual tungah gelh hi.
Sun a nasemte a ciah khit uh ciangin zan lama nasemte in
lamdang sa in dong uh a, sun lama nasemte sepkhiat ahihna
thu hilh hi. A zingsang ciangin Schwab in factory pha kik a,
zan lama nasemte in ‘6’ pen phiatin lianpi-in ‘7’ gelh uh hi.
Sun lama nasemte in a muh uh ciangin sunnung lam ciang
‘8’ gelh kik uh hi. Tua bangin kithuhilhna, Lai Siangtho sung,
sermon, leh management institute a seminar thupi
mahmahah kihel tuan loin, Schwab in ni tam lo cik sungin
‘6’ pen ‘10’ suaksak hi. A geelsiam mite adingin vanzat neucik
132 Nuntak Manphazaw Tawh Lawhcinna
zong na lianpi a sem thei suak hi. Kidemna pen i zat siam leh
thalawpna siangtho piangsak thei hi.
Muangngam in
Hih muna thalawpna i gen pen entertainer in mipi a
thalawpsak bang hi lo hi. Na manpha sem dinga lungsim
sunga nasep nopna lam hi, cih mangngilh kei ni.
Thalawpna gal lauhuai mahmah pen kimuanngamlohna
ahi hi. Mi te’n hong muanmawh leh, a lawpna zahzah un
lauhuai uh hi, cih mangngilh kei in. Thalawp bangin a
kidawk uh hangin, hong khem uh cih uphuaizaw hi!
Nangmah mahmah in zong mi pen a muanhuaina uh
ciangah na muanngam ding ahi hi. Kimuantuahna om lo
thalawpna pen laisia hal tawh kibang a, kuangziau a beikik
ziau hi. Manpha taka zat ma-in mit kik ziau hi. Tua manin
thalawpna piansak ma-in kimuantuahna/kimuangamna lei
(bridge) hoih takin dawh masa in.
Kisapna in thalawpsak
Meetna cih kammal kiang cika om banga ngaihsut theih,
ahih hangin a meet hetloh hanga mihingte in i kisap luatna
hanga i lunggulh nate in nakpi’n thalawpna piangsak thei hi.
Douglas Mc Gregor in, “Mihing pen ganhing (animal) deih
hau mahmah hi. A deih picinsak ahih lian leh, tua sanga
nasiazaw deih kik man uh a, hih pen sih dongin bei thei lo hi.
A deih neih nadingin a pumpi in a citzawhloh dongin sem hi”
ci-a a gen pen maan mahmah hi. I kisapte pen anuaia kigelhte
bangin khen theih hi.
i) Bitna (security) kisapna : Nek ding, teenna inn, pumpi
khuhna leh kituamlumna puante pen i kisap tangpi (ba-
sic needs) ahi hi. Tua zawh ciangin siamsinna leh adang
tampi hong kilang pah hi. Biakna leh minam ngeinate
kitheihtuahpih vet loin zong hih i kisap tangpite tawh zong
midang lawpsak baih mahmah hi.
ii) Ki-itna leh kikhiatlahna : Hong it ding i kisap mah bangin
en zong it ding i kisam hi. “Ka lungzuang” i cih ciangin
tuate khempeuh i lungsim sungah kihel khin hi. Mihing i
it kei leh zong ui, vasa leh paak beek kikhia-lah hi. Innkuan
leh lawmte kikalah, nekzonna kibang leh deihlam kibang
kikalah zong hih khau in hong khihkhawm khin hi. Mi
te’n hong it ciangin a nopna kithei ahih manin mite it
ding zong kithalawp pah hi.
