Let $X$ be a real algebraic surface with a unique $A_1$ point at $p \in X$ (that is, the germ of $X$ at $p$ is isomorphic to the germ of $\{x^2+y^2=z^2\}$ at the origin). Let $Y \to X$ be the blow up of $X$ at $p$. Is it true that $X$ is homotopy equivalent to the connected sum of $X$ with $\mathbb{RP}^2$?
We know that the blow up of an affine cone is a copy of $\mathbb{RP}^2$ (see answer in Blow-up of the affine cone), but how does the gluing work?