Notes from my book: Receiving many messages, DM’s & emails over ‘safeguarding’. I have worked in this industry for 30 years. Safeguarding chapter: #MentalHeath professionals are human & make mistakes, because they are human. They are first & fore-mostly trained in #safeguarding
Their ethos is to ‘Do No Harm’. Most people don’t understand what this means. #Therapists & mental health professionals disagree on many issues. They are divided on what safeguarding means to them #Childsafety & #childprotection have always been fraught by #childsafety challenges
In 2015, I began raising #safeguarding concerns with My regulatory board & the #psychology organisations. These were serious concerns. Over those years, I was ignored, brushed off, #silenced or told it wasn’t a problem. The Australian Senate held an #inquiry into our regulatory
#health body. They invited me to make a submission. This was the third inquiry into our #health regulatory board. Some great recommendations came out of that inquiry but were not put into place. The safeguarding concerns continued #ethics
In 2020, I made the decision to resign from my regulatory board over the #transgender#medicalisation of #autistic#children and other serious concerns. The #Australian Senate made the decision to have a fourth inquiry into our regulartory board.
They invited me to make a submission. I did and this was recently accepted and I now have ‘Parliamentary privilege’. That means that I cannot be harassed, bullied, cancelled, threatened, silenced, given death threats for telling the Senate everything I told them #safeguarding👇🏻
The Senate inquiry takes place in March 2022. I hope to testify. In the end, it may or may not make a difference, but for me, it makes a difference. The profession is broken. The fields of #psychology & mental health have become deeply corrupted & the psychology organisations
& boards have betrayed Heath professionals The senate knows this #Therapists have been injured by their own organisations, boards, colleagues, peers & are under great moral & ethical distress. #Psychology has been broken by a ‘woke’ culture due to a
Severe departure from their
own code of ethics & guidelines. This is a betrayal to health professionals globally. This has caused deep hurt & betrayal within the entire #mentalhealth system, within & between various #clinicians & groups & much confusion about ethics & safeguarding. Some professionals are
following their #psychology organisation guidelines Some professionals are staying in the profession, but unhappy with their organisations or speaking out…IF they can. #Psychologists have become divided, infight & exclude each other, kicking them out of groups
their own professional Facebook support groups. Because they raised Safeguarding concerns. Many #professionals are being cancelled, harassed, bullied, been doxxed, have received #deaththreats & had transactivists make complaints about them to their boards. This is NEVER ok.
Some psychologists make vexatious complaints about other psychologists. There are all kinds of #healers There are amazing #therapists in every country who have made great personal and professional sacrifices over ‘trans kids’. What I have seen over many years from Day 1 & learnt
From interviewing many health professionals & therapists in multiple countries is a sad theme. The therapists who are whistle blowing or want to are not supported. They are not heard. They are being weaponised. By politics. By groups. By activists. They see therapists leaving
Their careers only to be hijacked by groups, politics & activists & therapists. They are being told what they can & cannot do. This is not ok. If you want you hold a parent group, do it. If you want to keep statistics of something, do it. If you want to help the kids, do it.
No-one should tell you that you can’t.
The #therapists I talk to who want to leave their professions, whistleblow, help the ‘trans-kids’, are NOT doing so & we shouldn’t be mad at them. This is why: their boards & organisations are corrupt, they have no support from their own
profession, colleagues,
Peers. The ‘trans-kids’ area is highly politicised. Not all therapists agree. Nor should they. The Therapists who want to help transkids don’t want to be politicised or involved in politics. They don’t want groups telling them what they can or cannot do
Their training was that therapy is devoid of the therapists own religion, politics, ideology. They watch and see what’s happening in this space. They see the politics, the safeguarding failures, money involved in the trans affirming, trans exploratory & trans detrans industry.
