“PRECIOUS”:
A TALE OF THREE EXPLANATIONS FOR
CHILDHOOD MALTREATMENT
Reginald Leamon Robinson*
INTRODUCTION
Precious describes a fictional child’s life, in which the parents
severely maltreat her.1 Historically, society gave parents the right to
assault their children’s bodies,2 if those assaults were not abuse but
discipline.3 Traditionally, constitutional analysis enshrined those
*
Professor of Law, Howard University School of Law, Washington,
D.C. I wish to thank Professor Anthony Farley for inviting me to participate
in this project on CRT and Marxism. I would also like to thank Professor
Kimberly Alderman (Wisconsin), Dean Peter Alexander (Indiana Tech), Sylvia
Ellison, Alexandra Kedrock, LCSW, Professor Cheryl LaRouche (George
Washington), Professor Alice Noble-Allgire (SIU), and Professor Victor
Romero (Penn State) for their support, read, and constructive feedback. I
would especially like to thank Professor Lenese Herbert (Albany, Visiting
Howard 2012-2013) not only for her very close read but also for our four-day
talk about the Essay and its personal and social implications.
1 See generally SAPPHIRE, PUSH:
A NOVEL (1996) [hereinafter
SAPPHIRE]; PRECIOUS (Lionsgate 2009) (a story about how a young girl abused
by her mother and father who overcomes adversity).
2 See, e.g., Johnson v. State, 1840 WL 1574, at *1 (Tenn. Dec. 1840)
(Judge Turley states, “[t]he right of parents to chastise their refractory and
disobedient children is so necessary to the government of families, to the good
order of society, that no moralist or lawgiver has ever thought of interfering
with its existence, or of calling upon them to account for the manner of its
exercise, upon light or frivolous pretences.”).
3 See, e.g., Hinkle v. State, 26 N.E. 777, 778 (Ind. 1891) (Chief Judge
Olds states, “Parents bringing children into the world owe to them and to the
community the duty of caring for and properly training them in infancy, and
curbing the evil tendencies at a time and at an age when it can be done without
resorting to excessive punishment and cruel and inhuman treatment[.]”). Even
today, some advocates for ending corporal punishment have so deeply
internalized the right of parents to use violence against their children as part of
proper child-rearing practices that they mentally uncoupled the impact of
corporal punishment from its damage not only to children but also the
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rights,4 and parents had autonomy to rear and discipline their
children as they saw fit.5 Unfortunately, when parents abused their
children and were prosecuted,6 few exculpatory and justificatory
explanations were offered.7 Today, we know that parents who
abuse have suffered abuse, too.8 Hence, Precious’ parents’
consequential cost to society. See MURRAY A. STRAUS WITH DENISE A.
DONNELLY, BEATING THE DEVIL OUT OF THEM: CORPORAL PUNISHMENT
IN AMERICAN FAMILIES AND ITS EFFECTS ON CHILDREN, at iv (2001)
[hereinafter STRAUS WITH DONNELLY] (in response to a reporter’s question
“on whether parents should prohibited from spanking, [the director of an
organization devoted to ending corporal punishment in schools] said a few
swats on the rear by loving parents is nothing to worry about.”).
4 See generally Meyer v. Nebraska, 262 U.S. 390, 399 (1923) (The
Fourteenth Amendment’s liberty interest “denotes . . . the right . . . to . . .
establish a home and bring up children.”); Pierce v. Society of Sisters, 268 U.S.
510, 534 (1925) (Under Meyer, “the Act of 1922 unreasonably interferes with
the liberty of parents and guardians to direct the upbringing and education of
children under their control.”).
5 See, e.g., Roe v. Doe, 272 N.E.2d 567, 570 (N.Y. 1971) (“It is the
natural right, as well as the legal duty, of a parent to care for, control and
protect his child from potential harm, whatever the source and absent a clear
showing of misfeasance, abuse or neglect, courts should not interfere with that
delicate responsibility.”).
6 See, e.g., People v. Karen P., 692 N.E.2d 338 (Ill. App. 1998)
(reversing a lower court and ruling that mother’s frequent use of wooden
spoon to spank child was not excessive corporal punishment); In Re Ethan H.,
609 A.2d 1222 (N.H. 1992) (lower court finding that mother abused her sevenyear old child by spanking her with a belt, which caused bruises, was not
supported by the evidence); State v. Kaimimoku, 841 P.2d 1076 (Haw. App.
1992) (court reversing lower court’s conviction of abuse of family and
household members because state failed to disprove that father’s use of force
against daughter was justifiable discipline of a minor child).
7 See, e.g., People v. Karen P., 692 N.E.2d at 339 (Karen explained to
an agent for the Department of Children and Family Services that after
attending parenting classes and receiving teachings at her church, “she believed
it was wrong to hit with the hand because the hand represents love.
Therefore, it was better . . .to use an object such as the wooden spoon, instead
of the hand, to discipline.”).
8 See STRAUS WITH DONNELLY, supra note 3, at xix (Parents “do not
realize the harmful side effects of corporal punishment because those effects
do not show up until later in life. When a parent spanks a child, there is no
obvious clue to signal that this is increasing the chance that the child will grow
up to beat his wife, physically abuse her children, or suffer from mental illness
or other social and psychological ills.”). See also JOHN HEAD, BLACK MEN
AND DEPRESSION: SAVING OUR LIVES, HEALING OUR FAMILIES AND
FRIENDS 1-27, 28-53 (2004) (devoting four paragraphs to his childhood
upbringing by a single mother who divorced his father when he was four years
old, Head faults not childhood maltreatment but American slavery and racism
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childhood histories help to explain her maltreatment and reveal the
best framework for the etiology of her horrific suffering.9
This Essay proffers three explanations: Critical Race
Theory’s (CRT) race consciousness, Karl Marx’ alienation theory,
and Alice Miller’s psycho-existential framework. Each approach
may explain why parents maltreat their children. In brief, CRT and
alienation theories operate at structural levels, well above the
intergenerational transfer of actual suffering from parent to child.
To be sure, structuralist theories may explain why black children like
Precious suffered horrific maltreatment not by faulting the parents
but by pointing to external, objective forces like white racism.10 CRT
begins by analyzing slavery, Jim Crow, and the breakdown of the
black family.11 Marxism likewise starts by critiquing an economic
world in which capitalism’s slavery exploited workers and black
slaves.12 Yet, violent, physical assaults against children predate
for the chronic depression among black men within the black community,
saying, “America’s failure to address the damage that depression does to
African American men is rooted, in part, in prejudice and stigma that date all
the way back to the docking of that first slave ship”).
9 See, e.g., Kealan Oliver, 9-Year-Old Says “Ex-Mom” Renee Bowman
Murdered Step-Sisters, Kept Bodies in Freezer, CBS NEWS, Feb. 18, 2010,
http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-504083_162-6217712-504083.html (“The girl
said Bowman repeatedly beat her and her sisters with a baseball bat and a shoe.
She also stated she was beaten the worst on ‘the back part and the front part,’
using her teddy bear to demonstrate where she was hit. She pointed to its
backside and its crotch.”).
10 See
ALICE MILLER, BANISHED KNOWLEDGE: FACING
CHILDHOOD INJURIES 33 (Leila Vennewitz trans., 1990) (1988) [hereinafter
MILLER, BANISHED KNOWLEDGE] (“A black psychology student in a group in
London once told me, ‘From the very beginning I was physically, psychically,
and sexually abused’ . . . ‘Our parents claim to have learned cruelty from
whites and deny their own parents’ contribution.’ ”).
11 See, e.g., Adrian Wing & Laura Wesselman, Transcending Traditional
Notions of Mothering: The Need for Critical Race Feminist Praxis, 3 J. GENDER RACE
& JUST. 257, 262 (1999) (in arguing against the white essentialist, ideal mother,
which displaces the black women as proper, these authors begin with slavery
as the source of this displacement and argue for Patricia Hill Collin’s
“othermothering”, which includes a broad range of non-white potential
caregivers).
12 See KARL MARX, CAPITAL: A CRITICAL ANALYSIS OF CAPITALIST
PRODUCTION 759-60 (Frederick Engels ed., 1977) (1887) (“Whilst the cotton
industry introduced child-slavery in England, it gave in the United States a
stimulus to the transformation of the earlier, more or less patriarchcal slavery,
into a system of commercial exploitation. In fact, the veiled slavery of the
wage-workers in Europe needed, for its pedestal, slavery pure and simple in
the new world.”).
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American Negro slavery and modern capitalism,13 which mean that
neither of them would completely and persuasively explain
childhood maltreatment. And neither approach takes us beyond
believing that external, objective forces have constructed our
abusive imaginations,14 which are enforced by the hegemonic
workings15 of powerful whites and white structural oppression.16
Unlike these approaches, Miller’s framework existentially
and interpersonally accounts for Carl Jones and Mary Johnston’s use
of “poisonous pedagogy”17 to rear and maltreat Precious.
Accordingly, Precious’ parents’ own repressed trauma becomes the
prime mover in her maltreatment, the darkness of which is often
covered symbolically and legally by the parents’ legal right to beat
13
See generally Mason P. Thomas, Jr., Child Abuse and Neglect, Part I:
Historical Overview, Legal Matrix, and Social Perspectives, 50 N.C. L. REV. 293, 295
(“Under ancient Roman law the father had a power of life and death (patria
potestas) over his children that extended into adulthood. He could kill, mutilate,
sell, or offer his child in sacrifice. While infanticide was not common in
Rome, exposure was widespread.”).
14 Cf. Robert W. Gordon, Unfreezing Legal Reality: Critical Approaches to
Law, 15 FLA. ST. U. L. REV. 195, 198 (1987) (“ordinary discourses of law . . . all
contribute to cementing this feeling, at once despairing and complacent, that
things must be the way they are and that major changes could only make them
worse”).
15 See, e.g., Robert W. Gordon, New Developments in Legal Theory, in
THE POLITICS OF LAW: A PROGRESSIVE CRITIQUE 413, 418 (David Kairys
ed., 1982) (citing Antonio Gramsci’s notion of hegemony who argued “that
the most effective kind of domination takes place when both the dominant
and dominated classes believe that the existing order, with perhaps some
marginal changes, is satisfactory, or at least represents the most that anyone
could expect, because things pretty much have to be the way they are”);
Kimberlé Williams Crenshaw, Race, Reform, and Retrenchment: Transformation and
Legitimation of Antidiscrimination Law, 101 HARV. L. REV. 1331, 1351 (1988)
[hereinafter Crenshaw, Race, Reform, and Retrenchment] (“The concept of
hegemony allows Critical scholars to explain the continued legitimacy of
American society by revealing how legal consciousness induces people to
accept or consent to their own oppression.”).
