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¿Le gusta a mí? Introducción a los

hombres

Para empezar, en promedio, los hombres son más fáciles de entender y descifrar que las
mujeres.

Para responder a la pregunta de las mujeres de "¿él le gusta?", Greg Behrendt y Liz Tuccillo, ex

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consultoras del programa Sex And the City, escribieron un libro de gran éxito para decirle a
las mujeres que los hombres son simples y directos.
A pesar de que eligieron un nombre un tanto deprimente con " El no es así para ti
(https://thepowermoves.com/hes-just-not-that-into-you/) ", el mensaje central es simple: es
fácil saber si a un hombre le gustas o no.

Y aquí está el video del programa Sex And the City que dio a luz a ese libro:

(//www.youtube.com/watch?v=3J7H-BKUUKw)

Sin embargo, en cuanto a la mayoría de las cosas relacionadas con las personas, hay muchas
excepciones.
Y algunos hombres tienden a ser menos directos y menos "fáciles" de descifrar que otros.
A menudo los hombres que lo hacen más complicado para ti son:

1. Tímido
2. Mas joven
3. Inexperto

De este tipo de hombres puede esperar menos mensajes directos y una comunicación algo

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De este tipo de hombres, puede esperar menos mensajes directos y una comunicación algo
más revuelta.
Bueno, aquí están las señales que estos hombres envían:

1. Se Muestra
Nadie les enseñó a los hombres cómo salir (https://thepowermoves.com/how-to-date/) , y su
estrategia de citas número uno a menudo consiste en presumir.
Si notas que en tu presencia se jacta, es una buena señal que le gustas.

Hay muchas maneras en que los hombres se muestran, incluyendo algunos muy tontos:

Se jactan de su dinero.
Comprar cosas caras
Ponte agresivo con otros hombres frente a ti.
Explosión de su auto estéreo
Sintonizar sus coches

E incluso maneje imprudentemente para mostrar el tamaño de su ... "motor":

(//www.youtube.com/watch?v=OktGRAyNN4U)
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The list of all the stupid stupid things men believe are impressive to women is rather long.
But whenever he does something “strange” in front of you, consider it might be a ploy to
impress you and get your attention.

2. He Gets Slightly Aggressive

This might sound nonsense to some women, but some repressed men, not having the courage
to speak up, bottle up inside anger and repression.
They can get passive aggressive (https://thepowermoves.com/passive-aggressive/) or, in a
misguided attempt to show dominance over you, they speak to you aggressively.

In very young fellas that aggression can manifest in games where he takes advantage of
physical games to hold your or restrain you -a slightly more advanced version of the old “pull
her air” kindergarten game-.

3. He Moves Closer
Men who likes you will try to reduce the distance with you.
They will sit close to you, press their leg against yours, and nd an excuse to hug you

Exception: but some will do the opposite and avoid you. Either because they are playing a
shunning game or because they are too shy.

4. He Pays You Compliments…

Very simple: if he is complimenting you, he is trying to win your favors.
However some men will try to be less obvious about their compliments, and instead of telling
you they like you, they will say they “love your sense of style”.

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5. … Or He Criticizes You
Some men will completely try to avoid compliments in an effort to seem higher status.
And they might instead to the opposite and criticize you.

This is a power move to lower your self esteem and try . The old pick-up artists
(https://thepowermoves.com/the-game-neil-strauss-summary/) called it “neg”.

6. He Looks For Opportunities To Touch You

Men who like you will try to make physical contact.
They might touch your arm while making a point or place a hand on your back when they
tease you or irt with you.

When more inexperienced, they will touch you wrong (https://thepowermoves.com/touching-

women-4-ways-men-touch-girls-wrong/) and treat you like one of their male friends.
For example:

High ve you
Shake hands (with too much power)
Put their arms around your neck like one of the boys

Even though sometimes awkward, men who take a lot of opportunities to make physical
contact are sending you a positive message of appreciation.

7. He Flirts With You

Men who are a bit more well versed with women will nd great ways to irt with you
(https://thepowermoves.com/how-to- irt-with-a-girl-over-text/) and make you laugh.

