CHAPTER 25
SEXUALITY AND EMBODIMENT
Deborah L. Tolman, Christin P. Bowman, and Breanne Fahs
Our bodies are the permeable boundary between our
individual sense of self and the society in which we
live. From the most banal bodily acts of life—how
we dress, the magazines we read, with whom we
sleep—to the big questions of social organization
regarding marriage, family, sexual morality, and sexual health, the body is always involved in some way.
The body is at once our own, something we share
with others, and also something that is important to
and shaped by the social world. Almost everything
about sex is also about the body; sexuality is an
intrinsic part of an embodied self. Although there is
certainly much research that focuses on particular
biological functions of sexual bodily parts and physiological processes associated with, and in some
cases considered to comprise, sexuality, this line of
research is predicated on the body as fundamentally
and exclusively organic and, for the most part, hardwired (see Chapters 7 and 23, this volume). We
begin the introduction to this chapter by articulating
social concepts of “the body” and their relationship
to understandings of and research about sexuality.
Until very recently, the body has been considered
a natural object and therefore the domain of the natural sciences. Conceptualizations of the body as a
production that incorporates the physical and the
social rather than as a biological—given theories of
embodiment—have constituted a burgeoning field
of inquiry, particularly within the disciplines of
sociology, literature, cultural studies, feminist
studies, education, and psychology. In an era in
which forms of sexual interactions, identities, and
representations have proliferated so profoundly,
where evidence and vestiges of sex saturate landscapes from the visual to the virtual, the question of
where and how bodies enter to constitute sexual
feelings, thoughts, and actions is currently a primary
one (Attwood, 2007; Coy & Garner, 2012). Embodiment theories have enabled us to reformulate
research inquiries that are anchored in and about
bodily experiences of the sexual and of sexuality.
Grounded in a set of fundamentally social theories,
embodiment theories and studies depart from much
of sexuality research in that they are also inherently
political, that is, they locate and provide insight into
how bodies and sexuality, as experienced and made
sense of, are not simply natural but exist, are apprehended, and are understood within social structures
of power. These structures imbue bodies and bodily
processes with meanings and significance, both
inside and out. Embodiment epistemologically
locates the sexual body, and the sexual person who
“lives in” any body, in phenomenology, or the ways
in which people apprehend and experience their
sexual bodies.
It is ironic to recognize that the notion of how
actual bodies—material, sexual bodies themselves—
are experienced or come into being or consciousness
has been overlooked frequently in current academic
research on sex and sexuality. The long-established
approach to studying the sexual body, exemplified
in the work of Masters and Johnson’s (1966) study
of the (human) body’s sexual response cycle, has
been understood exclusively in terms of the body as a
The authors acknowledge the contributions of Gary Dowsett and Duane Duncan to the initial formulations of the chapter, and Jennifer Chmielewski
for assistance with references and manuscript preparation.
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biological mechanism, with biological substrates, and
determined by the body’s biology, a closed-system
paradigm in which context did not matter. The study
of biological substrates of many sexual bodily processes has blossomed and provided critical understanding of human sexuality (Lloyd, 2006; see
Chapter 7, this volume), whereas other claims have
been challenged by researchers whose premise is a
social understanding of sexual bodily processes, that
is, the ongoing debates over female sexual dysfunction (FSD; Shifren, Brigitta, Russo, Segretti, &
Johannes, 2008; Tiefer, 2006; see Chapters 8 and 11
this volume) and gender identity (Stryker, 2006). As
the beginnings of postmodernism seeped into sexuality research, the social construction of sexuality provided an alternative way to map and understand
sexuality, including sexual desire, sexual identities,
and sexual relationships (Plante, 2006; Tiefer, 2004),
and it emerged as a prominent paradigm. New ways
of thinking about and conducting research on sex and
sexuality flourished, challenging the idea that sexuality was a natural or innate expression of each individual’s true self, and drawing attention to the ways in
which sexuality as a field of ideas or discourses constituted truths about subjectivities or lived experience
or understanding of various aspects of selves (i.e.,
Gamson, 2000; Seidman, 1996; see Chapter 3, this
volume). These two lines of theory came to clash as
polar opposites through the 1990s (DeLamater &
Hyde, 1998), as the “essentialism–social constructionism” debates, yielding antithetical understandings
of what sexuality was and how it emerged over individual lifetimes and across historical time and human
societies. In the eyes of biological determinism (often
referred to as essentialism), sexuality is an essence, an
objective and unchanging set of biological processes.
In the eyes of social construction, sexuality is not a
fixed essence or inherently determined by biology but
is constituted through social meanings and understandings about what sexuality is, how it is expressed,
and what it means (Tiefer, 2004). The emergence of
embodiment theories has provided one alternative to
the impasse that these debates generated (Tolman &
Diamond, 2001; see Chapter 1, this volume). The
very questions that an embodiment lens poses constitute a useful reframing of the mind–body binary that
has fractured sexuality research: How do we connect
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the body as a material, biological entity to the body
as a social entity or entities? How do we make sense
of the sexual body in the context of, or as an “effect”
(an outcome) of, social life? How do we understand
the individual in relation to the social world via
the body?
As Plummer (2002, 2012) and Dowsett (1996,
2000) have each argued, the actual desiring, heaving, sexual body is hardly anywhere to be found in
sexuality research (see also Schilling, 2003). Ironically, the vast majority of sexuality research does not
have much sex in it; what people actually do, think,
and feel when expressing sexual feelings or use their
bodies in sexual ways, is very rare. Sexuality
research is for the most part more sanitized than the
messiness of actual sex. As scholarship on embodiment has developed, it in fact has been more theoretical than empirical and more textual than
involving actual bodies. The plethora of theoretical
scholarship on embodiment, however, has begun to
make possible a growing body of sexuality research
grounded in or about embodiment that mobilizes
and connects theoretical formulations of embodiment to empirical investigation of sexuality as
embodied experiences and phenomena. This chapter
presents the major embodiment theories and, in particular, how embodiment in relation to sexuality is
theorized in psychology. We then present a critical
review of a wide range of empirical research on sexuality that has utilized these theoretical frameworks
to explore the body, embodiment, sex, and sexuality,
including gendered sexual bodies, the sexual body
and its parts, the sexual body in action, the sexual
body across the life span, sexual-minority sexual
bodies, and the “disobedient” sexual body. Finally,
we consider briefly some implications of this relatively new knowledge for clinical practice and interventions as well as for the future of embodiment and
sexuality and how the accomplishments and shortcomings of what has been done might be leveraged
to expand this new arena of research.
WHAT IS EMBODIMENT?
Embodiment refers to the experience of living in,
perceiving, and experiencing the world from the
very specific location of our bodies. The concept
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of embodiment within psychology and other social
sciences actually refers to two distinct processes or
phenomena: being embodied and embodying the
social. These conceptualizations of embodiment are
by no means incompatible or mutually exclusive; we
can rely on both simultaneously, and thereby paint
a much fuller picture of embodiment as it relates to
sexuality (see, e.g., Crossley, 1996; Rubin, 1984).
Being embodied refers to an experiential awareness
of the feelings and sensations within one’s body,
which reflects our corporeality (Grosz, 1994) or the
reality that we “live in skin” (J. Ward, 2002). This
awareness can be characterized as lived embodiment,
because it refers to the body as we live in it and feel
it (e.g., see Merleau-Ponty, 1962; Young, 1990).
Merleau-Ponty (1962) described the lived body as a
“body-subject,” meaning that the body itself, not
cognition, is capable of genuine experience. That is,
the body is not just a passive sensory-data receptor
that then relies on our consciousness and cognition
to give it meaning, but the body experiences the
world directly because the body is forever entangled
with the world. He referred to this “body which is
better informed than we are” as having a “latent
knowledge” (Merleau-Ponty, 1962, p. 238). Similarly, Young (1984) suggested that it is possible to
“locate consciousness and subjectivity in the body
itself” (p. 161). That is, our bodies themselves experience sensations and awareness, rather than simply
collecting external stimuli and information in service
to a cognitive, meaning-making psyche.
G. Lindemann (1996) deftly wove social influences into an understanding of the material, physical
body, by theorizing distinctions between objectified,
experiencing, and experienced bodies. The objectified
body is the visible, material body that moves through
physical and social space. The experiencing body is
the sensory (or lived or phenomenological) body,
experiencing the environment through the five
senses; this lived body has also been described as
being in a specific sociocultural context or a body in
situation (Young, 1990, p. 16; see also Moi, 2001).
The experienced body is our cognitive sense of our
own bodies, for instance, our understanding of
our own pleasure or pain. The experiencing body,
then, is the kinesthetic, affective, emotional, and
desiring body. For Lindemann, the experiencing and
experienced bodies come together to make up the living body. In applying Lindemann’s account to a social
psychological analysis of sexuality, we can understand the objectified body as the one onto which all
societal presumptions (e.g., requirements of masculinity and femininity) are projected. Sexual desires as
well as sexual pleasures, therefore, can be understood
as experienced within the body itself. This is not to
say that bodily sensations are somehow independent
from the realm of the social. Indeed, bodily sensations are constantly modified, interpreted, and
informed by the social contexts in which these bodies exist. A countervailing conception of embodiment
is the notion of intersubjectivity (or derivatization),
that is, that the body is experienced in relationship to
or with another person. In this context, sexual objectification is not a form of alienation but a form of
personification, such that the sexual bodies of two
people in a sexual encounter can be sexual subjects
and sexual objects, with a mutuality of desire and
being desired simultaneously (Cahill, 2011).
Conversely, embodiment can refer to the ways
our social and historical environments enter into
and become entangled with our bodies. This social
constructionist viewpoint emphasizes the mechanisms by which our bodies come to behave in certain normative fashions; in short, by living day to
day in a society that makes certain demands on our
bodies and psyches, we come to internalize these
norms or discourses and embody them (e.g., see
Bartky, 1990; Foucault, 1978). These norms and
discourses form and inform our bodily feelings,
behaviors, and comportment, and they constitute
the phenomenology of embodiment (Bartky, 1990;
Bordo, 1993, 2000; Young, 1990). Some theorists
have referred to this concept as social inscription, as
the body can be understood as a surface onto or into
which social norms are written by others or by the
self. The key psychological theories of embodiment
are the psychodynamic processes of internalization
and dissociation, understood as providing mechanisms of inscription that are not conscious. These
processes are conceived as relational, that is, the
production or experience of the self in relation to
specific others or in relation to proximate or distal
social contexts (Henriques, Hollway, Urwin, Venn, &
Walkerdine, 1998; Ussher, 1989; Young, 1990).
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Embodiment also can constitute conscious ways that
we might form or “perform” our bodies as part of
the production of identities (Butler, 1994). These
related conceptualizations of embodiment, then,
can be characterized as inscribed embodiment.
It is within these multiple understandings of
embodiment that we review theoretical frameworks
that are used heavily by sexuality researchers and
psychologists primarily working in gender and sexuality. Although there has been a useful proliferation
of embodiment theories (i.e., “visible identities,”
Alcoff, 2005; “bodily imaginaries,” Gatens, 1996;
“cyborg bodies,” Haraway, 1991), the work of Foucault and Butler are the foundational theories in
which these developments are anchored, and our
review reflects this emphasis. We also have highlighted the emerging developments in feminist and
queer theory that have come to play an important
role in research on embodiment and sexuality.
Foucault and Butler: Production of
Embodied Subjects
One of Foucault’s anchor projects was the history of
sexuality (1978) as it connected to the archaeology
of power (1975). Whereas we tend to think of sexuality as a distinct thing that individuals “have,” Foucault’s insights suggest an alternative: that sexuality
is in fact a condition of the time and place in which
we live and reflects the dynamic relationship
between sexual bodies, sexual practice, institutional
power, and knowledge. Foucault’s (1966, 1975)
work thus has been of enormous value in thinking
about how bodies and sexuality are socially constructed. He demonstrated how hegemonic (that is,
dominant) discourses emerged and continued to
both enable and constrain how bodies might be
experienced and lived, explicating the development
of regulations specifically related to the management
of bodies, including fertility, reproductive health,
and sexuality (Foucault, 1969, 1975). All of these
regulations emerged as key areas of personal life that
the state had an interest in regulating. Each of these
concerns produced authoritative discourses related
to personal conduct, against which individuals came
to evaluate and categorize themselves and others in
acts of self-surveillance and self-discipline. Foucault
(1975) demonstrated how institutional or state
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power induced compliance not by force but through
more insidious coercive means: via authoritative discourses that regulate social conduct through the
bodies and subjectivities of individuals. As such,
Foucault’s work opened up a distinctly social
approach to understanding the body and its place in
social relations, all while problematizing or debunking the notion that the body is predetermined, ahistorical, or existing materially outside of culture.
Foucault proposed that a set of ideas or discourses produce and sanction particular practices,
experiences, and identities as normal (or pathological) and acceptable (or abjected, wrong, and thus
“appropriately” marginal). These discourses produce regulation, control, and “surveillance” that
exist, in essence, simultaneously nowhere and
everywhere, difficult to pinpoint but reliably effective in shaping and regulating. By discourse, Foucault meant not only a way of speaking but also an
integrated way of being and knowing that includes
the body, the mind, and relationships. Hegemonic
or dominant discourses exert intangible but forceful
pressure to comply with a set of interlocking norms
or ideologies, communicated through language and
produced, reproduced, and sanctioned through
practices and institutions that both reflect and enact
these discourses (Foucault, 1969). Rather than operating through the direct imposition of power and
force, discourse regulates conduct, thoughts, and
feelings through reliance on socially agreed-on
authorities sanctioned by the state, such as medicine
and the law. In Foucault’s view, power is not a thing
but a relation; power is not simply repressive but
productive. Foucault’s approach to discourse as
social practice provides a way to analyze how bodies
and sexualities reflect and enact the power relations
of the societies in which they can be seen to exist.
This understanding of social organization and
the development and lived experiences of individuals within it is predicated on the dissolution of the
fixed subject, who presumably enters into social
relations as a whole and biologically determined
agent. From Foucault’s perspective, there is no such
fixed subject who precedes his or her meaningful
recognition in discourse; instead, subjectivity must
be constituted by the subject in the course of social
relations. He or she “takes up” subject positions in
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discourse or can be understood to perform subject
positions or to be composed of (potentially changing, multiple, and contradictory) subjectivities.
These generally are not conscious acts. The insidiousness and effectiveness of the operation of discourses, especially those that are hegemonic, is that
they are not visible as such; it is the very self that
abides by, reproduces, and reinforces the state’s regulations and interests. Most important, Foucault
demonstrated the “situated nature of subjectivity”
(Braidotti, 1994, p. 238), that is, that subjectivity is
always constituted in and by specific historical and
social contexts.
