“All that traumatized people are really looking for is not a fix-it but more like a validation or acknowledgement that it matters.”Producer: Whit MissildineEditor: Nigel CoutinhoYou can now find new and archival episodes of This Is Actually Happening completely ad-free, on Stitcher Premium. For a free month of Stitcher Premium, go to stitcherpremium.com/wondery and use promo code WONDERY.thisisactuallyhappening.comInstagram: @actuallyhappeningEpisode Sponsors: Ancestry. www.ancestry.com/happeningFabFitFun: https://fabfitfun.com/Intro Music: "Illabye" - TipperMusic Bed: “Wake Up” - Spuntic Outro Music: "The Moon is Down" - El Diablo & Adam Schraft (Rojo y Negro) @eldiablosf @rojo-y-negro www.eldiablobass.com/