16 See Reginald Leamon Robinson, Human Agency, Negated Subjectivity,
and White Structural Oppression: An Analysis of Critical Race Practice/Praxis, 53 AM.
U. L. REV. 1361, 1363 (2004) [hereinafter Robinson, Human Agency] (“Within a
broad structuralist framework, white structural oppression refers to practices
like racism that constitute an objective, external power that robs people of
their natural right to be free human beings.”).
17 See generally ALICE MILLER, FOR YOUR OWN GOOD: HIDDEN
CRUELTY IN CHILD-REARING AND THE ROOTS OF VIOLENCE (Hildegarde
Hannum & Hunter Hannum trans., 4th ed. 2002) (1980) [hereinafter MILLER,
FOR YOUR OWN GOOD] (analyzing the maltreatment effects of education and
child rearing on children through the “pedagogical approach”).
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their children.18 This Essay argues that unlike CRT and alienation
theory, Miller’s psycho-existentialism best explains Precious’ dire
experiences because it accounts for Carl and Mary’s more than
certain abusive childhood experiences, it links Mary’s abusive
experiences to her use of withering obedience training, and it helps
us connect Mary’s repressed authentic feelings19 to the need to
maltreat her own child.
Part I provides an overview of Precious and some specific
maltreated experiences that Precious suffers. Part II applies CRT’s
race consciousness premise, Marx’s alienation theory, and Miller’s
psycho-existentialism, and concludes that psycho-existentialism best
explains Precious’ severe maltreatment.
Psycho-existentialism
explains the violent forces that impacted Precious were not the
present effects of past discrimination, modern discrimination, or the
disfiguring class oppression of workers under evolving capitalism.
Against these so-called external, impersonal, and objective forces,
psycho-existentialism posits that Carl and Mary’s inability to access
their own repressed childhood trauma—which through “emotional
blindness”20 unconsciously urged them to abuse Precious directly or
by proxy—caused what they did to her.21 Finally, Part III serves as
the Essay’s conclusion.
18
See generally Chronister v. Brennenman, 742 A.2d 190 (Pa. 1999)
(overturning a order of protection against a father who hit his daughter four or
five times on the buttocks because she lied to him, holding that such discipline
or punishment did not constitute abuse within the meaning of the Protection
From Abuse Act); LEON SHELEFF, GENERATIONS APART: ADULT HOSTILITY
TO YOUTH (1981) (arguing that Freud and neo-Freudian scholars use the
Oedipus complex to perhaps unconsciously depict power implications of
fathers killing their children, primarily sons, because it permitted them to
repress the obviousness of parents warring against their children). See also infra
notes 150-151 (discussing and applying Alice Miller’s psycho-existential
framework to Precious).
19 See MILLER, BANISHED KNOWLEDGE, supra note 10, at 2
(suggesting that a child’s authentic feelings start in infancy, “he relies entirely
on those around him to hear his cries . . . . The only possible recourse a baby
has when his screams are ignored is to repress his distress, which is
tantamount to mutilating his soul, for the result is an interference with his
ability to feel, to be aware, and to remember”).
20 See id. at 37 (Emotional blindness “is the consequence of a
repression of feelings and memories that renders a person unable to see certain
sets of circumstances.”).
21 Id. at 2-3 (“[Maltreated parents] will not remember the torments to
which they were once exposed, because those torments, together will the
needs related to them, have all been repressed: that is, completely banished
from consciousness.”).
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PRECIOUS AND MARY’S OBEDIENCE TRAINING
The evidence is ever more conclusive that CP
[corporal punishment] is counterproductive
and has harmful psychological effects.22
A. A Brief Overview
In Precious, Carl and Mary severely maltreated their child by
raping, assaulting, and humiliating Precious.23 Mary further exposed
Precious to physical24 and emotional harm25 by failing to protect her.
After Precious had her first child by Carl at age twelve,26 Carl
abandoned the family.27 However, before his death,28 Mary took her
daughter to her pedophiliac father, thus further exposing her child
to harm and to his carnal depravity.29
22
STRAUS WITH DONNELLY, supra note 3, at xv.
See generally SAPPHIRE, supra note 1. Shortly after Precious has her
first child, the nurses collect data on her mother, her father, and the baby’s
father. “ ‘Father,’ she say. ‘What’s your daddy’s name?’ ‘Carl Kenwood Jones,
born in the Bronx.’ She say, ‘What’s the baby’s father’s name?’ I say, ‘Carl
Kenwood Jones, born in the same Bronx.’ ” Id. at 12.
24 See Diana J. English, The Extent and Consequences of Child
Maltreatment, 8 THE FUTURE OF CHILDREN 39, 41 (1998) (defining physical
abuse as “An act of commission by a caregiver that results or is likely to result
in physical harm, including death of a child. Examples of physical abuse acts
include kicking, biting, shaking, stabbing, or punching of a child. Spanking a
child is usually considered a disciplinary action, although it can be classified as
abusive if the child is bruised or injured”).
25 Id. at 41 (defining emotional harm as “[a]n act of commission or
omission that includes rejecting, isolating, terrorizing, ignoring, or corrupting a
child.
Examples of emotional abuse are confinement; verbal abuse;
withholding sleep, food, or shelter; exposing a child to domestic violence;
allowing a child to engage in substance abuse or criminal activity; refusing to
provide psychological care; and other inattention that results in harm or
potential harm to a child. An important component of emotional or
psychological abuse is that it must be sustained and repetitive.”).
26 SAPPHIRE, supra note 1, at 12.
27 Id. at 19-20.
28 Id. at 87 (“ ‘Your daddy dead’ . . . So what! I’m glad the nigger’s
dead. No, I don’t mean that, but so what. Mama quiet. Mama say, ‘Carl had
the AIDS virus.’ ”).
29 Id. at 25-26 (“She bring him to me. I ain’ crazy, that stinky hoe
give me to him. Thas’ what he require to fuck her probably, some of me.”).
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By sixteen, Precious’ dark, brutal world began to implode,
perhaps for the best. She was pregnant with Carl’s second child.30
Discovering her pregnancy, a white school administrator required
her to attend alternative educational program, “Each One Teach
One.”31 At this program, Precious realized that she no longer
needed to be Mary’s exploited slave.32 Precious also experienced
growth, learned to read, began to trust in others,33 struggled with
self-denial,34 and embraced a life as a devoted mother,35 in which
she would not suffer Mary’s maltreatment.36
30 Id. at 10 (The EMS officer who helped Precious deliver her child
said, “Precious, it’s almost here. I want you to push, you hear me momi, when
that shit hit you again, go with it and push, Preshecita. Push.’ ”).
31 Id. at 6-8, 15-16 (Once her teachers and administrators recognized
that she was pregnant, they required her to leave the high school and to attend
the Alternative Program. Initially, Precious cannot understand why she’s
forced to leave, believing that she’d done nothing, and that her grades were
good.).
32 Id. at 64 (After attending the “Each One Teach One” Program for
a month, Precious realized that she was not invisible anyone, unlike her
experience at home when she is living with her mother); id. at 66 (Precious
believed Mary would have killed her if she’d not be receiving a welfare check
for her daughter and her first son).
33 Id. at 139. Precious was headed to a Body Positive meeting, and
she needed “Miz Mom” to watch Abdul. Miz Mom gave Precious until 6:30
pm to go and come back, and she offered Precious three dollars, which caused
a slight inner psyche break within her because Precious realized that adult
maternal figures can treat her with love, kindness, and respect. Precious
thinks, “Something tear inside me. I wanna cry but I can’t. It’s like something
inside me keeps ripping but I can’t cry. I think how alive I am, every part of
me that is cells, proteens, neutrons, hairs, pussy, eyeballs, nervus sistem, brain.
I got poems, a son, friends. I want to live so bad.”
34 See, e.g., id. at 115-16 (In response to Ms. Rain’s request to have
Precious and others write down their fantasies if life were perfect, Precious
reveals her first of three perfect worlds: “I would be light skinned, thereby
treated right and loved by boyz. Light even more important than being skinny;
you see them light-skinned girls that’s big an’ fat, they got boyfriends. Boyz
overlook a lot to be wif a white girl or yellow girl, especially if it’s a boy that’s
dark skin wif big lips or nose, he will go APE over yellow girl.”).
35 Id. at 120-21 (Precious reads from file, in which Ms. Weiss makes
observations about her generally and about her commitment to parenting her
second son, Abdul. Ms. Weiss writes: “Precious attends to his needs a-s-s-i-du-o-s-l-y (whatever!) and with great affection and ee-” (“ ‘Eagerly,’ ” Jermaine
say) “ ‘seeks any and all information on child rearing. (I guess so I’m his
mother!)’ ”).
36 Id. at 119 (Ms. Weiss states, “ ‘You know your mother’s been
calling here wanting to come visit.’ ” And Precious responds, “ ‘No, I didn’t
know that.’ ” Ms. Weiss replies, “ ‘Would you like to have her come into a
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Despite her growth, Precious still did not know why she had
suffered maltreatment.37
Without knowing, Precious would
continue to repress the pain of her parents’ betrayal. Unfortunately,
repression will not stave off Precious’ anger, which eventually will
affect everyone and everything around her.38 For example, Mary’s
repressed childhood history more than likely accounted for her
horrific maltreatment of Precious.39 As such, Precious likewise
could impose her trauma on her two children.40 Nevertheless, after
leaving Mary, Precious did excel.41 Unfortunately, excelling and
reading will not, without more, help Precious to access her lost
childhood history and to truly overcome what Carl and Mary did to
her.
counseling session with you?’ ” Precious responds back, “ ‘I don’t know, I
never think about it before.’ ”).
37 See ALICE MILLER, FREE FROM LIES: DISCOVERING YOUR TRUE
NEEDS 11 (Andrew Jenkins trans., 2007) [hereinafter MILLER, FREE FROM
LIES]. On this point, Miller states:
[I]n adulthood, the combination of infant confusion and the
denial of suffering obviously instills reluctance or downright
refusal to reflect on the problem posed by inflicting physical
punishment on small children. Mental blockades (and the fear
underlying them) prevent us from asking ourselves how this
confusion originated in the first place. Accordingly, we fend off
everything that would lead to such reflection.
Id. (emphasis added).