Foucault understood that subjects cannot have
access to the body except through discourses about
the body that constrain how we might think about
and understand it. Rather than requiring the repression of sexual instincts, the proliferation of discourses
on the management and regulation of sexuality led
individuals to view themselves as having an innate
sexuality, as an extension of their character or true
nature. Foucault’s primary example is the invention
of homosexuality as a category of identification for
men and women who participate in same-sex sexual
behavior. Before the 1880s, there was no such thing
as a homosexual person, nor before the 1930s was
there such a term as heterosexual.
Although one of the key critiques of Foucault
centers on his silence about gender, many feminist
scholars have used, extended, and elaborated Foucault’s work in important ways, particularly at the
intersection of gender and sexuality. The most significant contribution is Butler’s (1990) work, which
echoed Foucault’s challenge to biological determinism and provided an alternative understanding of
gender as a set of embodied social practices. Butler
(1990) argued that rather than being predestined,
gender and gendered bodies are constituted through
the repeated stylization of highly regulated acts and
practices that, when applied to and through the
body over time, give the appearance of being natural. She explained the way in which the sexed body
is in fact a product of binary gender discourses,
which she denoted as a “process of materialization
which stabilizes over time to produce the effect of
boundary, fixity, and surface we call matter” (Butler,
1993, p. 9). Thus, gender is not something that
people have but something people do, a notion
Butler termed “performativity.” This endless doing
or practice is regulated by conformity through an
alignment of sex, gender, and sexuality that she
termed “the heterosexual matrix” (Butler, 1990,
p. 151). The heterosexual matrix demands and
organizes individual and social behavior such that
compliant productions of femininity by women,
masculinity by men, and heterosexuality by
everyone, constitute “normal” or what Butler
(1993) described as “intelligible”—recognizable or
understandable—embodiment (see also Rich, 1980;
Rubin, 1984).
Feminist scholars have infused Foucault’s understanding of bodies as produced through regulatory
and authoritative discourses with Butler’s notion of
performativity to argue for the fundamental role of
heterosexuality as an institutionalized, regulatory
discourse that functions to produce experiences and
meanings of gendered bodies (Bordo, 2000).
Although Butler’s work has proven foundational to
contemporary embodiment studies, critics have
highlighted that Butler’s articulation of the performativity of embodied practices sometimes leaves
aside the physicality of the body—that is, the ways
in which illness, aging, or pregnancy inform identity
and experience (Turner, 1995; Longhurst, 2001)—
and also fails to consider actual differences between
bodies (Schilling, 2003). For instance, Green (2008)
has theorized that sexual desire should be conceptualized at both the micro and macro levels, ideally
analyzing the somatization of social relations
(embodiment), in addition to identifying structural
predictors of sexual desire.
Feminist Theories of Embodiment
Given the history of the male–female binary which
has constituted women as “more biological, more
corporeal, and more natural than men” (Grosz,
1994, p. 14), feminists have developed alternative
theoretical frameworks that recognize women’s
corporeality without eliding into a naturalized,
reductionistic, essentialized mind–body dualism that
attributes minds to men and bodies to women (see
Chapter 2, this volume). Feminists also have powerfully critiqued the historical association of the body
with a range of “lesser” individuals and statuses,
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including colonized people, people of color, people
with disabilities, and those living in poverty, grounding these critiques in the concept of intersectionality
(Crenshaw, 1991), whereby every corporeal body is
situated within, constructed, and experienced
through interlocking and inseparable standpoints
constituted by specific structural realities and meanings. Embodiment provides a way to understand
social differences emanating from race, class, and
able-bodiedness as embedded in the flesh, situated in
bodies constructed through culturally and historically specific discourses (Spelman, 1990). Postcolonial and transnational scholars have drawn attention
to the ways in which racial discourses intersect with
sexuality discourses to constitute some bodies as
closer to nature (and thus more sexually dangerous
and out of control) than others (i.e., Howe & Rigi,
2009; Magubane, 2001; Minh-Ha, 1989)
Shildrick and Price (1999) observed that embodiment theory enables feminist scholars to recognize
and account for the materiality or physicality of
female bodies (and other marginalized bodies),
while at the same time interrogating our living-inbodies in a social world that informs, forms, and
organizes how bodies are known and recognized.
That is, embodiment theory rejects the mind–body
dualism on which notions of hard-wired sexual difference have been predicated while respecting the
materiality and situatedness of women’s bodies as
they intersect with other structural contexts (see
also de Beauvoir, 1949/2009; Irigaray, 1984). Grosz
(2008) has deepened feminist embodiment theory
by stressing “the virtualities, the potentialities,
within biological existence that enable cultural,
social, and historical forces to work with and transform that existence” (p. 24). An alternative imaginary is a “Mobius strip,” whereby mind and body
are inextricably entangled (Braidotti, 1994; FaustoSterling, 2000; Grosz, 2008) within the specifics of
historical and social moments and institutions.
Feminist theoretical perspectives on embodiment
provide insight into and understanding of how
patriarchy reproduces itself and regenerates oppression in and through bodies. This work has focused
explicitly on gender and sexuality as core “vectors”
for the perpetuation of institutionalized heterosexuality (Bartky, 1990; Bordo, 1993; Butler, 1993).
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Thus, feminist theorists have articulated the specific ways that bodies are under pressure to become
socially inscribed as female–male or feminine–
masculine (Bartky, 1990; Bordo, 1993; Young,
1990). For instance, by regimes of dieting, makeup,
exercise, dress, and cosmetic surgery, women, and
increasingly men, try to sculpt their bodies into
shapes that reflect the dominant societal norms.
Bartky (1990) explicated how women produce feminine embodiment, for instance, by taking norms of
femininity into their bodies (i.e., sitting with our
legs crossed, taking up as little space as possible);
Young (1990) demonstrated how “throwing like a
girl” is an effect of endemic yet subtle bodily training and consequential production of a body through
femininity discourses about what female bodies can
and cannot do. Young (1990) outlined how women
learn to experience menstruation as disgusting and
necessary to hide, and how women learn to apprehend their breasts as objects of (male) desire and
public consumption that require constant management, compelling women to experience their breasts
as alien and separate from their own sense of integrated feeling and experience. Such disciplinary
practices attach not only to the production of appropriately gendered bodies but also to other aspects of
bodily identity subjected to social normalization,
such as race. For instance, hair straightening, bluetinted contact lenses, and surgical reconstruction of
noses and lips exemplify practices that extend the
hegemonic discourse of feminine beauty to “unruly”
black bodies.
Queer Theories of Embodiment
Queer theorists have highlighted the force of institutionalized heterosexuality as heteronormativity,
whereby embodying and participating as “properly”
gendered heterosexual men and women is equated
with normality (Sedgwick, 1990). Importantly,
queer theories deconstruct the heterosexual–
homosexual binary and help illuminate the ways in
which non-normative bodies and sexualities help to
constitute and consolidate heterosexual bodies and
sexual practices as natural, normal, and prior to
culture; non-normative bodies and sexualities also
can instigate transformation of the social norms
that contain and maintain “proper” sexuality and
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acceptable embodiments (Berlant & Warner, 2000;
Butler, 1994). These processes are produced and
induced by making sexual acts and human intimacies that are not circumscribed within heteronormativity invisible or seen only as maligned or
criminalized. Queer theories fuel and explain
embodied practices that defy heteronormativity and
thus make sexuality and bodies that are not contained by its norms into visible, knowable, and
increasingly recognizable ways of being, such as
dressing in drag, participating in gay pride parades,
and engaging in “flaunting” (Berlant & Warner,
2000). These practices and lived experiences were
described as “epistemologies of the closet” by Sedgwick (1990), meaning that knowledge about (and
from) such lives, desires, and experiences was shut
out or shut up rather than pathological or wrong.
Queer theory and research focuses on decentering
and destabilizing socially given or normative standards and identities of sexuality and gender—what
has been called “upending categories”—to reveal
that normalized embodiment is compelled and how
it can be resisted (Halberstam, 1998). Queer theory
emphasizes both the possibility and necessity of
resistance to normative discourses—in particular
through alternative, often previously unnamed,
marginalized or demonized embodied practices. In
fact, such resistance is necessary for the regulatory
system of heteronormativity itself to be made visible and has the effect of showing how it can be
vulnerable to change. By revealing how heteronormativity attempts to regulate and contain bodies
and sexualities that do not comply, queer theory
demonstrates its regulatory function through and
on bodies (Butler, 1993; Moraga & Anzaldúa,
1981).
One way that this theoretical perspective is utilized is by unpacking the lived embodied experiences of those who do not or refuse to embody
gendered and heterosexual bodily norms, such as
fat women (Shaw, 2006), feminine men (Connell,
1995), masculine women (Halberstam, 1998), and
transgender people (Feinberg, 1997) Recent
research on embodiment embeds queer theory
within conventional research techniques to examine
messy and unstable multilayered subjectivities
(Epstein, 1994). Both feminist and queer theorists
have been challenged for “overtextualizing” the
body, that is, for focusing so much on the meanings
that bodies have taken up through discourses that
the corporeality or materiality of the body has been
given short shrift (Braidotti, 1994; Grosz, 2008). As
Connell (1995) noted, “bodies, in their own right as
bodies, do matter” (p. 51).
Scholarship on sexuality and embodiment comes
from an array of disciplines. These embodiment theories have been useful to social science researchers’
investigation of people’s lived experience and understanding of where sexuality and embodiment meet
at the individual, interpersonal, and cultural levels.
Psychologists have contributed to this growing body
of research and have drawn on and often developed
and complicated psychological theories to articulate
research questions about sexuality and bodies that
are distinctly relevant to the discipline. Psychoanalytic concepts have been especially important
mechanisms underlying theorized processes of
embodiment. The next section reviews several key
psychological theories that are important.
PSYCHOLOGICAL THEORIES AND
THE SEXUAL BODY
William James (1890) understood the self, the “I,”
as fundamentally embodied: “the world experienced (otherwise called ‘the field of consciousness’)
comes at all times with our body as its center. . .
[e]verything circles around it, and is felt from its
point of view” (cited in Young, 1990, pp. 89–90).
It could be argued that being embodied—that is,
living, experiencing, sensing in and through one’s
body, and being (in simple terms) connected with
one’s body and through one’s body to oneself and
to others in relational contexts—is an implicit
default state of what might be considered psychologically healthy. Empirical psychology has been
from the mid-1950s until quite recently oriented
toward inquiry into what is broken, wrong, dysfunctional, or unhealthy (Gable & Haidt, 2005), especially in relation to sexuality (Diamond, 2006;
Rutherford, 2012). Thus, psychological theories relating
to embodiment most often have described processes and
states of disembodiment, with an eye toward how to
prevent, cure, or ameliorate disembodiment.
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Disembodiment is understood in psychology as an
effect of dissociation. In the literature on sexual
abuse, for instance, disembodiment has been recognized as the outcome of the psyche’s response to
trauma, the dissociation from knowledge (sensory,
cognitive) that constitutes an ongoing state of disconnection from the felt body experience as well as
from particular memories (Freud, 1900; Herman,
1992; Young, 1990). Embodiment also has been
understood as a key element of identity or a sense
of self, what is known or experienced “as me”
(Young, 1990).
Sexual subjectivity has been articulated in psychology as one’s sense, awareness, or knowledge of
one’s perspectives, feelings, beliefs, and desires as a
sexual being situated in the body; it has been articulated as including sexual body–esteem, entitlement to self-pleasure and pleasure from a partner,
sexual self-efficacy, sexual agency, and reflection
about sexual behavior (Fine, 1988; Hirschman,
Impett, & Schooler, 2006; Horne & ZimmerGembeck, 2005; Phillips, 2000; Tolman, 1994,
2002). Identity theories position sexual subjectivity
as an ongoing process of constructing and experiencing a coherent sexual self through available discourses (e.g., Hammack & Cohler, 2009; Ussher,
1989). The theory of self-objectification provides an
explanation for individuals’ conscious and less conscious monitoring and shaping of their bodies to
comply with conventions of “attractive” and “normal” sexual bodies. This process relies on positing
(for women and gay men) the internalization of a
“male (desiring) gaze,” such that a person turns her
or his own body into an object, observed not only
by others but also by the self. Rather than existing
as a feeling subject, an individual moves a specific
dimension of the social world from the interpersonal to the intraindividual to organize one’s perception of one’s body and bodily experience
(Fredrickson & Roberts, 1997; McKinley & Hyde,
1996). This theory was developed to understand
women’s relationships with their bodies under the
conditions of patriarchy in which their bodies are
the focus, in practices and in discourses, of male
desire and originally was demonstrated as a part of
women’s and not men’s psychological repertoire
(Fredrickson, Roberts, Noll, Quinn, & Twenge,
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1998), although its applicability to men and ethnically diverse populations is being evaluated (e.g.,
Hebl, King, & Lin, 2004; Roberts & Gettman,
2004). Piran (e.g., Piran & Ross, 2005; Piran &
Teall, 2012) has developed and tested the developmental theory of embodiment, which incorporates
both positive or connected risk and “disrupted”
embodiment and is composed of five factors:
embodiment, body journey, physical freedom versus
physical corseting, mental freedom versus mental
corseting, and social power versus social
disempowerment.
Another psychological concept that is salient to
embodiment is agency or choice. A critical and
often-contested dimension of embodiment is the
place of agency and choice in how it is conceptualized. That is, to what extent might conscious processes be involved in what people do or feel or
want in, with, or for their bodies, and in what
ways is embodiment predicated on unconscious
processes? Some feminist theorists have discussed
agency and choice as key sites of contestation
around the body and sexuality (Gill, 2008).
Another area in which the rhetoric of “choice”
appears is in disagreements about Foucault, particularly critiques that his theory lacked the capacity
for an agentic, resistant subject who could articulate and enact counterhegemonic discourses—
discourses that explicitly challenge or refute what
dominant practices or norms determine to be
acceptable, normal, or valued (Alcoff, 1988; for a
critique of this perspective, see also Lacombe,
1996). If bodily experience is constructed by hegemonic discourses, then are individuals doomed to
enact and abide by its regulatory power? The psychological concept of agency is a capacity to recognize and enact choices, that is, “the ability of
human beings to create viable lives even when
they are constrained by social forces” (Eitzen, Baca
Zinn, & Gold, 1999, p. 469). The self-determination
theory model of internalization provides a framework linking the intrapsychic, social, and subjective dimensions of agency and choice:
Individuals may feel autonomous while
meeting social expectations as a result
of internalization, a process by which
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individuals over time increasingly come
to identify with social expectations, so
that subjectively they experience these
constraints in a highly agentic way, that
is, in a way that involves a subjective
sense of autonomy or choice. (Miller,
Das, & Chakravarthy, 2011, p. 46)
Agency can range from conscious resistance to
oppressive forces or cultural constraints to survival
strategies that are neither transformative nor meant
to be. Agency has been conceptualized as “strategies”
of action, ranging from unconscious capitulation
that does not intend resistance to the much more
deliberate and organized resistances people engage
in because they have the agency to do so. Furthermore, agency can be exercised as accommodation to,
or resistance toward, norms and structures that manage, control, and discipline the body (Dillaway,
2011; Komter, 1989). Currently there is much
debate about the place of agency and choice in relation to embodiment (Gill, 2008; Peterson, 2010),
with some scholarship tackling it as a central question related to sexuality and embodiment (Albanesi,
2009). One of the key questions in this debate is how
people’s understanding of their decision making may
be impeded by what appears to be a set of viable
choices that in fact is impoverished (Tolman, 2012).
