Play Therapy Theories and
Perspectives
This book explores the multitude of thoughts, theories, opinions, methods,
and approaches to play therapy in order to highlight the unity and diversity of
theory and perspective in the field.
Each chapter is a common question related to play therapy to which ten
established and experienced play therapists share their thoughts, theoretical
perspectives, and opinions. The key characteristics of a well-trained play therapist, the role of technology in play therapy, the importance of speaking the
client’s language, and many more frequently asked play therapy questions and
topics are explored. The reader will learn about the umbrella of play therapy
thought and practice and connect with perspectives that might align with
their own theoretical preferences.
This book will be of interest to a wide range of mental health professionals
working with children and adolescents. Those new to play therapy and those
who are seasoned veterans will appreciate, value, and hopefully be challenged
by the differing viewpoints surrounding many play therapy topics.
Robert Jason Grant, EdD, LPC, RPT-S, ACAS, owns and operates the AutPlay Therapy Clinic in Southwest Missouri. He is the creator of AutPlay®
Therapy and a multi-published author of several articles, chapters, and books.
He is an international presenter and keynote speaker and currently serves as a
board member for the Association for Play Therapy.
Jessica Stone, PhD, RPT-S, is a licensed psychologist working in a private
practice setting in Colorado. She has been a practitioner, professor, presenter,
mentor, and author for more than 25 years. She is the co-creator of the Virtual
Sandtray App for iPad (VSA) and the Virtual Sandtray for Virtual Reality
(VSA-VR). Dr. Stone has numerous publications to date including Integrating
Technology into Modern Therapies, Game Play, and Digital Play Therapy.
Clair Mellenthin, LCSW, RPT-S, is an international speaker, author, and
Registered Play Therapist Supervisor. She holds a Master’s Degree in Social
Work from the University of Southern California. She is currently the Director of Child & Adolescents at Wasatch Family Therapy and an adjunct faculty
member at the University of Southern California MSW program.
“Experienced play therapists illuminate the current practice of Play Therapy.
Highly recommended!”
Charles Schaefer, PhD, RPT-S, co-founder,
The Association for Play Therapy
“Have you longed for deep conversations with expert, seasoned play therapists
from a variety of approaches to the field? Have you ever had hard questions
about the different ways of doing play therapy and wished you had someone
to help you sort through them? I have, and this book, a book that answers the
hard questions from a panorama of play therapy theoretical orientations and
styles, is the answer to that longing! It’s like you get to sit around in a circle
with amazing play therapy thinkers and doers and learn from them.”
Terry Kottman, PhD, NCC, RPT-S, LMHC, Creator
of Adlerian Play Therapy
Play Therapy Theories and
Perspectives
A Collection of Thoughts in the Field
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Contents
List of Contributors
Foreword
Acknowledgments
Introduction
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ROB E RT JA S ON GR A N T
PART I
Perspective
1 Do You Have a Primary Play Therapy Theory or Approach
You Use the Most and Why?
5
7
2 What Advice Would You Give Someone Just Getting
Started in Play Therapy?
19
3 What Are the Key Characteristics of a Well-Trained Play
Therapist?
28
4 What Are the Top Ten Items You Feel Are Necessary in a
Play Therapy Office?
39
5 What Have Been Some of the Most Challenging Things
You Have Experienced as a Play Therapist?
50
6 What Are Your Thoughts about Using Technology in Play
Therapy?
58
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PART II
Process
69
7 What Emphasis Do You Place on the Importance of
Speaking the Client’s Language?
71
8 How Do You Include Parents in the Play Therapy Process?
80
9 What Is the Importance of Regulation in Your Play
Therapy Work; How Is It Best Achieved?
91
10 How Do You Incorporate Nature into Play
Therapy Treatment?
102
11 How Do You Address Issues of Noncompliance and
Aggression in the Playroom?
110
12 How Do You Use a Sand Tray in Your Play Therapy Work?
120
13 How Do You Use Expressive Arts in Play Therapy?
129
14 How Do You Address Issues of Intersectionality in
Your Practice?