They see the nastiness, infighting & treatment of therapists & whilst they want to whistle blow, the stakes are too high. I don’t blame them. When they speak Out they are attacked & unsupported. There are few supervisors or collegial assistance for them & this is a concern
They are not going to leave their psychological support system when they see therapists who have jumped ship excluded by other therapists. I don’t blame them. As I write about what is happening to the profession of #psychology, I have learnt a lot. I have learnt from my
Own personal experiences & a large group of #therapists. I am telling their stories. In Hearing & telling the stories of the #mentalhealth therapists around the world, the complexities are numerous. There is no easy answer to this problem. It existed before #wokeness
There are amazing therapists in every country who have made great sacrifices over ‘trans kids’. What I have seen over many years from Day 1 & learnt is in order to fix a problem, the therapists must go above politics, stay true to ethics, support therapists who want to jump ship
I used to think we could fix this toxic problem from within our system but now, as time goes on, as I interview therapists, families, parents, I now don’t believe that’s possible. The ‘system’ is sick and it will take you down with it, if you let it. For many, it isn’t worth it
Therapists should not be told that they can or cannot do something. Of course they can. No one should be cancelling or mocking safeguarders. How did we get into this mess? Because, we didn’t listen to the #safeguarders The red
Flags and the #warnings were there. No one took them seriously. Globally, the safeguarders are mocked, made fun of, not taken seriously, go unheard, demonised and accused of all kinds of things. This is never ok. When an issue is raised by a safeguarder, it should be taken
Seriously and resolved. We got here because #safeguarders are not taken seriously. We have a 4th Senate Inquiry into the treatment of health professionals this March. Let’s see what happens 🙏✨
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#Narcissism thread 🧵 15 (more) questions to ask yourself if you are questioning whether someone is a #narcissist 1. Do they devalue, diminish, demonise or harshly judge you or act as the righteous ‘authority’ figure with you regardless of their age, status or employment? 🚩
Are they #superior? For e.g. A non lawyer preaching to a lawyer about law. 2. Are they #defensive? Do they seem only interested in trying to prove that they are right & you are wrong, in a defensive mode? 🚩They are #competitive not co-operative. Co-operation is a must #healthy
3. Do they demand #attention from you? For e.g., insisting on having the conversation when it’s convenient for them only &/or use emotional #manipulation to ensure conversation happens on ‘their’ terms? They may not answer the question, go off topic, deflect, defensive, accuse 🚩
How do we know if we are acting responsibly when we are offering ‘information’? What information are we offering? What if that information is on risk for #selfharm & #suicide? As a part of our daily #dutyofcare part of the #safeguarding process?
What about if that information is relied upon when we obtain parental consent for intervention with #children & #adolescents? What if that information isn’t true, is inaccurate, exaggerated, inflated, distorted? #science
1. #Narcissism Thread: What is the quickest way to tell if someone is a #narcissist? 🚩Raise a concern with them. Hands down this works Every. Single. Time. #Narcissists are unable to manage conflict. By conflict, I mean be cooperative & problem solve concerns or disagreements
2. I mean being held accountable or addressing a concern with the genuine interest in resolving it. Resolving issues are important to healthy relationships, #trust boundaries & safety. When issues remain unresolved between #Psychology#abused
3. Couples, family members, groups, organisations, it leads to #resentment, #anger & #contempt. This is why: Say you raise an issue with your partner that’s of a concern to you. Your partner disagrees 🚩 & it doesn’t seem like she is listening to you. 🚩You keep trying to express
#Civil and intelligent conversation That involves #criticalthinking skills,self-regulation, #reflection, mutual respect respectful debate, direct conversation are #socialskills all research based Scientific evidence is highly encouraged here. I encourage this on my
Twitter feed to engage in civil #discourse
To #question everything, to be self-aware and insightful,
to allow open #transparent#ooen conversations & discourse free of denial, not listening, talking over others, not letting them finish their sentences, being angry and rageful.
These #behaviors do nothing to advance any cause. #Safeguarders & mediators are very important to the well-being of children miners and disabled adults. when it comes to #childsafety anyone who mocks child safety needs to seriously reflect and/or take A child safety course.
been common to hear about #puberty#Dysphoria
Menstrual problems, #PMDD#PCOS & #endometriosis What is really nice for clinicians is when we see research that backs up our clinical work. In consideration Of #gender distress #dysphoria#ROGD we should be considering this research
Involving children in your paraphilliac transvestism fetishism is, at best, a non-contact sexual offence and a safeguarding issue. Involving children in your tranvestitie fetishism is a safeguarding issue. Need I go on #safeguarding@children
Our very basic response to is that paraphilias emerge when masturbation fantasies become addictive & uncontrolled & therefore do not naturally occur in pre pubescent boys who have yet to masturbate? Why are sexualised behaviours in pre pubescent boys not seen as red flags? #abuse
I don’t understand this. Why are #therapists clinicians and #psychologists not be trained that safeguarding is a part of their job! Why aren’t children being safeguarding by clinicians? It is your job! #childsafety