Things to message your crush

This story highlights the emotional tension that can arise when personal differences and high expectations collide in the stressful lead-up to a wedding. Here’s the situation: The writer, a bride-to-be, has been navigating a tough time. Her grandmother recently passed away, and amidst her grief, she’s been trying to stay on track with wedding planning.

When you start moving on with your life, regaining the joy of being a singleton, ready to smash those Tinder dates, a message pops up… “Hey, can we talk?”