139
PART III
Practice
149
15 What Are Your Suggestions for Building a Successful Play
Therapy Practice?
151
16 What Do You Think Is One of the Most Challenging
Ethical Issues Currently in Play Therapy?
159
17 How Do You Set and Maintain Boundaries in the Playroom
and with Clients, Parents, Caseworkers, and so on?
170
18 How Do You Prevent Burnout and Compassion Fatigue?
179
19 How Do You Include Play in Your Play Therapy Supervision?
189
Contents
20 How Do You Use Play Therapy Across the Life Span with
Respect to Client Ages?
Conclusion
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C L A I R M E LLE N T H I N A N D J E S SICA S TON E
Index
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Contributors
Dr. Jeff Ashby, RPT-S, is a professor in the Department of Counseling and
Psychological Services at Georgia State University. He is a licensed psychologist, a diplomate of the American Board of Professional Psychology,
and a Registered Play Therapist-Supervisor. He is the codirector of Georgia
State’s Center for the Study of Stress, Trauma, and Resilience and the former director of Play Therapy Training Institute.
Robert Jason Grant, EdD, LPC, RPT-S, ACAS, owns and operates the
AutPlay Therapy Clinic in Southwest Missouri. He is the creator of AutPlay® Therapy and he is a multipublished author of several articles, book
chapters, and books including the following best-selling books: AutPlay®
Therapy for Children and Adolescents on the Autism Spectrum, Play-Based
Interventions for Autism Spectrum Disorder, Understanding Sensory Processing
Challenges, A Workbook for Children and Teens, and Understanding Autism
Spectrum Disorder, A Workbook for Children and Teens. Dr. Grant is the recipient of the Association for Play Therapy’s Service award and Missouri
Association for Play Therapy’s Outstanding Play Therapist award. He is an
international presenter and keynote speaker, and currently serves as a board
member for the Association for Play Therapy.
Heidi Gerard Kaduson, PhD, RPT-S, specializes in evaluation and intervention services for children with a variety of behavioral, emotional,
and learning problems. She is past president of the Association for Play
Therapy and director of The Play Therapy Training Institute, Inc., in
Monroe Township, New Jersey. She has lectured internationally on play
therapy, attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder, and learning disabilities. Dr. Kaduson has authored chapters and coedited books, including
Game Play Interventions for Children with Attention-deficit Hyperactivity
Disorder, Release Play Therapy, Play Therapy Across the Lifespan, Play
Therapy for Children with Attention-deficit Hyperactivity Disorder, The
Playing Cure, Short-Term Play Therapy, 3rd Edition, 101 Favorite Play Therapy Techniques, 101 More Favorite Play Therapy Techniques, 101 Favorite
Play Therapy Techniques, Volume III, and Contemporary Play Therapy. She
maintains a private practice in child psychotherapy in Monroe Township, New Jersey.
Contributors ix
Jennifer Lefebre, PsyD, RPT-S, TCTSY-F, is a clinical psychologist, Registered Play Therapist-Supervisor, and trauma-sensitive yoga facilitator. She
is the president-elect for the New England Association for Play Therapy.
Her clinical and research interests focus on the assessment and treatment of
children, adolescents, adults, and families whose lives have been impacted
by complex trauma. Dr. Lefebre has extensive experience working with
young children (0–5), adult survivors of severe childhood abuse and neglect, first responders, and combat veterans. Dr. Lefebre is the clinical director at Healing the Child Within, a holistic trauma center in northwestern
Connecticut which integrates psychotherapy, yoga, play, and expressive arts
therapies into the treatment of complex trauma. She also provides clinical supervision and play therapy consultation throughout New England
and online, and an adjunct faculty member at several universities, teaching
both at the undergraduate and graduate level. In addition to being an experienced play therapist and professor, Dr. Lefebre is a sought-after expert for
speaking engagements, podcasts, and webinars on the topics of play therapy
and complex childhood trauma.