iii) Na hoih zanga kipulakkhiat (creative expresion) kisapna
: Hih thu ka gelh laitakin a meet ding leh meetloh ding
lam sangin ka lungsim a om pulakhiat ka utna lianzaw
thei hi. Thu manpha mahmah genkhiat pen, siam zen
leng, kilunggulh mahmah ding hi. Tua bang lianin,
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mikimin i lungsim sunga om pulakkhiat ki-ut bek tham
loin, kikhia-lah a, eima hih theihna ciangah, naungekte
pan piteek-puteek dongin, i thugen hong ngaihkhiatsak
a, i thugelh hong simsak a, i ngaihsutdan hong
theihsiampih a hong huh om leh ki-ut khin hi. Thugelh
bek hi loin, i limgelhte, i la phuakte, i paak suante, i
testemony, i buh lak zah nadongin mihing i kipulakhiatna
ahi hi. I kidawkkhiatsak nopdan bel kibang het lo hi. A
kidawkkhiasak siam lote pen mi kisathei, kihisak, sinsia,
maizum, zahpihhuai hi uh hi.
iv) Theihpihna (recognition) kisapna : Kisimpina-ah mihing
nambat khata a behlap hih leltak pen kuamah ut lo ding
hi. Om sam hang a, nungta samin, huih diik tei sam i
hihna leitung in hong theihpih ding ki-ut ciat hi. I hoihna
in leitung bawl hoih thei cih i kilatkhiatsakloh hangin i
gitlohna in mite lakah thusia piangsak thei cih beek
kilakkhia nuam hi! Mi pheituam sanga tight-zaw, mi car
sanga hoihzaw, mi tem sanga hiamzaw i deihna lungsim
pen gual-elna hang bekbek hi khin tuan lo a, mi te’n hong
thei leh cih deihna hi a, ‘mi theih’ hih nading leltakin mi
sanga khepi lianzaw hih leltak zong kigengen nuam hi!
J.C Stachle in a nasemte’ lungkimlohna hang
zongkhia dingin survey nei a, a muhkhiatte pen :
a) Mi tungah ngaihsutpiakna piak nading hun nei lo
b) Lungkimlohna vensak nading hun lem nei lo
c) Kithuhilhna hoih om lo
d) Seppih dangte theih lai a kitaina leh
e) A ngaihsutna uh kidawkkhiatsak theih nading hun om
lo... cihte pen nasemte a thanemsak lianpente hiin
mukhia hi. Nasemte thanemna lianpi pen thupi
ngaihsutloh a kitheihna hipen hi.
v) Na thak sep kisapna : Hih pen mihinga om ngeina hi.
Mt. Everest mual tunga a kah tamzawte pen sum thalawh
ding hi leh ut het lo ding uh hi. Mi theih hih nading bek a
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sep ut zong hi lo hi. Mikang gam khuapi nuam mahmah
paisana Vaigam khuapi nuam het lo a hong zin den (tour-
ist-te) zong mi theih a utna uh, sum deihna leh amau
teenna uh sanga nuamzaw mun ahihna hanga India gam
hong zuan uh hi lo hi. A nopsak uh tampi amau teenna
munah baih takin mu thei uh hi. Ahih hangin a hih
ngeiloh uh na thak leh na lamdang bang hiam sep ding
lunggulh uh a, mi tawmna muna omte in mi tamna mun
nuamsa in, mi tamna muna omte in gamdaina mun
nuamsa uh a, tua bang mihing kibang lo pipi kipel
zangzang hi. Mihing nuntakna sunga hih dangtakna in
na thak leh lamdang tampi hong mukhiasakin, lawpna
guan a, mi tampi lawhcinna lampi sialsak hi.
Mi thalawpna pholhkhiatsak
Sam tan lo ding, sa ne lo ding, zu dawn lo ding, za tep lo
ding, guta lo dingin mi pawlkhat in thuciam uh hi. Tua pen a
thupi, a zahtakhuai leh lamdansak theih nawnloh suak hi.
Mihing nuntaka na thak va koih a phungvuh sawm sangin,
amau sunga omsa phungvuh a kipsak siamna leh, tua a omsa
zanga thalawpna bawlsak pen baih mahmah hi. ‘Zu khaam
nuam teng kei lamah hong pai un’ cih ziau khawngin na
thupi tak gen thei a, mipi kikhen pah lian hi. Gensiam kisam
lo a, a deihte in hong genpih ziau ding uh hi. Amau a omsa
pen a pholhkhia na hi hi.