Gendered Sexual Bodies
In the field of sexuality, femininity traditionally is
understood as a collection of heteronormative
scripts, norms, or ideologies that require women
to suppress their needs and desires (Greene &
Faulkner, 2005; J. Holland, Ramazanoglu, Sharpe,
& Thomson, 2004), to play “gatekeeper” roles for
male desire (Byers, 1995; Gagnon, 1990), and to
remain ignorant about sex in general (Gagnon,
1990; J. Holland et al., 2004). At the same time,
femininity also requires attending to one’s sexual
body, as many scholars have pointed to the increasing pressure on women to “perfect” their genital
appearances via labiaplasty and other cosmetic procedures meant to render women’s genitalia more
“feminine” by making them more “virginal” or
“childlike” (Braun, 2005; Braun & Kitzinger, 2001;
Sanger, 2009; Tiefer, 2008). Furthermore,
femininity requires constant self-surveillance and
self-objectification, as women internalize an observer’s perspective and endeavor to live up to impossible standards of sexual desirability (Fredrickson &
Roberts, 1997; J. Holland et al., 2004). Many feminists, therefore, have argued that traditional femininity ideologies play an alienating role in the lives
of women, estranging them from their bodies and
their sexualities (Bartky, 1990; J. Holland et al.,
2004, Tolman, 2002). Indeed, women who endorse
traditional femininity ideologies report experiencing less sexual agency and less comfort with their
bodies during sex (Curtin, Ward, Merriweather, &
Carruthers, 2011). It follows, then, that when
women are thinking about their bodies during sex
(high levels of body consciousness), they have less
sexual self-esteem (Wiederman, 2000), experience
less sexual pleasure (Sanchez & Kiefer, 2007), have
more difficulty achieving orgasm (Sanchez &
Kiefer, 2007), and have greater sexual anxiety (Wiederman, 2000) and emotional disengagement during
sex (Yamamiya, Cash, & Thompson, 2006). This
distancing of women’s psyches from their bodies
during sexual encounters may make it difficult for
women to negotiate safe and pleasurable sexual
experiences (Curtin et al., 2011).
Just as femininity plays a key role in regulating
the behaviors and attitudes of women within compulsory heterosexuality (Rich, 1980), traditional
masculine ideals prescribe what sexual activities
and desires are acceptable for men (Byers, 1995;
J. Holland, Ramazanoglu, Sharpe, & Thomson, 2003;
J. Holland et al., 2004). Some scholars have even
argued that “heterosexuality is not, as it appears to
be, masculinity-and-femininity in opposition: it is
masculinity” (J. Holland et al., 2004, p. 10). That is,
both women and men alike are held to the standards
of what J. Holland et al. (2004) have described as an
internalized “male-in-the-head,” or a hegemonic,
heterosexual masculine observer that resides within
the minds of all people, submitting us to the
surveillance of a “male gaze” (J. Holland et al., 2004;
Storr, 2000). Within sexuality, traditional ideals of
masculinity both include and demand urgent and
insatiable heterosexual male sexual desire
(Falomir-Pichastor, Manuel, & Mugny, 2009;
Forrest, 2000) as well as an innate knowledge of
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sexuality that requires no additional learning
(Kehily, 2001). Masculinity often constructs male
bodies as dominant (Kehily, 2001; Simpson, 2007)
and penetrative (whereas female or feminine bodies
are receptive; Forrest, 2000). Men’s first experiences
with (hetero)sexual intercourse may make them feel
like they are really “being a man,” and some men
recall very embodied experiences of sexual pleasure
in which “something mysterious happens all over
your body” (Simpson, 2007, p. 177). Hegemonic
masculinity intersects with race and other social
identities as, for example, Black men may be presumed to have better sexual performance (Nyanzi,
Rosenberg-Jallow, Bah & Nyanzi, 2005), thus positioning these men as hypermasculine and, as such,
more ruled by sexual impulses and thus animalistic
and in greater need of social control.
The Sexual Body and Its Parts
Researchers often conceptualize bodies by focusing
on the particular social and cultural messages
directed at particular parts of the body, particularly
breasts, genitals, and other easily sexualized body
parts. Consequently, a sizeable body of research has
emerged that examines the particular anxieties and
challenges associated with different body parts and
with conceptualizations of the exposed body. In general, research on sexualized body parts suggests that
compliance with social norms is expected for numerous regions of the body, whereas deviance from
social norms elicits rejection and social disapproval.
Studies examining nudity often have questioned
the relationship between individuals and their social
contexts, particularly in the public regulation and
personal assessment of the nude female body. Eck
(2003) found that both men and women had readily
accessible cultural scripts about the naked female
body (e.g., overt sexualization and acceptance),
whereas the naked male body elicited more diverse
and less scripted responses (e.g., feelings of guilt,
rejecting the body). This may influence women’s
subjective feelings about their nude bodies, as Weinberg and Williams (2010a) found that women’s positive feelings about nudity were more strongly
associated with sexual behavior and pleasure compared with men and were strongly mitigated
through positive relationships with their partners.
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This suggests that compared with men, women’s
feelings about nudity reference cultural scripts that
imagine female nudity as only and inherently sexual.
Cover (2003) noted that recent slippages have
occurred between sites once considered “nonsexual”
and sites imbued with the “sexual,” particularly
communal showers, places where children bathe,
and public nude beaches, indicating that our cultural panics surrounding nudity have extended into
sites previously considered nonsexual.
In more specific analyses of sexualized body
parts, women’s breasts have received much attention
as a site of embodiment and a locus for cultural anxieties about small versus large breasts. Millsted and
Frith (2003) found that women’s breasts are
invested with social, cultural, and political meanings
that shape women’s understandings of their embodied selves, particularly as they associate self-worth
with the size of their breasts. After interviewing
eight large-breasted women, they concluded that
these women experience a mix of feeling feminine
and attractive while also recognizing their breasts as
appropriated and consumed by others. Echoing
these findings, Young (2005) asserted that breasts
represent sites of conflict that reveal the depth of
patriarchy, as women’s quests toward cosmetic surgery (breast enlargement and postmastectomy procedures) link femininity with the size and shape of
women’s breasts.
Just as breasts have signified the essence of femininity for women, the penis has signified ultimate
masculinity for men. In the comparable way that
small breasts often create anxiety for women, small
penises have elicited subjective feelings of distress
for men. The anxiety is caused, in part, by ambiguity
about what constitutes “small” in a context in which
size is imbued with a fundamental gender “performance.” Del Rosso’s (2011) online ethnography
found that men who self-identified as having small
penises felt more anxiety in face-to-face encounters
with partners than in online encounters, perhaps
suggesting that online sexual exchanges can mediate
the negative impact of feeling that one has a small
penis. Furthermore, as Nugteren et al., (2010) found
in their study of men seeking treatment for small
penises, the majority of men found relief with psychotherapy, although a small percentage required
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surgery to alleviate the stressors caused by perceived
small penis size. Looking more broadly at social and
cultural trends, both pornography and the rise of the
Viagra culture have influenced men’s experiences of
“phallic embodiment,” setting larger (and harder)
standards for “typical” masculinity beyond average
bodies (Loe, 2007; Maddison, 2009; see Volume 2,
Chapter 1, this handbook).
Although both men and women face pressures to
groom body hair in socially scripted ways—often
with women as completely hairless and men as hairy
(or, at most, increasingly “manscaped” (Boroughs,
Cafri, & Thompson, 2005)—research on body hair
has found that women who deviate from social scripts
face more severe social punishments and rejection
than do men (Fahs, 2011a). With approximately 99%
of women reporting that they had removed body hair
at some point in their lives (Toerien, Wilkinson, &
Choi, 2005), women who do not shave their body
hair face internal feelings of disgust and external
appraisals of their bodies as “manly” and unattractive,
suggesting that heterosexist and sexist scripts both
inform assessments of body hair (Fahs, 2011a). Furthermore, women of color who choose to have body
hair face more severe social penalties than White
women, particularly from family members concerned
with “respectability” (Fahs & Delgado, 2011). Aside
from body hair (i.e., underarm, leg, facial), women
have experienced increasing pressures to remove all
or most of their pubic hair (Tricklebank, Braun, &
Clarke, in press), with younger and partnered women
reporting more frequent pubic hair removal than
older and nonpartnered women (Herbenick, Schick,
Reece, Sanders, & Fortenberry, 2010).
Researchers also recently identified a new line of
work examining women’s genital self-image, particularly how women feel about their vulvas and pubic
hair. Roberts and Waters (2004) posited that because
media messages convey women’s fundamental unacceptability in their natural state, women internalize
ideas that they need sanitizing, deodorizing, exfoliating, and denuding (see also Bartky, 1990). These
self-objectifying feelings can translate into women’s
disgust toward their vaginas, menstrual cycles, and
bodily functions. More precisely, researchers have
developed the Female Genital Self-Image scale, finding that more positive genital self-image correlated
with greater likelihood of seeking gynecological
exams, particularly for women who regularly practiced vaginal penetrative intercourse (DeMaria, Hollub, & Herbenick, 2011). Associations between
positive female genital self-image and women’s sexual health and functioning also have been identified
(Herbenick & Reece, 2010; see Chapter 11, this volume), as women with more positive feelings toward
their genitals reported more frequent vibrator use,
masturbation, genital self-examinations, and gynecological visits (Herbenick et al., 2011).
Perhaps because social scripts about the body
remain relatively rigid, particularly for women,
expectations that women will modify, alter, and
conform their bodies to existing cultural standards
have led to a slew of plastic surgeries promoted to
women. In addition to pressures women face to
enlarge their breasts, new surgeries target women’s
genitals, particularly their labia and vaginas. Braun
and Tiefer (2010) outlined how trends toward “disease mongering” have created new ways for women’s self-consciousness to translate into surgical
procedures, including labiaplasties (e.g., removing
“excess” labial tissue in a manner that produces a
more child-like vulva), vaginal “rejuvenation,” and
vaginal tightening. Despite the medical community
finding no medically indicated reason for such surgeries, a new market of genital surgeries has arisen
in the past decade (Braun, 2005). In qualitative
research on women who underwent a labiaplasty,
Bramwell, Morland, and Garden (2007) found that
women’s expectations for how a labiaplasty would
improve their sex lives did not translate into reality.
Many feminists caution that plastic surgeries can
instigate urgent and endless renovations of the self
(M. Jones, 2008), with debates emerging about the
efficacy and agency of women who undergo elective
plastic surgery. Pitts (1999) has argued that when
mental health discourses dominate discussions
about body modification, alternative accounts of
female embodiment become obscured by discussions of the “normal” and “pathological” body.
Schover et al. (1995) studied women who had cancer and underwent partial mastectomies and mammoplasties and found that fewer than 20% of women
reported poor psychosocial adjustment, poor body
image, or poor sexual functioning, although women
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who had elected chemotherapy treatments reported
poorer sexual functioning and body image (see
Chapter 21, this volume). Adding to these debates,
Gagné and McGaughey (2002) noted that women
who underwent elective mammoplasty (i.e., not
postcancer reconstruction) felt greater power and
control over their bodies even while embodying
hegemonic ideals of feminine beauty. They argued
that cosmetic surgery can empower individual
women while also reinforcing ideals and norms that
oppress women as a group.
The Sexual Body in Action
Commonly heard phrases like “sexual performance”
and “sexual satisfaction” have roots in pathologizing
sexuality and sexual bodies (Irvine, 1990) as well as
in empirical work on these same topics, as scholars
have examined the sexual body in action. Evaluating
the meaning of sexual desire, sexual satisfaction,
orgasm, sexual performances, and technologies
exerted on (or embraced by) the sexual body have all
constituted emerging areas of research in recent years.
Sexual desire constitutes one of the most complex and difficult topics to assess, explore, theorize,
and make claims about. As issues of safety, consent,
pleasure, commitment, taboo, and cultural scripts
about the “erotic” (broadly defined) fuse, research
on sexual desire provides a window into the complexity of psychological research on embodiment.
As a more concrete examination of desire, research
has directed much recent attention to the desires
and practices of young women. Sieg (2007) noted
that although young women’s sexualities more
recently often are portrayed as liberating and
empowered, young women’s qualitative accounts of
their experiences reveal discrepancies between their
relational desires and relational realities in that they
compromised their own needs and desires within
their heterosexual relationships. Similarly, Backstrom, Armstrong, and Puentes (2012) interviewed
43 college women about their experiences with cunnilingus and found that women in relationships
could expect and ask for cunnilingus, whereas
women merely “hooking up” often could not unless
they asserted these desires clearly. Furthermore,
women in relationships alternatively found both
pleasure and difficulty with cunnilingus, particularly
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related to their partner’s feelings about it and the
social scripts they had internalized about receiving
oral sex (Bay-Cheng & Fava, 2011; see also Burns,
Futch, & Tolman, 2011)
Similar controversies surrounding the meaning
of sexual satisfaction and orgasm have also appeared
in recent literatures on embodiment. Deciding how
to measure sexual satisfaction, along with considerations about how satisfaction may interact with
social identities and social justice concerns, has been
taken up in McClelland’s (2010) call for better
understandings of social and sexual stigmas as antecedents to sexual satisfaction ratings. Fahs and
Swank (2011) found sexual satisfaction and sexual
activity as often misaligned. In particular, younger
women, women of color, less educated women, and
lower socioeconomic status women describe having
low sexual satisfaction and high sexual activity.
Social identity variables also appeared as significant
in a recent study by Seal, Smith, Coley, Perry, and
Gamez (2008), who found that age differentials
between partners and the presence of a Black male
partner predicted more traditional interpersonal
scripts about sexuality.
Research on orgasm also has revealed much
about the way men and women internalize scripts
about sexual normality and “acceptable” desires.
Fahs (2011b) found that women faked orgasm for
a number of reasons, primarily to please their
(male) partners, to end the encounter (often
because of fatigue), and to seem sexually normal.
Jackson and Scott (2007) theorized the gendered
dimensions of women faking orgasm and noted
that the production of fake orgasms signifies the
quintessential problems of conceptualizing
embodiment too broadly: namely, broad sociological views on embodiment neglect the more concrete modes in which material gendered bodies
behave in everyday life. Theoretical accounts of
orgasm have given new and fruitful direction to the
study of the sexual body in action. Performance
artist Frueh (2003) explored orgasm as an artistic
expression, whereas Jagose (2010) asserted that the
fake orgasm reveals the counterfeit nature of heterosexual sex by showing the pleasures inherent in
a queer deconstruction of heterosexual penetrative
intercourse.