38 See, e.g., SAPPHIRE, supra note 1, at 4.
Precious obviously
responded to a stressful, perhaps embarrassing moment, especially because she
wanted to hide that she could not read, with anger. On the first day of math
class, her teacher says, “ ‘[c]lass turn the book pages to page 122 please.’ I
don’t move. He say, ‘Miss Jones, I said turn the book pages to page 122.’ I
say, ‘Mutherfucker I ain’t deaf!’ The whole class laugh. He turn red. He slam
his han’ down on the book and say, ‘Try to have some discipline.’ He a skinny
little white man about five feets four inches. A peckerwood as my mother
would say.” Id.; id. at 5 (“I didn’t want to hurt him or embarrass him like that
you know. But I couldn’t let him, anybody, know, page 122 look like page
152, 22, 3, 6, 5—all the pages look alike to me.”).
39 See MILLER, BANISHED KNOWLEDGE, supra note 10, at 4 (“And
later, as adults, they had themselves forgotten such experiences . . . . But
somehow they must have known, their brains had obviously stored the
knowledge, for in a sort of compulsive repetition they passed on their
traumatic experiences to their children, again oblivious to the consequences.”).
40 Id.
41 See SAPPHIRE, supra note 1, at 120 (Ms. Weiss states that Precious
made great strides in the past year, thus receiving the “mayor’s award for
outstanding achievement.”).
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At “Each One Teach One,” Precious needed an
“enlightened witness,”42 who would tell her directly that Carl and
Mary were wrong to maltreat her. Her teacher, Ms. Rain,
encouraged her with positive feedback, helping her to understand
that institutional markers like reading scores cannot determine her
future.43 Her social worker, Ms. Weiss, wanted her to access
memories of her parents,44 without telling Precious that her
childhood history, however traumatic, would promote healing by
faulting her parents.45 Accordingly, her teacher and social worker
were not “potential helpers.”46 Even if Precious could appreciate
the impact of white racism or answer questions about her memories
of her parents, Precious would still fault whites, who would serve as
42 ALICE MILLER, THE TRUTH WILL SET YOU FREE: OVERCOMING
EMOTIONAL BLINDNESS AND FINDING YOUR TRUE ADULT SELF, at x-xi
(Andrew Jenkins trans., 2001) (“In adult life, a role similar to that of
childhood's helping witness may be taken over by an enlightened witness. By this
I mean someone who is aware of the consequences that neglect and cruelty in
childhood can have. Enlightened witnesses support these harmed individuals,
empathize with them, and help them gain an understanding of their feelings of
anxiety and powerlessness as products of their own history rather than as
some frightening, mysterious force.”).
43 SAPPHIRE, supra note 1, at 110. In response to Precious saying that
she has a 2.8 score, Ms. Rain says, “it’s a number! And can’t no numbers
measure how fair I done come in jus’ two years. She say forget about the
numbers and just keep working. . . . Don’t worry about numbers and fill in the
blank, just read and write!” Id.
44 Id. at 117-19 (Ms. Weiss asked Precious about the first memories
of her mother).
45 See MILLER, BANISHED KNOWLEDGE, supra note 10, at 28-29.
Miller describes therapy that helps clients feel their anger:
First, through reawakened feelings, he will sense the awakening
of life within him and won’t want to jeopardize that life.
Second, feelings that can be associated with childhood
experiences can change over time and make way for new
feelings. The anger directed at parents remains unchanged as
long as we cannot feel it, because we fear this anger, feel guilty
about it, and are afraid of the parent’s revenge. Once this fear
has been experienced . . . and its ramifications have been
understood, we are no longer compelled to feel guilty . . . . This
liberation reduces the anger.
Id.
Id. at 7 (“By ‘potential helpers’ I mean all those who do not shrink
from unequivocally taking the side of the child and protecting him from power
abuse on the part of adults.”).
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proxies for her fear of blaming Carl and Mary.47 In the end, Rain
and Weiss cannot empower Precious,48 unless she knows her
childhood history and can fault her parents.49
B. Precious: Innocent Child, or “Nasty Ass Tramp”
“Slut! Nasty ass tramp!
What you been doin’! Who! Who!”50
From the moment that Carl actually raped his daughter and
that Mary abused her, Precious was clearly an innocent, helpless, and
defenseless infant. Nevertheless, they emotionally demeaned her.51
They physically assaulted her. They psychologically dominated her.
They destroyed her innocence by forcing her to please their base,
carnal needs. Throughout Precious, neither Carl nor Mary ever
47 Cf. ARTHUR JANOV, WHY WE GET SICK AND HOW YOU GET
WELL: THE HEALING POWER OF FEELINGS 20 (1997) [hereinafter JANOV,
WHY WE GET SICK]. Survival and continuity do not end the neurotic
suffering. His needs:
[C]ontinue through life, exerting a persistent, unconscious force
toward the satisfaction of those needs. But because the needs
have been suppressed in the consciousness, the individual must
pursue substitute gratification. Because he was not allowed to
express himself as an infant, he may be compelled to try to get
others to listen and understand later in life.
Id.
48 See generally Charles R. Lawrence, III, The Word and the River:
Pedagogy as Scholarship as Struggle, 65 S. CAL. L. REV. 2231 (1992) (arguing in part
that we can empower ourselves by identifying with the struggles of minorities
like blacks who were historically oppressed by external, independent forces
under the control of whites). But see Reginald Leamon Robinson, The Word and
the Problem of Human Unconsciousness: An Analysis of Charles R. Lawrence’s
Meditation on Racism, Oppression, and Empowerment, 40 CONNTEMPLATIONS 1
(2008) (arguing that the Word cannot empower individuals because racism,
sexism, and oppression are co-created experiences that depend at the very least
on the human unconsciousness of blacks and whites, too).
49 See MILLER, BANISHED KNOWLEDGE, supra note 10, at 23 (“For
the fear of blaming our parents reinforces the status quo: The ignorance and
the transference of child-inimical attitudes persist.”).
50 SAPPHIRE, supra note 1, at 9.
51 Id. at 14 (“My muver jump in and say, ‘Press LISTEN stupid!’ I
wanna say I ain’ stupid but I know I am so I don’t say nothing.”).
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expressed any shame or guilt about what they had done to their
daughter.52
By the time she shouted “Slut! Nasty ass tramp!” Mary had
more than likely broken Precious’ will. Precious thus had learned to
rationalize and accept her mother’s violence.53 Apart from
muttering “I hate her,” she just tolerated this maltreatment.54 By
not recalling what Carl and Mary had done to her body, Precious
would virtually tolerate any form of maltreatment from her
parents,55 perhaps in the worst case believing that her parents’
cruelty was love.56
“Slut! Nasty ass tramp!” symbolically means more than
disrespect. Coming from Mary, these words revealed how Precious
was required to see herself and others in her world.57 In a prior
52 See MILLER, BANISHED KNOWLEDGE, supra note 10, at 8 (“By the
time of my therapy I had grasped . . . that I had been abused as a child because
my parents had undergone similar experiences in their childhoods . . . .
Because they—like the analysts in my training—were not allowed to feel and
thus understand what had happened to them in the past, they were unable to
recognize the abuse and passed it on to me without a trace of guilty feelings.”).
53 Id. at 21 (arguing that through repression and rationalizations,
children fear blaming their parents for the suffering that parents impose on
them). See SAPPHIRE, supra note 1, at 76 (even where Precious has a desire to
fight back, saying: “I had told myself if she ever come at me like that again I
will stab her to def. But when it happen, when she git up off that couch ‘n
charge toward me like fifty niggers, I ran.”).
54 See, e.g., SAPPHIRE, supra note 1, at 14 (“I’m still grabbing the knife.
I hate my muver sometimes. She is ugly I think sometime.”); id. at 25 (“where
I gonna go to work, how I’m gonna get out HER house? I hate her.”).
55 See MILLER, FOR YOUR OWN GOOD, supra note 17, at 4
(“[Children] have no previous history standing in their way, and their tolerance
for their parents knows no bounds. The love a child has for his or her parents
ensures that their conscious or unconscious acts of mental cruelty will go
undetected.”). Miller goes on to write:
[t]he conviction that parents are always right and that every act
of cruelty, whether conscious or unconscious, is an expression of
their love is so deeply rooted in human beings because it is based
on the process of internalization that takes place during the first
months of life—in other words, during the period preceding
separation from the primary care giver.
Id. at 5.
See MILLER, BANISHED KNOWLEDGE, supra note 10, at 33 (“Love
and cruelty are mutually exclusive.”).
57 See id. at 46 (“In their behavior these children reflect in every detail
the brutality they experienced at home and reveal unmistakably where they
learned their destructive behavior.”).
56
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generation, Mary too had suffered obedience training.
By
“obedience training,” Miller means that parents intend to cure a
child of in-born impulses to be willful, definitive, lie, cry, rage, or
other emotional outbursts.58 Mary would do to Precious what was
done to her: enforce order and authority. To do so effectively,
Mary would begin such training in Precious’ infancy.59 By
permitting Carl to rape Precious, Mary unconsciously sought to
dominant her. Although obedience training does not perforce
include incestuous rape, Mary’s actions conflated them. Moreover,
by viewing her as impure, Mary saw Precious as a sexual competitor,
thus permitting Mary to attack her daughter as she would any home
wrecker.60 “Thank you Miz Claireece Precious Jones for fucking my
husband you nasty little slut!”61 Mary’s words excused Carl’s
assaultive act, denied her role in Carl’s first rape, and unloaded onto
Precious her “ ‘impure’ sexuality by ascribing it to the child through
projection.”62 Thus Mary’s words rejected Precious’ innocence,
making her responsible for her own maltreatment.
By spewing “Slut! Nasty ass tramp!” at her daughter, Mary
also impliedly suggested that Precious had been the sexual
instigator—a precocious child whose silence of her pregnancy
58 See Diane Connors, Alice Miller: For Your Own Good—An Interview,
OMNI PUBLICATIONS INTERNATIONAL (1987), available at http://www.no
spank.net/miller4.htm (last visited July 15, 2012) (“My antipedagogical
position is not directed against a specific type of pedagogy,” Miller notes, “but
against pedagogical ideology in general, which can be found also in the
permissive theories.” She fears that as a consequence of adults’ arrogant
attitudes—including “permissive” attitudes—toward children’s feelings,
children are trained to be accommodating. But their own voices will be
silenced, and their awareness killed. And more blind and arrogant adults will
be the result.). See also PHILIP GREVEN, SPARE THE CHILD: THE RELIGIOUS
ROOTS OF PUNISHMENT AND THE PSYCHOLOGICAL IMPACT OF PHYSICAL
ABUSE 21 (1991) (“Her system of discipline, was begun at a very early age, and
it was her rule, to resist the first, as well as every subsequent exhibition of
temper or disobedience in the child, however young, until its will was brought
into submission to the will of its parents: wisely reflecting, that until a child
will obey his parents, he can never be brought to obey God.”).