Mi lawhcingte khempeuh in midangte lawpsak thei
nadingin siamna leh hatna nei khin uh hi. Amau a hatna leh
cihtheihna pen midang sangin a thupizaw ahih kei leh zong
a zatdan siam uh cihna hi. Hih mite in a hatlohna uh leh a
kicinlohna nadongin lawhcin nadingin zang thei uh hi, cih
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ding hi. Hih bang mite pen pua lamah ‘Lamdang hi’ cih liang
ding hi a, ahih hangin a sungtawng a om pilna pen, mihing
nuntakzia a theicianna uh ahi hi. Mihingte nuntakzia leh
lungsim thei uh a, a ngaihsut gawp uh hi tuan loin nuntakzia
ah nei uh hi. Midangte hatna leh pilna pen zangsiam mahmah
uh hi.
Ann Arbor, Machigan khua-a University of Machigan
Research Centre a mihing lungsim a sinte in 1949 pan
kantelna nei uh hi. ‘A tamzaw na sem a, a meetzaw sem
dingin mihing lungsimah bang thupi pen hiam?’ cih kum 40
val a kantelna uh panin a muhkhiat uh thupi mahmah pen,
makaite lakah kithuneisak taka thupiakna tawh midang a
tawngtawngte sangin, kithuneisak lua lo a, a nasemte uh
seppih banga ngaihsun a, a haksatna leh lungdamna uh a
theihpih leh a hamphat nading uh a deihsakte pen
lawhcingzaw uh, cih ahi hi.
Hih mite in Science Newsletter ah a na muhkhiat uh a
gen dan un, “Mihingte in set bang a zat ut lo hi. Thupiak zuia
a nasep uh a meet mahmah hangin, a nasep uh hoih loin
cimtak baih uh a, sawt khom ngei loin, koi mun hiamah a
semsakte in thuak veve uh hi. Nasemte leh a sepnate pen
mihing mihinna ah kikimna nei veve uh a, hih pen theisiam
a, amau lunglut lam leh a kiginkholhna nawngkaisak lo a,
suahtakna lungsim tawh na a sep uh ciang, khatvei thu-in
tampi a sepkhiatloh uh hangin sawt kikhom a, lawhcingzaw
uh hi” cih ahi hi.
Nuclear galvan lauhuai sangin mihing sunga thalawpna
pholhkhiatsak theihna leh siamna in leitung ah gualzawhna
tun baihzaw hi. Cihdan maan, sepdan maan taka a kisep nak
leh a thalawpsakte leh lawpna a ngah mite lungsim sunga
lawhcinna pen kikim lian ding hi.
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KHEN - IX : MAKAI
39. MAKAI
Makai dinmun
Warren G Bennis in, “Makai pen a taktaka muhkholhna
(vision) a picingsak thei hi phot ding hi” ci hi. Makai in a
muhkholhna pen ama theihna leh sepna bek hi loin midangte
theihna leh sepna zangin lawhcingsak thei hi. ‘Makai ka hi’
ci napi nungzui nei lo makai pen, ‘lapawl makaih hi ing’ kici
napi a khat bek a la sa den bang ahi hi.
Leadership cih thumal pen ‘makai dinmun, hihna leh
makaihna, makai dinga theihna’ ciin gen ziau leng a kitel zo
diam maw? Mi pawlkhat in hih bang i gen ciangin a dinmun,
min leh hihna limlim pen thahatna tawh a kithuahpah sa
kha uh hi. Hihna leh dinmun neu leh liat leltak hanga
midangte a makaih thei hih pen makai hoih cihna hi ngei lo
hi. John White in, “Mite in vaihawmsa zui pah ziau lo uh a,
amau a lawpsakte zuizaw uh hi” ci hi.
Makaite hihna gencianna hoih tak pen, ‘midangte zawh
theihna, midangte nuntakna a nasep theihna’ hi cileng kikhial
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lua lo ding hi. Amah a zui dinga midangte nuntakna-a thugen
siamte in makai thei dingin hatna nei uh hi. Ahih hangin
tua-ah tawp lo hi. Makai in muhkholhna hoih tak nei-in, tua
a muhkholhna pen ama angsung ding bek hi loin, midangte
zong a kitat theih nading ahih zong kisam hi. Tua a
muhkholhna sepzawh ahih theih nadingin phatuamngai taka
a sem leh, midangte hanthawn-a lawhcing dinga a phungvuh
theite pen makai hoih ahi hi. Midangte thatang leh hatna
zanga ama angsung ading bek a sem mi pen a lawhcin hangin
makai hoih hi lo a, mi khem a siam hizaw hi!