Clair Mellenthin, LCSW, RPT-S, is an international speaker, author, and
Registered Play Therapist-Supervisor. She holds a master’s degree in Social Work from the University of Southern California. Throughout her
career, she has specialized in providing play therapy to children, teens,
and their families. She is currently the director of Child & Adolescents
at Wasatch Family Therapy. Ms. Mellenthin frequently presents professional play therapy and family therapy professional trainings on
Attachment-Centered Play Therapy, Family, and Trauma issues, both nationally and internationally. Ms. Mellenthin is a sought-after supervisor,
training graduate students and interns in play therapy, and an adjunct
faculty member at the University of Southern California MSW program.
She is the past president of the Utah Association for Play Therapy and
remains an active member on the board of directors. She is the author
of Attachment Centered Play Therapy; Play Therapy: Engaging & Powerful
Techniques for the Treatment of Childhood Disorders; and My Many Colors
of Me Workbook, and has authored several chapters and articles. In addition to being an experienced play therapist and professor, Ms. Mellenthin
frequently presents professional play therapy and family therapy trainings, and appears on local and national TV and radio as an expert on
children and family issues.
Akiko J. Ohnogi, PsyD, utilizes play therapy with all of her clients, including
very young children, adolescents, and adults, and specializes in treatment
of children, trauma survivors, and multicultural families. She is cofounder
of Japan Association for Play Therapy, which provides play therapy training to mental health practitioners, and post-trauma support for survivors,
throughout Japan. Dr. Ohnogi has several publications in the United
States and Japan, and has provided workshops in the United States,
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Ireland, England, Argentina, and Japan. She taught play therapy to graduate students at her undergraduate alma mater and was school counselor of
her middle school alma mater. She has been in private practice in Tokyo
since 2000.
Mary Anne Peabody, EdD, LCSW, RPT-S, is currently an associate professor at the University of Southern Maine, a licensed clinical social worker,
Registered Play Therapist-Supervisor, and past K-12 school counselor. She
served as chair of the National Association for Play Therapy, president of
the Maine branch of Play Therapy and recently was the recipient of the
Distinguished Service Award from the Association for Play Therapy. She
currently serves on the International Journal of Play Therapy editorial board,
the Foundation Board of Play Therapy, and the New England Play therapy
branch board. She presents internationally and has published extensively
in the field of play therapy, play, and leadership.
Dee Ray, PhD, LPC-S, NCC, RPT-S, is distinguished teaching professor
and Elaine Millikan Mathes Professor in Early Childhood Education in the
Counseling Program and director of the Center for Play Therapy at the University of North Texas. Dr. Ray has published over 100 articles, chapters,
and books in the field of play therapy, specializing in research specifically
examining the process and effects of Child Centered Play Therapy. Dr. Ray
is author of A Therapist’s Guide to Development: The Extraordinarily Normal
Years, Advanced Play Therapy: Essential Conditions, Knowledge, and Skills
for Child Practice, and Child Centered Play Therapy Treatment Manual, and
coauthor of Group Play Therapy and Child Centered Play Therapy Research.
She is founding editor of the Journal of Child and Adolescent Counseling
and an American Counseling Association Fellow, and is a recipient of the
American Counseling Association Don Dinkmeyer Social Interest Award,
Association for Humanistic Counseling Educator Award, Association for
Play Therapy Outstanding Research Award, Top 25 Women Professors in
Texas Award, and many others.
Jessica Stone, PhD, RPT-S, is a licensed psychologist working in a private
practice setting in Colorado. She has been a practitioner, professor, presenter, mentor, and author for more than 25 years. Dr. Stone’s interest
in therapeutic digital tools, specifically using virtual reality, tablets, and
consoles, has culminated in clinical mental health use and research for
mental health, medical, and crisis settings. She is the cocreator of the Virtual Sandtray App for iPad (VSA) and the Virtual Sandtray for Virtual
Reality (VSA-VR). Dr. Stone has numerous publications to date including
Integrating Technology into Modern Therapies, Game Play, and Digital Play
Therapy, and numerous chapters in a variety of books. She has served as the
president of the California Association for Play Therapy branch and the
Leadership Academy chair (the Association for Play Therapy Nominations
Committee), and is a member of the AutPlay Advisory Board.