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Along these lines, embodiment researchers have
examined, theoretically and empirically, the notion
of performances of the sexual body. Although the
concept of “sexual performance” has a long history
in sexuality research and therapy (i.e., Kaplan,
1974), the performance of the sexual body in action
refers to productions and enactments of certain
forms of embodiment rather than achievement by
specific body parts. The ways people consume sexuality and perform sexuality has cast a wide net, capturing research not only on body norms but also
sexual desire, practices, and feelings. As Weber
(1998) argued, sexual performances can expand
widely (e.g., the nation state) or remain incredibly
detailed and small (e.g., the individual orgasm). In
particular, embodiment researchers have captured
the ways women manage others’ anxieties about
their bodies by performing their own bodies within
certain socially prescribed limits. Fahs (2011a)
argued that much of contemporary women’s sexuality reflects the simultaneously liberating and disempowering aspects of sexual performance, particularly
when women fake orgasms, pretend bisexuality at
parties in front of men, discuss female Viagra, and
minimize sexual coercion and violence as “okay” or
“not really rape.” Women learn to manage their
identities and “do gender” (West & Zimmerman,
1987) in particular ways that conform to, and rebel
against, cultural and social expectations. Berkowitz
(2006) found that women and men manage their
self-presentation and negotiate gender performances
even in adult novelty stores, where people both
enact and resist hegemonic masculinity, femininity,
and compulsory heterosexuality.
Ultimately, questions have arisen about the benefits and problems of adhering to traditional performances of gender and sexuality, particularly for the
embodied self. In a review of the empirical literature,
Sanchez, Fetterolf, and Rudman (2012) found that
traditional gender role adherence had negative consequences for women’s sexuality and led to more
sexual problems and less sexual satisfaction. When
women internalized traditional connections between
sexuality and male power, and when men enacted
such connections, both men and women experienced less rewarding and authentic sexual expressions (see Chapter 2, this volume). To address other
performances of male sexuality, Jewkes and Morrell
(2010) found that enacting black African manhood
that emphasized toughness, strength, and prodigious
sexual success was associated with more sexual risktaking, as men resisted condoms and HIV treatment,
whereas women who espoused this perspective were
more tolerant of infidelity and violence. In a more
subversive example, Shapiro’s (2007) study of drag
kings found that intentional transgressive performances of gender encouraged interrogation, play,
and adoption of new social roles, as gender performances formed the basis for “oppositional communities” of differently embodied selves.
Sexual performances are beholden to their particular social and political contexts, particularly as women
adopt new ways to attract the sexually endorsing male
gaze. An increasing number of studies have interrogated the phenomenon of women engaging in
same-sex eroticism for the viewing benefit of men
(Diamond, 2005). Just as Fahs (2009) theorized this
“performative bisexuality” as a potentially new manifestation of compulsory heterosexuality, Hamilton
(2007) also found that college women affiliated with
the Greek party scene catered to male sexual desire
by performing interest in same-sex eroticism and by
rejecting lesbians because of their assumed disinterest in garnering men’s sexual attention. Yost and
McCarthy (2012) found that 33% of college women
had engaged in same-sex kissing at college parties,
while 69% of college men and women had observed
this behavior. High levels of alcohol consumption,
pressure to engage in same-sex kissing, heterosexist
attitudes, and the belief that college is a time for
experimentation predicted greater likelihood of
women engaging in public same-sex eroticism at
college parties (see Chapter 20, this volume).
As a more literal example of the performing sexual body, sexualized dancing also has appeared in
the contemporary literatures on women’s embodiment. Regehr (2012) has theorized the increasing
popularity of recreational burlesque dancing as
enhancing women’s feelings of empowerment and
self-efficacy even while connecting to a history of
women offering their bodies for men’s visual consumption (e.g., pornography and strip clubs). In an
interview study of young women contestants on a
burlesque reality television show in which they
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spent 6 weeks learning techniques to perform,
Regehr found that some of the women shifted from
an exclusive focus on looking at their bodies to
beginning to feel more sexy or sexy once again
through engagement in a sexualized practice that
was new to them. She found that by the final performance, these women were more focused on their
own embodied experiences, with an imagined viewership that was present but also receded as their
own practice had developed. Looking at sexualized
dancing at college parties, Ronen (2010) described
this dancing in less liberating terms, finding that
men initiated sexual “grinding” more often than
women and thus reproduced systematic gender
inequalities by limiting women’s access to agency
and pleasure because of men’s control of, and intrusion into, women’s space. In this dancing, women
had to privilege men’s pleasures over their own
while confirming men’s higher status. Similar arguments could be made for the appropriation of stripping into “strip aerobics,” as it packages “women’s
empowerment” within the guise of something that
reveals the “everyday” aspects of sexual exploitation
(Whitehead & Kurz, 2009).
Performances of sexuality also can extend into
the realm of reproductive technology, as ideas about
gender and power infuse medical understandings of
the body and its processes. Embodiment scholars
have found clear connections among gender,
embodiment, and reproductive control. Carpenter
and Casper (2009) examined public debates about
the human papillomavirus (HPV) vaccine, known
to prevent many cervical cancers, and found that
attempts to mandate HPV vaccination have activated
intense concerns about adolescent girls’ “promiscuity,” whereas discourses surrounding the promotion
of male circumcision to prevent HIV have not triggered similar anxieties around boys’ sexuality. Such
technologies also can become a mechanism to reproduce meanings of gender and sexuality as they interact with age and race. Along these lines, Lowe
(2005) found that although women can access contraceptive technologies and assert bodily autonomy
by controlling their reproduction, this conflicts with
dynamics present in heterosexual couplings that
demand attention to, and concern with, men’s preferences and needs, sometimes at women’s expense.
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Angulo-Olaiz (2009) found that Latina women
struggled with prioritizing sexual health because of
gendered perceptions of love and motherhood,
associations between commitment and sexual risktaking, and unequal access to economic opportunities.
In discussions of sexual safety and condom use,
women as the carriers of disease have appeared
frequently, particularly in discussions of the HPV
vaccine (Carpenter & Casper, 2009). Analyzing
research findings on safer heterosexual practices,
Vitellone (2002) found that heterosexual masculine
self-identity, rather than avoidance of disease or
risk, plays a key role in the creation of discourse
surrounding condoms.
Technologies of sexual embodiment can be
understood as medical or technological efforts to
create particular kinds of desires, appearances, or
sexual norms as enacted onto the embodied female
self. As a quintessential example, the rise of Viagra
(Loe, 2006) and experimentation with female Viagra
and sexual performance drugs (e.g., flibanerin, sildenafil; Fahs, 2011a) exemplify the medicalization of
sexual performance. Feminists, particularly Tiefer
(2004), have devoted significant critical attention to
the widespread advertisement and dispersion of
Viagra, noting that it prescribes not only medicalized erections but also incites desire for “overperformance,” while ignoring the sociocultural bases of
sexual desire and performance. Demonstrating the
necessity of seeing Viagra as socially situated,
Castro-Vásquez (2006) posited that the introduction
of Viagra in Japan coincided with anxieties about
pollution, men’s unwillingness to perform their
“appropriate” gender roles, decreased adherence to
marriage norms, and declining birth rates. A similar
study of New Zealand men conducted by Grace,
Potts, Gavey, and Vares (2006) found that Viagra
connects with men seeing their partner’s pleasure as
a measure of success and their own sexuality as
based in performance. Conversely, Loe (2004)
found that women in the United States did not view
Viagra as universally positive, as some aging women
were becoming less interested in sex at the same
time as their longtime partners were now having
pharmaceutically induced erections.
Lifestyle drugs that refashion the body according
to socially acceptable or socially demanded criteria
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carry with them the need for caution and concern by
those who advocate social views of sexuality. Marshall (2006) cautioned that Viagra represents not
only the medicalization of sexuality but also the
expansion of consumer culture and the manufactured notion of the “sexual expert” who decides
what “normal” sexual functioning looks like, thus
normalizing and defining dysfunction according to
pharmaceutical priorities. Mamo and Fishman
(2001) argued that Viagra, much like antidepressants, performs ideological work and reinforces traditional notions of hegemonic masculinity (e.g.,
erection as “manly”). Marshall (2006) noted that
Viagra has created new standards for male virility by
distorting the naturally occurring declines in virility
that coincide with age. Nuancing this claim, Wentzell (2011) studied Mexican men from different generations and noted that younger men expressed
more interest in Viagra than older men, although
these younger men wanted to use it to sustain positive marital sexual attachments rather than in the
service of machismo. Still, opportunities for resistance to these medically reinforced social scripts
abound, as some have found ways to subvert the
intended uses of Viagra in meaningful ways. Holt
(2009) found that medical understandings of Viagra
as a drug guaranteed to produce erectile performance compared with gay men’s recreational use of
Viagra produces questions about the public health
and social understandings of safe sex and “good” sex
within different subcultures of men. Potts (2004)
theorized that although Viagra has created new definitions of “normal” sexuality, its inconsistent ability
to induce consistent erections and the failure of
female Viagra underscore the necessity for experimentation, creativity, and transformation in the
erotic realm.
As a note on the future of the performing sexual
body, the development of, and failure to gain U.S.
Food and Drug Administration (FDA) approval for,
female sexual desire disorder drugs have illuminated
additional gendered debates about the medicalization of sexuality. More than a decade has passed
since the FDA approved Viagra for men in 1998, and
a successful female counterpart has yet to be produced (Hartley, 2006; Tiefer, 2006), suggesting that
sexual dysfunction among men and women may
differ more than had been previously assumed
(McHugh, 2006; Tiefer, 2006; see also Chapters 7
and 8, this volume). The New View campaign, a
group of feminist researchers, activists, and therapists who work on female sexuality, has articulated
a critical stance toward the medicalization of women’s sexual problems (Cacchioni, 2007; Tiefer, 2001,
2010). The campaign has fought against the increasingly automatic and first response to women’s concerns with their sexual bodies to be medicalizing
women’s desires, orgasms, or physiological functioning. The campaign claims that such medicalization of women’s bodies obfuscates and suppresses
more complex understandings of women’s sexual
functioning. Hartley (2006) reported that for drug
companies to effectively create a market for FSD
drugs, they had to problematize or “disease” the
vicissitudes of women’s sexuality while also promoting off-label uses of men’s Viagra to women. Consequently, drug companies have promoted FSD as
increasingly widespread and have worked to infuse
mainstream media with ideas about the “failing”
female sexual body (Hartley & Tiefer, 2003). Recognizing that what constitutes “normal” sexual functioning for women is complex and ambiguous at
best (see Chapter 8, this volume), an embodied
analysis of the social underpinnings of the market
for drugs demonstrates how discourses about sexual
bodies can be leveraged into bodily experience, individual and social practices, and social policy.
THE SEXUAL BODY ACROSS THE LIFE
SPAN
As sexuality develops across the life span, so does
the sexual body itself. Corporeal changes in physiology and hormones are infused with social meanings.
Social meanings and corporeality shift inextricably
over the course of a life. Embodiment itself is both
continuous, as embodied processes are always
already infused in the development of sexuality, and
dynamic in form and experience.
Childhood
Studies of childhood sexuality are generally few and
far between (Sandfort & Rademakers, 2000; see
Chapter 14, this volume), and they tend to focus
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almost exclusively on sexual abuse (Bancroft, 2003;
Ryan, 2000). Other weaknesses of this literature
include an overreliance on retrospective accounts
(Graham, 2003) and an overemphasis on charting
and tabulating the specific behaviors in which children engage (Friedrich, 2003). Although some studies have begun to focus on children’s sexual identities
and sexual cultures, and in particular have explored
how heteronormativity organizes these aspects of
sexuality as early as the childhood years (Renold,
2005), inquiry into embodied dimensions of childhood sexuality remains scarce. Because the notion of
childhood sexuality poses a profound threat to hegemonic notions of childhood as a time of innocence,
children are denied knowledge about sexuality and
any form of sexual citizenship (Angelides, 2004;
Renold, 2005; Robinson, 2012). The prohibition on
knowledge of childhood sexuality extends to children’s apprehension of their own bodily feelings
(Lamb, 2001; Sandfort & Rademakers, 2000). We
know little about whether children’s embodied feelings, experiences of arousal, and genital sensations
can even be considered sexual (Ryan, 2000), and
what expected development of these bodily sensations and experiences entails (Lamb & Coakley,
1993). Western societies generally relegate children’s
sexual feelings to a liminal developmental state called
“emerging sexuality” (Renold, 2005, p. 37), which
prepares the child for adult sexuality but is itself
inherently incomplete. There is disagreement about
whether children’s sexual play is actually sexual or
just another form of play (Renold, 2005; Robinson,
2012) or evidence of sexual abuse (Hyde, 2003). We
also do not understand the degree to which children’s
developing cognitive capacities shape their capacity
for making meaning of pleasurable feelings in the
body as sexual (Robinson, 2012). In the few studies
that have incorporated questions about children’s
bodily experiences of sexuality, it remains difficult to
resolve these questions. Some studies have traced
how girls transition from child to adolescent in middle school, by repositioning these subjectivities
through embodied activities, such as from “innocent
play” to the “heterosexualization of boy-girl friendships” (Renold, 2006, p. 495), in which girls begin to
experience and engage with boys as potential boyfriends rather than playmates (see also Hauge, 2009).
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In one study of young children’s body awareness
and physical intimacy (Rademakers, Laan, &
Straver, 2003), researchers interviewed 31 children
8 to 9 years old and their parents, about romping,
cuddling, and being in love. Most children enjoyed
cuddling because of the bodily sensations or feeling
of safety they felt, and many more of the children
than their parents said that children need cuddling;
more than half said they had been in love, said it
was positive, “nice,” “fun,” and a “tickling sensation” (Rademakers et al., 2003, p. 124). When
shown a naked same-sexed body, all children were
able to identify what were “pleasant” parts for them,
with fewer indicating “exciting”; even fewer indicated that genitals, bottom, or anus were either
“exciting” or “pleasant” parts of their own bodies.
No gender differences were identified. Although
there is evidence that both boys and girls masturbate
in childhood (Strachan & Staples, 2012), there is
little inquiry into what these experiences feel like for
them, in either prospective or retrospective reports.
Herdt and McClintock (2000) have argued for a
“magical age of 10,” when awareness of sexual feelings and attractions as distinctly sexual—and the
emergence of unequivocally sexual subjectivity—is
associated with an interplay between adrenarche
(maturational increase in adrenal androgen production) and changing cultural meanings and roles. In
their formulation, these braided developments mark
the prepubertal shift from childhood to adolescent
sexuality. Although their theory is anchored in an
overview of cross-cultural studies, no systematic or
empirical work has confirmed this model, specifically the critical role that they posit for adrenal
androgens in this transition.