Makaite nuntakzia pen a kisam masa ahi hi. A hihna,
tavuan leh a hauhna khempeuh suahkhiatkhit ciangin a
mihing mihinna-a a nuntakzia pen a hoih kisam hi. Tu-a
ahihna zong a poimawh mahmah hangin tuhun sanga
poimawhzaw pen zing cianga ahihna ngah ding ahi hi! Makai
pen a kisin mi hi ding a, tuni sangin zing ciang khangtozaw
ding a, theihbeh zelin, mainawt zel ding hi. Lawhcin a sawm
mah bangin sup a kul leh zong sum ngam ding hi. Ama
nuntakna-ah mainawtna a neihzel theih nadingin leh, a
muhkholhna a kicet zawk sem nading ahi zongin, a siamna
a behlap theih nading leh thahatna a neih behlap theih nading
ahi zongin, ki-ap (sacrifice) a kisapna hun leh munah, a hun
leh neihsate ap ngam ding hi. A makaih taktakna sangin hih
banga ama nuntakna manpha taka a kisekna in a tungah a
muanhuai mi kibehlapsak ding a, mite thupingaihsut leh
makai hoih hi thei ding hi.
Tua banga mite’ thupingaihsutna a ngah thei lo mite
adingin makai hih pen a uthuai het lo hi. Hauhna leh neih le
lam thu hi lo a, nuntakna thu ahi hi. Ahih hangin hih bek
pen makai hihna bucing hi khin tuan lo lai hi. Ki-ukzo-in,
hun ciangtan hoihtak neiin, nisimin dictionary thumal khat
siam behlapin, na cihtak mahmah hangin makai na hi pah
thei kei hi. Lam khat panin ngaihsun le’ng, tuate hangin na
kiangah mite in om nuam sa loin hong gamlatsan zawsop
thei uh hi. Tua hun lianah a kisam pen, i gensa midang tawh
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kizopna hoih neih ahi hi. Midangte tawh kizopna hoih bawl
a, amaute mailam khual a, kitheisiam taka na a seppih siam
mi leh a lawpsak siamte pen makai nuntakzia hoih tak a neite
ahi uh hi.
A piangthak mi
Kipawlna dangte lakah zong kisam mahmah napi'n,
biakna pawlpi sung diakah makaite pen a piangthak, Pasian
a zahtak, Pasian in sem dinga a seh (I Thes. 5:12) ahihna
phawkin a zahtak, thunget a hat, leh a kiniamkhiat mi ahih
kisam pha mahmah hi. Bang hang hiam cih leh, mi
mangthang, mi kibang lo, leh a gi lo mahmah zong makaih
ding uh ahih manin, mi piangthak lote in tua bang mite
makaih zo lo uh hi. Jesu in mittaw leh mittaw a kimakaih
theihloh ding thu na gen hi (Luka 6:39).
A ettehtak mi
Makai ahih manin ama nuntakna leh a innkuan
nuntakna pen mite in etteh den hi. Tua ahih manin a
makaihte' ettehtak dingin ama nuntakna leh innkuan kemzo-
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in, ukzo ding hi. Pawl nasep nadingin a hun leh a neihsa sum
le pai kipiakhia ngam ding hi.
Sawltak Paul nuntakna pen ettehtak mahmah hi. Khual
a zin ciangin zong mite buaisak sese lo a om theih sawm a,
nungzui masate zong mite etteh ding a om ding leh, ama
nuntakna mahmah etteh dingin hih bangin gen hi :
“Sanggamte aw, keima gamtat bangin hong gamta niloh un.
Note’ etteh dingin a hoihin kote hong gamta ka hih manun,
kote’ gamtat bangin a gamtate na etteh un” (Fil. 3:17). Tulai
pawlpi makai pawlkhat leh, nu leh pate in, ‘Ka nuntak bang
hi loin, ka gen bangin nungta in’ a cih tawh kibang het lo hi.
