As I understood it,
the reason I cannot stick my hand through a metal block is due to the repelling force between electrons in my hand and in the block. QED depicts two electrons repelling with a photon exchange, but it's not clear to me what determines which electron emits the photon and which one absorbs it. Does it for instance mean that my hand emits photons to the metal block? Or does it go both ways equally? What if me pushing the block makes it move, intuitively I would say the kinetic energy added to the block should be equal to the difference in energy between the photons emitted by my hand to the block, and the photons emitted back by the block. Let's say my hand pushes a block of 1kg that is resting on a table. I move it for a distance of 1meter, with friction of 1N. The amount of work my hand does is 1J. So I would think my hand has emitted 1J more photons than it has absorbed. But if I shine a flashlight onto the block and emit 1J of photons onto it, why does it not move at all?