59 See generally MILLER, FOR YOUR OWN GOOD, supra note 17, at 391.
60 See SAPPHIRE, supra note 1, at 20 (“Fat cunt bucket slut! Nigger
pig bitch! He done quit me! He done left me ’cause of you.”).
61 Id.
62 MILLER, BANISHED KNOWLEDGE, supra note 10, at 43.
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confessed her impurity.63 However, Precious’ ignorance and
innocence were real. Although she knew about sex and sperm,64
Precious still did not know how a fetus grew within her.65 In Mary’s
eyes, however, Precious became a wicked child, one who sexually
seduced her own father.66 Perhaps, having repressed her anger, and
having revisited her own recriminations, Mary projected guilt, or at
least complicity, onto Precious: “she some kinda freak baby then.”67
Thus, Mary had a socialized “other,” her evil daughter, who she
could appropriately fight, hate, and fault.
After hurling the invective “slut” at her daughter, Mary
could rationalize that Precious, an evil child, lied against good,
63
See JEFFREY MOUSSAIEFF MASSON, THE ASSAULT ON TRUTH:
FREUD’S SUPPRESSION OF THE SEDUCTION THEORY 130-31 (Ballantine Books
ed., 2003) (1984). On this point, Freud writes:
[O]ne was readily inclined to accept as true and aetiologically
significant the statements made by patients in which they
ascribed their symptoms to passive sexual experiences in the first
years of their childhood—to put it bluntly, to seduction. When
this aetiology broke down under the weight of its own
improbability and contradiction in definitely ascertainable
circumstances, the result at first was helpless bewilderment.
Analysis had led back to these infantile sexual traumas by the
right path, and yet they were not true. . . . This reflection was soon
followed by the discovery that these fantasies were intended to
cover up the autoerotic activity of the first years of childhood, to
embellish it and raise it to a higher plane.
SIGMUND FREUD, On the History of the Psychoanalytic Movement (1914), reprinted in
THE STANDARD EDITION OF THE COMPLETE PSYCHOLOGICAL WORKS OF
SIGMUND FREUD, VOL. XIV, at 17-18 (James Strachey ed., 1971) [hereinafter
FREUD, THE STANDARD EDITION]. But according to Masson, Freud misread
Karl Abraham’s point, in which he argued that “certain children are seductive,
desire the seduction, provoke it, and, the tone suggests, deserve it.” MASSON,
supra note 63, at 131.
64 SAPPHIRE, supra note 1, at 22 (“She felt her mother’s hand between
her thighs. She stirred, felt her mother’s strong fingers and thumb gather into
a pinch. She stopped moving and fell back further into the couch as if she was
asleep. She didn’t have to open her eyes, she knew by the smell in the room
her mother’s hand was between her own legs . . . . Her mother’s hand inched
up Precious’ thighs into the wet opening of her vagina. Precious fell for real
now into the sleep she had been faking.”).
65 Id. at 12 (“I didn’t know how long it take, what’s happening inside,
nothing, I didn’t know nothing.”).
66 See MILLER, BANISHED KNOWLEDGE, supra note 10, at 40-42
(discussing the mistaken view that children were wicked and thus implicitly
responsible for the sexual abuse they suffer.)
67 SAPPHIRE, supra note 1, at 136.
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loving parents. Mary needed to see herself as good mother who was
demonized by her lying child.68 She also needed Ms. Weiss, another
adult, to join her delusion. And so Mary later told Ms. Weiss, “My
little Scorpio chile! Scorpio’s crafty. I ain’ saying they lie, jus’ you
cain’t always trust ’em.”69 And although an older Precious knew
that Mary was her tormentor,70 Mary’s invective and her
characterizing Precious as a liar revealed yet another disfiguring
implication of obedience training: first, internalize your parent’s
point of view—you’re lying; second, repress your true feelings; and
third, reject your actual traumatic memories. In short, Mary told
Precious how to understand her pain. Yet, Mary’s hypocrisy
underscored her own repressed trauma. Mary likely had learned not
to fault her caregivers but to blame herself. For example, as he
began to fondle his daughter, Carl’s simple but strong words muted
Mary’s anemic protest: “shut your big ass up! This is good for
her.”71 By linking parental rape to good, Carl unconsciously revealed
a contradiction that was more than likely used by a parental figure or
caregiver to rationalize why she traumatized him when he (and
Mary) was a child.72 Like Carl, Mary then dissociated, which
separates feelings from traumatic pain. And having repressed her
authentic feelings again, Mary could not feel Precious’ pain, and so
68
Id. at 133-34. Mary said:
I’m a good mother. She had everything. I done tole her that.
Pink ’n white baby carriage, little pink bootie socks, dresses;
everything I put on her pink. Precious, she, so smiling and
healthy. A day don’t go by I don’t take her out wheeling in the
air. Even when it’s cold I take her out, to church, to somewhere,
me ’n Carl—my husband, I call him—loves Precious. I loves
him.
Id.
69
Id. at 134.
Id. at 137.
71 Id.
72 See MILLER, BANISHED KNOWLEDGE, supra note 10, at 33 (Parents
“would not stop [traumatizing their children] if they were told, as were their
own parents thirty years earlier, that one slap more or less does no harm,
provided they love the child. Although this phrase contains a contradiction, it
can continue to be handed down because we are used to it. Love and cruelty
are mutually exclusive. No one ever slaps a child out of love but rather
because in similar situations, when one was defenseless, one was slapped and
then compelled to interpret it as a sign of love. This inner confusion prevailed
for thirty or forty years and is passed on to one’s own child.”).
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she cannot protect Precious.73 Rather, Mary easily became
distracted by Carl’s penis, which “almost can go in Precious!”74
With only feelings for herself, Mary wanted Carl to stop, not to
protect her innocent child, but rather so that her child would not
displace her: “He her daddy, but he was my man!” Still hoping that
Ms. Weiss would enable her repressed feelings, Mary declared: “So
you can’t blame all that shit happen to Precious on me.”75
In effect, Mary’s “Nasty ass tramp!” impliedly argues: do
not blame me. Who then should Ms. Weiss blame? Given Mary’s
more than likely traumatic childhood, she had learned to fear
faulting her parents. And those children like Precious who do must
be liars. Moreover, by implication, Mary cannot access her
repressed memories, and she had hoped that obedience training
would shut Precious’ mouth. Yet, if Mary could convince Ms. Weiss
that Precious was precocious and lied, and if Ms. Weiss had agreed
with her, Precious could have set herself back, a violation to her
psychological integrity.76 At the very least, Mary would escape
judgment, and Precious would suffer what disobedient black
children deserve when they defy, lie, disrespect, and dishonor their
good, devoted parents.77
See id. at 30 (“If a mother could feel how she is injuring her child,
she would be able to discover how she was once injured herself and so could
rid herself of her compulsion to repeat the past.”).
74 SAPPHIRE, supra note 1, at 134.
75 Id. at 136.
76 See MASSON, supra note 63, at 133. He writes:
73
To tell someone who has suffered the effects of a childhood
filled with sexual violence that it does not matter whether his
memories are anchored in reality or not is to do further violence
to that person and is bound to have a pernicious effect. A real
memory demands some form of validation from the outside
world—denial of those memories by others can lead to a break
with reality, and a psychosis. The lack of interest in a person’s
store of personal memories does violence to the integrity of that
person.
Id.
77 Cf. MILLER, BANISHED KNOWLEDGE, supra note 10, at 30 (“For
thousands of years, all religious institutions have exhorted the faithful to
respect their parents . . . . But when a person has no reason to respect his
parents, he must, it seems, be coerced into doing so. The dangerous effect of
such coercion is that any criticism of parents is called a sin and results in
strong feelings of guilt. Because religions teach that parents, even if already
dead, must be shielded under any circumstances, they do so at the cost of the
parents’ children.”).
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Regardless, since her infant rape, Precious carried repressed
trauma in her body. She harbored latent hatred for Carl. She
expressed quietly her clear anger and hatred of Mary. Because Mary
never told her the truth, Precious would remain confused, and she
could only access what she had repressed through a dream, which
symbolically revealed but actually hid experiences that she had
suffered in infancy, lest the recalled pain might kill her.78 In one
such dream, Precious relived one of her infant assaults, in which
Mary forced her to perform oral sex. “I am choking between her
legs . . . . She is smelling big woman smell. She say suck it, lick me
Precious.”79 During this dream, Mary sweet talked her just as Carl
did when he would rape her. Raped, choking, and suffocating,
Precious—just like Carl and Mary—dissociated or split off, thus
uncoupling her pain from her repeated rapes. Splitting off is
repression.80 And for a time, despite its consequences, repression
saved Precious.
In the end, Mary’s words, “Slut! Nasty ass tramp!”
attempted to rewrite her brutally exploitative history with Precious.81
Precious must be at fault. Although Mary described Carl as “a high
natured man,”82 Precious caused Carl to rape her. And by taking
her man, Precious breached her mother’s trust. Put simply, Mary
was betrayed by another capable, sexually available (infant)
woman—her own daughter no less—in her house. Ironically, Mary
and Precious perhaps played similar, exploited roles in their
childhoods. Yet, to prevent herself from recalling her sexual
78 ARTHUR JANOV, THE NEW PRIMAL SCREAM: PRIMAL THERAPY 20
YEARS ON 75 (1991) (“It is crucial to understand that nightmares are forms of
defense. Against what? DEATH. Quite literally. For the person in a
nightmare is the same as the person on the verge of reliving his birth or other
early life and death trauma; his vital signs are lethal in an attempt at fleeing and
repressing the pain . . . . Therefore, dreams are defenses against nightmares,
and nightmares are defenses against death.”).
79 SAPPHIRE, supra note 1, at 60 (“That night I dream I am not in me
but am awake listening to myself choking, going a huh a huh A HUH A HUH
A HUH.”).
80 See JANOV, WHY WE GET SICK, supra note 47, at 22 (explaining
that while the maltreated child consciously shifts away from her authentic
feelings and being so that she can please the parent, she acts increasingly
“unreal, that is, not in accord with the reality of [her] own needs and desires.
In a short time the neurotic behavior becomes automatic”).
81 SAPPHIRE, supra note 1, at 36 (“After my baby and me come out of
the hospital my muver take us down to welfare; say I is mother but just a chile
and she taking care of bofe us’es. So really all she did was add my baby to her
budget.”).
82 Id. at 134.
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maltreatment and to identify with, and to properly respect, her
abusive parents, Mary was arguably forced to treat Precious sternly
because she needed obedience training.
Yet, throughout Precious, Mary clearly used her daughter as a
proxy for love, care, warmth, compassion, and sexual satisfaction.