They might:

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Joke that you like them

Hint at the sexual
Frame you as a “dangerous” woman
Tell you that you’re trying to seduce them or other men

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8. He Makes Fun Of You

Making fun of you is a middle way between the “aggression” we saw earlier and irting (done
badly).

The game, at the core, is actually not that friendly: he wants to socially dominate you, lower
your status and position himself above you.
However, it’s still a sign that he likes you.

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9. He Gives You Lots Of Attention …

Some men make no effort to play the dating game, conceal their cards or irt well.

They just put it in your face instead. Not their penis, of course, but their interest.
They will:

Fully focus on you, even with other people around

Looks at you all the time
Make you one question after the other
Listen raptly to your stories
Drop conversation with others if you enter the group

Sometimes they look slimy in the process. However, with these guys, your answer to the
question “does he like me” is pretty obvious: he does.

10. … Or He Ignores You

There is a (terrible) Italian song (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bl7lWXAOGW4) whose
lyrics seemed to tell my story as a teenager.
It goes:

“ I pretended not to give a damn

To be more interesting
But now I am really…

That’s what boys will do.

They will ignore you on purpose to play the mind game (https://thepowermoves.com/games-
men-play/) that they are not interested in the (hopeless) to draw you in and make you pursue
her.

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If you notice that some men is being a bit too taciturn around you, avoiding you just that little
bit too much, then he might be doing it on purpose.

11. He Tries To Make You Jealous

An old game that I bet you played as well.

If he makes a show of him with other women, looks at you while he talks to other women and
generally tries to show off “options”, then he is interested in you.

What he’s doing here is trying to in ate his sexual market value, parading his opportunities
and trying to make you chase (https://thepowermoves.com/make-him-chase-you/).
In simple terms: he is showing off for your you and yes he likes you.

(//www.youtube.com/watch?v=67KBIZn68AM#t=19s)

12. He Gets Nervous

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As much as you wondering “does he like me”, guess what other men are wondering?
Exactly, the exact same: “does she like me (https://thepowermoves.com/does-she-like-me/)?”

However, men are more in the hot seat than women are.
Men are expected to make the rst move, ask her out and make things happen.

That makes a lot of men rather nervous.

So when you spot stuttering, blushing and nervousness around you, these are all signs that he
likes you.

Here is an example from Crazy Stupid Love doing his (awkward) approach:

(//www.youtube.com/watch?v=l77EEsMA1Qw#t=127s)

13. His Friends Talk To You About Him

The last date I went to was with a girl I met at a party of a common friend.

This common friend, believing he would help, started talking me up and telling her what a
great catch I was.

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He thought that was going to help. He wasn’t really.

But that’s how a lot of (clueless) friends will help you answer the question “does he like me”.
They will:

Talk him up
Ask you what you think of him
Tell you that you two look cute
Suggest you two should go out
Discredit him

About the last one? Of course, some friends are jealous and aren’t really friends but frenemies
(https://thepowermoves.com/how-to-spot-a-frenemy/). But that’s also a good indicator that he
likes you :).

14. He Badmouths Other Men

Now here is another power move men will play when they like you: they will talk badly about
the “competition”.

What they are trying to do here is to lower other men’s statuses to look good in comparison.
He is selling himself to you, showing off, and it’s a big sign that he is into you.

15. You See Him Often

Some men are direct, they don’t waste time and don’t beat around the bush.

But some other prefer circling around their prey for longer, entering your mind and your social
circle before they even hint at wanting to enter anything else.
This is also the technique recommended by Robert Greene in The Art of Seduction
(https://thepowermoves.com/the-art-of-seduction-summary/).

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These guys might start stopping at the bar where you work, eat where you usually eat or walk
the streets of your commute.

Many years ago I saw a girl I went on a date with.

She was walking across the street though and I was on the other side. Well, guess what? I
turned back, ran in the opposite direction, then crossed the street much further away and
then…. “Just happened to walk right into her”.
We got together later on and she never knew what I had done.

The point is: if you start seeing them often than coincidence would warrant, then there might
be something.

(//www.youtube.com/watch?v=Agir-TyNXm8#t=9s)

16. He Connects With You On Social Media

Men rarely add other men they’ve just me on Facebook.