Peter in makaite pen tuucing, aana neihna tawh cing hi lo a,
nungzuite (tuute) etteh ding a gamta dingin hilh hi (1 Pet.
5:3).
Thuakzawhna nei
Kipawlna khat peuhpeuhah haksatna leh buaina, makaite
hawmthawhna leh gensiatna om teitei a, makai hoih in tua
bang hun ciangin kiniamkhiatna leh lungduaina tawh thuak
zo hi. Thu hoih mahmah zong a makaihte in a hoihna tel
pak lo thei a, a saan theih nadingun hanciamin, kinawh
tengtung loin ngakzo ding hi.
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Pil ding
Mite makai ding, mipite maiah pai ding ahih manin na
khat peuhpeuhah a makaihte sangin theizaw, siamzaw,
pilzaw-in, thudik leh zuau thu khentel thei ding a, a hun leh
mun tawh kituakin kampau leh gamtatdan ding khentel ding
hi. Ama khantoh nading bek ngaihsun loin, a makaih mite'
khantoh nading zong gelpihin lamlak ding hi. Mi lungsim
nasak het loin a hoihlohna leh kicinlohna hilh siamin, a
thalawp theih nadingin hanthawn siam ding hi. Tua banah
haksatna leh buaina a om ciangin kician takin thukhensatna
bawl thei ding hi. Mipil tawh a kithuahte pil hi.
A kiva mi
A makaihte in haksatna leh nopna a tuak uh ciangin a
kidawk masapente lakah kihel ding hi. Vaihawmna
tungtawna sep le bawl ding kipiate leh, ama tunga kisuante
lawp tak leh a theihna tawpin sem ding a, mawhpuakna
awlmawh ding hi. A gen bekbek hi loin a takin semkhia ding
a, thuak a kul leh zong thuak masapen ding hi.
Amah a kimuangngam mi
Makai hoih hi dingin mah le mah kimuanna (self confi-
dence) a neih kisam hi. Midangte a muan theih nading leh
lawp taka sem a pulak / genkhia thei dingin amah leh amah
kimuanngamin hangsan (courage) ding hi. Mi lakah zahkai
den makai pen makai hoih hi ngei lo a, mipite in zong
muangzo lo pah hi. Amah a kimuan laitakin, ama pilna le
siamna bek suang lo a, Pasian leh mipi deihna bang hi hiam,
cih kantel ding hi.
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A huaiham lo mi
A makai hihna suangin, nekguk takguk theihna leh ama
phattuam nading bek ngaihsun lo ding hi. Ngah ding bekbek
a lamen hi loin, a piakhia hizaw ding hi (not greedy, but
giving).
Kumpi Ahab nuntakna panin huaiham hoihlohna tampi
kimu thei hi. Naboth in kumpi Ahab inn gei-ah leenggui lo
nei hi. Tua leenggui lo pen deih ahih manin lei dingin Ahab
in Naboth kiangah ngen a, Naboth in a pu a pate gamh Ahab
tungah apiak ding Topa’n a khamna thu tawh dawng hi. Ahih
hangin kumpi Ahab’ lawmnu Jezebel in a kumpi thuneihna
tawh leenggui lo a neih theih nadingin maan lo takin Naboth
that mawk hi! Tua hangin Pasian lungkim lo a, a sa uh uite
in a nek ding thu gen mawk hi.
Theihsiamna nei mi
A makaih mipite cinlohna leh hatlohna theisiam ding
hi. A haksatna uh leh cinlohna panin bangci hotkhiat ding,
cih a ngaihsun mi hi ding a, a makaihte utdan, lawpdan, leh
lungsim ngaihsutnate theisiamin tua tungtawnin na semin
vaihawm ding hi. A makaih mipite pen mihing mah ahihna
uh thei ding a, semkhial, bawlkhial, leh ngaihsunkhial thei
ahihna uh phawk ding hi.
Sapna a ngah mi
Khristian makaihna pen thubaih hi lo hi. Sapna a za/
ngah lote adingin cimtakhuai mahmah thei hi. Bang hang
hiam cih leh, sapna in a sappa/nu tha piaden a, tua-in na
hoih sem dingin huh hi.