She could have acquired these affections from an adult male partner,
if she had not repressed the trauma of her childhood and could
actually express her latent hatred for her own sexual exploiters. In
this way, Precious is an unfortunate tale of victims who became
tormentors of their own daughter.
II.
THREE EXPLANATORY TALES FOR CHILDHOOD
MALTREATMENT
A. Critical Race Theory: Race Consciousness and the
Violent Destruction of the Black Family
“Crackers is the cause of everything bad.
It why my father ack like he do.
. . . . So he fuck me, fuck me, beat me, have a chile by me.”83
Within CRT, Race Crits adopt a race-consciousness
framework, so that they can understand how white supremacy, law,
and the “subordination of people of color have been created and
maintained.”84 And as part of its antisubordination praxis, Race
Crits wish to alter the “vexing bond between law and racial
power.”85
Thus, they would perforce explain Precious’
maltreatment by looking to slavery and the black family’s
breakdown. They would not blame black mothers by default.86
Accordingly, present effects of past discrimination deny ordinary
83
Id. at 36.
Kimberlé Crenshaw, Introduction, in CRITICAL RACE THEORY: THE
KEY WRITINGS THAT FORMED THE MOVEMENT, at xiii (Kimberlé Crenshaw
et al. eds., 1995).
85 Id.
86 See, e.g., Wing & Wesselman, supra note 11, at 273 (“From slavery
on, Black women have fallen outside of the class labeled ‘ideal mothers’ . . .
Moreover, slave mothers were considered bad mothers and blamed for the
devastating effects of slavery on their children.”). See also DOROTHY ROBERTS,
KILLING THE BLACK BODY: RACE, REPRODUCTION, AND THE MEANING OF
LIBERTY (1997).
84
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people,87 especially blacks, Latinos, and women, formal and
substantive equality.88 Although scholars have rejected a purely
structuralist approach,89 Race Crits advance this premise,90
principally because they wish to hold America liable for laws that
derive from slavery and that impact people of color today. Yet, this
structuralist premise deftly poses blacks as victims and fashions
whites as singularly powerful reality co-creators, who marginalize
blacks, even if they do so unconsciously.91 Broadly speaking, to be
empowered, blacks must critique not just their self-annihilating, self-
87 See Robinson, Human Agency, supra note 16, at 1363 n.9 (defining
“ordinary people” as all “non-elite Asians, blacks, American Indians, Latinos,
whites, and women, including immigrants”).
88 See, e.g., MELVIN L. OLIVER & THOMAS M. SHAPIRO, BLACK
WEALTH, WHITE WEALTH: A NEW PERSPECTIVE ON RACIAL INEQUALITY
(1995) (discussing racial inequality through an analysis of private wealth).
89 See, e.g., Robinson, Human Agency, supra note 16; Reginald Leamon
Robinson, The Way of Sacred Tibetan CRT Kung Fu: Can Race Crits Teach the
Shadow’s Mystical Insight and Help Law Students “Know” White Structural Oppression
in the Heart of the First-Year Curriculum? A Critical Rejoinder to Dorothy Brown, 10
MICH. J. RACE & L. 355 (2005) [hereinafter Robinson, The Way of Sacred Tibetan
CRT Kung Fu]; JAMES MCWHORTER, LOSING THE RACE: SELF-SABOTAGE IN
BLACK AMERICA (2001) (arguing that black Americans prevent themselves for
attaining what appears to be elusive goals by adopting a mindset in which not
their choices but America’s racist history burdens them); JAMES T.
PATTERSON, FREEDOM IS NOT ENOUGH: THE MOYNIHAN REPORT AND
AMERICA’S STRUGGLE OVER BLACK FAMILY LIFE FROM LBJ TO OBAMA 147
(2010) (citing Glen Loury, A New American Dilemma, THE NEW REPUBLIC,
Dec. 1984, at 14, in which the Harvard economist wrote: “The bottom
stratum of the black community has compelling problems which can no longer
be blamed solely on white racism and which force us to confront fundamental
failures in black society.”).
90 See, e.g., Crenshaw, Race, Reform, and Retrenchment, supra note 15, at
1331-87.
91 See generally Robinson, Human Agency, supra note 16 (examining how
Critical Race Theory relies on a framework for analyzing African-American
slaves and blacks as not having sufficient human agency against white
structural oppression); Robinson, The Way of Sacred Tibetan CRT Kung Fu, supra
note 89 (providing a critique against Brown’s Critical Race Theory textbook
because it does not adequately demonstrate how law students can use human
agency to “know” white structural oppression in the first year curriculum); see
also Reginald Leamon Robinson, Poverty, the Underclass, and the Role of Race
Consciousness: A New Age Critique of Black Wealth/White Wealth and American
Apartheid, 34 IND. L. REV. 1377, 1438-43 (2001) (book review) (expressly
arguing against the idea that blacks lack co-creative power for the personal
experiences and social realities in which they participate and/or observe).
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deceptive, and life devaluing practices92 but also the core beliefs of
the socialized other, viz., whites.93
For Race Crits, slavery and Jim Crow show us how whites
impacted blacks, especially because they required blacks to brutalize
their children, who needed to learn plantation etiquette.94 Under
this strict obedience norm, children had to abide adults and elders,
who strictly enforced compliance by violence95 or humiliation.96
See, e.g., Renee Bowman, Children’s Remains Found in Home Freezer,
GRANDPARENTS BLOG-DEDICATED TO AUSTIN AND ISABELLA, http://un
happygrammy-grandparentsblog.blogspot.com/2010/03/adopters-who-abusekill.html (last visited July 15, 2012) (adopting mother murdered two of her
three adopted daughters, and she was later arrested, charged, convicted, and
sentenced to life in prison after her daughter escaped and was found
wandering the streets with lesions on her buttock, open sores, bruises on her
hands and lips; In Re Sean E., 0610977 (Md. 2010) (A mother forced her child
to shoplift, beat him daily in the car after picking him up from school,
threatened to kill him because he ate too slowly, and awoke one night every
half hour to place hot pepper seeds in his eyes and to assault him with one or
two belts, using either the rounded tip or the bucket end). (This case is a
sealed juvenile file.)
93 Cf. Peter Wallsten, For an Arizona Sheriff, Not a Moment of Silence,
WASH. POST, Jan. 10, 2011, at C1, C3 (In explaining why Jared Loughner shot
and wounded twenty people, including Representative Gabrielle Giffords, and
killed a nine-year old girl and a federal judge, Pima County Sheriff Clarence
Dupnik faulted structural factors like mass media, saying “ ‘I’d just like to say
that when you look at unbalanced people, how they are—how they respond to
the vitriol that comes out of certain mouths, about tearing down government,
the anger, the hatred, the bigotry that goes on in this country is getting to be
outrageous.’ ”); Jason Horowitz & Lisa DeMoraes, After Traedy, Toxic Talk in
the Media Cross Hairs, WASH. POST, Jan. 10, 2011, at C1, C3 (In response to the
Loughner shootings, Keith Olbermann “blamed Sarah Palin’s rhetoric, saying
that if she did not ‘repudiate her own part, however tangential, in amplifying
violence and violent imagery in American politics, she must be dismissed from
politics.’ ”).
94 MARIE JENKINS SCHWARTZ, BORN IN BONDAGE: GROWING UP
ENSLAVED IN THE ANTEBELLUM SOUTH 98 (2000) (“Owners recognized the
influence of parents had over [their children] and urged them to subdue
children and turn them into dutiful and submissive servants.”); id. (white
masters required strict obedience to black “mother[s], father[s], other relatives,
and caretakers”); id. at 99 (slaves preferred to physically punish their children
or switching, rather than allow white masters to impose their will or thwart
their parental prerogative, and when “her Alabama master tried to punish Eliza
Evans for sassing him, the young girl ran to her grandmother for protection,
only to be whipped by the older woman. The master left satisfied that Eliza’s
insolence had been suitably punished . . . .”).
95 Id. at 99 (caregivers used physical violence to force children to
participate in “races organized by the overseer at a watermelon feast”).
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Under Jim Crow, blacks conformed to white privilege and power,97
by teaching their children to know their place98 and to yield to
whites.99 Blacks taught children to listen “widout no ears en seein
widout no eyes.”100 From a Race Crit perspective, external,
objective forces compelled blacks to use the expediency of harsh,
brutal punishment so that they could protect their children from the
arbitrary vagaries of slavery and white supremacy. This punishment
corrupted child-rearing discipline into a dark, preemptive violent
abuse.101
In this way, African culture in and of itself cannot explain
the harsh physical punishment that blacks inflicted upon their
children. Thus, black oppression explains why Carl and Mary
maltreated Precious.102 According to Race Crits like Kimberlé
Williams Crenshaw, racial subjugation distorts the mindset of blacks,
causing them to harm their children. Specifically, Crenshaw has
96
C.f. HERBERT GUTMAN, THE BLACK FAMILY IN SLAVERY AND
FREEDOM 201-20 (1964) (presenting accounts discussing kin relationships that
show how parents and elders used respect, emotional control, ridicule, and
harsh discipline to teach young children how to survive the travesties of
slavery and the trials of Jim Crow).
97 See LEON LITWACK, TROUBLE IN MIND: BLACK SOUTHERNERS IN
THE AGE OF JIM CROW 1-7 (1998) (illustrated by allusion to anecdotal story).
98 See id. at 4 (“Son . . . a catfish is a lot like a nigger. As long as he is
in his mudhole he is all right, but when he gits out he is in for a passel of
trouble. You ‘member dat, and you won’t have no trouble wid folks when you
grows up.”).
99 REMEMBERING JIM CROW: AFRICAN AMERICANS TELL ABOUT
LIFE IN THE SEGREGATED SOUTH 7 (William H. Chafe et al. eds., 2008).
100 SCHWARTZ, supra note 94, at 99-100.
101 See, e.g., id. at 101 (“When one little girl in Virginia accidentally
came upon some adults preparing to eat lamb, a food normally unavailable to
slaves, an old man took her ‘out back of the quarter house’ and whipped her
severely, explaining: ‘Now what you see, you don’t see, and what you hear,
you don’t hear.’ ”); id. at 100 (“Adult slaves worried about the tendency of
young children to blurt out information to the white folks that would prove
detrimental to their interest. Penny Thompson told her master of a plot to
help slaves escape from his plantation in Alabama.”); LITWACK, supra note 97,
at 413 (Exasperated, she remarked: “But do you know, Susie never tells us a
thing about her life or her friends, and we couldn’t, if we tried, make her tell
what goes on in the society she belongs to.”).