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But they do often add women they like.

A connection on social media is often the sign that they want to be closer. And not in the
digital sense..

17. He Likes Your Pictures

There is a new way for generation Y and generation Z to show love and affection.
And it’s to like her pictures and her status updates.

If he comments on your status, knows about your cousins and aunties, and asks you about
your last trip, then it’s a clear sign he’s been stalking you. And that he likes you.

19. He Remembers And Asks Questions Or..

Men aren’t as good as women at remembering people-related details. And tend to be selective
with their attention. So if they remember what you said and ask follow up question, that’s a
good sign.

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20. … He Doesn’t Remember What You’ve Just Said

Some men will be too nervous to be talking to you to even remember what you’ve just said.

They will ask you the same question again, ask you clari cation about something you’ve just
said or forget your name for ve times in a row. This is a sign that he is nervous, and that he
likes you.

(//www.youtube.com/watch?v=YVSJNiniBy8#t=1758s)

21. He Helps You Out

Most men’s main dating strategy is to show women that they are reliable men that you can
depend on.
Helping you out is their way of showing that yes, they’re there for you and that they make
great long term partners.

Neil Patrick Harris in the movie “Gone Girl” is an extreme example of how men who want to
be providers for her behave:

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22. He’s Always Free For You

If he is always available when you ask something it means that either he is a good Samaritan,
that he has nothing to do or… That he likes you.

Most likely the third though.

When men make time for you, they show you that you are a high priority for him. Big sign.

Do you want to be triple sure? Ask him to do something together on a big-match day.

23. He’s Jealous Of Other Men

Jealous behavior is a sign of possessiveness and that he wants more of just friendship.
It’s not the sign of a very high quality man (https://thepowermoves.com/high-quality-men/) to
be jealous before the two of you are even together, but alas.

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If he:

Says you deserve better than the guys you’re dating

Gets defensive when other men talk to you
“Rescues” you from strangers

These are all signs that he likes you.

(//www.youtube.com/watch?v=oKp-1aUS2kI#t=90s)

24. He’s Always Ready To Chat

Most guys don’t want to chat with women they don’t like.

So if he is always happy to answer and chat with you, chances are he is also fantasizing about
you.

Does He Like Me? Yes! When Signs

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Does He Like Me? Yes! When Signs

Are Obvious
And these are more obvious signs that can almost reassure you that yes, he likes you:

1.  He approaches you

2. He asks you out

3. He tells you that “you deserve so much better”

4. He double texts you (https://thepowermoves.com/7-texts-that-will-make-her-reply/)

5. He is disappointed if you can’t meet him

6. He tries to get you alone

7. He tries to have sex with you

Focus on Helping Him Like You!

Finally, instead of focusing on reading mysterious signs, avoid the mistake most women do
(https://thepowermoves.com/women-biggest-dating-mistakes/): being too passive in the
dating game.

Indeed in dif cult dating markets (https://thepowermoves.com/how-to-date/) the more

assertive daters, will win make it easy for him to understand you’re into him. This is a good
strategy and the only mistake that can happen is that she thinks her signs are obvious but she
won’t catch them.
It happens more often than you think because men are often rather daft.

Then there is the second type of woman.

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The who plays hard to get (https://thepowermoves.com/dont-delay-sex/).

Maybe they have read on women’s dating literature (https://thepowermoves.com/best-dating-
books-for-women/) and get schooled on “feigning disinterest” in an effort to make him chase
(https://thepowermoves.com/make-him-chase-you/). This technique can work if he is on a
hard pursuit. But it often back res (https://thepowermoves.com/do-men-enjoy-the-
chase/) because men end up with the women who show their liking.
Because men are afraid of rejection. And they prefer to go with women who also like them.

What does that mean to you?

You must make it safe for him to do something: show him you like him!

Sonríale cuando te mira, crea momentos sexualmente cargados con silencios y contacto visual
... Tócale mientras habla.
A menos que esté completamente despistado, entonces sabrá:

(//www.youtube.com/watch?v=bIo0JNIvX8o#t=134s)

Simplemente no mires tu propia mano cuando lo tocas, lo que grita inseguridad, y lo harás
muy bien

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