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Daniel Sweeney, PhD, RPT-S, is the founder and director of the Northwest
Center for Play Therapy Studies. He is also a tenured professor of counseling and clinical director of the Marriage, Couple and Family Counseling
program in the Graduate School of Counseling at George Fox University.
Dr. Sweeney is a former member of the board of directors and past president
of the Association for Play Therapy, a Registered Play Therapist-Supervisor
(RPT-S), and maintains a small private practice. Daniel has extensive experience in working with children, couples, and families in a variety of settings, including therapeutic foster care, community mental health, private
practice, and pastoral counseling. He has presented at regional, national,
and international conferences on the topics of play therapy, sand tray therapy, filial therapy, couple and family therapy, and trauma interventions.
Foreword
This foreword has the dubious distinction of being written during the 2020
COVID-19 global pandemic which has challenged and distressed us all. The
situation we face together is unpredictable and shocking, and the number of
individuals infected, sick, recovering, or dying from this virus has been steadily
increasing. The scientists tell us the virus will lose its power over time, and yet
the devastation will most certainly be far-reaching. As many have articulated,
the impact of this virus will persist in unimaginable ways for years to come.
And yet in the midst of all this, the human spirit soars.
It’s hard to find relief and reassurance amidst this intense human crisis. And
yet I have seen many things that are uplifting. As Fred Rogers once said, “When
I was a boy and I would see scary things in the news, my mother would say to me,
‘Look for the helpers. You will always find people who are helping.’” Nowhere
has this been more evident than in the play therapy community. It’s therefore
compelling to write this foreword in the context of our current experiences.
Origins of play therapy can be traced back to the early 1900s. Play therapy as a field became more formalized and established by forward-thinking
clinicians in 1982 with Charles Schaefer and Kevin O’Conner founding the
Association for Play Therapy and Garry Landreth, Louise Guerney, and others
envisioning a movement of individuals joined by a common interest in play as
a therapeutic model. In 1983, a small group of people gathered to have the first
national play therapy conference in New York. I believe the earliest gathering
included around 50 professionals, and the National Association for Play Therapy Conference has now grown to approximately 1,200 attendees annually.
Initially the association started with 50 members and currently has over 7,500
members. The National Association for Play Therapy Conference is an event
that highlights the past, present, and future visions for our growing professional field, and the Association has developed standards of practice, ethical
standards, and a rigorous credentialing process for professionals proving play
therapy’s efficiency and/or pursuing a play therapy credential.
During this time of crisis, I remind people that the Chinese characters
that depict the word “crisis” are “danger and opportunity.” The play therapy
community is acknowledging the danger and creating ample opportunities as
well. Those opportunities will occur during tele-health with children and families, as therapists and clients rediscover each other in different ways, and find
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meaningful ways to connect. I am watching my colleagues, new and seasoned,
rise to the occasion buoyed by their hearts and generous spirits. It’s a time to
celebrate our play therapy community and the many voices that have risen.
As always, the voices are diverse, varied, and multifaceted. There are as many
suggestions as there are theories, and the guidance is overwhelming.