102 Cf. WILLIAM JULIUS WILSON, MORE THAN JUST RACE: BEING
BLACK AND POOR IN INNER CITY 151-52 (2009) (“[A]ll poor women could
find meaning and purpose in child rearing despite serious financial hardship,
and African American women have, on balance, formed particular views on
family through unique circumstances tied to their experiences with racial
oppression in America.”).
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argued that external, objective forces like racism coerce blacks into
creating their worlds.103 In this way, racial subjugation becomes
hegemonic, which means that the oppressed are complicit in their
oppression.104 Precious came to realize that external, objective
forces explained her suffering, and so she said: “Crackers is the
cause of everything bad.”105
Unfortunately, African child-rearing practices were coercive
and enforced with physical discipline.106 According to Andrew
Billingsley, “Ashanti fathers (unlike mothers) tend to be overly strict
in exacting obedience, deference, and good behavior from their
children.”107 Since slavery, blacks have prepared their children for
the evils they perceived. As in Africa,108 children had to respect and
103
Cf. Crenshaw, Race, Reform, and Retrenchment, supra note 15, at 1357
(“Black people do not create their oppressive worlds moment to moment but
rather are coerced into living in worlds created and maintained by others.
Moreover, the ideological source of this coercion is not liberal legal
consciousness, but racism.”).
104 Id. at 1351 (citing Robert Gordon, “the most effective kind of
domination takes place when both the dominant and dominated classes believe
that the existing order, with perhaps some marginal changes, is satisfactory, or
at least represents the most that anyone can expect, because thing pretty much
have to be the way they are”).
105 SAPPHIRE, supra note 1, at 34.
106 See Meyer Fortes, Kinship and Marriage Among the Ashanti, in
AFRICAN SYSTEMS OF KINSHIP AND MARRIAGE 252, 268 (Alfred Reginald
Radcliffe-Brown & Daryll Forde eds., 9th ed. 1967) (The sons’ “moral and
civic training, in particular, is [the father’s] responsibility and this gives him the
right to punish them if necessary.”); Delores E. Smith & Gail Mosby, Jamaican
Child-Rearing Practices: The Role of Corporal Punishment, 38 ADOLESCENCE 369,
369-81 (2003). Smith and Mosby write:
The etiology of such harsh disciplinary practices in the
Caribbean has been pondered. Although many arguments have
been forwarded, the most pervasive and often cited explanations
point back to heritage, history, tradition, and socialization.
Several authors have expressed the view that the extreme
authoritarian style, along with the excessive discipline meted to
children, stems from the region’s West African heritage
combined with learned behavior, specifically from the brutality
of slavery. These dynamics are bolstered by the religious
sanction of “saving the rod and spoiling the child.”
Id. at 373.
107
ANDREW BILLINGSLEY, BLACK FAMILIES IN WHITE AMERICA 44
(1968) (citing Fortes, supra note 106, at 252-84.
108 See GUTMAN, supra note 96, at 219-20 (1976); BILLINGSLEY, supra
note 107, at 44 (citing Fortes, supra note 106, at 268) (“To insult, abuse, or
assault one’s father is an irreparable wrong, one which is bound to bring ill
luck. While there is no legal obligation on a son or daughter to support a
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defer to adults and elders, which required them to repress their
authentic feelings from blacks and nonslaves.109 During slavery,
blacks practiced “hardening” by bathing infants in cold water or
exposing their limbs to the cold,110 which perhaps contributed to the
high infant mortality.111 Even if slaves used “hardening” to ensure
an infant’s plantation survival,112 infants needed not cold but
warmth, love, food, and shelter.113 Clearly, “hardening” traumatized
an infant’s body. An infant had to learn to repress their authentic
feelings, especially anger and fear at not having her immediate needs
met. As a toddler, youth, or young adult, that infant would exhibit
neurotic tendencies,114 including rigid compliance115 and a close
bond with her tormentors.116
However diluted, altered, or
corrupted by time and context, blacks still embrace obedience
father in his old age, it would be regarded as a shame and an evil if he or she
did not do so.”).
109 GUTMAN, supra note 96, at 219.
110 See SCAHWARTZ, supra note 94, at 43 (“Slaves followed their own
customs in caring for newborns . . . . Dr. Dewees recommended against
deliberate ‘hardening’ of children by bathing them in cold water or exposing
their limbs to cold.”).
111 Id. (“For [Dr. Dewees], the high mortality rate among poor
children, whose parents routinely exposed them to the elements, offered proof
that such a strategy did not work to promote health.”). See generally WILMA A.
DUNAWAY, THE AFRICAN-AMERICAN FAMILY IN SLAVERY AND
EMANCIPATION 114-49 (2003) (discussing the structural interferences with
breastfeeding and other child-rearing needs by slave parents such as the need
for productivity as contributing to higher slave infant mortality rates).
112 SCHWARTZ, supra note 94, at 43 (“Slave mothers, of course, had a
special incentive to ‘harden’ their children. They knew they must prepare their
children to survive the years of hardship and deprivation that awaited them.”).
113 See generally ALICE MILLER, BANISHED KNOWLEDGE, supra note
10 (discussing a child’s basic emotional needs and the impact of the child when
they are traumatized instead of having their caregivers meet those needs).
114 See JANOV, WHY WE GET SICK, supra note 47, at 21 (arguing that
if a child begins to suppress his first feelings, the neurotic process begins, and
then by the by, the child develops dual selves: one real, the other unreal, and
“[t]he unreal self is the cover of those feelings and becomes the façade
required by neurotic parents in order to fulfill needs of their own”).
115 See GUTMAN, supra note 96, at 217-20 (elders were treated with
respect and had children and adults undergo a strict discipline).
116 See generally SIGMUND FREUD, The Aetiology of Hysteria, in THE
FREUD READER 96 (Peter Gay ed., 1989) [hereinafter FREUD, The Aetiology of
Hysteria] (children who suffer trauma forge a life-long bond to their
exploitative and abusive parents).
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training and elder respect, an African child-rearing practice, which in
part explains why Carl and Mary maltreated Precious.117
In this way, Precious is a novel about obedience, about cruelty
as love, about deferring to elders, about knowing your place, and
about not trusting non-slaves.118 To be sure, this “old school”
parenting was a keystone for black survival. Children, innocent and
naïve, had to learn to distrust non-slaves. Unfortunately, despite the
Race Crit perspective that explains black self-annihilation as a
function of white racism, blacks like Carl and Mary continue to
embrace obedience training, not because they need it today, but
because they suffer from emotional blindness and a fealty to violent
parenting, principally to rationalize how they were abused. After all,
we know that abused parents will maltreat their children. In short,
“cruelty as love”119 was, and still is, an integral part of black childrearing practices.
117 See ABRAM KARDINER & LIONEL OVESEY, THE MARK OF
OPPRESSION: EXPLORATIONS IN THE PERSONALITY OF THE AMERICAN
NEGRO 7 (1951) (“These unconscious processes occur in representational
forms that are disguised either through symbolization, condensation, or several
other processes which render them incapable of overt recognition. The grand
purpose of this complex maneuver is to prevent these motivations from
becoming known, because their acknowledged presence would expose the
subject to some danger.”). See also ROLLO MAY, THE DISCOVERY OF BEING:
WRITINGS IN EXISTENTIAL PSYCHOLOGY 26-27 (1983). Arguing against the
idea that neurosis means that a person has failed to adjust, May writes:
An adjustment is exactly what neurosis is; and that is just its trouble. It is
a necessary adjustment by which centeredness can be preserved;
a way of accepting nonbeing in order that some little being may be
preserved. And in most cases it is a boon when this adjustment
breaks down.
Id. (emphasis in original).
118 See GUTMAN, supra note 96, at 219-20 (“Socializing children to
respect all elderly blacks also may have taught then to hide slave feelings and
beliefs from nonslaves. Asked about the attitudes of children toward their
parents, Laura Towne said, ‘I never saw it equaled anywhere—their love and
obedience.’ That was so even though parents ‘were exceedingly severe.’ She
remembered only one instance of ‘anything like indulgence toward children.’
‘I think they . . . will bear pain to any extent,’ said Towne. ‘If a boy cries too
early because he is suffering they will deride him. He must be stoical under
trouble and his parents will not suffer complainings. Children undergo a
regular discipline.’ ”).
119 MILLER, BANISHED KNOWLEDGE, supra note 10, at 31.
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B. Marxism: Alienation Theory and the Violence in the
Black Family
Like CRT, Marx’s alienation theory120 cannot completely
explain why Carl and Mary maltreated Precious. Under this theory,
Marxists first and foremost would appeal to the larger, external
forces of capitalism, and they would argue that these objectifying
forces have come to increasingly dominate the lives of the poor,
women, workers, etc.121 These forces instill workers with poorer
inner lives. Through the political economy of capitalism, workers
became beset by alienated and alienating experiences.122 In short,
workers become “nature’s bondsman.”123
By nature’s bondsman, Marx meant that workers became
slaves, who have very little control over their external worlds, having
been tied to machines and “turn[ed] into machines.”124 They would
suffer privations, live in hovels, bear deformities, live like brutes,
and become mental midgets.125 In effect through the workers’ own
hands, capitalism’s external forces made “for the worker idiocy,
cretinism.”126 In this way, through the ever-increasing domination
of the captains of capitalism, the worker alienated himself from
himself.127
Alienation can lead to self-annihilating acts (e.g., drug
addiction or alcoholism). However, it does not follow that parents,
for example, must injure their children. Although Marx makes it
clear that capitalism as an external force hides the alienation that
120 Karl Marx, Economic and Philosophic Manuscripts of 1844, in THE
MARX-ENGELS READER 66, 71-72 (Robert C. Tucker ed., 2d ed. 1978)
[hereinafter Marx, Economic and Philosophic Manuscripts] (“[T]his realization of
labour appears as loss of reality for the workers; objectification as loss of the object
and object-bondage; appropriation as estrangement, as alienation.”) (emphasis in
original).
121 See Judy Cox, An Introduction to Marx’s Theory of Alienation, 79 INT’L
SOCIALISM 41 (1998).
122 Marx, Economic and Philosophic Manuscripts, supra note 120, at 72-73.
123 Id. at 73. “[T]he more values he creates, the more valueless, the
more unworthy he becomes; the better formed his product, the more
deformed becomes the worker; the more civilized his object, the more
barbarous becomes the worker; the mightier labour becomes, the more
powerless becomes the worker; the more ingenious labour becomes, the duller
becomes the worker and the more he becomes nature’s bondsman.” Id.
