I double checked the overall ability to install additional plugins from that category into a fresh Spring Tools 4 for Eclipse 4.16.1.RELEASE installation and it installs just fine. So this doesn't seem to be a problem with the newly installed software from that category itself, but something else that interferes in the install process.
It looks like you installed additional plugins or server definitions from some Oracle update site before, which added a specific update site to the preferences that is now causing a problem.
You can go to Preferences -> Install/Update -> Available Update Sites
and remove that update site from the list of available update sites. That would help.
Another way to avoid this (probably) is to disable the option to Contact all update sites during the install to find required software
in the Install New Software
dialog. That should also prevent the install process from contacting that problematic update site.
https://download.oracle.com/otn_software/oepe/library/eclipse-dtp-1.14.100
seems to be broken. Does disabling this update site in the preferences Install/Update > Available Software Sites fix your issue?