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    Kiss Your Ash Good-Bye!
    Kiss Your Ash Good-Bye!
    Kiss Your Ash Good-Bye!
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    Kiss Your Ash Good-Bye!

    By Joel Block, Ph.D.

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    So you want to stop smoking?
    Great idea! It is not an exaggeration to say that if you successfully stop smoking, it would be about the most important thing you could do for yourself these days. Stopping always provides benefits, no matter how much or how long you’ve smoked.

    If you are among the many (including me!) that have struggled with smoke cessation you will be armed with a manual that contains powerful weapons to defeat your smoking dependence. The tips and tactics in the manual are based on proven psychological strategies that work. Follow the easily applied tactics and the odds are in your favor, you have taken a critical step toward becoming smoke free.
    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherPop Psych Literary, Inc.
    Release dateSep 11, 2015
    ISBN9781943767052
    Kiss Your Ash Good-Bye!
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    Joel Block, Ph.D.

    Joel Block, Ph.D., is an award-winning psychologist–excellence in couple therapy–practicing couple and sex therapy on Long Island, New York. Board Certified in Couple therapy by the American Board of Professional Psychology, Dr. Block is a senior psychologist on the staff of the North Shore-Long Island Jewish Medical Center and an Assistant Clinical Professor (Psychology/Psychiatry) at the Hofstra North Shore-LIJ Medical School. Dr. Block is a Fellow of the American Psychological Association (Couple and Family Psychology) and for twenty years he was the training supervisor of the Sexuality Center at Long Island-Jewish Medical Center. Dr. Block is the author of over 20 books on Love and Sex, his specialty. Dr. Block was on the team that researched the Smoke Cessation program used by the American Cancer Society.

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      Kiss Your Ash Good-Bye! - Joel Block, Ph.D.

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      I. INTRODUCTION

      1. So you think maybe you want to stop smoking?

      It’s really a great idea! It is not an exaggeration to say that if you successfully stop smoking, it would be about the most important thing you could do for yourself these days. Don’t fool yourself: there is no longer any question about it – smoking is one of the most destructive things we do to ourselves. And stopping always provides benefits, no matter how little or how long you’ve smoked.

      Note: Throughout this guide the term Smoking may be actual smoking or it may equally be a nicotine product being referred to. The distinction is not critical. In either case, the tips, suggestions and guidelines remain the same. In other words, this manual is applicable with the assistance of nicotine products or without them.

      2. Do you have enough motivation?

      Motivation is a complicated issue, but be careful not to use this question against yourself. Most everyone who thinks about stopping smoking has enough motivation, but maybe has not been able to get it all working together to lead to quickly and easily stopping. If you’re like most smokers, part of you would very much like to stop smoking (otherwise you wouldn’t be reading this), but another part of you would very much like to continue smoking (otherwise you would have stopped already). Usually, the balance between these two tendencies fluctuates a lot. What these pages attempt is to help you boost the want-to-stop side just long enough and steadily enough so that you can break the chain around your neck and be free to make a calm and easy decision later.

      A lot of people ask this motivation question because they really feel they should wait until some time in their life when they will have a super-dose of motivation. In this way they can forever put off stopping. Don’t let this happen to you, because you could wait forever. You do have enough motivation to work with right now.

      3. Why is stopping smoking so difficult?

      The intricacies of your having become dependent on cigarettes will be discussed in detail later, as a means of explaining how to break the dependency. For now, a general psychological/physical understanding will suffice.

      Whether or not you enjoy the taste of cigarettes, you clearly get something out of smoking, or else you wouldn’t continue to smoke. Indeed, the rewards, or reinforcements, for smoking are consistent and immediate. There is, of course, the nicotine hit. Nicotine is potent but so is the habit of smoking—that’s why the various nicotine products alone aren’t nearly fully successful. Each time you light a cigarette, you are rewarded with any number of possible reinforcements: reduction of tension, alleviation of anxiety, a sense of well-being, good taste, and alleviation of feelings of boredom. Then there is the elimination of awkwardness from having nothing to do with your hands and for some, a temporary distancing between yourself and others. What’s more, these occur as soon as you light up.

      The negative consequences of smoking, on the other hand, are neither immediate nor consistent, even though they are definitely more significant in the long run. An elevated overall anxiety level, massive assaults on your body systems, significantly increased risk of many major debilitating and terminal diseases, and even regular annoying symptoms are consequences which are neither consistent nor immediate. Some of them you get used to (shortness of breath, coughing), some you aren’t aware of (significantly elevated heart rate and blood pressure). Some you can’t be sure will ever happen to you (cancer, emphysema, coronary artery disease), and others happen hours after you smoke (coughing up phlegm in the morning).

      In a conditioning sense, reinforcements must be immediate and consistent to be effective. If you coughed up phlegm for five minutes immediately after each cigarette, you would readily be conditioned to stop smoking automatically.

      As you can see, the balance, in a behavioral conditioning sense, is on the side of continuing to smoke. To combat and defeat this imbalance, what is required is a cognitive understanding of what is happening and what consequences really are the more important ones in the long run. Also required is a conscious, active, and sustained effort to stop, bringing to the fore other behavioral science mechanisms which will make not smoking eventually become automatic, following an initial despite-yourself effort.

      4. How important is finding the right technique to stop?

      So many people who want to stop smoking have spent so many years of their lives trying out so many techniques to stop smoking! This is because they believe that once they find the right technique, they will be able to sit back and let their technique do the work for them. It’s not going to happen. Techniques and tips do matter, but they aren’t everything. Unless you’ve thought out your decision to stop well, cleared away your own mental obstacles to quitting, and gone into it with the right attitude, no technique will work. You’ll quit quitting before you quit smoking!

      5. How can you have the right attitude?

      a. Confront the part of you that is hoping for magic.

      If you’re like most smokers, you might deep down hope either that someday you’ll just wake up and find that you don’t want to smoke anymore or that some technique of stopping will instantly make you never have an urge to smoke again. Forget it! First of all, it hasn’t happened yet, right? Second, there’s no reason to expect it will happen, because smoking has been such an important part of your life. And finally, how many people

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