124 Id.
125 Id.
126 Id.
127 Marx, Economic and Philosophic Manuscripts, supra note 120, at 73.
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comes from wage worker production, and although he points out
that human hands produce alienation,128 workers unfortunately
might not immediately understand why they have become more like
animals who simply eat, drink, and procreate.129 By becoming more
bestial than human, by having external objects exercising power
over the worker, and by not having structural or institutional ways to
“treat himself as the actual, living species,”130 Marx might argue that
workers become disheartened by their alienating enslavement to
machines. He might argue that workers, once disheartened by other
external forces of capitalist production, become aggressive and
socio-pathic because they have lost any real connection to their
work as a “life-activity, productive life itself.”131 Hence without a
“species being,” or a way to feed their spiritual life through practices
that are in fact “part of human life and human activity,”132 i.e.,
through meaningful work, workers can become mere brutes, capable
of hurting and violating others, including themselves.
In this sense, objective, external or structural forces, some
of which were racism and white structural oppression, can arguably
explain why in Precious, Mary severely maltreated her daughter. At
this juncture, CRT’s historicity of racism and Marx’s alienation
theory conflate. American slavery clearly involved socio-political
and economic forces arrayed against Africans, all designed to
dominate their minds, direct their labor, and control their bodies.
Like European workers, slaves were denied a right to experience
their “species being” through meaningful work.133 Hence upon
entering the Americas and into forced labor, slaves suffered the very
128 Loyd D. Easton, Alienation and History in the Early Marx, 22 PHIL.
& PHENOLOGICAL RES. 193, 195 (1961) (adopting G.W.F. Hegel’s view of
alienation from Phenomenology of Mind, Marx argues that “wealth is ‘the created
result of the labor and action of all’ ”).
129 Marx, Economic and Philosophic Manuscripts, supra note 120, at 74
(“As a result, therefore, man (the worker) no longer feels himself to be freely
active in any but his animal functions—eating, drinking, procreating, or at
most in his dwelling and in dressing-up, etc.; and in his human functions he no
longer feels himself to be anything but an animal.”).
130 Id. at 75.
131 Id.
132 Id.
133 See, e.g., Christine Barrow, Contesting the Rhetoric of ‘Black Family
Breakdown’ from Barbados, 32 J. COMP. FAM. STUD. 419, 419-20 (2001) (“Slave
men and women alike were defined and reconstructed as units of labour to
fulfill the economic demands of what was perhaps the most dehumanising of
capitalist systems ever to have existed.”).
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alienation about which Marx wrote so poignantly.134 But critically
important, as in the case of workers, if slavery robbed blacks of their
“species being,” not all blacks as a result sexually violated their
children. After all, Sigmund Freud became aware that many of his
clients were suffering from neuroses that were caused by sexually
abusive parents, perhaps fathers,135 in well-to-do bourgeois
families.136 We cannot simply attribute child maltreatment to the
stress of economic privation and the mind-numbing experiences of
alienation.137 Yet, if Marx attributed the death of workers’ inner life
to economic exploitation and their lost connection to nature, and if
alienation affects the possessing classes too, it must follow that
structural alienation does not in and of itself contribute to the
134
See generally Marx, Economic and Philosophic Manuscripts, supra note
120, at 66-125.
135 MILLER, BANISHED KNOWLEDGE, supra note 10, at 55. In a letter
to Wilhelm Fliess, Freud wrote: “Unfortunately, my own father was one of
these perverts and is responsible for the hysteria of my brother (all of whose
symptoms are identifications) and those of several younger sisters. The
frequency of this circumstance often makes me wonder.” Id. Miller also
wrote:
Fliess’s son, Robert Fliess, however, later became a psychiatrist
and analyst and published three books containing some very
revealing material on sexual abuse by parents of their own
children. It took Robert Fliess many decades to find out that, at
the age of two, he had been sexually abused by his father and
that this incident coincided with Freud’s renunciation of the
truth . . . . [Robert] was convinced that his father had deterred
Freud from further developing the trauma theory. That theory
would have inevitably caused Wilhelm Fliess guilt feelings, so his
son believes.
Id. at 55-56.
136
See generally FREUD, The Aetiology of Hysteria, supra note 116, at 96111 (Peter Gay ed., 1989) (brilliantly linking hysteria or trauma with the power
of parents to punish and to foist their sexual desires onto children, who were
at the same time weak, dependent, and sexually aroused, all of which led to
repression, symptoms, symbolisms, and the idealization and life-long bonding
of damaged children to exploiting and abusive parents).
137 See, e.g., Barrow, supra note 133, at 426-27 (“The peak in 1990/1
in physical abuse and neglect and the high level in the subsequent year are
officially attributed to the stresses of economic recession, specifically to the
period of stabilisation and structural adjustment in Barbados when parents
were unable to meet basic needs and responded either by taking out their
frustrations on their children or not giving them the necessary care and
attention. The increase since 1994, however, is cause for concern though it is
not yet clear whether this reflects an upward trend in cases of child abuse.”)
(internal citation omitted).
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horrific maltreatment experiences of Precious and of real-world
children. The etiology of Precious’ incestuous rape must lie
elsewhere.
Unfortunately, masters rejected their slaves’ humanity by
denying them what Abram Kardiner and Lionel Ovesey called
incomplete “reciprocity of feelings.”138 By so doing, they destroyed any
natural human emotional interchange between institutionally
powerful whites and weaker blacks. Without such an exchange,
masters could reduce blacks to things, thus treating them little
differently from animals. Furthermore, no true emotional exchange
could take place between master and slave, for if the slave dared to
express his rage, anger, or indignation that affronted the white
master’s presumed position of authority, then the master’s resort
was actual or symbolic violence, i.e., selling him, whipping him, or
killing him.139 Moreover, slaves had no respite from their alienated
conditions within their family, principally because their marriages
and paternity were without legal force on the plantation.140 Even
when masters interfered with the slave family, or forced a pregnant
slave to work, slaves were without any real power to ward off the
master or garner special treatment for a slave with child. In short,
due to the powerful forces arrayed against them, slaves could not
demand that whites treat them as humans who had “species being.”
In Precious, Mary arrayed such power against her daughter.
She virtually reduced her daughter to a slave. After attending “Each
One Teach One,” Precious became aware of her alienating
exploitation. She had been used for beating, cooking, cleaning, and
raping; however, neither Carl nor Mary recognized her inner
being.141 Her parents never loved her as a child, as a daughter, with
her own needs.
138
KARDINER & OVESEY, supra note 117, at 43.
Id. (“The rage or protest of the slave could be ignored or treated
with violence.”).
140 Id. at 44.
141 SAPPHIRE, supra note 1, at 64. Precious states:
139
I go home. I’m so lonely there. I never notice before. I’m so
busy getting beat, cooking, cleaning, pussy and asshole either
hurting or popping . . . . I never feel the loneliness. It such a
small thing compare to your daddy climb on you, your muver
kick you, slave you, feel you up. But now since I been going to
school I feel lonely. Now since I sit in circle I realize all my life,
all my life I been outside of circle. Mama give me orders, Daddy
porno talk me, school never did learn me.
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Precious is an ironic tale of exploitation, alienation, and the
black family. In this tale, rather than captains of industry, Carl and
Mary were the exploiters. Precious served them with her body as a
sexual object, her mind as a devotee of her mother’s needs and
wishes, and her labor as a servant who cooked and satisfied her
mother’s food needs.142
Unlike the usual tale of worker exploitation and alienation,
Mary symbolized a cruel irony. She owned no capital. She
possessed things, but she had become a lumpenproletariat or
underclass, a low-life criminal who raped, exploited, and demeaned
her daughter, all in the name of greater exploitation with welfare
checks.143 Mary wanted Precious to live in her apartment and told
her to lie about where Mongo lived, so that Mary would have
another source of state-based income. Through Precious, Mary
controlled what she never possessed in her own life—real power
over her labor, things, and life.
It’s not so clear that individuals overcome the effects of
alienation by dominating others. Regardless, Marx would argue that
Mary’s nature was determined within the specific material conditions
of the world in which she lived.144 Yet, under Marx’s alienation
theory, society co-created its modern, material conditions through
past actions. A future world in which material privations were
imposed on the bottom segment of society did not have to exist.
Rather, “human beings were shaped by the society they lived in, but
also . . . they could act to change that society.”145 In short, we,
literally all of us, are not only “world determined” but also “world
producing.”146
In Precious, Mary caused her daughter to suffer deep
alienation, and in the worst case, she actually intended to break
Precious so that she would not have any real sense of her inner
power. In Miller’s work, such power is called authentic self or
feelings. Regardless, this power would have given Precious the
Id.
Id. at 22 (Her mother was sleep. She’d be back to clean and “fix
breakfast for her mother.” And then Precious wondered: “Why Mama never
do anything? One time I ax her, when I get up from her knocking me down,
she say, That’s what you here for.”).
143 Id. at 19.
144 Cox, supra note 121, at 2 (“[H]umans [do not] have a fixed nature
which exists independent of the society they live in.”).
145 Id. at 1.
146 Id.
142
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ability to know from the very beginning that her maltreatment
experiences were destructive to her well-being and simply wrong.
She would have done as some children today have done: call 911 or
kill their parents.147 Unfortunately, Precious didn’t ultimately defend
herself. Rather, it was Ms. Rain and Ms. Weiss who helped Precious
find a new way to express herself and to acquire functional work
skills so that she could survive on her own. However, she never
truly gained access to her childhood memories, her history, and thus
her empowerment. One example of Precious’ lack of inner power is
that she still viewed Ms. Weiss with deep suspicion, not realizing
that Mary had taught her to view the socialized other—whites—as
the enemy. Without this sense of inner power, Precious did not
realize that Mary—her mother—was the primarily source of her
personal torment.
C. Alice Miller: Racism, Childhood History, and
Poisonous Pedagogy
“From the very beginning I was physically, psychically,
and sexually abused . . . . Our parents claims to have
learned cruelty from the whites and deny
their own parents’ contribution.”148
Before and since slavery, children have been the objects of
cruelty, humiliation, and violence.149 As such, childhood
147 See generally P. Solomon Banda, Colo. Boy Remains in Custody in
Killing of Parents, ASSOCIATED PRESS, Mar. 4, 2011, http://news.yahoo.com/s/
ap/20110304/ap_on_re_us/us_colorado_family_shot (describing story of
twelve-year-old boy who shot and killed his parents, Charles and Mary Long,
both of whom were active in the local Evangelical Free Church, and two
young siblings); Anastasia Toufexis, Hannah Bloch & Jeanne McDowell, When
Kids Kill Abusive Parents, TIME, Nov. 23, 1992, available at http://www.time.
com/time/magazine/article/0,9171,977079,00.html (Town folks collected
signatures in a petition for “Billie Joe Powell, a 16-year-old girl charged with
fatally shooting her father, who had allegedly abused her. . . . Charles Patrick
Ewing [psychologist and attorney] of the State University of New York at
Buffalo [who explained the unusual sympathy the town had for Billie Joe said]:
‘We take the commandment to ‘honor thy father and thy mother’ very
seriously. The implication is that you’re supposed to honor your parents even
if they abuse you.’ ”).