Adolescence
The body offers and has been imbued with meanings
associated with the emergence of adult sexuality
over the course of adolescence. One key and
increasingly troubled bodily focus has been the loss
of virginity, typically defined, and instantly problematized, as the first experience of sexual intercourse.
Even the term “loss” has been challenged as
positioning this experience as both passive and
commodified. The emergence of “secondary virginity”
is an exquisite case in point, a reclamation discourse
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arising out of the abstinence-only movement
whereby both girls and boys who have had sexual
intercourse could proclaim the status of virginity
contingent on their desire and commitment to not
having sex overriding their bodily history
(Loewenson, Ireland, & Resnick, 2004).
Most of the literature on embodied adolescent
sexuality has focused on girls’ experiences, primarily because this literature rests on cultural assumptions that adolescent boys’ sexual experiences are
predicated on bodily (and unbridled) sexual desire
and the complementary assumption of girls either
not having or not acting on their own sexual feelings (Fine, 1988; J. Holland & Thomson, 2010; Tolman, 2006). These discursive studies are organized
by questions of how young people “take up” subject
positions, identified by how they describe their
experiences, that is, what discourses they use to
make sense of their sexual and relational experiences. Other studies within this conceptual context
address how young people experience, make meaning of, and negotiate their sexual desires and other
dimensions of sexual experiences. This research situates girls’ and boys’ embodied practices within the
theoretical framework of heteronormativity, investigating how constructions of femininity and masculinity underpin and shape their individual bodily
experiences (e.g., Epstein, Calzo, Smiler, & Ward,
2009; Impett, Henson, Breines, Schooler, & Tolman, 2011). Another set of questions is how adolescents constitute, are constituted by, and also resist
heteronormativity in and via their bodies in their
(primarily heterosexual) relationships (Hauge,
2009; Maxwell & Aggleton, 2010; Renold &
Ringrose, 2011).
In particular, this line of research has investigated how feminine heterosexual practices embody
the power relations through which masculinity
and femininity are constructed (Burns et al., 2011;
J. Holland, Ramazanoglu, Sharpe, & Thomson,
1994; J. Holland et al. 2004; Martin, 1996; Pascoe,
2007; Tolman, 2002). J. Holland et al. (1994) found
that for most of the 150 diverse young women in
their narrative study, who for the most part provided disembodied accounts of sexual experience,
they heard “points of tension where physical bodies
interrupt idealized relationships” (p. 23). The
disembodiment required and produced by enacting
practices of proper femininity, regimes of dress and
diet, and subsequent alienation from their material
or sensate bodies yielded pressure on girls to be passive objects of others’ sexual desire (J. Holland &
Ramazanoglu, 1994).
They found that girls’ concern about their reputations and having to contend with both the specter
and experience of sexual coercion and violence (see
also Burns et al., 2011; Tolman, 1994, 2002) produced at best struggles with their sexual feelings and
responses. For some, “normal sex” did not include a
girl’s sexual pleasure but did require faking orgasm;
one girl expressed her surprise at having a real
orgasm, when she had understood faking as part of
“normal sex.” These authors’ notion of “the male in
the head,” those heteronormative demands of a set
of sexual practices predicated on patriarchal surveillance and organization of sexuality around male sexual needs, dominated the accounts they heard. J.
Holland et al. (2004) did hear of girls’ resistance to
embodied femininity in the realm of sexual practices
in this research. More often, “experiential empowerment,” that is, enacted within and through the body,
was overridden by “intellectual empowerment,” in
which girls’ belief in their ability to choose sexual
agency was difficult to play out. Enactments of
“good” and “bad” girl performances, through sexualized clothing to explicit sexual agency, have been
found to fluctuate between stark and ambiguous,
with girls balancing the benefits and costs of these
mutually reinforcing embodiments and also maintaining ambiguity about meanings (Gleeson & Frith,
2004; Hauge, 2009). Interviews with young men
have revealed the tensions between the variability in
their actual bodily sexual feelings and the flat yet
powerful message of being “up for it” all the time
(J. Holland & Thomson, 2010). These researchers
noted the difficulty of discerning embodied sexual
experience through talk, given the limited language
for, and social condemnation and even titillation of,
talking explicitly about sex and sexual activity. In a
recent reflection on the continuity and changes in
young people’s sexual experiences, J. Holland and
Thomson (2010) found that although the cultural
milieu is far more sexualized than it was a decade
ago, with pornography being part of the mainstream,
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sexual diversity being visible, and information about
condoms and contraception being more available,
for young people, negotiating heterosexuality
remains “fragile and uncertain” (p. 348).
The array of discourses about the bodies and sexualities of girls, and to some extent, boys, of diverse
ethnicities and socioeconomic statuses has been
explicated in this area of research (French, 2012).
Tolman (2002; Tolman & Szalacha, 1999) found
continuities and distinctions in the desire narratives
of girls in urban and suburban contexts in which
(urban) Black and Latina girls’ negotiation of
assumed hypersexuality was evident in their struggles to embody their sexuality and (suburban)
White girls navigated assumptions of an absence of
sexual feelings in their own bodies. Curtis (2009)
described “the geography of girls’ sexual pleasure”
(p. 151) in her study of girls’ sexuality on Nevis
using surveys, focus groups, and individual interviews with girls ages 12–17 years old. Focusing on
the context of a changing social landscape in which
new discourses and images of female sexual pleasure
infuse traditional beliefs about sex and women’s sexuality, she found that girls described experiences of
intense physical sexual pleasure in an array of sexual
contexts—the first willingly bestowed kiss, the
negotiation of sexual progression with overeager
boyfriends, and the endurance of the pain of first
intercourse. Although sexual pleasure wove through
these girls’ narratives, sexual coercion often
anchored their stories (see also, Fine & McClelland,
2006; Tolman, 1994; Vance, 1984). That is, embodied sexual pleasure for these young women was clear
and present even as they engaged in experiences that
they resisted or did not want.
Another line of research has investigated sexual
subjectivity, the sense and experience of the self as
sexual, which is predicated in part on experience
anchored in the body and has been considered in
relation to sexual health. Curtin et al. (2011)
observed that concerns about body image or discomfort with one’s body can make it difficult to
experience one’s own body and sexual pleasure in
sexual activity. They found a relationship between
diverse young women objectifying their own bodies
and both body comfort and body self-consciousness
around sexual partners. Impett and Tolman (2006)
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found that young women with a stronger sense of
self as sexual were more likely to experience sexual
satisfaction. Ringrose (2013) suggested that narratives told by early adolescent girls in individual
interviews and mixed-ethnicity focus groups reflect
combinations of simultaneous resistance to and
desire for sexual subjectivities predicated on being
the object of a male sexual gaze, undergirded by the
possible presence of their own desires. Maxwell and
Aggleton (2012) examined how young women
described and understood their own bodies in their
sexual and relational encounters with boys. The
majority of young women in the study described
sexually feeling bodies, including “sparks” and “sexual tensions” in their narratives (Maxwell & Aggleton, 2012, p. 314). Acting in relation to their
physical responses for and to another person, participants narrated confidence and a sense of their bodies as powerful. Maxwell and Aggleton suggested
that these narratives reflect these girls’ bodies as providing a space for becoming more knowledgeable
and comfortable with their sexuality and grounding
their choices about how they wanted to be sexual.
They concluded that these narratives illuminate four
agentic practices within and beyond sexual interactions anchored in these girls’ bodily sexual experiences: assertive, refusing, proactive, and
interrogative strategies.
Although there is now a fast-growing literature
on the development of gay, lesbian, and bisexual
identity construction (Diamond, 2005; Thompson
& Morgan, 2008; see Chapters 19 and 20, this volume), including uses of the body to construct and
convey resistance to heteronormative expectations
to produce these identities, actual sexual experiences of sexual-minority young (or older) people
have received insufficient attention by researchers.
Diamond’s developmental study of 89 sexualminority women over a 10-year period identified
“fluidity” in women’s sexuality, such that their
attractions and behaviors changed over time, suggesting shifting embodied sexual feelings. She concluded that many women’s desires may not be fixed
on a particularly gendered object. In comparison,
the research on young sexual-minority men’s emerging sexual desire indicates more stability in desire
for other men (e.g., Ainsworth & Baumeister, 2012).
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Boislard & Zimmer-Gembeck (2011) found that
young women with a history of same-sex sexual
experience and a monogamous steady partner
reported a greater sense of entitlement to self-pleasure
and more self-efficacy in their sexual pleasure.
Adulthood
Most of this chapter is about embodiment and sexuality among adults, but several specific dimensions
can be noted from a life span perspective. Expectations that sexual practices become associated with
bodily sexual satisfaction, especially for women,
consolidate for adults. Some research has demonstrated associations for women between their feelings about their bodies and their experiences of their
sexual desire or arousal, that is, their feelings in
their bodies, whereas some research has demonstrated positive perceptions of one’s body and
increases in levels in sexual desire, especially in
midlife and as women age (Woertman & Brink,
2012). In her clinical and theoretical work, Young
(1990) elaborated explicitly how dissociation
induced by sexual trauma can produce disembodiment among women, particularly dissociation or
disconnection from sexual feelings. Sanchez and
Kiefer (2007) found that body shame led to sexual
self-consciousness during intercourse, which in turn
predicted lower sexual arousability and less sexual
satisfaction. These studies did not investigate differences by race, ethnicity, or sexual orientation. Questions of embodiment are raised rather than
explained by these findings. In general, whereas
bodily sexual feelings associated with sexual orientation has been an area of study (see the section The
Sexual Body in Action earlier in this chapter),
explicit experiences of the actual (i.e., “the heaving,
sweating”) body engaged in sexual expression have
been studied even less among heterosexuals.
Although “controlling images” (Collins, 1990) of
Black and Latina women’s sexuality have been explicated (e.g., Miller-Young, 2010, M. Ward & Wyatt,
1994; Zavella, 2008), the impact of those stereotypes
on experiences of embodied sex itself among people
of color is largely unexplored. Shildrick (2005) has
delineated the anxiety that bodily disconformity and
limited bodily control characterizing disabled people
and their sexuality incites in able-bodied individuals
about their own sexuality (see the section BodyRelated Disobedience later in this chapter).
McClelland (2011) has problematized our knowledge of sexual satisfaction among marginalized populations not only because of inadequate sampling
but because assumptions of sexual entitlement (to
bodily pleasure in particular) infuse the very items
of scales used to measure bodily satisfaction.
Dimensions and parts of the sexual body that are
taken up in reproduction also have been studied
(see Chapter 23, this volume). Roberts and Waters
(2004) observed that mandates of femininity
demanding that women keep their bodies sanitized
and deodorized mean that menstruation must be
“kept under wraps” (p. 5). Roberts (2004) found
that the more women self-objectified, that is, viewed
themselves as sexual objects, the more likely they
were to associate their menstruating bodies with disgust, shame, and embarrassment. Although the phenomenon of women’s pregnant bodies becoming
newly sexualized in the media has been elaborated
(Oliver, 2010), experiences of their own bodies as
sexual (e.g., having sexual desires or feelings) during pregnancy have not been studied. In a study of
White breastfeeding mothers, Reich (2011) found
women having to negotiate even potential exposure
of their breasts in public as a violation of norms of
femininity and sexuality, in which case the embodiment of their breasts as providing sustenance to
their babies ironically violated the sanctioned
embodiment of their breasts as providing sexual
excitement as objects of desire. In a phenomenological study of menopausal hot flashes, Dillaway
(2011) found, among primarily heterosexual, Black
and White women from a range of socioeconomic
backgrounds, that the physical sensation, while
mostly intense, was less distressing than the visibility and sense of loss of bodily control. In addition,
these women also felt they had violated cultural
norms of proper female comportment, what Dillaway called “nontransformative acts of agency”
(2011, p. 205), managing the evidence of this bodily
change in their individual bodies but not purposefully refusing to comply with restrictive cultural
norms. Middle-class White women also reported
that having their bodies become menopausal was a
positive experience, liberating them from concerns
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about contraception and ushering in greater sexual
enjoyment (Dillaway, 2005; Loe, 2004).
In a single study of the association between being
nude and experiencing sexual pleasure among 184
heterosexual men and women, Weinberg and Williams (2010a) found that comfort with one’s nude
body was associated with a sexually expansive point
of view but with sexual pleasure only for women.
They also found that women’s feeling objectified
interfered with their sexual intimacy and pleasure.
They explained these feelings in part as an effect of
structured gender inequality and acknowledged the
study’s race and age limitations. Although there is
research on gay men’s sexual embodiment (see the
section Sexual-Minority Men’s Sexual Embodiment
later in this chapter), there is surprisingly little
study of heterosexual men’s embodiment of sexuality (Marshall & Katz, 2002), outside of medicalized
sexual function (see the section Body-Related Disobedience later in this chapter). In their study,
Weinberg and Williams (2010a) found that
although some men felt self-conscious about penis
size, their experiences of their bodies as sexual were
not affected. In one study of men’s experience of
masturbation for in vitro fertilization semen collection, Inhorn (2007) found this process especially
anxiety provoking for Muslim men, for whom masturbation is an act of impurity (see also Moore,
2007). Sperm itself is a new disembodied commodity that is ironically very much of the body of individual (sexual) men but is now accessible outside of
sexual relationships through sperm banking, producing a panicked disembodiment of fatherhood
among some and freedom of choice about a variety
of reproductive technologies (and embodiments)
among others (Moore, 2007).
Sexuality among aging adults has become an
emergent area of study, as social norms have
changed to represent greater acceptance of sexuality
in late life, and as consumer markets have endeavored to create and sustain a new target population
for sexuality-related products and services (Katz &
Marshall, 2003; see Chapter 17, this volume). Apart
from research related to sexual dysfunction, some
research on older women’s sexual embodiment finds
a mix of resistance to stereotypes of declining sexual
interest as well as growing discomfort with the
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evident sexuality of older people. For instance, some
older women report active resistance to stereotypes
and cultural mandates about the inevitability of low
sexual interest in late life and the increasing asexuality of the aging body. In fact, Loe (2004) found that
some aging heterosexual women continue to pursue
pleasure, for example reporting regular vibrator use,
and also reporting frustration because of a lack of
male sexual partners and men’s loss of sexual function. These studies contradict the notion that older
women are more interested in cuddling and emotional intimacy than sexual pleasure. Quite to the
contrary, one woman noted that “cuddling gets you
hot and bothered and you need a man down there”
(Loe, 2004, p. 308). Even as new representations of
aging bodies as “sexy oldies” are emerging, older and
more repressive notions persist. One study found
that older women (ages 45–89) in a focus group
study reacted with disgust to open discussions and
representations of sexuality in later life, finding these
images “unwatchable” (Vares, 2009, p. 520).
Dickerson and Rousseau (2009) describe aging Black
women’s sexuality as obsolescent, their bodies rendered invisible in the sexual landscape. There is an
absence of research on aging lesbian, gay, and bisexual people’s experiences with their sexual bodies.
