This blog is hopefully going to prompt me to keep better records of the goings on in my garden and home.
Wednesday, January 9, 2013
Ruby - The Grand Dame of Menagerie Manor
Tuesday, January 8, 2013
Blog Problems
So it has hit.....don't seem to be able to do much including posting photo's. So I will be reading your posts but unable to comment and will be holding off posting from Menagerie Manor until I can get some results.
Wednesday, January 2, 2013
A Chapter Closed : A Letter to The Little Terrorists
Closing out parts of our
lives leaving us with nothing but memories, this happens more frequently in our
older years or at least that is the way it seems. I suppose that is all part of
life as it should be. As children we don’t come face to face with these
realities because as we are dealing with these episodes now, our dear parents
dealt with them and hopefully protected us from these realities like caring
parents do.
In a short time
it will be hard for you children to remember anything about Great Grandpa Dale.
Sadly you never got to know Great Grandma Lela. She was a real hoot always out for a good chuckle and a regular pill about getting
your Dads to do some outrageous things that would normally get them punished
for at home. It was all good fun and she would have loved to have known you. Alas that was never to happen as she passed several years before you all came
into our lives.
Just a few seconds before the
ball dropped New Years Eve night the phone rang. It was the care center were
MeMa's father was living. He had fallen the week before and had taken a nasty
turn for the worse. They wanted us to know he was not responding to them but
that he was holding his own at the time. They promised to keep us posted until
we came the next day at our usual time in the afternoon.
MeMa had just made me a turkey
sandwich New Years Day when they called again telling us things have deteriorated
and they felt we should come quickly. His breathing was laboured but they had
made him quite comfortable so we sat next to him and MeMa stroked his head and
told him we were there. The hours passed and his condition seemed to stay the same
so when my parents called inviting us out for a quick dinner we accepted and
told the staff to call immediately as the restaurant was nearby. We had just sat
down when they called and said he had passed.Dale and Lela Johnson |
As we sat with him earlier I thought of all those happy
memories of life in Clatskanie, the small coastal town were MeMa grew up as her
Mom and Dad's only child. Her Mom, Lela was the town's nurse and her Father Dale
owned and operated a small TV repair shop during the day and owned and operated
the Avalon Theatre at night. This was a town that people let their children run
all over with never a worry for their safety. They never
locked a door. In fact, when I first came to Clatskanie as we left to go out for
the evening I was surprised that they closed the door and just walked away. When I asked if they meant to leave the door unlocked I was told they didn’t have
a key. The old house was the location of big parties with tons of guests all laughing
and having a great time.
When your Dads were born they spent lots of weekends with
Grandma and Grandpa and I will tell you they got spoiled rotten staying up
late, hanging out with Grandpa Dale in his "ham shack" while he tinkered with his radios. I have never known anyone with more quiet patience than Dale.
Your Dads have many fond memories of summer meals eaten
on the patio and we were usually joined by Grandma Arline and others from the
Anderson side of the family.Grandpa Dale came to Clatskanie as a sixteen year old moving into a boarding house ran by the Anderson family, the matriarch of the family was “Mrs A.” who had several children and Grandpa grew up with them as one of their own, and they remained “family” all through your Dad's young lives.
The old house is out of our hands now as after Grandpa went
into the care center the state confiscated the entire estate as payment for his
upkeep. MeMa and I closed the door a year before his passing and walked away
knowing we would probably never return. Grandpa will soon be buried next to Grandma in
the old cemetery in Clatskanie. Perhaps some day you might visit this little
hamlet nestled down in the valley, drive by the old house on Tichnor Street and perhaps put a
rose on the grave. Red roses were always Grandma Lela’s favorite, you can’t
miss it up there at the edge of the forest.
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