148 MILLER, BANISHED KNOWLEDGE, supra note 10, at 33.
149 See, e.g., Mason P. Thomas, Jr., Child Abuse and Neglect Part I:
Historical Overview, Legal Matrix, and Social Perspectives, 50 N.C. L. REV. 293, 293
(1972) (“The phenomenon of child abuse and maltreatment is deeply rooted in
our cultural and religious history. It is as old as civilization itself.”).
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maltreatment predates American Negro slavery and Karl Marx,
which cannot be explained simply by race-consciousness oppression
or by capitalism’s alienation. Without overly discounting structural
forces, Miller’s framework actually explores what CRT and Marx’s
alienation theory appear to ignore. Indeed, racism’s historicity
matters, and the collective history of worker exploitation cannot be
overlooked. Yet, Precious’ childhood history, which would shape
her life perhaps forever, was forged in the fire of Carl and Mary’s
dark repression.
In explaining what happened to Precious, this Essay relies
on Miller’s psycho-existential framework.150 In The Body Never Lies,
Miller argues that pedagogical parenting, or moral training, destroys
a child’s vitality, spontaneity, and true feelings.151 If caregivers use
violence, humiliation, and manipulation during infancy, children will
repress memories of such pain and cruelty, leading to self-deception.
They will identify with traumatizing parents, leading to emotional
blindness. Because their bodies never forget, self-deception can lead
to numbness, illness, depression, type II diabetes, hypertension,
violence, crime, jail, broke families, cancer, bad grades, and
obesity.152
Thus, by holding structural forces in abeyance, Precious tells
the story of how the victim became a destroyer.153 Carl and Mary
carried out against their daughter what they had more than likely
suffered as an innocent, impotent children. By innocent, Miller
means that the child “is defenseless and as yet bears no
responsibility for others.”154 By impotent, she means that a child,
perhaps an infant, is literally at the mercy of her caregivers for love,
nurturance, and shelter. At the outset, neither Carl nor Mary
150 Cf. Reginald Leamon Robinson, Trauma, Creativity, and Unconscious
Confessions: The Lost Childhood History Behind L. Frank Baum’s The Wonderful
Wizard of Oz, 20 S. CAL. INTERDIS. L.J. 145 (2010) (relying on Alice Miller’s
psycho-existential framework to reveal what may have motivated Baum to
write the first Oz installment).
151 See generally ALICE MILLER, THE BODY NEVER LIES:
THE
LINGERING EFFECTS OF HURTFUL PARENTING (Andrew Jenkins trans., 2005)
(2004) (analyzing how repressed emotional responses to early humiliations and
unfulfilled needs are transmitted to the body and can produce long-term
illness).
152 See generally id.
153 See generally MILLER, FREE FROM LIES, supra note 37, at 45-89
(arguing that destructive actions against children are the vehicles through
which evil enters our world because those abused children can grow up to
repeat their trauma on other human beings).
154 MILLER, BANISHED KNOWLEDGE, supra note 10, at 46.
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consciously wished to hurt or harm Precious. In talking to Ms.
Weiss, Mary told her now she cared for Precious, taking out in even
in cold weather for fresh air, dressing her in pink, and taking care to
dress her in “little pink bootie socks.”155 Unfortunately, Mary
repressed much of her early pain, lest it would have more than likely
killed her. Accordingly, Miller states: “What can a child do when
she is left so utterly alone with her panic, her impotent fury, her
despair and anguish? The child must not even cry, much less
scream, if she doesn’t want to be killed. The only way she can get
rid of these emotions is to repress them.”156 Miller’s view on
repression applies during slavery, which was observed by Laura
Towne. She described black children who were required to love and
obey their parents, even though they were humiliated, silenced, and
beaten harshly and regularly.157 They too were innocent and
impotent. They had no voice; at least none that mattered.
Complaining subjected them to stinging humiliation. How could
they love?158 How would they care
155
SAPPHIRE, supra note 1, at 134.
MILLER, BANISHED KNOWLEDGE, supra note 10, at 40.
157 See GUTMAN, supra note 96, at 219-20.
158 See, e.g., Reva B. Siegel, “The Rule of Love”: Wife Beating as Prerogative
and Privacy, 105 YALE L.J. 2117, 2134-41 (1996) (illustrating that after slavery,
black men were perhaps generally beating their black female wives, but also
suggesting that prosecutors were motivated to convict them due to racist
concerns that blacks not enjoy the privileges that were normally enjoyed by
white masters); id. at 2139 n.85 (“Between 1889 and 1894, fifty-eight out of
sixty men arrested for wifebeating in Charleston, South Carolina were black.”)
(citing Elizabeth Pleck, Wife Beating in Nineteenth-Century America, 4
VICTIMOLOGY 60, 65 (1979)); id. at 2139-40 n.85 (“debating bill to punish
wife beaters in District of Columbia by flogging at whipping post and
discussing committee report in support of bill that indicated that ‘in the fourth
precinct there were 14 white and 72 colored out of a total of 86 arrests for wife
beating, and in the sixth precinct there were 23 white and 73 colored out of a
total of 96 arrests for this offense’ ”), citing 40 CONG. REC. 2444, 2449 (1906)
(remarks of Rep. Sims); LITWACK, supra note 97, at 349 (recalling her
experiences shortly after emancipation, she stated: “Dat was the meanest
niggah dat ever lived. He would slip up behin’ me when I was wukin’ in the
fiel’ an beat me.”); id. at 350 (“If I had a twenty-dollar bill this mornin for
every time I seed my daddy beat up my mother and beat up my stepmother I
wouldn’t be settin here this morning because I’d have up in the hundreds of
dollars.”); Fulgham v. State, 46 Ala. 143 (1871) (upholding the assault and
battery conviction of an emancipated slave for beating his emancipated wife
after she interrupted him for what she thought was excessive corporal
punishment on their child); Harris v. State, 14 So. 266 (Miss. 1894) (reversing
and remanding conviction for assault with intent to kill of a black based on
insufficient evidence).
156
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for their children, especially given the lack of love they
experienced.159
Unfortunately what Laura Towne observed during slavery
was practiced during Jim Crow. In Genovese’s Roll, Jordan, Roll,
Ralph Ellison observed that to protect black children during Jim
Crow, the
Southern Negro family’s methods . . . is the severe
beating—a homeopathic dose of the violence generated
by black and white relationships . . . . [H]ere the severe
beating is administered by the mother, leaving the child
no parental sanctuary. He must ever embrace violence
along with maternal tenderness, or else reject, in his
helpless way, the mother. . . .160
To this extent, it would appear that repression and
humiliation work indispensably with obedience training. Black
parents then are literally requiring their children to swallow very
powerful emotions, especially those that might suggest sassing or
disrespect. Yet, repression numbs children, creating in the adult
child potentially lethal personal and social consequences. On this
point, Miller writes:
But repression is a perfidious fairy who will supply help
at the moment but will eventually exact a price for this
help. The impotent fury comes to life against when the
girl’s own child is born, and at last the anger can be
discharged—once again at the expense of a defenseless
creature.161
And so out of the maelstrom of abuse, assaults, and
repression, Susan killed her infant daughter. Carl and Mary cocreated a relationship, undergirded by hurt, pain, anger, and
impotence that must have surrounded their sexual abuse as children.
Given that Mary declared that she was a good mother, she, like Carl,
must have deeply repressed their sexual abuse, which directly
impacted Precious’ life. Likewise, given her word to Ms. Weiss,
159 See MILLER, BANISHED KNOWLEDGE, supra note 10, at 40
(“When such a child must consume all her capability and energy for the
required labor of repression; when, in addition, she has never known what it is
to be loved and protected by someone, this child will eventually also be
incapable of protecting herself and organizing her life in a meaningful and
productive manner.”).
160 EUGENE D. GENOVESE, ROLL, JORDAN, ROLL: THE WORLD
THE SLAVES MADE 510 (1974).
161 MILLER, BANISHED KNOWLEDGE, supra note 10, at 40.
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Mary subscribed unconsciously to cruelty as love. Together, they
gave birth not to Precious but to an object onto which they could
vent their impotent fury and discharge their anger. As they had
been when they were children, Precious was impotent, innocent, and
defenseless.
Except at Carl and Mary’s brutal hands, Precious at no time
knew of slavery, exploitation, humiliation, spiritually withering
experiences, humiliation and disrespect. In this way, Precious
differed only slightly from the black children who Laura Towne and
Ralph Ellison described. In short, not slavery by white masters and
overseers or alienating exploitation by an assembly line, but by black
parents’ unconscious need for obedient, near sycophant-like
children can best explain why Carl and Mary brutally maltreated and
sexually exploited Precious.
III.
CONCLUSION
Hence, Miller’s psycho-existentialism critiques the
poisonous pedagogy, and through it, Miler would argue that Carl
and Mary more than likely were both brutally exploited, including
via sexual abuse. They assumed that they could best get love not
through consent but through power. Thus, they could exploit an
innocent, impotent child, and it was precisely these qualities that
made Precious so sexually “gratifying.” In so doing, Mary and Carl
literally and symbolically recreated a living hell for Precious, thus
arguably revealing the withering childhood through which they both
suffered.
Accordingly, we cannot ignore that race consciousness and
capitalist exploitation do not figure persuasively and predominantly
into Precious’ tragic biography. However, long before Precious
knew of racism and worker exploitation, she learned that the world
was cruel, brutal, violating, manipulative, arbitrary, and oppressive.
Unfortunately, she did not learn these things from whites or greedy
Wall Street financiers. Precious garnered these lessons from her
parents, on whom she needed to rely for love and nurturance.
Yet, along the way, Precious needed to construct a
socialized other, viz., “crackers,” so that she could repress who
actually hurt, beat, raped, and hated her. It is clear that Precious
loved and hated Mary. She will point to how she was treated. She
will recall that at “Each One Teach One,” she learned to appreciate
that only at home was she invisible. Unfortunately, her idea of
visibility, acknowledgement, and appreciation was associated with
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white, skinny girls. Her mother and father never saw that she
should be treated like the precious white girl she had internalized.
In the end, Precious almost requires us, the reader, to hope for
Precious that which she simply cannot have unless she can fault not
whites and racism but Carl and Mary for her brutal maltreatment.