SEXUAL-MINORITY SEXUAL BODIES
The sexual bodies of sexual-minority people constitute compelling material challenges to compulsory
heterosexuality. By demanding and enacting sexuality, sexual expression, and gender expression that
elude and defy the terms of heterosexuality, sexualminority sexual bodies demonstrate and demand
recognition of the variability of sexuality. Regardless
of debates about the etiology of sexual-minority sexualities, embodiments outside of heterosexuality
raise fundamental questions about its legitimacy and
justification (see Chapter 18, this volume).
Sexual-Minority Men’s Sexual
Embodiment
Traditional notions of power in sexual relationships
draw on ideals of masculinity and femininity within
heterosexual couplings. Conventional understandings of sexuality, when applied to sexual-minority
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men, would suggest that more masculine men
should occupy the “top” or penetrative position during anal sex, whereas less masculine men or feminine men occupy the “bottom” or receptive position
(Hoppe, 2011; Kippax & Smith, 2001). Thus, “tops”
may be presumed to hold more power than “bottoms,” and this position is assumed to be one of
domination (Kippax & Smith, 2001). Although
many sexual-minority men have fear or anxiety
about being anally penetrated (Middelthon, 2002),
it also can be considered masculine and powerful to
“take it like a man” as the “bottom” (Dowsett, Williams, Ventuneac, & Carballo-Dieguez, 2008; Middelthon, 2002; Ridge, 2004), and these “bottoms”
expressed feelings of embodied pleasure that they
attributed to the very act of pleasing their partners
and giving up their power (Hoppe, 2011).
Power is also visible in the sexualized body
images of sexual-minority men (Kong, 2002; Pyle &
Klein, 2011). Traditionally, the gay male community
has valued and rewarded male bodies that are
young, White, thin, muscular, and hairless (Duncan,
2010; Kong, 2002; Poon & Ho, 2008; Pyle & Klein,
2011). Despite the fact that these narrow prescriptions may facilitate body image dissatisfaction
among sexual-minority men (Duncan, 2010), in
recent years, sexual-minority men whose bodies do
not conform to this ideal, or who are attracted to
men whose bodies do not fit this ideal, have created
alternative spaces for sexual expression (Pyle &
Klein, 2011; Shiu-Ki, 2004). In this way, “chubs,”
“bears,” and “chasers”—as well as non-White, hairy,
or other male bodies that do not conform—challenge
the existing power dynamics within the gay male
community (Pyle & Klein, 2011).
In attempting to limit the spread of HIV and practice safe sex, sexual-minority men, regardless of
serostatus, must monitor their embodied feelings of
sexual desire and pleasure. Sexual-minority men frequently articulate that they are not solely interested
in sexual pleasure but also crave intimacy, love, and
romance (Slavin, 2009). As condom use is seen as
detracting from intimacy (Dowsett et al., 2008; Villaamil & Jociles, 2011), spontaneity (Davis, 2002),
and pleasure (Davis, 2002; Dowsett, 2003; Villaamil &
Jociles, 2011), sexual-minority men sometimes find it
difficult to negotiate a balance between intense sexual
desire, arousal, or pleasure and safe sex practices.
The Internet and social networking websites increasingly have been employed by men seeking other men
with whom to engage in sexual activities (Dowsett
et al., 2008; see Volume 2, Chapter 3, this handbook).
Men using this technology often enact inscribed
embodiment in their performances of masculinity
and “macho talk” in their interactions with other
users and, indeed, following Butler (1990), do gay
(Dowsett et al., 2008; White, 2010).
Sexual-Minority Women’s Sexual
Embodiment
Unlike the empirical research on sexual-minority
men, sexuality research focused on sexual-minority
women is decidedly less sexually embodied. That is,
although the research on sexual-minority men
focuses on actual bodies in sexual acts (e.g., “tops”
vs. “bottoms,” power dynamics during sex, negotiating desire and condom use during sex), and how
these acts are interpreted by the actors, research on
sexual-minority women’s embodied sex lives
remains sparse. The following research focuses
mainly on how sexual-minority women relate to
their social worlds rather than to one another. This
is a shortcoming in the literature on sexual minorities’ sexual embodiment and likely reflects the widespread bias in research on same-sex sexuality toward
male sexuality.
In a fashion complementary to sexual-minority
men, sexual-minority women are socialized in a culture that values traditional notions of heterosexual
performance and especially normative femininity
among women (Rooke, 2007). Within the lesbian
community, however, a variety of socially inscribed
gender performances have come into acceptance,
including “butch” (more “masculine” gender presentations) and “femme” (more “feminine” gender
presentations; J. Walker, Golub, Bimbi, & Parson,
2012). Sexual-minority women are sometimes complicit in gender policing: “gaydar,” or the ability for
sexual-minority women to identify one another,
often relies on bodily performances of female masculinity, which excludes sexual-minority women
with feminine or conventionally heterosexual gender presentations (Levitt & Horne, 2008; L. Walker,
2001). Gender presentations often are assumed to
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translate to sexual behaviors among sexual-minority
women, in that “butch” women are presumed to be
more sexually aggressive, and “femme” women are
presumed to be more receptive. These stereotypes
are not supported by the research, however, which
instead suggests that sexual behaviors among
sexual-minority women are fluid across labels or
gender-specific identities and socially inscribed
embodiments of gender (J. Walker et al., 2012).
Sexual-minority women historically have been
denied legitimacy through discourses that render
invisible the possibilities of eroticism between
women (Farquhar, 2000; Rooke, 2007). For example, defining female–female sex has been challenging, with sexual activity between women often
conceived as mutual genital stimulation (Rothblum,
1994). This definition overlooks many other important erotic behaviors pursued between women
(Rothblum, 1994) ranging from kissing (Ussher &
Mooney-Somers, 2000) to bondage and exhibitionism (Tomassilli, Golub, Bimbi, & Parsons, 2009).
The concepts of choice and agency play out in
the lives of sexual-minority women in unique ways.
Some scholars have argued that female–female relationships exemplify female sexual agency in sexualminority women’s ability to choose a wider range of
supportive and intimate partners and network structures than those who fit neatly into heterosexual
norms (Weeks, Heaphy, & Donovan, 2001) and that
sexual-minority women are more able to attend to
their own sexual desires rather than to the desires of
someone else (Hammers, 2008). Still, others demonstrate how such agency is moderated by social class
(McDermott, 2009), race (Tomassilli et al., 2009),
and other social factors (Blackwood, 2005; Hammers, 2008; Pasko, 2010). Nevertheless, women
with a history of same-sex sexual experience tend to
have higher sexual entitlement and sexual self-efficacy
overall (Boislard & Zimmer-Gembeck, 2011).
Although we have used the phrase “sexualminority” instead of lesbian to include the full range
of individuals with same-sex attractions and behavior, regardless of identification, it bears noting that
the vast majority of research on sexual minorities
has focused on openly identified lesbians and openly
identified gay men. The literature on sexual embodiment among bisexually identified individuals is
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nearly nonexistent. One possible explanation for
this dearth is that “sexual embodiment” is a concept
that refers to bodies in sexual relationships and that
for bisexually identified men and women, unless
they are having sex with men and women simultaneously, each individual sexual relationship they may
have likely would be with either a man or a woman.
These embodied sexual experiences, then, might fall
into the literatures on either gay and lesbian sexual
embodiment or heterosexual embodiment. Still,
some empirical work specifically has explored bisexuals’ experiences, especially those of women. Diamond’s (2008) work on sexual fluidity demonstrates
that mixed patterns of attraction (i.e., to both men
and women) are more common than exclusive
same-sex attractions and that even lesbian-identified
women tended to report bisexual experiences and
behaviors as time went on. Some of the women
Diamond (2008) studied described themselves as
“attracted to ‘the person, not the gender’” (p. 172),
suggesting that current notions of sexual orientation
might be too focused on gender as an organizing
construct. In a narrative study of four in-depth cases
of women with bisexual patterns of attraction, Hammack, Thompson, and Pilecki (2009) illuminated
how shifting embodied feelings of desire for both
men and women can infuse young women’s negotiation of rigid sexual identity categories with unique
complexity and can render the body a source of confusion and questioning rather than clarification.
The Sexual Body in Society and the Media
One of the key debates in which embodiment and
sexuality are embroiled is how the increasing widespread commodification and objectification of sexual
bodies, in particular through sexualization and in
pornography, informs people’s experiences and negotiations of their sexuality (Garner, 2012). As the
divide between pornography and mainstream depictions of sexuality evaporates (McNair, 1996), current
arguments center less on questions about morality
and more on questions about the possible implications of pornography for people’s own changing
experiences of their sexuality (Corsianos, 2007;
Garlick, 2011; see Volume 2, Chapter 1, this handbook) and on sexual aesthetics (Attwood, 2007). An
intensified focus on looks and physical appearance is
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displacing attention to embodied feelings (Frost,
2005; Tolman, 2002, 2012). In the global context in
which Western media and sexual representations
now circulate, this shift is extending beyond the West
and affecting people transnationally (De Casanova,
2004; Howe & Rigi, 2009; see Volume 2, Chapter 9,
this handbook). In 2007, the American Psychological
Association’s (APA) Task Force on the Sexualization
of Girls released its report on the state of knowledge
about this growing phenomenon. The report defined
sexualization as (a) a person’s value comes only from
his or her sexual appeal or behavior, to the exclusion
of other characteristics; (b) a person is held to a standard that equates physical attractiveness (narrowly
defined) with being sexy; (c) a person is sexually
objectified—that is, made into a thing for others’ sexual use rather than seen as a person with the capacity
for independent action and decision-making; and (d)
sexuality is inappropriately imposed upon a person
(APA, Task Force on the Sexualization of Girls, 2007,
p. 1). The report yielded a notable increase in
research on sexualization and its impact and ignited
public debate and discussion, within and beyond the
academy (e.g., Bragg, Buckingham, Russell, &
Willett, 2011; Egan & Hawkes, 2008). The explosion
of online pornography has meant that it has become
accessible and pertinent to how people think, learn
and imagine possibilities for their own sexual experience (Owens, Behun, Manning, & Reed, 2012; Short,
Black, Smith, Wetterneck, & Wells, 2012).
One line of inquiry in psychology is how sexualization reflects or affects current modes of sexual
being, behavior, or experience, and if so, whether
those manifestations are positive or problematic,
particularly for women. Given that women who feel
more positively about their bodies have been found
to express more comfort with their own sexual feelings (Ackard, Kearney-Cooke, & Peterson, 2000;
Trapnell, Meston, & Gorzalka, 1997; Wiederman,
2000), the power of sexualization to diminish or
negatively affect women’s feelings about their bodies
raises important questions about women’s sexual
embodiment. For instance, narrow sociocultural
ideas of women’s sexual attractiveness predict women’s sexual intentions about and their acceptance of
different types of sexual behavior, hindering their
subjective experience of their own sexuality
(Nowatzki & Morry, 2009). Sanchez and Kiefer
(2007) found that body shame in women was linked
more strongly to greater sexual problems than in
men, including lower sexual arousability, less ability
to reach orgasm, and having less pleasure from
physical intimacy. These changes were mediated by
sexual self-consciousness, regardless of relationship
status or age. Focusing attention during sexual
encounters on how one looks rather than on how
one feels can lead to diminished sexual pleasure
(Wiederman, 2000, 2001). A woman who has been
socialized to dissociate from her own sexual arousal
and desire may find it difficult to be aware of her
desires, to assert her desires, or to feel entitled to
satisfaction in sexual situations (Brotto, Heiman, &
Tolman, 2009; see Chapter 8, this volume).
The process of self-sexualization, apprehending
and experiencing the self as a sexual object for the
desire of others or for commodification by the self,
has received growing empirical attention (Roberts &
Zurbriggen, 2012). For instance, self-sexualization
has been associated with African American girls’
increased focus on looks and beauty (Gordon, 2008).
Complicated questions about what constitutes selfsexualization have been raised as well, illuminating
the liminality of experiences of empowerment that
attach to bodily expression associated with sexuality.
For instance, pole dancing is a wildly popular physical fitness activity that underscores and relies on how
looking youthfully sexy and performing a very particular bodily trope trumps feeling sexy or even sexual (Donaghue, Whitehead, & Kurz, 2011).
Ironically, pole dancing takes advantage of the disconnection from their bodies that many women have
in the wake of their own sexual socialization and the
societal context of the sexualization of girls (Tolman,
2012). Yet research also has demonstrated the complexity of how pole dancing as exercise makes
ambiguous its association with sexual display, and
thus it may entail for women a reworking of a practice for sexual titillation with feelings of power in
one’s body and, possibly because of this ambiguity,
feeling powerful or sexy without the physical presence of a male audience, perhaps through the context
of a space safe from an actual sexualizing gaze
(S. Holland & Attwood, 2009). The question, however, of whether experience of embodied feelings of
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power in this particular context may carry over beyond
a given moment and space into women’s sexual lives
remains contested and unexplored (Tolman, 2012).
Another realm of psychological research on sexualization is phenomenological, seeking to understand how an increasingly sexualized mainstream
landscape shapes embodied experiences of sexuality. Analysis of public discourses and representations, by which increasingly sexualizing and
pornographic sentiments are communicated and
circulated, are critical to understanding how lived
experience may be constructed (Bartky, 1990;
Hardy, 2009). This research primarily is composed
of content and discursive analyses of sexualized
images, especially their meanings for different constituencies, although much of the research has centered on girls’ and women’s bodies (Brookes &
Kelly, 2009; Fabrianesi, Jones, & Reid, 2008; Hernandez, 2009; Merskin, 2004; Sanger, 2009), For
instance, Goodin, Denberg, Murnen, and Smolak
(2011) evaluated the presence of sexualizing clothing for girls on the websites of 15 popular stores and
found that 30% of images had sexualizing qualities
(“garments worn to enhance, exaggerate, call attention to, or accentuate the curves or angles of any
part of the body . . . to arouse interest of physical
intimacy from others,” p. 5), with the highest being
for “tween” markets. Joshi, Peter, and Valkenberg
(2011) evaluated representations of sexual wanting
(expressing sexual urges and sexual desires or
expressing their own sexual wishes) in an analysis
of U.S. and Dutch teen magazines, finding that in
the U.S. coverage, boys’ sexual wanting received
more attention than girls’ sexual wanting, whereas
in the Dutch coverage sexual wanting was depicted
equally often for boys and girls (see Volume 2,
Chapter 12, this handbook).