The fact that many voices have risen to speak from different vantage points,
and to suggest flexible, alternative approaches for meeting the needs of children
and families, is nothing new. The play therapy field has always been exciting in
its evolution. The Association for Play Therapy recently developed and published a list of the seminal theories of play therapy that are valid and reliable
methods for guiding the practice of play therapy. Those foundational theories
include psychoanalytic, behavioral, humanistic, Adlerian, developmental, and
Jungian, to name a few. These theories are well articulated and established,
and ongoing research and practice efforts are underfoot to target key issues
that might benefit from different forms of play therapy, such as ADHD, OCD,
anxiety and depression, anger and dysregulation, gender identity concerns, suicidality, and other symptomatic behaviors or conditions. In addition, play therapists have documented methods for providing services to specific target groups:
traumatized children, witnesses of interpersonal violence, children with sexual
behavior problems, children on the spectrum, children with anxious attachment behaviors, developmental delays, and so on. And still other play therapists have developed and shared expertise on working with infants and toddlers,
elementary-aged, or teen clients, as well as couples and families. And thus, the
plethora of approaches and interventions continue, likely falling into one of the
seminal theories, and allowing therapists to customize their techniques to meet
the unique needs of the target groups mentioned, and those that will emerge.
For the most part, play therapists demonstrate the ability to “play well with
others,” often utilizing a multimodal approach that is integrative. Others, however, prefer a purist approach and stay on the lane that is paved by one primary
theory. Charles Schaefer and Athena Drewes wrote about 20 change agents
of play that inherently create positive therapeutic outcome, and these change
agents are in the forefront of how many play therapists approach the provision
of services. As play therapists seek to explain and understand the variables
that heighten the potential for play therapy to help children and their families,
play therapy research has provided another foundational layer for the work
we do, increasing our credibility in the professional community. I know the
play therapy community is indebted to the pioneering research efforts of Sue
Bratton and Dee Ray, to name just a couple. Others are working diligently to
continue in the tradition of science informing practice and vice versa.
As we think through the current complexion of contemporary play therapy,
the excitement among play therapists to keep suggesting innovative ideas, and
the desire to share positive treatment outcomes with others, some considerations must be acknowledged. It is critical to take the time to try out recommendations, build a foundation of experience and/or scientific study, and
ensure that ideas are tested and retested. In addition, it’s important for play
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therapists to assert approach similarities, as well as the nuanced differences. In
this regard, this book could not arrive at a better time.
When Dr. Grant contacted me about his book idea, with an invitation to
provide a foreword, I was delighted to participate. He described an ingenious
approach of posing commonly asked questions and inviting ten seasoned play
therapists to respond. The ten play therapy authors represented multiple theories and seemed uniquely suited to convey their points of view. This book
project sounded like a labor of love and an open letter to the play therapy
community.
After reading the book, I’m filled with inspiration and joy! It was so much
fun to read responses to some basic and deep questions, and recognize not
only the common factors that are shared but the ways in which the authors
revealed a bird’s eye view of how their behavior is shaped by thoughtful consideration. Each author carefully deliberated each question providing the readers
with nuance and depth, which included the intersection between personal
and professional experience. I honestly feel like I know the authors a little bit
better by reading their responses throughout the book. Reading it provoked
introspection, laughter, and feelings of warmth and camaraderie. It reminded
me of many situations I encountered when I was working directly with children and families, and many of the situations that therapists bring to consultation and/or supervision. Most importantly, the book demonstrates what we
are all finding critical at this moment: We need to support each other’s differing approaches and recognize the ways in which they are solidly grounded in
theory. Without that basic construct, we will flutter wildly, without intention
and without focus. Our profession is as strong as each of its participants and
whether we want to be or not, we are all ambassadors of play therapy. This
book offers varied powerful suggestions for practicing play therapy in an ethical, goal-oriented, and purposeful manner. The topics are varied as you will see
in the Table of Contents and include a wide range of dialogues about ethics,
supervision, boundaries, intersectionality, technology, confidentiality, practicing in urban and rural settings, social media, theory and application, and other
fascinating issues. The questions chosen for discussion are ones that currently
pop up in most workshops and conferences.
There are equal servings of serious and light communications in the book,
as well as occasional calls to action. There are intimate communications about
each author and what has led them to their convictions. There are little surprises (Who knew, for example, that Daniel Sweeney does not describe himself
as a child-centered play therapist?) and contextual information about diverse
practice settings and communities.
