I'm a user with a consumer level modem and a plain wifi router. I have been seeing activity where for long periods of time over night, my internet connection will shut off for 10-20 minutes at a time. I have a suspicion that my ToR mid-node is being DDOSed. However, this is not easy to diagnose with the equipment I have, as any DDOS has the same symptoms as other problems. The logs which would normally be available on professional and enterprise equipment are not something that I have access to.
During the outages, all nodes are reachable on the network, including the router.
With only consumer-grade equipment, how can one diagnose whether an outage is due to a DDOS, or not due to a DDOS?