Some research has focused on whether and how
girls in particular are attempting or preferring a particular kind of “sexy” body (Coy, 2009a; Ringrose,
2010). For instance, in one study, young girls presented with girls wearing sexualized clothing versus
nonsexualized clothing indicated that they greatly
preferred the former, both for their ideal self and for
being popular (Starr & Ferguson, 2012). Gill (2009)
suggested that White, heterosexual young women
have shifted from sexual objectification to “sexual
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subjectification”; that is, rather than being shown as
passive objects of desire, these young women (and
only these young women) are portrayed as being
active “subjects” of their own sexuality. Rather than
being “liberating,” however, such portraits may constitute a new set of limiting mandates about how
young women should express or appear to express
their sexuality that is anchored in the “midriffbearing,” actively desiring young woman, requiring a
toned but not too strong body that looks youthful
but should not be too physically capable (Fahs,
2009). Yet Attwood (2011), in a study of women’s
digital representations of their sexuality in interactive
new media, identifies new sexual femininities that
defy simple binaries of passive object and active subject, with women producing themselves as sexual
actors as “camgirls” or depicting sexually defiant
women in “altporn.” The question of whether or how
these women’s own bodily sexual feelings inform or
result from these subversive acts of representation is
an important next step in understanding the interplay between representations of others’ sexual bodies
and how people experience their own sexual bodies.
The participation of boys and men in these productions may incite their sexual feelings, despite the
duality of their dedicated purpose of creating marketable images and not identifying as men who
objectify women (Garner, 2012). Representations of
sexiness in middle age are becoming extensive,
promising both a challenge to narrow conventions
of female attractiveness and a new repressive regime
for women as they age (Tally, 2006; Vares, 2009).
Representations of “lesbian” sexual performance are
more pervasive, but there is no research on how
such representations are experienced by sexualminority women. These performances of same-sex
desire may constitute “heteroflexibility,” wherein
women’s same-sex kissing or touching as a public
endeavor produces an embodiment of male sexual
fantasy to consolidate a heterosexual identity (Diamond, 2005; Fahs, 2009). There is no evidence to
date that these experiences reflect or incorporate
embodied sexual desire, feelings, or responses,
although the emergence of “bi-curiosity” as an intelligible identity may reflect or enable exploration or
experience of actual erotic pleasure and enjoyment
rather than being just a function of pressure alone.
Sexuality and Embodiment
One particular debate in which embodiment has
emerged is the relationship between sexualization
and sexual empowerment. On one side of the debate
is the contention that sexualized images may reflect
and provide cultural space for a more assertive and
entitled or empowered sexuality, trumping traditional conceptions of appropriately feminine sexuality (Lamb, 2010; Peterson, 2010). Others argue that
sexualization may reinstantiate and invigorate gender inequalities in sexual interactions and that a
sense of sexual empowerment that does not embody
one’s own sexual feelings may be problematic (Fahs,
2009; Gavey, 2012; Tolman, 2012). Egan and
Hawkes (2008) suggested that an unintended consequence of the current debate is that sexualization is
framed as deterministic and restrictive regarding
young women’s sexuality, although others have
argued for young women’s subversion and resistance
to an objectified sexuality under these conditions
(e.g., Attwood, 2007). Teasing apart the complex,
contradictory, and commercial dimensions of the
“new sexual empowerment” means raising challenges about what is missing from it—women’s
embodied sexual pleasure as an anchor to sexual
subjectivity and real choices that flesh out rather
than laminate female sexual agency. Evans, Riley,
and Shankar (2010) suggested the concept of new
“technologies of sexiness” (p. 119), whereby women
could utilize the contradictory yet proliferating discourses about women’s sexuality to construct subversive sexual subjectivities, eluding the
disembodiment attached to sexualization (see also
Coy, 2009b).
A long history of research on the impact of pornography on sexuality has yielded inconsistent evidence (Segal, 1992). However, the explosion of the
availability and possibility for new forms of engagement with porn through the Internet, a specific and
increasingly salient context, has yielded more specific research on pornography’s interplay with
embodied sexuality. Rather than simply investigating whether viewing porn has negative effects on
sexual behavior, sexual arousal, or sexual selfappraisal, more recent research on pornography
focuses on the ways in which people produce, consume, and integrate it into their daily lives (van
Doorn, 2011; Wilson-Kovacs, 2009). The emergence
of the Internet as a site for constructing and experiencing male and female bodies by real women and
men both reproduces gendered sexual bodily norms
and emerges as a forum for resistance to them (Alexias, Kountria, & Tsekeris, 2011). More racial diversity is accompanied by less variation in the shapes
of women’s bodies in porn—now thinner, larger
chested, with surgically or digitally altered labia—
with ramifications for real women’s dissatisfaction
with or concern about their material bodies (Tibbals, 2010). In one study of women’s self-published
porn sites, DeVoss (2002) found that women are
“inserting their embodied subjectivities into public
space” (p. 75), thus challenging notions of female
sexual submission and production for male
pleasure.
Cyberspace is one of the new frontiers of the
intersections among sexuality, media, and embodiment; the concept of the cyborg subject, wherein
bodies and technology meet and comingle, ushers in
new conceptions of the body and challenges the very
terms of what constitutes a material body (Haraway,
1991). Cybersexuality (i.e., sexual behavior, desires,
and bodies transmitted online and imbued with sensations and attitudes that mimic so-called real bodies and sexualities) has appeared more forcefully in
recent years. In one sense, cybersex has been implicated in, enacted in, and constructed through mediations of sexual media (van Doorn, 2011; Waskul,
2002). van Doorn (2011) explored how virtual performances of gender, sexuality, and embodiment
become materialized in digital space and may inform
actual signification of gender norms, sexual identities, and even what is understood as sexual practice,
particularly for engagement with heteronormativity.
Eklund (2011) explored how the online game
World of Warcraft imbues players with gender and
sexuality scripts and makes way for numerous queer
performances, even while seemingly promoting heterosexual exchanges between players. Looking at
social networking sites, Ringrose (2011) argued that
because mainstream online spaces demand and
assume heterosexuality, they create new and intensified gendered and sexualized identities among
young people. The ambiguous boundary and interplay between behavior in cyberspace and offline has
inspired empirical questions about online sexual
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embodiments and actual bodies. Analyzing harassment on social networking sites, Ybarra and Mitchell
(2008) found that although social networking sites
do create contexts for unwanted sexual solicitation,
problems of disembodying and harassing youth and
teens extend far beyond the reach of cyberspace. In
a study of relationship and marriage possibilities
between men in the United States and women in
other countries, Constable (2007) raised the question of how cultural and structural differences present challenges to expectations generated online
through sexual images and talk and offline realities.
Although there is a depth of textual analysis of
cybersex (e.g., Campbell, 2004; R. Jones, 2008; Wolmark, 1999), the material sexual body has received
far less scholarly attention, in part because digital
bodies raise questions about what an intelligible
body is. There is some research on how cyberspace
provides a new venue for individual exploration and
construction of what constitutes embodied erotic
experience that challenges the everyday conception
of what is named erotic. For instance, in a study of
online gay chat communities for gay self-identified
bears and muscle worshippers that constitute a
sexual space, Campbell (2004) demarcated the
centrality of the physical body in social relations
through these online interactions. As Waskul (2002)
noted, cybersex involving videos becomes an
embodied experience that creates both a viewed
object and an experienced subject, yet he did not
address the experiencing sexual subject. Attwood
(2002) suggested that new media technologies may
render a kind of “autosexuality” (p. 101), in which
sex with other people (i.e., their bodies) is replaced
by fundamentally disembodied sex that brings less
danger, less mess, and less inconvenience. Yet she is
one of the few scholars to recognize the engagement
of the material body in cybersex; in her assessment
of the sexualization of culture, she provided an
explicit anecdotal description of a woman’s bodily
sexual response at the abrupt end of an online sex
chat, offline physical frustration at coming close to
orgasm. The “heaving body” does not appear to be
a topic of research but rather an illustration of how
cyberspace and media complicate what constitutes
sex and how questions about sexual identities have
dominated research on cybersex, which have yet to
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engage material bodies. Alapack, Blichfeldt, and
Elden (2005) observed that as virtual sex “wins the
war between desire and technology,” neglect of “live
embodiment” proliferates (p. 52). In an ethnography of trading “sexpics” on an online site, Slater
(1998) found that rather than a realm of deconstruction and ideal possibilities, participants exerted tremendous energy attempting to refix bodies and
identities in search of material forms of authenticity.
Even as disembodiment motives for online chatting
have been associated with loneliness, depression,
and diminished social support, when used as a technology for social connection, online engagement can
lead to offline connectivity (Kang, 2007), suggesting
a potential line of inquiry for cybersex and its multiple embodiments.
THE DISOBEDIENT SEXUAL BODY
Bodies that do not reflect or refuse to conform to
either explicit or unwritten hegemonies of normality
or acceptability are often declared “not sexual.”
Notions of which bodies are eligible to be sexual are
entangled with the material diversities of bodies that
defy such criteria. There are many people who are
assumed not to be sexual or disallowed status as
sexual people predicated on what we are calling
“disobedient” embodiments in such hierarchies of
normality who refute and resist this exclusion. We
review three types of such disobedience: body
related, sexuality related, and gender related.
Body-Related Disobedience
When a person’s physical body becomes ill, he or
she must negotiate many changes in his or her sexual activities. Cancer patients, for example, often
feel that the body that they had once mastered now
enslaves them (Waskul & van der Riet, 2002) or
feels “invaded” by an alien (Mairs, 1997). Similarly,
people who have limited or no bladder or bowel
control have an acute awareness of the proximity of
their excretory organs to their anatomical sites of
sexual pleasure (Koch, Kralik, & Eastwood, 2002;
Manderson, 2005). For these people, as well as for
women who experience chronic vulvar pain, good
communication with one’s sexual partner and partner receptivity to different “sexual scripts” is crucial
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to maintaining a satisfying sex life (Koch et al.,
2002; Labuski, 2011).
Women who have been treated for breast cancer
experience many changes in their sexualities, often
related specifically to their bodies (Emilee, Ussher, &
Perz, 2010). Because of the intense nature of the
treatment regimen for breast cancer, women experience a range of changes in sexual functioning, including disruptions in arousal, lubrication, orgasm, sexual
desire, and sexual pleasure (Emilee et al., 2010).
Women who have undergone mastectomies may presume (often wrongly) that their sexual partners will
be repulsed by their changed bodies (Sheppard &
Ely, 2008). Similarly, in the case of testicular or prostate cancer among men, many men feel that the loss
of a testicle or the inability to maintain an erection
signifies a loss in masculinity, and they worry that
their sexual function will be forever compromised
(Gurevich, Bishop, Bower, Malka, & Nyhof-Young,
2004; Kelly, 2004). Even in cases in which men experience impotence as a result of cancer treatment,
some men discover new avenues to sexual satisfaction, including redefining intimacy and exploring
non-penile-penetrative erotic behaviors (Oliffe,
2005). Regardless of the specific bodily ailment, the
psychological impact men and women experience as
a result of their illnesses depends greatly on the social
and relational contexts in which these individuals
engage in sexual behaviors (Emilee et al., 2010).
People with physical disabilities often are desexualized actively in Western culture (Erickson, 2010;
Guldin, 2000; Kim, 2011; Shildrick, 2007). Women
with disabilities have reported as much sexual desire
(Nosek et al., 2001; Vansteenwegen et al., 2003) and
sexual motivation (Vansteenwegen et al., 2003) as
nondisabled women, but they report significantly
lower sexual satisfaction overall (Nosek et al., 2001;
Vansteenwegen et al., 2003). Disabled people often
internalize cultural ideals of what a “sexy body”
should look like (Guldin, 2000) or what “real sex”
should be (Tepper, 2000), and in feeling that they do
not measure up to these ideas, they may experience
feelings of inadequacy or emotional pain (Guldin,
2000; Tepper, 2000). These people’s sexualities are
not overdetermined by such societal ideals, however,
and many disabled people view themselves as sexy
(Erickson, 2010; Guldin, 2000), find alternatives to
the traditional methods of achieving sexual pleasure
(Tepper, 2000), or may even happily embrace an
asexual identity (Kim, 2011). For example, some
people redefine for themselves what an orgasm
should be or feel like and explore nongenital or nonejaculatory orgasms that may be centralized in other
areas of the body, such as the lips or mouth (Guldin,
2000). Disabled men may choose to focus not on
their difficulty maintaining an erection but instead
on their prowess in giving partners oral sex or pleasurable manual stimulation, thus improving their
feelings of self-worth (Guldin, 2000).
Overweight or fat people in our culture often are
judged to be physically unattractive and are
assumed, therefore, to find sexuality problematic
(Bess, 1997). These stereotypes are more stringently
applied to women than men, as our society is more
accepting of large or fat men and even equates male
largeness with strength and power (Bess, 1997). Fat
men and women report fewer sexual partners than
people with healthy weights (Bajos, Wellings,
Laborde, & Moreau, 2010), which may be a result of
a self-conscious fear of rejection and internalization
of social stigmas about obesity (Bess, 1997). Fat men
in particular are more likely to report sexual dysfunction (Bajos et al., 2010) and report less sexual
desire and fewer erotic fantasies than men with more
average weights (Jagstaidt, Golay, & Pasini, 1997).
Many people who have undergone bariatric surgery
feel they are more sexually attractive after surgery
(Camps, Zervos, Goode, & Rosemurgy, 1996), and
some also enjoy sex more (Camps et al., 1996; Kinzl
et al., 2001). Sexual satisfaction, however, is not
contingent on body weight; the outdated theory that
fat individuals eat to avoid sex is not supported by
the literature (Bess, 1997). Although fatness is not
always associated with or a result of a less healthy
lifestyle or eating habits, the fat body often is understood as diseased, pathological, sexually unattractive, and asexual (Braziel & LeBesco, 2001; Murray,
2004; Rothblum, Solovay, & Wann, 2009). As Murray noted, “[a fat woman is] expected to deny [her]
own sexual desires and identity because [her] body
stands as an ‘embolism’ (Sedgwick, 1993, p. 217) . . .
between [her] sexuality and [her] society” (p. 239)
and that fat women are denied sexual subjectivity
and desirability outside of being fetishized objects.
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Pitman (1999) observed that for fat lesbians, internalizing both homophobia and fat hatred can yield
complex dissatisfaction with their sexual bodies as
well as their bodies more generally.
Sexuality-Related Disobedience
Reported sexual dysfunction among men and
women has become widespread, largely because
Western culture has convinced people that sexuality
is “natural” and therefore no learning should be necessary to produce high levels of pleasure and satisfaction (Tiefer, 2006). This conceptualization of
sexuality as automatic and unlearned predisposes
people to feel that if they are experiencing any disturbances or dissatisfaction in desire, performance,
or pleasure, this must be a simple medical problem
with a simple medical solution (Tiefer, 2006). The
biomedical model of sexual dysfunction sets the
stage for pharmaceutical production and leverage of
a specific dysfunction discourse that frames sexual
dissatisfaction as exclusively biological in nature and
curable with “magic bullet” approaches (Cacchioni,
2007; McHugh, 2006; Moynihan, 2003; Tiefer,
2006). This increasingly popular discourse of sexual
difficulty is especially problematic for women, as
FSD and hypoactive sexual desire disorder (HSDD)
have remained hard to define (Moynihan, 2003;
Tiefer, 2006; see Chapter 8, this volume). Because
FSD and HSDD have been based on the assumption
that females experience biologically parallel sexual
problems to those of men (Hartley, 2006; McHugh,
2006), some have argued that these diagnoses are an
example of starting with a non-evidence-based presupposed “condition” and then trying to produce
confirmatory evidence through research—often
without success (Mayor, 2004; McHugh, 2006).