I am grateful to Robert for having the vision for this book. I am also grateful
for Jessica and Clair’s contributions, for their collective crafting of this publication and inviting interesting and informative authors, and for being a part of
the new generation of thoughtful and innovative play therapists.
– Eliana Gil, PhD, RPT-S, ATR
Acknowledgments
Thank you to my family who provide support and encouragement in all my
writing endeavors and allow me to write in my “extra” time. I could not have
written this book without their patience and understanding. Thank-you to all
the contributors – your thoughtfulness in responding to these play therapy
questions is truly the highlight of this book. Thank-you to Stars for Autism for
the inspiration and thank-you to all the play therapists who have encouraged
me along the way – I love our field of play therapy!
– Robert Jason Grant
I really appreciate the opportunity that Dr. Grant offered to me when he
approached me with this fantastic project. Editing with Dr. Grant and
Ms. Mellenthin has been a wonderful experience. The contributors have provided us with amazing responses and have made this text a resource for veteran and new play therapists alike. My family has sacrificed time and some
decent meals to allow me to contribute to this project and I cannot thank
them enough.
– Jessica Stone
I am so grateful to Matt and our kids for always being supportive of my professional endeavors and being willing to share our time together to allow for this
book to be written. Thank-you to our editor Amanda Devine for your support
in our ideas to bring a whole new kind of book to the play therapy field. I am
so grateful to my many friends and mentors in our field whose voices helped
me to find mine. A special thanks to the contributors to this book who were
willing to be vulnerable and share their personal experiences, thoughts, and
perspectives. I love our work and am so grateful for the many dedicated play
therapists who are working to make the world a better place!
– Clair Mellenthin
Introduction
Robert Jason Grant
The Association for Play Therapy (2020) defines play therapy as “the systematic use of a theoretical model to establish an interpersonal process wherein
trained play therapists use the therapeutic powers of play to help clients
prevent or resolve psychosocial difficulties and achieve optimal growth and
development.” Play therapy embodies an umbrella term as play therapy can
refer to a large number of treatment methods, all applying the therapeutic
benefits of play. Many theories, approaches, and methods of play therapy exist, and much has been identified, researched, written about, and proposed as
play therapy.
Currently, the Association for Play Therapy recognizes ten seminal and/
or historically significant play therapy theories and approaches. The list includes Adlerian, child-centered, cognitive-behavioral, developmental (Viola
Brody), ecosystemic, filial, Gestalt, Jungian, object-relations, and Theraplay ®. Beyond these ten recognized, there exists several established and
emerging play therapy theories, approaches, and modalities such as sand tray
therapy, family play therapy, experiential play therapy, expressive play therapy, relationship play therapy, first play, AutPlay therapy, digital play therapy,
TraumaPlay, synergetic play therapy, and animal-assisted play therapy – to
name a few. Many play therapists self-identify as an integrative play therapist
(combining different therapeutic methods, interventions, and approaches to
best fit the needs of the individual client) or prescriptive play therapist (selecting and implementing a particular play therapy approach that research
has indicated is likely to be the most effective for a specific problem or symptom). The possibilities of what “play therapy” might mean or look like in
implementation are so varied that I often teach parents if someone tells you
they do play therapy, the next question you should ask is, “What type of play
therapy do you do?”
One unifying feature throughout the myriad of play therapy approaches
is Schaefer and Drewes’ (2014) 20 core change agents of the therapeutic
powers of play. These powers refer to the specific change agents in which
play initiates, facilitates, or strengthens the therapeutic effect. Play powers
act as mediators that positively influence the desired change in the client
(Barron & Kenny, 1986) and provide the foundational framework for the
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Introduction
clinical understanding and use of play therapy (VanFleet & Faa-Thompson,
2017). The 20 core change agents include self-expression, access to the unconscious, direct teaching, indirect teaching, catharsis, abreaction, positive
emotions, counterconditioning fears, stress inoculation, stress management,
therapeutic relationship, attachment, social competence, empathy, creative
problem-solving, resiliency, moral development, accelerated psychological
development, self-regulation, and self-esteem. Under the umbrella of play
therapy, the therapeutic powers of play can be recognized throughout various theories and approaches. Some powers may be more evident or primary
in some theories versus others, but certainly the therapeutic powers of play
serve as a unifying component in the vast world of play therapy. This book
does not capture all the play therapy theories, approaches, and methods that
currently exist, but it does provide a snapshot of the variety that permeates
across perspectives.
