Swati Tanu's Reviews > No More Mr. Nice Guy

I picked the book to understand the opposite gender's approach towards life but honestly, I feel the book has discussed more generic issues and solutions.

This book constantly tells men that it's OK to be selfish and put yourself first. Let's get real, it's OK for every human despite gender. I was expecting a few specific issues and approaches.

Anyhow, I think the author is trying to explain the importance and proper implementation of "the first pillar of self-intimacy", which is considered once need (not mentioned clearly in the book though).

For those of us who are interested, you can always check the concept called the 4 pillars of self-intimacy (that I consider being the most important thing to know when it comes to self-awareness) without any gender-specific. For starters, the 4 pillars are :

1. Needs
2. Standards
3. Boundaries
4. Goals

And the roof being self-respect.

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