Similar challenges surrounding the debates about
sexual dysfunction also influence academic understandings of asexuality (generally defined as a lack of
sexual attraction; Carrigan, 2011): Is sexual desire,
arousal, or behavior most important? Is sexual desire
the same as sexual attraction? Can any of this be
understood without exploring the social and psychological contexts within which it takes place (Carrigan, 2011; Scherrer, 2008)? An absence of sexual
feelings of any kind generally has been assumed to
signal sexual or psychological problems, predicated
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on the notion of the feeling sexual body as normal.
The fifth edition of the Diagnostic and Statistical
Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5), however,
introduces an absence of distress about lack of sexual
desire as contraindicating a diagnosis of HSDD.
There has been a recent explosion of websites dedicated to the asexual community, providing much
needed space for discussion online. Within the academy, however, very scholars have taken up asexuality as an area of investigation, with a few exceptions
in the past 5 to 10 years. Asexuality traditionally has
been pathologized as, for example, sexual aversion
disorder or HSDD, rather than studied as an acceptable self-chosen identity (Prause & Graham, 2007;
Scherrer, 2008), although this increasingly is changing in the literature (Boaert, 2004). Individuals who
self-identify as asexual may have diverse reasons for
doing so and may understand their asexuality in a
variety of ways, ranging from regarding sex apathetically to feeling complete disgust at the prospect of
sex (Carrigan, 2011). Many asexuals make an
explicit distinction between the ideas of romance and
sexuality, feeling that emotional attraction, companionship, and romance are desirable within relationships but that sex is not (Brotto, Knudson, Inskip,
Rhodes, & Erskine, 2010; Scherrer, 2008). Developmentally, asexuals may express that they always have
felt that they were somehow different from their
peers who feel sexual attraction, and that this feeling
of difference led them to believe something was
wrong with them, until they discovered the concept
(and sometimes the community) of asexuality
(Brotto et al., 2010; Carrigan, 2011; Scherrer, 2008).
Masturbation has proven to be a site of variability
among asexuals, as some people feel no desire for sex
with others or with themselves, whereas other people
find masturbation occasionally satisfying and consistent with their asexual identities (Prause & Graham,
2007; Scherrer, 2008). Additionally, some individuals, who do not identify as asexual, nevertheless find
fulfillment in romantic relationships that lack a
sexual component, and this pattern, in particular
among women (e.g., Boston marriages) has been
documented for centuries (Rothblum & Brehony,
1993; Smith-Rosenberg, 1975).
Sexual dysfunction and asexuality are not the
only sites in which individuals challenge normative
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frameworks for healthy sexuality. People who
engage in exhibitionist or sadomasochistic sexual
practices, for example, also resist social and medical
norms. According to the DSM-IV, exhibitionism is
still considered a mental disorder that involves
exposing one’s genitals to a stranger (American Psychiatric Association, 1994), and the vast majority
of the literature pertaining to exhibitionism has
focused on men (Hugh-Jones et al., 2005). The
pathologization of exhibitionist behavior has been
supported by theories regarding faulty brain chemistry as well as psychodynamic processes, such as castration anxiety (Hugh-Jones et al., 2005). Recent
work on exhibitionism, however, has focused more
on the performative nature of exhibitionism and has
shown that much exhibitionism is evident online
and on websites where people can post naked or
erotic pictures of themselves for others to view for
their own personal enjoyment (Hugh-Jones et al.,
2005). Female exhibitionists who post on these
websites report feeling powerful and socially supported (Hugh-Jones et al., 2005), demonstrating
that women who exhibit may use the practice as a
means to sexual empowerment. There is no research
on embodied sexuality in sex club contexts, where
performing and consuming exhibitionism is
condoned.
Sadomasochism in particular and BDSM practices in general (including bondage and discipline,
dominance and submission, and sadism and masochism) have been similarly pathologized historically (American Psychiatric Association, 1994).
On-the-ground and online communities of sadomasochists actively reject the idea that their style of
kinky sex is harmful, and instead they focus on
mutually consenting partners and communication as
most important (Langdridge & Butt, 2004; Weiss &
Weiss, 2011). Sadomasochistic practices rely heavily
on extreme performances of power, domination, and
submission socially inscribed on the body, and this
performativity may mirror traditional understandings of masculinity and femininity (D. Lindemann,
2011). Furthermore, as some scholars have pointed
out, lived embodied links between pleasure and pain
are not uncommon (Deckha, 2011). Sexual performances of sadomasochism may not exist solely on
the fringes of society. As sadomasochistic practices
have become increasingly trendy, the topic has
become more prevalent in mainstream magazines,
mainstream booksellers, and mainstream advertisements (Hanna, 2001). Yet Weiss (2006) found in a
study employing surveys, focus groups, and interviews that current practices of accepting sadomasochism through normalization or understanding it
through pathologization both reinforce privileges
of normative sexuality (see Chapter 9, this volume).
Gender-Related Disobedience
Many people experience their bodies and their genders in ways that do not conform to traditional understandings of male–female or masculine–feminine.
Transgender individuals (those whose gender presentation does not conform to conventional notions of
masculinity or femininity and may run counter to
their own biological assignment as male or female),
including but not exclusively transsexuals (those who
feel that their psychological sex does not match the
sex they were assigned at birth, and who desire bodily
modifications to bring these into alignment), may or
may not actually use these terms to understand their
genders. Some gender-nonconforming individuals
prefer such gender identifications as “butch” or
“femme” (Valentine, 2007) or simply may identify
themselves as their preferred gender without reference to any “trans” identities (Wilson, 2002). Transgender individuals experience their sexualities in
unique ways, especially because the medical expectation of any transition is that an individual will become
a heterosexual man or woman (Pardo, 2011; see
Chapter 24, this volume). Many transgender people
challenge compulsory heterosexuality (Rich, 1980) at
the point of both lived and inscribed embodiment, in
that they understand their sexual attractions as distinct from the bodies assigned a gender at birth, and
therefore they “subvert the cultural assumption that
sex between male- and female-bodied individuals
equals heterosexuality” (Rich, 1980, p. 109; Hines,
2007; Schleifer, 2006). For example, many female-tomale transsexuals change their sexual orientation
after transitioning or find themselves attracted to both
men and women (Dozier, 2005; Schleifer, 2006). Cisgender people (those whose preferred gender matches
the gender they were assigned at birth) who are sexually attracted to transgender people may construct
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unique sexual desires on the basis of their own sexual
orientations (Weinberg & Williams, 2010b). For
example, in a study of cisgender men who were sexually interested in transwomen (in this study defined as
male-to-female transsexuals who retain their penises),
those who identified as heterosexual tended to ignore
the transwoman’s penis, whereas bisexually oriented
men incorporated the transwoman’s penis into the
sexual experience (Weinberg & Williams, 2010b).
People who are born with atypical or ambiguous
genitalia (referred to as “intersex,” although less frequently currently than in the past) also must navigate gender norms and expectations in their
expressions of their sexualities. Often, intersex
infants, who are born with ambiguous genitalia that
do not fit into the presumed binary framework of
sex, are understood by doctors to require “corrective” or “reparative” surgery to “fix” the atypical
sexual bodies (Kessler, 2002; Roen, 2008). It is most
common for an infant born with an atypically small
penis or an atypically large clitoris to be surgically
altered to fit into one or the other side of the sex
binary, and these corrective procedures often entail
numerous follow-up surgeries over the course of
development (Minto, Liao, Woodhouse, Ransley, &
Creighton, 2003). Ironically, since the incidence of
ambiguous genitalia in the population has been estimated to be as high as 2% (Blackless et al., 2000), it
seems that the occurrence of intersexuality is relatively common (Roen, 2008). There is debate about
these surgeries, with some critiquing this practice as
“correcting” ambiguous bodies to match “intelligible” bodies that fit into an essentialized gender
binary (Kessler, 2002; Roen, 2008) and others noting that such surgeries frequently are required for
physical or psychological reasons (Creighton &
Liao, 2004; Holmes, 2002; Woodhouse, 2004).
Infants who undergo surgical procedures may have
compromised sexual functioning as adults (Minto et
al., 2003). For example, people who had undergone
feminizing surgery as infants and were then living as
adult females had more difficulty achieving orgasm
than individuals who had not had surgery (Creighton & Liao, 2004; Minto et al., 2003). Results such
as these have prompted medical professionals to
take much greater care in surgical decisions, often
delaying genital surgeries until a person is old
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enough to contribute meaningfully to the discussion
and explicitly consent to any surgical procedures
(Woodhouse, 2004). Additionally, many of these
individuals now reject the label “intersex,” because
of its negative associations with terms like “hermaphrodite,” or because they may feel that “intersex” was something “done to” them and therefore
not a part of their chosen identity (Grabham, 2007;
Koyama, n.d.).
Interventions for Embodiment
A number of researchers have proposed various
interventions to assist and support people who are
experiencing challenges or difficulties with sexuality
as social inscription on the body or as living experience of the body. Sensate approaches to sex therapy,
in which the therapist guides the client, either as an
individual or as a couple, to refocus and, in essence,
reconnect with their physical sexual feelings and
responses, can be understood as a form of embodiment intervention and continues to be a central
approach to sexual distress (see Chapter 8, this volume). An embodiment lens may underscore that a
purely mechanistic approach is impoverished or
may not be appropriate depending on the complaint.
Therapeutic work connecting embodiment and psychotherapy has been particularly successful in treating disorders like anorexia and bulimia,
posttraumatic stress disorder, and childhood sexual
abuse. Lester (1997) argued that to successfully treat
anorexia, therapists should deconstruct notions of
“inside” and “outside” to allow the patient to experience a connection with their own bodies. Similarly,
Langmuir, Kirsh, and Classen (2012) suggested that
sensorimotor psychotherapy—in which patients use
their bodies actively to improve body awareness and
to decrease dissociation—can successfully treat
trauma disorders. Adding a more psychoanalytic
twist, Baker-Pitts (2007) argued that female therapists can use their patients’ projections about both
the therapists’ and patients’ bodies to grapple more
intensely with defense mechanisms of dependency
and broader projections made onto the female body.
Research also has worked to establish the embodied
bases of existing psychotherapy processes. Dekeyser,
Elliott, and Leijssen’s (2009) work on empathy argued
for empathy as a cooperative, dialogical process
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vividly grounded in the body. More expansively,
Phelan (2009) analyzed the benefits and contraindications of therapists and patients touching before,
during, or after psychotherapy sessions, finding a
wide range of outcomes depending on the reasons
for touch, the patient’s perceptions of touch, cultural and religious considerations, and rationale
for touch. Ultimately, issues of embodiment in
psychotherapy—for the therapists and their
patients—can serve as meaningful interventions
when working with clients with a range of complaints and disorders.
CONCLUSION AND FUTURE DIRECTIONS
This chapter demonstrated how a lens of embodiment offers a unique and important understanding
of sexuality. Leveraging and building from embodiment theories, researchers have generated a new and
substantive body of research predicated on the physicality of sexuality that is foundationally social
rather than biologically deterministic. Reviewing the
prominent theories that guide thought and research
on embodiment, we have provided both broad
strokes about and intimate looks into knowledge
about sexual bodies that are situated in time, space,
action, and society. In particular, the chapter
focused attention on intersections of embodied sexuality and psychology. This relatively new line of
research both includes psychology and has much to
offer the discipline. The chapter has argued that
developing these lines of inquiry within psychology
will constitute a significant contribution to the
understanding of sexuality. It concludes with suggestions for future directions.
Recent work from neuroscience supports embodiment theory as a useful framework for social science
research, suggesting that the body in and beyond
sexuality research is seen as more plastic, with “hard
wiring” incorporating the environmental contexts in
which it develops, exists, performs, and malfunctions
(Cromby, 2004; see Chapter 7, this volume ). This
work not only challenges the debate between
“nature” and “nurture” but also offers further evidence that the interactionist perspective embedded
in embodiment theory enables it as a functional conceptual framework (Tolman & Diamond, 2001; see
Chapter 1, this volume). For instance, evidence from
men recovering a sexual life following treatment for
prostate cancer suggests that all of us may generate
new capacities for sexual feeling and expression following the loss of other capacities or valued practices
(Litwin, Melmed, & Nakazon, 2001). The constraints on our ability to do so are likely to be as
much social as they are physical and psychological.
Diamond (2005) has suggested applying dynamical
systems theory (DST) to our understanding of women’s same-sex sexuality development. She argued that
DST, in explaining how interactions among internal
and external features of experience produce abrupt
transitions, new patterns, and sensitivity to fluctuations, accounts for the changing patterns she identified in this population. It is possible that DST may
provide a way to understand embodiment of sexuality among other groups and practices, providing a
roadmap to the interplay between our physicality
and our relational, environmental, and cultural contexts characterized by shifting discursive, sociopolitical, and historic dimensions. These examples
demonstrate the ways in which thinking of the mind
and body as separate, or of bodies as independent
from society, limits our potential for understanding
sexuality. Embodiment theories provide tools for
observing, posing, and investigating daring and difficult questions about sexuality that can contribute to
resisting oppressive binaries that so many bodies and
psyches labor under, struggle, subvert, or resist.
Looking forward, we imagine many new threads
of research on embodiment and sexuality. In particular, future research can interrogate the limitations
of the “rhetoric of choice” and agency with regard to
sexual decision making, particularly as debates
intensify about which kinds of embodiment, and
which embodied expressions, signify “liberation”
and “empowerment” and which signify the internalization of oppression (and negative stereotypes).
More nuanced work that theorizes the body into
contemporary cultural narratives, such as strip
clubs, commodification of sex, and the untethering
of sex from morally determined and condoned contexts, and that leverages these theories in posing and
answering the innovative research questions that
will emerge represents the potent future of research
on embodiment. We foresee that embodiment
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research likely will venture more and more into
thinking about and theorizing nonconforming bodies, particularly disability studies, fat studies, and
queer studies. How these nonconforming bodies
yield intersectional understandings of gender,
power, and sexuality will form the cutting edge of
embodiment research. The material and bodily
dimensions of subjects engaged in practices is a rich
arena that will both inform and be informed by
research grounded in embodiment perspectives.
Ultimately, as so many of these studies testify,
research on embodiment and sexuality places the
corporeal body at the center of fields that have largely
ignored the body as a “knowing subject”. Transcending, sidestepping, or solving the biological determinism versus social construction debate, embodiment
theory, and research afford an exciting new strategy
to move forward, in a complex way, how we understand the very real complexities of sexuality.
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