Each contributor to this book has amassed several years working in the
field of play therapy. Nine professionals are from the United States and have
obtained the credential of Registered Play Therapist-Supervisor (RPT-S), one
professional is an international play therapist and cofounder of the Japan Association for Play Therapy – all ten have all trained, presented, and written
about play therapy. They each have their unique voice which serves to accomplish one of the original goals of the book – to provide a small snapshot into
understanding diversity of thought in the play therapy community. Additionally, there was a desire to buttress the diversity with the unity that manifests
across play therapy perspectives. Those who venture into the world of play
therapy quickly realize that there is more than one thought, theory, opinion,
approach, and method to “doing” play therapy, but the power lies in the appreciation of the integration of diversity and unity which serves to deepen play
therapy application.
Across contributors’ different theoretical orientations, experiences, and
beliefs about play and play therapy, there exists a unity of thought about
many aspects that binds the play therapy community. Among the unifying beliefs included are the power of therapeutic relationship, the emphasis on quality supervision, the need for continuous training and growth,
the importance of play and speaking the child’s language, and the passion
about protecting the integrity of the play therapy field. It could be argued
that the unifying features in play therapy are the most fundamental and
most important when serving children and families. What brings play therapists together are typically the most thoughtful and effective components
of therapy.
Although unity in play therapy is evident, there still exists diversity in approach and thought. Diversity and differences do not have to be considered
problematic. In fact, they are assets that enrich the professional experience.
Diversity and differing perspectives contribute to the strengths in creating
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the best possible format in which to provide therapy. For the play therapist
to fully benefit from the variance of perspectives, the following should be
considered:
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There should be a commitment to respecting differences.
There should be an understanding and appreciation for shared values and
what unifies us as a play therapy community.
There should be an understanding that diversity of play therapy implementation parallels the diversity needs of clients, ultimately validating
play therapy as a treatment modality for all children.
There should be a commitment to encouraging diversity in perspective as
opposed to devaluing and limiting perspectives.
There should be marked celebration of the connectedness in play therapy
regardless of theoretical differences.
The value of perspective is one of the principles that inspired me to create this
book. Several years ago, I was asked to join the board of a nonprofit organization called Stars for Autism. The creators of this organization consisted of a
group of autism authors who had written a book together called Stars in Her
Eyes: Navigating the Maze of Childhood Autism. I remember reading this book
and not only gaining valuable knowledge about autism but being intrigued
with the format. There were five authors, each from a different professional
and personal background but all related to autism. One of the authors was
a speech therapist, another a special education director, another a teacher,
another a parent, and another a community advocate. The book contained
several popular topics/questions about autism (each chapter of the book was a
different topic/question) and each of the authors responded to the topic/question from their own experiences, perspective, and opinions. I found this format
not only interesting but valuable as I was able to glean multiple perspectives
about some of the most common questions related to autism. Before I had finished this book, I was processing how valuable this format would be in a play
therapy book. I begin to envision a book reference where several established
play therapists shared their perspective on a variety of common play therapy
topics and questions.
My journey in learning and appreciation for the variety of theories and approaches in play therapy guided the formation of this book. Each chapter is a
common question related to play therapy, and all ten contributors share their
thoughts, theoretical perspectives, and opinions on each question. Those new
to play therapy and those who are seasoned veterans will appreciate, value,
and possibly be challenged by the differing viewpoints surrounding many play
therapy topics. This book builds on the work of viewing differing perspectives
as an asset while celebrating the unifying features that connect those in the
field of play therapy.
4
Introduction
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