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Kisaktheihna (pride)
Sep le bawlna-ah lawhcinna hang leh makai kum tam
sepna hangin kisaktheihna piang thei hi. Makai in
kisaktheihna leh kiphatsakna a neih leh, tua in pukna
piangsak hi (Pau. 16:18).
Makai tampi pen a hoih lo zong hi pah lo napi, midang
omloh man khawnga makai sauveipi a sem om hi. Amau
makai sepna sung panin mi hoih, mi kiva, a za laih thei ding
hong om ciangin a seppih thei lo om hi. ‘Makai masa ka hih
manin kei makaihna nuaiah om ding uh hi’ ci bang keekin,
makai hihna midang tungah suan ngam lo, suan nuam lo
uh hi. Kiteelna panin tua bang mi hoih dangte in hihna a
ngah uh ciangin tua a sepnasa hanga kisaktheihna hangin
thanem lawh zawsop hi.
Minthanna (popularity)
Minthanna pen a hoih mahmah ahih laitakin tua-in
kisaktheihna leh hi kisakna piangsak thei a, a hoih lo lamin
mihingah na sem thei hi. William Penn in, “Avoid popular-
ity; it has many snares and no real benefits” ci hi. Meetna pi
om lo, thaang (trap/snare) lauhuai mahmah hi thei hi.
Lawhsapna (failure)
Mikang te’n, “Lawhsapna pen lawhcinna khuam
muanhuai ahi hi (Failure is the pillar of success)” ci uh hi.
Makai te'n makaihna-ah lawhsapna tuak teitei uh a, makai
hoih lote pukin, lungkia thei uh hi. Joshua in Ai khua a
zawhloh hangin a makai hihna panin kitawp lo hi.
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Mahatma Gandhi, Nelson Mandela, Abraham Lincoln,
Henry Fort-te pen a lawhcin sawmna uah lawhcing pah lo
uh a, bangzah vei hiam a lawhsap zawh uh ciang a sep
tantanna uh hangin lawhcingin, makai hoih suak pan uh hi.
Huaihamna (greed)
Amau phattuam nading bek a ngaihsun, a huaiham
makai pen makai hoih hi ngei lo hi. Lai Siangtho in
huaihamna pen, ‘milim biakna zahin sia’ (Efesa 5:5); ‘Enna
leh huaihamna a om nak leh buaina leh siatna nam
khempeuh tawh kizom pahpah hi’ (James 3:16) ci hi. A
huaiham makai pen a puk, a kisia makai ahi hi. I gensa Ahab
nuntakna panin huaiham hoihlohzia kitel mahmah hi.
Hazatna (jealousy)
Makai pawlkhat amah sanga mi a siamzawk, pilzawk
leh neihzawk ding a lau om thei hi. Hazatna pen - guh a
muatsak natna hi a (Pau. 14:30b), hehna leh sin-sona siahuai
a, tua sangin zong siahuaizaw lai hi (Pau. 27 :4).
Mihing hong buaisak lianpi pen ei neihsa hi loin, midang
neihsa deihgawhna hang khawng hi leltak hi. Tua manin
hazatna panin kidophuai mahmah hi.
Lungkiatna (discouragement)
Makai hoihte a lungkia pahpah lote ahi hi. Haksatna leh
galte tamna lakah Joshua lungkia lo dingin Topa’n ci hi
(Joshua 1:9). Ai khua a zawhloh na panin lungkia lo a paikik
dingin Topa’n hilh hi (Joshua 8:1). Cidamlohna, gensiatna,
lawhsapna, mipite thadahna, sum haksatna etc. hangin
lungkiat theih hi.
Gensiatna (criticism)
Leitungah mihingte a paubang lo (perfect) om lo hi. Mi
khat in na a sepna gensiat nading a zong teitei pawl om hi.
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Gensiatna pen nam nihin kikhen a, kibawlphat nadinga
gensiatna (constructive criticism) leh siat semsem nadinga
gensiatna (destructive criticism) kici hi. Mi pawlkhat tua bang
gensiatna hangin puk thei hi.